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In case you haven't noticed, there's a reality that seems to exist with politicians, that we should pray never exists with pastors. The quickness with which they judge people.
I don't know where I'm going with this... it's a work in progress. Just consider in your own life. Nobody appreciates early judgements and statements made about them based on low knowledge and understanding. But some have a seemingly profound knack for making quick statements, that on the appearance of things, sound as if they are based on feelings of frustration and bias. Yet they speak with the conviction, as if they had an inside scoop on the individual's personal life. How could you have that depth of a connection with someone and yet dismiss them as though they were the worst? It's a weird phenomena to watch and sadly, it does seem rampant in the political arena. And yet, that same interaction is not only toxic, regardless of what environment it exists in; it is severely detrimental should it be found within the four walls of the church. Worse, if found in the life of church leadership or the pastorate. Will politicians ever change? We can only hope they do. Will pastors ever become? We can only pray they don't. On this #associatePastorTuesday, pray that pastors would never possess an attitude whereby they rush to judgement regarding the lives of others. Pray they would be people of understanding and compassion; never forgetting that no matter how strong the disagreement over a matter, that we are all created by God and in His image. Pray that God would give them wisdom and discernment in their interaction with people. Whether they have known them for minutes or years, may their be a humble presence about their lives, yet still speak with the authority and perspective that God has granted them. A passion for people To know them. To understand them. To reach them. To impact them. For the glory of God And the legacy of eternity. - PNC
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So, tomorrow is the 4th of July. Another great time of year. Another great time for a church event or outreach. It should be exciting. But do you ever wonder if for a moment, church staff dreads the preparation of such? Perhaps dread is a strong word.
We all have those events that we enjoy being a part of, with activities and fellowship and building various types of community. But what's involved to get to that event... it's not dismay or disgust, well maybe a little bit. I'm not really sure what to call it at the moment. It's just one of those, wow... it's that time of year already? You know it's going to be worthwhile. You know it's going to be great; that everyone including yourself will have a grand, old time. But the prospect of it all, perhaps doesn't create the excitement and passion that it once did. In which case, perhaps it's time to change things up. On this #associatePastorTuesday, as we enter another moment of celebration, pray that it would be a day of great impact as we connect with neighbors, family and friends. Pray that God would give wisdom as churches plan and prepare, not only for this day, bur for every event throughout the year. May God help to decide what events need to advance and what is perhaps ready for change. Pray that wisdom and discernment would abound, as they plan and prepare. Pray for a renewed excitement and passion, not to simply be a Christian presence in the community, but to be a point of introduction of the community to the presence of God and the person of Jesus Christ. For the glory of God And the cause of Jesus Christ. - PNC How amazing is it, that the mind can work through a matter and discuss with itself, at great lengths, what the best course of action is? Of course, depending on the circumstance, the mind takes on all sorts of factors and variables and outlines three, five and nine moves ahead. (someone please tell me, I'm not the only one who struggles with this)
This wouldn't be so problematic for the decision making process, except for the fact, that in a matter of moments, you can end up with two very different routes. Ultimately, you may end up at the same result, but the difference in the process is time and energy, cost and risk. It's good if you are decisive, committed and determined to not give a second thought after the fact, constantly wondering if you have chosen poorly... like choosing the Holy Grail without suffering the immediate effects of getting it wrong. Otherwise, welcome to the second-guess club. (I'm having jackets made!) Somehow, the idea of Associate Pastor conjures up images of middle-management. You're a decision maker of some note and worth, with your own plethora of people either reporting to you or coming to you, needing input and advice, direction and authorization. There's a handful of things in which you don't have "final say", but there's an overwhelming amount of circumstances in which you are allowed to speak and do so with knowledge and credibility. Having said that though, it too leaves you in a vulnerable state. What if you do get it wrong. What if you miss an aspect. What if, while the long-term solution was good, you totally fumble the way you should have gone about it. There's plenty of advice that understands and justifies both paths. One might create a big mess now, but at least you know what you're dealing with. The other, may create a bigger mess later and who knows what you'll have on your hands. This is a frustrating position to be in. Especially when you are the decision-maker, at least to some degree. So, would you join me again, on this #associatePastorTuesday. Pray that God would help those struggling with the decisions they face. May God give them wisdom, regarding both the short-term outlook and the long-term prospect. Pray they would be surrounded by good advice. Pray that God would help them to make decisions without fear or worry. While there will always be risk and factors beyond their control, pray that it would not be a point that would cause unhealthy anxiety and stress, both within themselves as well as in the relationships of those affected by the decision. Pray that they would walk confidently in Christ; not held down by regret nor held back by mistakes, both of the past and the recent. May God help them move forward, one day at a time, one decision at a time. For He has not given us a spirit of fear, But of peace and a sound mind. For His glory and by His grace. - PNC It used to be that you didn't know what was behind closed doors. Thanks to social media, all too often, everything is open season, open for business, open air. Very little is sacred. Very little seems valued. Privacy seems to be more a matter of concealment rather than respect.
