Distractions happen. To the best of us. To the worst of us. To the average among us. Perhaps, you were distracted by a bumblebee, causing you to trip over something, whereby you've fallen down and hit your head. Then there are those times in life; seemingly Job-like moments, as though situations and circumstances been timed and aligned just right, that if you don't recognize and act on the importance of putting one thing on hold so that you may devote your energy and focus to the completion of the other thing (at least through the critical stage, if completion is a ways in front of you), then the potential for things to go downhill is great.

The frustration comes when the distraction becomes such, that it actually succeeds in its' attempt to derail you. Perhaps not physically, but mentally, spiritually, emotionally... it may not take much for anxiety and fear to set in. Next thing you know... you're distraught. And the tone has been set for the remainder of the daylight hours... which means you could be in for a long day.

Thankfully, if God cares to watch over the sparrow, how much more will He not care for you? I understand the dilemma of trying to understand the what and the why... for some moments, as you attempt to make sense of what's happening, the brain races; considering what you did wrong; what was beyond your control, what should have been within your control, but wasn't. The list can get quite long with possibilities and reasons.

Yet, there remains hope. God doesn't waste our experience. He doesn't wast a miracle. Despite our best efforts, even when others it seems far from accurate, God is still in control and has you in His Hand. You are "not stuck in the rut you created" as the band Fireflight sings, in their song The Hunger (sorry, it was just playing and line worked). All-knowing, loving, Father God full of grace and mercy will see us through; but remember, His love for us life-changing; and where there is change, there will be challenge so be prepared for difficulties.

On this #missionsFriday, pray for missionaries... in circumstances and situations where it may have started as a distraction and now it is causing unrest for their souls and sleepless nights. May the power of the Holy Spirit comfort them and may the Word of God light their path anew and guide their steps. Pray this would be a time they press into God and trust Him all the more. May they resist the feelings of regret; of wanting to walk away and throw in the towel. Pray God would remind them, He is with them always... hasn't left them, hasn't forsaken them. Even for the role they may have played in the problem, more than the solution; pray anxiety would go and there would be a peace... to the external storm of circumstance; to the internal storm of confusion.

When distraction leads to distraught;
May our faith arise to defeat it.
Not on our own strength;
But greater is He who is in us.
For the glory of God.

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As I debated yesterday whether I was going to share the a specific detail or two about the opportunity I mentioned with one or two close friends when I saw them at church last night (hesitant for not wanting to jinx it), I once again, quickly had my answer, when I inquired of God, my need for an idea for what you are reading. In seconds, you have people you can confide in. Hopefully pastors do as well. So here's the question.

Who does the confidant confide in?

To whom does the advisor go to for advice?

The point was driven home all the more, as during the prayer time during worship service last night, Pastor always introduces the those who are on part of the prayer team as people, whom, whatever is shared with them will hold your need in the strictest confidence. I then watched him go and ask for prayer... which he often does. Whether it's personal or ministry or perhaps both, at times, I'll never know. Interestingly enough, the couple he prayed with was one of the close friends I shared my specifics with last night. What does that tell you?

With regards to deacons and church leaders though, it's not that confidants are immediately turning around and sharing the details of what one has just confided in them... lest it contradict the whole point of being confidential. That said, no matter who far up the latter you are and even when you are at the top, there should be people in your life that are helping (and desirous to help) carry the load and burdens of life. None of us where meant to live life alone; nor accomplish everything on our own. Granted, sometimes the helps help and sometimes they don't, but pity the soul who has no outlet for sharing life, seeking advice, challenging us to be who and all we were created to be, not to mention, spurring us on in the love and grace of God.

By the way... since one of the aforementioned friends texted me yesterday morning, saying thanks for piquing  my curiosity, what's the opportunity... I'm sad to say, it slipped just that fast. I went to respond to it last night after church and poof... needless to say, I climbed into bed more than slightly bummed. I didn't jinx it, as life does not work that way, but obviously, in the sovereignty of God, there's a lesson on the chalkboard of life. And something else in store... perhaps.

