Superficial

We all have issues. We all have problems.
We are all surrounded by issues. We are all barraged by problems.

And while I'm not certain of just how often it is a conscious choice, there does seem to be a tendency, or at least a temptation, to be superficial.

People ask how we're doing and we respond with fine or good when we are far from fine and life is far from good. Sarcastically, you wouldn't to respond with "wouldn't you like to know". Secretly, we're really wishing we could share what was really going on.

Other times, we honestly don't know. It requires digging deep. Into our emotions. Into our thoughts. Into our hearts. Deep into prayer. Deep into conversation. And if we are getting wise counsel and wisdom, even deeper into prayer after that.

Man, that's a ton of work. Maybe it is easier to just keep it within us. Between us and God. In our heart. In our own prayer. We don't make the connections with people and relationships that we wish we could because of what...

Well, fear. Mostly. Probably.

Like so many other areas of life, relationships begin and end with intentionality. Or a lack thereof.
And if everyday people... those not in formal, leadership roles struggle in dealing with matters that are underneath the surface, how much more for those in leadership; to be willing to bring life to the surface in hopes of a greater, more fulfilled and satisfactory life.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, that no matter what is going on in life or ministry, that leaders would allows themselves to be honest and real. Pray for a grace about their lives, as they deal with their own lives and struggles as well as work to help others that come to them through the ministry. Pray for wisdom as they search their hearts, minds, souls, as well as the face of God through prayer and the Word to find solutions. May there be an emphasis on living life with intention, purpose and clarity, both on a personal level and at a ministry level. Pray they would neither live nor operate from a place of fear, even if that is what sets in as honesty creates a clear picture of the problem at hand.

For how can honest and effective solutions be found,
If problems are not fully exposed
In the grace, safety and love of the spirit of God.
For His glory.

- PNC