Who doesn't have a ton of stuff going on? In their lives at home. In their lives on the job. Among their friends. In the community. In the ministry. Bombarded and barraged, with stuff, and people and responsibilities. Conversations to be had, tasks to be completed. It does not, ever end. Ever. Never. Ever. For all our connection points with the outside world and the people and relationships outside the home, what happens at home often tells a very different story. Not always. But when you hear about it, it's heartbreaking. What's the point? Depending on the nature and depth of your relationship with your pastoral staff, you may never know the battles and struggles that they face offline, behind the door. Which is all the more reason to pray for them, so that their story is never one that breaks your heart. Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday for the unknown battles and untold stories. Pray strength for those who are weary and tired. Pray for grace, for those frustrated beyond belief. Comfort and healing for those whose hearts are broken and bruised. Pray for a renewed vision for those who feel as though they have lost their way. May God give them courage to continue to face their challenges and wisdom that they would overcome them. For we are not alone When connected God Through the cross of Christ And the power of the Holy Spirit. - PNC So, I'm reading the book of Numbers yesterday and the chapter I'm reading is intense. So many bulls for sacrifice, followed by so many oxen, then the goats. The amounts of each sacrifice changed depending on the day, but it was non-stop! In modern times, it would be an all-day affair, let alone, their reality. Thus, one thing is for sure with God...
The process is precise. One-third of an ephah. One-quarter of a bushel. At this time... and on this day. Nothing could be out of order or out of place. It was specific; it was exact. And we see this elsewhere, such as Noah with the Ark and Solomon with the building of the Temple. But back to the sacrifice, perhaps there was a unique reason. Is it not possible, that if evil is overcome with good; then that the worst kind of evil should be overcome with the greatest kind of good? Then it stands to reason, that the sins of all humanity could only be resolved by one who was so perfect, that He was out of this world! (see what I did there) If we learned anything from the old testament covenant, is that like all relationships, our relationship with God requires work and effort. And it's not that our salvation depends on it, for surely it's what Christ accomplished; however, the quality of our faith and what God desires to accomplish in us is a direct result of the time and effort that we put into our relationship with God (wow... I really need to stop preaching to myself! #convictedwhiletyping) Having said that, God does have a plan. And it is precise. There is an order. And yet we struggle to submit to the plan. As Dave Ramsey always says, "Adults devise a plan and follow it. Children do what feels good." Submitting to His plan and how He would have us do things isn't always easy. And we do devise our own plan, we often do so, without His help and leading and in alignment with His will. Tough as it is, it's necessary and works better when we do. On this #associatePastorTuesday, pray for those pastors struggling with plans and purposes. Pray for those who are having difficulty submitting to God's plan of what He would have and is calling them to do. Pray for wisdom and direction, for those who are need of clarity regarding a situation because there isn't a plan or process, or they are unsure of how to proceed. Pray too, that God would grant a grace, for times past when the plan was missed and fouled and even not submitted to and aligned under. May God help them progress, in the preciseness of the process. For the glory of God And the cause of Jesus Christ. - PNC Well, our church has been excited... for a number of reasons, the latest among them is that three young men just completed their ordination/credentials process to become pastors within our fellowship of churches. This is pretty cool stuff.