So, pray this #deaconThursday for pastors and church leaders, who in the challenges and circumstances in life, even in the face of such opportunity and disappointment as I've experienced in a 48-something hour period, continue to place their trust in God... in ALL things. Pray for discernment as they seek advice and counsel; who they should go to and what they should share. May conversations be seasoned with grace and the counsel in alignment with the will and Word of God. Pray for those who are advisors; may they be sensitive to the leading and promptings of the Holy Spirit; they they, like all of us, would not rely on our strength, knowledge and intuition, but seek the face of God and search the depths of His Word. May there be a fresh release of the casting of cares to Christ; for indeed He does care for us and pray, that as the church shares life together, we would sharpen each other as iron sharpens iron. Growing in the fullness of faith, in the knowledge and wisdom of God through His Word and in the love, grace and forgiveness made available to us through the person of Jesus Christ.

The ultimate Advisor
Entrusted us with the good news of Heaven
The one eternal truth, NOT to be held in strictest confidence.
Such opportunities to share, may we not miss us.
For His glory and honor.

- PNC

An opportunity has come to my attention in the past two days that quite frankly, would be a dream come true. In the past 10 or 15 years, I think I've only seen it one other time. I know I have your curiosity peaked, but that's all the info you're getting on it for now. Yesterday, as I went about my day, I spent considerable amount of time thinking about it. Yes, I #prayed4pastors, and family and friends and a few other situations, but it wasn't as much prayer as I usually engage in. The opportunity had captured most of my thoughts for a good chunk of the day.

Around mid-afternoon, confession time. God; I don't know what you have for tomorrow's prayer post. I've spent all this time, excited about what may or may not come to fruition and taken my attention away from seeking you and what you would have, for what I'm taking care of here and now.

To which, I felt in my spirit, this reply... that's because you're thinking about childhood dreams.

Childhood dreams are great. And this may still be a long shot of a dream. It may be a real possibility. That remains to be seen. But whatever it is, it has to align with the what and the where of what God has for my life. And if I'm to know that, then I need to remain focused on Him, who He his, and seek Him.

In a world, increasingly becoming about self, about rights, about happiness, about "right for the moment" rather than right for life, about "rights" and entitlements and offenses... if we remain focused on such, motivated by such and justified by such, then we will be a long way from where God desires us, no matter what opportunities come our way.

When the truth is relative, and absolutes are set aside in favor of relativity and identity, we will find ourselves lost... for the simple fact that somethings in life are unmovable and undeniable. Like gravity. Like air. We don't deny their existence because they are unseen. We acknowledge them because we are alive and vertical on firm ground.

So it is with God. Unseen, yet Him without where would we be. And how would we know where we are supposed to be without a relationship whereby we place our trust in Him, seek His face and watch Him accomplish His miraculous and sovereign will in and through our lives.

Pray, this #youthPastorWednesday, for pastors, as they continue to speak into lives of young people. May they be instilled with the truth and the knowledge of Almighty God. Pray that this generation would grow in the fear and admonition of the Lord. May they know their God. May the know His character; as well as His works. Pray that as kids dream, they would keep an eternal perspective. May, they trust in the Lord always. Whatever their circumstances and perhaps, at times, despite their experiences, pray that they would seek the face of God for His will and plan for their lives. May they know they are loved by God, who created them with a destiny... that He has a dream for them beyond what even they can think or imagine. Pray they would seek first the kingdom of God and His righteous and watch God provide "all the other things" that would be added to their lives.

More important than the desire of our dreams,
May the destinies of our lives be fulfilled.
For the glory of God and the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

This continues to blow me away, every single time it happens. So much so, I wondered shortly thereafter why I feels like I don't get clarity on other matters and decisions like I do when it comes to this site.

A conversation with God went like this yesterday.

ME: Lord, what would have for tomorrow's prayer, because I have not a clue.
God: There it is.
ME: There WHAT is?
God: You. Not having a clue.
ME: You want me to write about not having a clue.
ME: What does one even write about, without having a clue?
God: You don't think I've had this conversation with pastors and church leadership?
ME: Right.

It amazes me and humbles me at the same time, how much of this life we try to do on our own. Wisdom, experience, insight, strength, charisma, intellect... you name it, we'll attempt it. Sadly acknowledging we need God's help on the matter after we've fouled the ball and made a navigating a difficult situation downright dicey.