However, the funny part was what happened during in the interview stage of the process. Two of them were offered jobs during their meeting! Of course, our senior pastor thought this was pretty comical as they are already serving on the church staff. His response, with a smile of course, was, "no... you're not stealing my people". But it got me thinking about the priority and importance of approaching your work, whatever it is that you do, with excellence. And I'm the last guy to be discussing this. I'm more frequently reminded of how much I still struggle in this area of life than I care to admit. Was that an admission in and of itself? Where's my backspace key? So, yes... whatever your hands find to do, do it with all your heart, soul and strength as unto the Lord. And what work is closer to the heart of God than ministry itself? Naturally, such an approach you would assume to be a given, let alone an expectation... that pastors would handle their ministry roles and responsibilities with excellence. But apparently it's not a given. You would think with the shortage of pastors and people in ministry that currently exists, that job offers would be a common occurrence as people complete the ministry credential process, but it seems that is not the case. So, clearly, in the lives of two separate people, there's something about life, attitude, aptitude and passion for ministry that stood out and making them incredibly desirable for use and impact within another church and community. What if this was the case for every associate pastor? And every other pastoral title for that matter. What if it was true for your life... better yet, my life? Well, on that note... now, that I'm taking personal inventory; let's pray this #associatePastorTuesday that pastors, especially those starting out would retain the excitement about the prospect of ministry; of what God would have them do and where they would go. Pray that God would grant them wisdom and discernment and guide their every step. May God guard both their hearts and their homes from the traps and misgivings that would detour, derail and destroy their lives and ministries. Pray they would approach both their life and their work with excellence; not that they would live perfect, but in accordance with God's will and in ways and means that bring glory to Him. A legacy of great leadership For the kingdom of God And the advancement of the cause of Christ. - PNC We all know we have to work hard to achieve our goals. Yet, someone, something, somewhere always stands in the way. One step ahead, one point ahead, one goal reached... and trouble catches up. And so you hustle and work some more to gain a lead. Then, neck and neck again. The leading again.
Does this sound familiar? Long story short, my sister-in-law's favorite hockey team is the Las Vegas' Golden Knights. And if you missed Game 1 of the Stanley Cup Finals last night, this was the story of all 3 periods of the game. Vegas the whole way, as they ultimately won. But every time they had a lead, the Washington came right back on point. Throughout the game, she and I exchanged a number of texts. At one point between the excitement and frustration of the goals, she replied that "my Vegas boys don't give up!". And if you've watched them at all this, their inaugural season in the NHL, that attitude they possess happens to be very true. It's a hard attitude to maintain. You start strong, get discouraged. Press on, get more discouraged. Keep pressing. More. Go. More. A pastor friend shared a post on social media; a picture from John Wesley's diary. Morning and evening services, kicked out and asked not to return. For the first three weeks in the month of May. The evening service of that third week, he preached on the street and was kicked off the street. On the fourth week, he preached in a meadow, where he was run off when someone let the bull loose during service! On the first Sunday in June, he preached at the edge of town and was kicked off the highway. But then that evening, he preached in a pasture... and 10,000 came to hear him. Is there not power in perseverance? And is God not a rewarder of those who continue press on in pursuit of the calling that He has placed on their lives? About the time you're ready to call it quits, is about the time you need to take one more step. Complete one more play. Take one more shot at the goal. On this #associatePastorTuesday, pray for those struggle with the energy, stamina and wherewithal to continue to press on and move forward. May God energize their body, unlock their mind and quicken their soul. Pray for a spirit of refreshing, revival and renewal to come over them. Pray that God would them perspective and wisdom regarding the battles and problems that challenge them and wear them down. May there be fresh and creative approach that comes forth, as they trust God and continue to advance in the face of obstacles. Over-comers. No matter who or what stands in the way. For the glory of God. - PNC I couldn't help put wonder... just how far over one's head do pastors get. Ministry. Family. Professionally. Financially.
There's a scene in the TV show, The West Wing, where the press secretary is asked regarding a situation, if she (and the administration) if the water was over their head. She replied, no... it's right at our head. So, what prompted this train of thought? Well, another caller into the Dave Ramsey show. This one will leave you scratching your head. The wife calls... roughly 20 grand under water on their car. Owes $48k, it's worth 18-20k. Ouch. But there's good news... they make 150k a year. Then the rest of the story. 287 grand in consumer debt, not including the mortgage. The husbands truck, a motorcycle and credit cards. I was kinda bummed to be listening to the show rather than watching it on YouTube, as I imagine the look on Dave's face expressed the internal equivalent of falling out of his chair! I don't like to think of pastors finding themselves in near impossible situations; holes really, from which they are figuring a way to climb out. But then I consider my own life. Situations that I knew better than to place myself in. Circumstances that I knew were detrimental to my health, whether physically, mentally, financially or spiritually. We've all done it. Even Dave jokes about having done stupid with zeros attached. Safeguards. Accountability. Common sense. Prayer. Healthy relationships. Proper understanding and perspective. A lack of any or all of the aforementioned leaves the door open for decisions to be made and compromises to occur that set us on a path that does not lead to good outcomes. And by the time we wake up... yeah, the water is at our head and dangerously close to going over. This is not a good place to be. Whether in ministry or the marketplace. Single or married. 15 grand, 150 grand or 150 million in annual income. Firm foundations are found at every height. Therefore a loss from that footing spells trouble. Every. Single. Time. On this #associatePastorTuesday, pray for those are who trouble. Whether the water is still rising or near going over, pray that God would come quickly to their aid and grant them a moment of clarity. For those who have already had that moment, pray that God would give them wisdom to know how to proceed and the strength to begin taking the necessary steps back to safety. Pray for protection over their families and ministries. May God lead them and show the way back to the path that they have stepped off. For the testimony is great because of the test. And the power of the ministry is a result of the mess. For the glory of God alone. - PNC We all have issues. We all have problems.
We are all surrounded by issues. We are all barraged by problems. And while I'm not certain of just how often it is a conscious choice, there does seem to be a tendency, or at least a temptation, to be superficial. People ask how we're doing and we respond with fine or good when we are far from fine and life is far from good. Sarcastically, you wouldn't to respond with "wouldn't you like to know". Secretly, we're really wishing we could share what was really going on. Other times, we honestly don't know. It requires digging deep. Into our emotions. Into our thoughts. Into our hearts. Deep into prayer. Deep into conversation. And if we are getting wise counsel and wisdom, even deeper into prayer after that. Man, that's a ton of work. Maybe it is easier to just keep it within us. Between us and God. In our heart. In our own prayer. We don't make the connections with people and relationships that we wish we could because of what... Well, fear. Mostly. Probably. Like so many other areas of life, relationships begin and end with intentionality. Or a lack thereof. And if everyday people... those not in formal, leadership roles struggle in dealing with matters that are underneath the surface, how much more for those in leadership; to be willing to bring life to the surface in hopes of a greater, more fulfilled and satisfactory life. Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, that no matter what is going on in life or ministry, that leaders would allows themselves to be honest and real. Pray for a grace about their lives, as they deal with their own lives and struggles as well as work to help others that come to them through the ministry. Pray for wisdom as they search their hearts, minds, souls, as well as the face of God through prayer and the Word to find solutions. May there be an emphasis on living life with intention, purpose and clarity, both on a personal level and at a ministry level. Pray they would neither live nor operate from a place of fear, even if that is what sets in as honesty creates a clear picture of the problem at hand. For how can honest and effective solutions be found, If problems are not fully exposed In the grace, safety and love of the spirit of God. For His glory. - PNC Something got me thinking about teamwork in the past 24 hours or so. And not just teamwork... but team conflict. Does anyone else think that church staff is utopia? Not that they aren't doing serious work and have difficult conversations and agonizing decisions and everything else. Surely, it is eternal work and full of complexities.
But does it seem like it would be great? Exciting, dynamic, jovial. It'd be naive to think that someone, somewhere has something, that in a workplace, even one centered in ministry and the institution of the church, would create an annoyance, a problem, a source of conflict and tension. I don't think anyone wants to believe that happens, but we've all worked enough jobs with hundreds and thousands of personalities, to know that the church office can't possibly be immune to such an environment. So why aren't I writing this for two days from now, regarding deacons, administration and staff? Well, I could. And should. Perhaps I'll copy and paste! But for now, I understand that even within leadership ranks, conflicts regarding decisions, circumstances and personalities arise with just as much frustration and frequency as they do with non-leadership staff. So, on this #associatePastorTuesday, pray for a spirit of unity and strength among pastoral teams. Pray for grace in the midst of difficulty, understanding in the midst of communication and clarity in the midst of chaos. May their be a resolve in the purpose of the work and ministry to which they have been called. May they fulfill their duties and responsibilities with honor and integrity, working as unto the Lord, for indeed as they serve the people of God and the world who desperately is in need of Him, they are doing just that. For the glory of God For the cause of Jesus Christ. - PNC I don't know where you are yet, but it turns out, today is on track to be the warmest day we've had in the past 200 days! And while not a record-breaker, it could get pretty close.