Coming to God sometimes seems like coming to your earthly father. You can imagine the look on God's face, shaking His head... "how in the world did you manage to do that?" as you both stand there and look at the mess now needing to be sorted out and corrected.

If only, we didn't rely on us, nearly so much.

Pastor stated Sunday morning a profound truth: Too many Christians can pass the spiritual-sobriety test. We are not full of the Holy Spirit as the 120 were in the upper room, as told in the book of Acts. We are not under the influence of the Spirit, but rather, walking on our own power and working through our own ability. And what's cool about God, is the depth of His character.

Think about how much spouses continue to learn about each other, even after 30, 50 and 70 years of marriage. The strong ones, never tire of getting to know another aspect of their beloved. Thus, so it should be with God. Pastor explained Sunday why we spend a year in a sermon series going through just one book of the Bible at a time; why we are on part 40-something of the book of Mark, for example. The depth and richness of Scripture, requires us to dig deep. But not a shovelful at a time, but like an archeological dig. For the finer discoveries. And as we do, Scripture reveals in us, its' own "finer discoveries". Each of which, point us back to the truth that none of us have a clue in this life; and getting a clue starts and ends with the person of Jesus Christ.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for Pastors standing at crossroads. Where direction and wisdom is needed; where they don't have a clue as to what they should do and say in the situations they face. Pray they would not rely on their own wit and wisdom, their experience or understanding; but lean solely on Christ. May they boldly approach the throne of grace and seek the counsel of the Holy. Pray the truth and richness of Scripture would come alive to them; even this day... that God would reveal Himself anew and afresh; granting to them a clarity of perspective. May God calm the unrest and stress, as perhaps they have tried to figure things out on their own; pray a covering of grace and forgiveness for such moments when human thinking as led before God's.

May they have more than a clue;
With a greater understanding of God
Through the person of Jesus Christ
And the knowledge and application of His Word.
For His glory.

- PNC

Moments after writing yesterday's prayer post on great losses, I was getting ready for church. I found myself imagining a friend asking me when they saw me in person, how I had made it through the past few days, with the passing of friends. It didn't take long to realize the answer was pretty simple. On a personal level, there was a distance factor.

Thursday's funeral for my wife's cousin... not that the relationship couldn't have been significantly closer in nature, but let's start with the simple fact, that, for me, it didn't exist until I met my wife.  So there's that.

The gentleman from church... even there, depending on the size of the church, you can only know so many people to varying degrees of depth of friendship and closeness. And even if you do know everyone, life's schedule doesn't permit you to have strong, close-nit ties, where you spend considerable amounts of time together. So while, from the sounds of it, this is one guy many will have wished they knew better, as it stands, I did not.

As for the friend, Saturday morning... once again, incredibly tragic. And yet, a good long physical distance away, the friendship existed because of mutual friends. Those two factors alone keep me... well, suffice to say, in all 3 circumstances, while difficult and tragic, I mourn with family and friends for as an observer, which you'll agree is a very different place than if it were my brother, child, wife or parent.

Having very strong and healthy relationships with all the aforementioned, I would be as devastated as I have observed the past few days. And if that's not an understatement of the century, I don't know what is.

Say all that to say... how do pastors do it? Hundreds of families each week, lives in the thousands impacted and the news never ends. Stories of serious health problems, cancer and otherwise. Relational breakdowns. Impending divorce. Financial ruin. Job loss. Wayward children Disconcerting situations with friends in unhealthy places.

The joyful moments, of gainful employment, engagements to be married, healing and restorations, birth announcements... all seem so less frequent by comparison. And as a Pastor, there is more often a greater relational bond for each circumstance; for these are part of your community that you are spiritually responsible for... to look after and preach and counsel the Word of God into their lives.

I can't fathom, for even this past weeks' news as an observer, even for the two battling cancer, where you knew the potential for the outcome was possible and perhaps closer than desired, was difficult to hear... in a heart-breaking "Seriously? Please tell me it's not true" kind of way. It is... and the grace and wisdom needed for Pastor to help in the process and point people to Christ in the hopes of keeping our focus on Him and a proper perspective on the circumstance, is substantial to say the least.

Thus, pray this #seniorPastorMonday, for those pastors struggling with the onslaught of seemingly "bad news" of tragedy, loss and suffering. May their be a covering as they minister; that there would a be a peace that surpasses all understanding; that they would possess a calmness and a comfort as they share in conversation. Pray for the miraculous, that in whatever the circumstance, people would be pointed and redirected to the person of Jesus Christ; that many would find rest for their souls as they place their hope and trust in the hands of Almighty and Sovereign God. Pray that Pastors would have their ears atuned to the Spirit; to give proper guidance, a timely word, Biblical instruction and wise counsel as they speak the truth in love and with grace. May their spirits be strengthened and renewed as they help others through the battles of life, often setting their own battles aside in the process. May God help them in theirs, as they help others first.

For the glory of God
Who works ALL things together for GOOD
For those who LOVE HIM and are CALLED
According to HIS purpose.
In Christ Jesus name, we pray.

- PNC

Friday, you read about about the funeral we attended for a 37 year old cousin.

That morning, while you were reading, a friend from church posted on social media, a brother in the Lord from our church, had passed after a difficult battle with cancer. Saturday morning, as you were reading what seemed to me a follow-up post, about life on both sides of death, news of another friend hit hard.

Stephanie who we prayed about in this post a few weeks ago, passed... after her second battle with cancer. With something around 4000 friends on Facebook alone, needless to say, her page was lit up. Photos and condolences and memories of the impact she had made on people; through her friendship, her faith, her family... to smile in face of every difficulty; I dare say I think we envisioned her laughing in her spirit, at the days to come.

It's not that her life was easy, nor did she not realize the difficulty of life and that the struggle is real and emotions and reactions aren't always pleasant. But as thousands have pointed out, she remained faithful to her Creator; trusting the Giver of life.... on both sides of death.

And I watched again... as I did in February 2011, when a friend from college lost his wife and their child still in the womb, a few days after a terrible car accident... {read: here} the community and the body of Christ surround Stephanie's husband and daughter with love and support. Obviously, much of it in real time for those who are local to their life; lots more through the advent of technology, from people who wish they could be there in real life.

And we enter #effectiveSunday, it got me thinking last night... what is it about the passing of life that causes us all, to show more love, more compassion, more "like-able" personality traits, more sympathy, more empathy, more laughter at fond memories, more tears of sorrow and mourning. How quickly we forget the value of people until we realize we will never see them again, say hello again, wake up next to them, wake them up in their room across the hall, never meet for coffee again, never greet as they walk into church or the office again... never talk with them about the goodness and greatness of the love of God, if we hadn't done so already.

Is this we were reminded to make the most of every opportunity? For the days are evil?

The local marine dealer advertises "Life is short. Boats are cool".

The truth of the matter, is that "Life is short. God is good".

What better way for the church to be effective that to display the love, grace and compassion of God as much every other day as we do when we gather to celebrate Christ on Sunday and the passing of a dear life on any unexpected day of the week. Our lives should be just as much about Christ in relation to those around us every day, as it is about Christ on Sunday and others when we attend their wake. Granted most of us aren't that extreme, but we could certainly be a lot closer to Christ; and display the love of Christ... in everyday life, in everyday moments, in light of tragedy and loss that make days seem not so much like every other day. There are days that life takes a turn for the worse. Yet with our eyes focused on Christ, we know that even the worst days, God uses to accomplish His purposes; whereby He received the glory. And any day there is an opportunity to give glory to God, isn't really all that bad of a day. Even in the face of adversity; in the midst of tragedy, in the angst of loss and suffering, in the middle of the trial and fires of life... God is with you always unto the end of age; especially where two or three are gathered in His name.

Pray, this #effectiveSunday, that the church would indeed, display the love of Christ and His story to a lost and dying world, not just on Sunday, not just on the day of one's passing from this life to the next. Pray for the peace of God to surpass all understanding; on these past couple of days of loss and suffering; for those struggling to rely on God; for those having difficulty trusting God; for those who no longer desire to seek the face of God... may they sense His presence in the arms of His love and grace. May the body of Christ, be as we are called, to be His hands and feet extended. May this time of loss be a time of embrace; where people draw closer to God, whether it be again or for the first time. Pray the comfort of the Holy Spirit, to guard their hearts and minds; that bitterness and confusion would remain at bay; that the joy of the Lord would be their strength and their trust in Him unwavering.