Looks like spring is finally here.. although at these projected temps, feels more like summer. That said, though, it is May 1. Which has me thinking about freshness. So often it's hard to gain traction on a project or a problem simply because we can't seem to find a solution. Talking about it doesn't seem to get us very far; praying about it has yet to result in direction. Over-analysis has fried the brain and frustration has fried the spirit. You don't quite feel inconsolable, but you do feel as though one more conversation, even with a new person will simply add to the level of hopelessness and angst that already exists. This is hard state of existence. Like banging your head against the wall. Or life doing it for you. In either case, perhaps what is needed is a fresh take. It may come through prayer. It may come through conversation. It may come by refusing to think about the matter at all for a certain period of time. Commit to putting some distance between your perspective and your perception on the problem. See what God sorts out in the meantime, both in your life and in the circumstance. And to that end, let's agree in prayer, this #associatePastorTuesday. Pray for a refreshing move of the Holy Spirit for those struggling with a particular circumstance; particularly, if it has overextended it's welcome. Pray that God would bring clarity to the matter, as they commit it to prayer and wise counsel. Pray for those who, for whatever reason, would do well to take a step back. May God help them not to worry or stress over the matter. Pray they would not over-analyze the problem, nor over-complicate things by focusing on the wrong aspects or minutia details or whatever else might stand in the way. May they find rest and peace as they trust God to have His way, as He moves with His sovereign hand. For God is work Making a way With thoughts that are higher than ours And plans that are better and greater too. So our confidence is in Him alone For His glory. - PNC I have a working theory...
Leaders get to their position, by and large, by doing things that most others don't. And they accomplish them with more discipline and effort than most as well. There's a difference in attitude and mindset and strategy. It's not that others can't do it. Anyone can. Leaders don't just step into the front and center. But they have taken steps and put in to practice elements that cause them to progress in a noticeable manner. It's easy to look at leadership and wish and desire that one was in a different position and place in life, dealing with different battles and different people; perhaps enjoying more benefits and perks even if it came with a different degree of stress. But then again, is there a willingness to do things differently to get there? Forgive me for another Dave Ramsey quote... I didn't plan this. "Things don't change unless you do." Well, that'll preach! And I'm first in line. But seriously... how much is missed out in both opportunity and reward because we don't do the hard thing, the difficult thing, the hard decision, the challenging process with unfettered and unwavering determination and commitment? Quite a bit, as I'm daily reminded and remembering myself. That said, at the end of the day, the difference is diligent determination. On this #associatePastorTuesday, pray that whatever is done; that it would be done with all one's heart, soul, mind and strength as unto the Lord. While that may be stating the obvious for those in ministry, may it be the necessary encouragement that it needs to be for those struggling as they approach and ready themselves daily. Pray for wisdom in the decision they make, the risks that the take and the strategies that they implement to accomplish the work set before them. May God grant them favor in every realm and may the Holy Spirit lead as they continue in faithful service to the kingdom of God Bad habits broken Disciplined disciples at work For His glory And the cause of Jesus Christ. - PNC Perhaps it's the flurry of current events, (and I hope after three years, you know my heart... I truly pray that God helps these not sound boring and repetitious), but my mind and spirit has been circling around the concept of trust again, as we pray for Associate Pastors.
We've prayed numerous times for pastors to have discernment when it comes to who they surround themselves, that they would upright and wise people of God. And while that prayer is still very much necessary and relevant, I wonder how often we look in the mirror with the prayer and desire long before we are in a place of trust and responsibility, that we would be and become people who would one day be entrusted with such positions. Sure, such desires are always looked at from the positive, highlight moments if you will; often lacking a full understanding of the not so great moments, circumstances and conversations that come with that position. It's as if it's one of the few positions that you can't fully grasp an appreciation and understanding of until it has been lived first-hand. Will I be found trust-worthy? Well, that depends. Largely upon me. Am I living and behaving in ways that build trust and create confidence? Is it possible that in such moments where trust is broken and betrayed, it is not because of a misjudgement on the part of the one who bears the betrayal, but a wavering of the betrayers' commitment to be and be found trustworthy? I don't know, I'm just asking. If I don't allow something to fall through the cracks as it depends on me; then I don't have to worry about someone else asking how they missed something as if it depended on them. I hope that's understandable... and if not, my first prayer is that God brings clarity as you read this; perhaps even a second time. On that note; however, let's pray this #associatePastorTuesday, that all pastors would be committed to personal being people who can be trusted; people of great faith who live with character and walk with integrity. While they walk humbly before God, pray they would also walk upright before man. While understanding our imperfection, may that not stand in the way of making every attempt to walk according to the will and Word of God in both our own words and deeds. May the institution of the church be a place of that glorifies God because of the people who gather there live lives that reflect their personal devotion to glorify God. Indeed, for His glory alone. And the advancement of the kingdom of Heaven. - PNC I popped an old praise & worship into my car stereo over the weekend; an album I haven't listened to in quite some time. Glenn Kaiser's work, All My Days.