Faithful and true, is He who has called us in His marvelous light.
Our lives for His righteousness.
For the glory of God.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Still reflecting on Thursday's funeral yesterday, I couldn't shake one profound thought shared during the eulogy. It's not that their weren't other moments... it was a good service. It was a hard funeral, simply because of the unknown cause and the unexpected loss; not that funerals are ever easy.

(forgive me... I'm having writer's block on trying to explain that funerals aren't something you normally critique, yet you can't help acknowledge that there are funeral services that aren't so "great" as far as how they are done, then others are incredibly powerful and moving... and it seems there no other way to say it than to that). So... it was hard. A life celebrated, while not knowing why we were celebrating so early. The unrest was and is, and will be for a while longer, unnerving.

So, with all that out of my head... here's the comfort in the one line from the Pastor's thought has gripped my mind regarding the God of the Universe.

He is:

"God. Creator of life. On both sides of death."

Think about that for a moment. Or two. Or three.

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God... in His sovereignty, in His love, in His grand plan of redemption; created Life on this Earth. Created us to have a relationship with Him while on this Earth. Created life eternal, for when our life on Earth had ended. Created opportunity where we experience that eternal life with Him and have relationship with Him in Heaven.

There is a plan for your life while you are above the ground.
There is a plan for your life after you body is below the surface.

Is that not utterly incredible? Why should the world be satisfied just to be breathing air and standing upright, when God intends for us to have abundant life... and eternal after that? Abundant life isn't one overly-stuffed with possessions and riches and the greatest car collection I could every imagine. But a fulfilled life. A content life. With what matters. Faith. Family. Friends. Purpose. An invitation to walk with God, through the person of Jesus Christ.  A testimony to share with those in your circle of influence, that they may know an invitation exists with their name on it, just as it did for you, the believer. An invitation to live life together, on both sides of eternity and celebrate Almighty God; Creator of life... on both sides of death.

Pray, as the church engages the world, on this #communitySaturday, that invitations will be extended to those who need to hear there is more to this life than breathing air, consuming possessions and earning paychecks. Pray for the church, itself, struggling to experience abundant life... may we cast our cares upon Him who cares for us, anew and afresh. In the face of what we don't understand; in light of loss that is difficult to process; in light of circumstances beyond understanding and reason. Pray for a renewed focus on Christ; to seek His face; to keep an eternal perspective on situations and frustrations that we don't understand; to resist the temptation to lose control; go our own way and allow for bitterness and resentment to take residence in the seat of our heart once reserved for Christ. May we not trade the eternal for the temporal, but rather, trade our rags for His righteousness.

Abundant life on Earth.
Eternal life in Heaven.
For the glory of God.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Yesterday, for different reasons, I went through much of the day, not having really though about what God had for this post. When I shared my plight with my wife as we headed for home yesterday afternoon, she simply said, "you'll come up with something". [A point of technical clarification, I consider each post, not mine, but God speaking through me. Sure, it has my perspective and it probably sounds like me for those who know me, but I pray and seek God for what He would desire to say through me.] 

And sure enough... later in the evening, the realization came that put the days' events into perspective.

Thursday was a solemn day. Unusual, that my wife and I spent most of the day together, kid-free. Though not for the reasons we'd prefer. My wife's cousin, all of 37 years young passed away this past Saturday night. Yes, shortly, if not moments before Mother's Day. And while the cause remains unknown; the devastation to the story is that she was found by her parents.

The perspective came as I thought about the passing of lives, seemingly cut way too short. The stories of celebrities and those known by society; the everyday person who tried to make an impact to better the lives of their family and friends and those they came in contact with, such as this cousin. The stories of children; yet to become adults... gone in their teens or grade school, whether through tragedy, sickness or the pure evil intent of humanity.

To watch the siblings struggle through the day, to watch the parents... to watch it from the understanding of a brother, and a father... just typing this is making my eyes starting to blur from the water I can sense rising up to forefront of their sockets.

Of course, this is #missionsFriday, so what does this have to do with faith in God, the message of Jesus Christ and prayer? Everything. For you will remember, because of the evil intent of man and the sovereign hand of God, the life of a child, seemingly taken way too early for the greatness they were destined for. Albeit a moment in time, now 2000+ years in the past.

The Son of God; who happened to be the son of Joseph & Mary. Left this earth for His rightful place in Heaven at the young age of 33. A ministry of redemption, still fresh and ready for epic results, just 3 years in the making. Sure, God fulfilled exactly what He needed to in those short three years, but your finite minds can't help but wonder, what would have happened, had Christ had another 3 years. Or 33 years. For all we know, why couldn't He be immortal... for every generation, showing man that He was the only way to be restored to right relationship with God. Okay, the last scenario contradicts the whole plan of salvation and theology on a number of levels, but still... could Christ have "used" 3 more years? Even 3 more months? When you feel as though something or someone has been ripped away, even 3 more days or 3 more hours seems a reasonable request. Don't think for a moment, Jesus' mother, Mary, standing at His feet didn't share this sentiment.

That said... Christ got done what needed to be done; in His three years of ministry. In His 33 years on this earth. It was sufficient, for God and His Sovereignty; knowing His plans and purposes for man to be redeemed would be fulfilled. Through lives, changed by the person of Jesus Christ. By men and women whose being brought into right standing with God would compel them to share and help bring others to the same crossroad. The mission of Christ was passed on to his disciples and the trend; the sovereign plan of God, continues in like fashion... even in the face of such tragedy as the loss of a child, sibling, friend. Welcome to #missionsFriday.

In light of this, pray, on this solemn #missionsFriday; for the will and plan of all-sovereign God to be accomplished in the hearts and lives of humanity. For the things we don't understand and can't comprehend, may their be a peace and a rest; beyond human understanding, that God is with us and for us and has promised to never leave us nor forsake us. Pray for those, yet to come to the place where they recognized their need for redemption through the person of Jesus Christ and be brought back into right relationship with Creator, God. Pray, also... for this family, and many more like them, to experience the loss of a family member and friend, who on this side of eternity seems to be gone way too early. Pray for the comfort of the Holy Spirit, for even when death is expected and seems looming, the passing is still a blow to the heart, confusion to the mind and disruptive to life itself. Pray, that such moments would indeed cause people to draw closer to God, despite our understanding; to seek His face and trust Him anew and afresh... His ways. Not ours. His thoughts. Not ours. His plans. Not ours. For everything about Him is greater, more glorious, more righteous... more holy than man can ask or imagine.

His loss was our gain.
Our loss for His glory.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Fine is a word that is quickly becoming my least favorite word. It's a word that answers the question, yet you can't help but say it in a way that gives the impression to the hearer, that something... many things perhaps, in your life, are anything but going well. We can't say that things are okay because they aren't, but you're not the person with whom I feel like sharing what's going in my life right now. Or if  you are the person, then I don't feel like getting into the conversation right now.

And life and the circumstances thereof, change. Instantaneous. Some difficult. Some hard to handle. Some just frustrating. Others, gut-wrenching. Heart-breaking.

Fine...until:

This problem arose on the job-front...
That situation that happened at school involving my kid...
The phone call on the way home from work...
Well, the doctor says...

And if that weren't enough, I just found out...

Insert your real life moment [here]

I'm not sure the body and mind were meant such taxing moments. Sure, there's the adrenaline rush of a physical problem, that super human-strength comes, seemingly out of nowhere, and it in life and death situations, we here stories of what people have accomplished. On the other hand... so many situations simply rise, as if out of nowhere, that throw us off; leaving a "now what" frame of mind. And the answer could take a while to figure out. Much to the demise of our hair color.

Interestingly enough, I was pondering these thoughts yesterday afternoon, only to sit during last night's mid-week prayer service, where Pastor shared a devotional on "surviving the storms of life". Only God's timing.
So when moments change; you are not alone. God is able to calm the storm. God is able to calm your heart, mind and spirit, while you are in the storm. Sure, you may have been "fine" before, but continue to trust God, seek His face and remain faithful during the unexpected difficult moments and God will see you through to the other side. It was His idea, after to all... remember?

Wherever you are, God has you there for a reason. You will come out... with a testimony greater than "fine".