I don't know about you, but yesterday definitely felt like a Monday... and so did Friday, for that matter. And Glenn's song, Tapestry kept playing in my mind. The things we do and say; and hope that we would be able to do and say as well as the regrets of what we do and say... we take the positive as much as the negative, in hopes that we will find a balance in our lives. Even if and more often when, things don't make sense. Whether it be why something has happened, or the way something has happened. It's entirely my fault, or your fault or circumstances beyond anyone's control... there's no explanation for it and you couldn't even come up with one if pressed into a corner! Yet, it's times like these that Glenn's words offer some comfort. https://glennkaiser.bandcamp.com/track/tapestry "Make my life, a tapestry" in which your will is done; to use us as You see fit. Yet, when things go wrong, our first thought is not one of peace, but of panic. Our immediate response is not trust that God does indeed work ALL things out for His glory, but worry about how this will work to our detriment. Don't leave me hanging... your heart and mind work the same way, some days. Don't leave your pastor in the dark, either. They probably have days were they feel they are the only struggling to remember what God is creating in and through their life and ministry just as often. On this #associatePastorTuesday, pray those pastors, who while they have no problem encouraging others that God is at work in their lives, may still encounter times in their own lives where it is hard to trust God's bigger picture. Pray God would bring them into a new place of peace and rest; that they would neither be discouraged, nor overwhelmed. May anxiety and frustration not take up residence, but that they would recognize any and all attacks against their emotional and spiritual state of being. Pray a continual, quiet confidence in the tapestry that God is weaving, even with the situations where we are at fault and the circumstances over which we do have some element of control. For God's beautiful creation Doesn't rely upon our perfection. But we are made perfect Through His righteousness. He is at work, to accomplish His purposes For His glory. - PNC Yes, this is another late day post. But interestingly enough there's a consistent theme.
If you heard any of the press conference or interviews from the Head Coach of University of Michigan basketball after last night's loss against Villanova, you know it's an act of true leadership; that skips past the conversations "if we hadn't done that and if we had only done this instead" or "we gave it all our and it wasn't enough", etc. We've all heard the post-game speeches. Coach was straight up. Proud of what they had accomplished. Bummed about the loss. But that's life. One's current state of sadness doesn't negate all the moments of greatness and joy that came before. If that weren't enough, my wife is watching television. The lead character is defining the character trait that even in the midst of great trials and obstacles, one is able to persevere and overcome; maintaining a positive outlook that they are not defined by their circumstances... simply present in them and responsible for how they react to them. One would think that a person of faith would have no problem living with such a healthy and balanced perspective in their life. Even more so, for those in ministry. Is their faith not unshakable? Indeed, though life happens to us all. And often, the stories of others can be more overwhelming and harder to handle than our own. Given enough time, enough conversations... the joys can seem lost and all too infrequent. So, on this #associatePastorTuesday, pray for those struggling to maintain and remember the moments of joy. Pray the joy of the Lord would be their strength, even in times of trials and obstacles, suffering and loss. May they be encouraged by the sovereign hand of God. Pray that God would help in their conversations, as they minister and walk with others. May they stand firm in the faith, focused on the plans and purposes of God; for the sake of eternity, not just their time on Earth. For the glory of God And the cause of Jesus Christ. - PNC I had opportunity to hear more of the conversation that Dave Ramsey had with Steve Mansfield that I referenced the other day. While talking about the flow of life and what it is that we do that brings us fulfillment, they made the point that "when the work doesn't flow as it used to, the poetry is lost"... then you might be in trouble.
Dave perhaps gave the best analogy. A man, who is incredibly successful in all that he does, having gone bankrupt in his early years of marriage, now lives like most only dream. Yet, if you listen to show, you'll hear just how often he encourages (and teaches) what people need to do now, so that they too can live their dream. It doesn't have to look like his, but finances stand in the way of many not ever being able to do so. So, he makes the point, that the day he stops celebrating people becoming debt-free and reaching millionaire status, is probably the time he should give up his day job. Why? Because what he does right now, is an effort to help other people win and witness them winning! Which after 25 years on the radio, the stories are almost too numerous to count. I think they announced that last year, for those who had contacted them and that the had tracked, $59 million dollars in debt had been eliminated from those working his financial advice. If he loses the passion and excitement of helping people achieve such freedom, what's the point in continuing to help in that manner? He should do something else. Lost poetry. A very similar scenario happens in ministry. Along the path to burnout. Life happens and perhaps things don't go as plan or tragedy strikes or thoughts and attitudes that don't belong enter into your perspective and the excitement with which you approach your day begins to wane and you have to ask yourself if you are losing it? The fluidity. The rhythm. The progression. The poetry. It be lost towards one's perspective towards other pastors and people in ministry, that they serve with daily or watch from afar. It can be those within the congregation and community that they try to figure out why and how things worked out for another and not for them. It's not like we all haven't been there! To not recognize the loss of poetry in your position, yet remain in that position will soon become a dangerous path. So, let's pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, that pastors would not lose the poetry of their life and ministry. May nothing stand in the way that we detour their desire to help and to minister to their church and community. Pray a spirit of envy and jealousy would be for from them. Pray for a continual ability to rejoice with those who rejoice and mourn with those who mourn; to share in both the moments of celebration as well as compassion. May God renew their strength as they serve. Faithfully. For the glory of God. And the kingdom of Heaven. - PNC Pastor Chris Brooks' radio show, Equipped, is a great show, dealing with many subjects as they relate to culture and Christianity; which is pretty much everything, is it not?
While I haven't listened to the program in a few weeks, I caught bits and pieces of the one that aired today and part of the conversation revolved around the rural church and the effectiveness of their ministry. One perspective that struck me as intriguing, is that community comes naturally to more rural areas. The naturally live as taking care of, looking out for and helping your neighbor. Conversely, suburban churches seemingly have to create a culture of community, despite living in neighborhoods that are barely spaced wide enough for a mower or two. Brooks also pointed out a perspective that we don't often think about, but perhaps haven't shared outloud. Undoubtedly, however, many a pastor has probably shared the sentiment... that rural ministry feels as though one is receiving God's punishment. It's easy to get caught up in the "power" of larger churches, with greater resources, greater opportunity for impact in the community, more doors for community partnerships and outreaches and the list goes on. Do senior pastors struggle with rural ministry? Absolutely. Going. Engaging. Continuing. The battles may be different to some degree, quite similar in many others. But on this #associatePastorTuesday, church leadership in rural areas can run a little thin. There's just as much ministry to do. The people are just as important to reach. The Gospel just as relevant and needed to the more spread-out lands as it is for the poplution-dense areas. It's not punishment. It's possibility. Let's pray, that God would give strength the church leadership of rural churches, both senior pastors and associates. Pray for grace as they minister and may God grant them creativity and opportunity as they reach out to their neighbors and communities. Pray that God would provide all that have need of, especially in those areas that are economically depressed and struggling with daily needs. May the hand of God be their provision and work the miraculous as they are faithful to the calling God has placed upon them. May their impact be greater than they can imagine, Even when it feels so seemingly insignificant. For the glory of God And the cause of Jesus Christ. - PNC Do you remember a few years ago, the billboards that were put up along the highways, that were simple statements and they were signed "- God"? Here's the one I would advertise.
"Please say 'Yes'!" - God Charles Stanley has a sermon series, that, while I don't know it my it's topical name, one of the sermons involves the discussion of the event that changes Peter's life. There's a book written recently on the subject of "immediate obedience" regarding the Christian faith. We could have a discussion on complete obedience. But Pastor Stanley poses an interesting question about Peter's life. What happens if Peter says 'no'? This is the power of simple obedience. The crowds keep pressing in on Jesus, until he runs out of land. He asks Peter if he can use his boat, to speak to the crowds. While on the boat, Christ commands him to put out his nets. Peter obeys with the caveat, that they've been out all night and caught nothing, but he gives his obedience as if to say, "if you say so." You could call a reluctant obedience. It's not really a hesitant obedience, nor really a delayed obedience. Of course, the miracle happens and the boats nearly sink from all the fish!! Stanley's question? What happens, if when Christ asks Peter to use his boat, that Peter says, nope. I'm exhausted and look at this shore. There's lots of other boats. I'd love to help, but it's been a long night; so if you don't mind, please ask one of my neighbors. How does one say No, to Jesus Christ? Clearly, many do... and did, even when He walked the Earth. I've missed times of immediate obedience. And simple obedience. Reluctant. Yes, even delayed. I probably don't want to think about what I've missed in my own life, as a result. Imagine how much more, I'd rather not consider what has been missed when pastors and church leadership miss those moments regarding ministry and the advancement of the Gospel? So, now that I've bummed you out, let's join our hearts in prayer, that we would be as obedience to Christ as we pray and desire our pastors and church leaders to be. Pray that we would neither be reluctant or hesitant, but instead simple and immediate. Pray that the proneness to make excuses and rationalize circumstances would be avoided. May past experiences and mistakes not hold us back from stepping out and forward in what God would have for us to do today. That our lives would be transformed by our obedience Rather than left behind in darkness by our disobedience For the glory of God And the advancement of the Gospel of Christ. - PNC Yesterday, I posed the question, of what it takes that one considers the possibility of fulfilling the role and responsibility of pastor. And while we prayed specifically for senior pastors relying on God as they choose their leadership team, my mind continues to track on this subject... if you'll permit a follow-up post.
Not many a pastor has stepped in to an established church or congregation their first time out. Much like most people don't wake up and find themselves CEO or owner of the company. There is, and should be, a track record of service; in ministry and leadership and responsibility within the body of Christ. And while there are any number of places to start, I think one of the most crucial, is an attitude of willingness. All throughout Scripture, when God literally "called" to someone, there was then, just as there is now, two responses. Ignoring the call. Or responding with "here am I" It's a scary and vulnerable posture to take with God, I confess. It's why I think God doesn't give us the big picture and vision of His plans. If we could fathom the vision and undertaking of it all, we would never get near it. But He extends an invitation to those who are willing. Is there an ability factor? Yes, but that's often our requirement, more that God's. Is there a readiness factor? Yes, but again, who's really ready for God to change their life in ways we can't describe? Whatever you think God would desire to do in our lives, whether it be for the pastorate, any other role of ministry or any eternal impact in your community, it all hinges on our willingness. On this #associatePastorTuesday, let us obviously, continue to pray for existing pastors as they fulfill their roles and responsibilities. Pray that God would continue to work in and through their lives as they continue to seek His face and rely on Him through the challenges they face. But let us pray also, for those whom God is working out. For those not yet pastors, but God is preparing and calling. Pray for a spirit of willingness on their part, to answer in affirmation and openness. Pray that they would not be overwhelmed, nor succumb to fear over the prospect of what lies ahead, but trust in God that He has good things in store. May there be an obedient response, not only out of response to God's sovereign authority, but to His divine love and perfect will. Indeed, may God change the lives of those whose hearts are set on Him and ready for His plans to go out. Into the world. That all may hear and know The goodness and the grace Of Almighty God And the love of Jesus Christ. By the power of the Holy Spirit. - PNC For whatever reason, i recently recalled the days of my first "real" job out of college. It was a start-up company. A small, fun company. With sometimes, sporadic payment from clients, which meant that payday sometimes came late. Which got me thinking about yesterday's post regarding when a church closes its' doors.
The boss always makes certain sacrifices. It's a bummer, and quite a frustrating one when the staff and associates suffer as a result. And while my heart breaks for the place and position of the pastor in yesterday's post, I'm also concerned about those who served in ministry with him. What's next for them? If they are employed elsewhere while pastoring, then perhaps, to some degree, they will be "okay". At least I terms of livelihood. And if they aren't? And while on the topic of livelihood; there's also mental, spiritual and emotional struggle. As much as I felt life "hung in the balance" whenever payday showed up late, I can't fathom the struggle of church leadership that is affected when a church closes the doors. On this #associatePastorTuesday, pray for those that are indeed, affected by churches that are severely struggling.... perhaps on the verge of closing or have done so already. May God give them strength in the aftermath and wisdom moving forward. Pray God would meet their needs; not only financially, but emotionally, mentally and physically. Pray for healing and restoration through this process. May God open the next door for those who are wondering and waiting about the rest of us. For the glory of God For the cause of Jesus Christ By the strength and power of the Holy Spirit. - PNC |
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