Pray, this #deaconThursday, for pastors and church leaders facing all kinds of storms; of various natures and sizes... some they saw coming and have to see their way through; some unexpected and are trying to navigate, albeit very slowly. Pray for a calming of their storms; more importantly pray for a calming in their spirits. May the remain focused on God; may they strengthen their grip of His hand. May God grant to them wisdom and discernment, as game-plans and strategies are devised and considered. Pray God would lead them, in their conversations and decision; that in the end they would come out victorious.

Perhaps they were fine before...
May they arrive at the other side, more than conquerors.
For the glory of God.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

The battle between the soul and the heart of man is incredible to watch, as it unfolds in the physical realm.

Your soul is the nagging sense that "there has to be something more to life than this". There is. It's a relationship with God, Creator of all things. Eternal in nature, and thus, since humanity was created in His image, the soul is the part of you that is eternal. Thus... it's constantly asking the question, for the life that hasn't found the answer, in the person of Jesus Christ, whom by each of us come to God.

Meanwhile, your heart is selfish. It learns to protect itself when it has been broken. It learns to guard itself when trust has been betrayed. It smiles at the sentimental, laughs at the "been there, done that" moments of reality. It responds in kind, for whatever it has received. Relationships are matters of the heart. Theories, theology, philosophy and the like... all mental. Interaction with others, is a heart-issue. This why Scripture talks about Christ standing at the door; of the heart of man. It's why Christ said, to enter the kingdom of heaven, we must be born-again. It's self versus Christ. Christ gave up his place, his interest, his self for man. Man, not so quick to return the courtesy.

Not only do we want what we want, our way and now; but it can all be justified, and what can't is the fault of someone else. The co-worker who doesn't do their job as well. The sibling who was home all day. The spouse who had more time... sorry, too close to reality again? Probably not a good time to put a ministry twist on this. The pastor who doesn't understand our unique situation. The friends who we think can't relate to what we are going through because they seem to have "it" all together. Or pastors don't have any problems; what would they know about what I'm battling. The big-timers just want "bigger swimming pools and faster private jets!"

Who are you fooling?

Yet, Christ preferred to defer.

Not the tough answers; but His own self-interests. He took time, when others said we have to keep moving. He recognized opportunities when nobody else saw them. He spoke to those situations that had yet to be shared verbally. It wasn't defensive. It wasn't reactionary. It wasn't bitter or resentful. He didn't harbor it in His heart. He released it all to the Father. Forgive them... for they know not what they do.

So what's it mean for the young people watching this world through the gazillion of reflections looking back at them (aka: selfies)? What's it mean for young pastors, working with kids and teens; to get through matters of the heart and speak to the condition of their souls? What price will be paid for not stepping aside and letting Christ work in our hearts? How will eternity be impacted, for souls that don't get an answer, allowing for the connection to be made with Almighty God through the power of a changed heart thanks to the redemptive work of Jesus Christ on the cross?

If we chose to defer the message of Christ in preference for self, then how will the world know us by our love? For love without Christ fails to stand the test of time; for Christ is Love. Exemplified by the fact that His life, every moment of His time on earth, was a decision to prefer others over self. It's why He drew the crowds. Because His love could not let people remain as they were. It wasn't forced, though. It was by invitation.

Personal invitation.

Pray, this #youthPastorWednesday, for fresh revelation and application of the message of Christ to this generation. Pray for pastors ministering to kids and teens would find every opportunity to point situations and circumstances to Christ; what a relationship with Him will accomplish and how His perspective brings guidance. Pray for pastors struggling to relate and reach with great impact the youth in their community; pray for those battling in their own lives, the decision to prefer one another in love and deferring self-interests. May many accept the invitation of Christ, to experience a heart truly born-again and find rest for their souls... knowing their eternal place is secure, as they are found in right standing with God; not because of self, but because Christ deferred His self in order that all may have eternal life. May the arguments of the mind be laid aside and a genuine change of heart infiltrate this culture, so people come to experience not a religion, but a relationship with Jesus Christ.

In His name, we pray.
All glory be to God; who, likewise deferred the preference to keep His Son with Him in heaven, but sent Him to Earth, to redeem the souls of humanity by changing the matter (the make-up) of the heart.
Thank you, Father God!

- PNC

I continue to be blown away, as I go about my day simply open to what God would connect, as I think about a million different things. Some of it personal life. Some of it perspective on the world around me. Time in prayer. Thoughts about church life and leadership as it pertains to this blog. And yesterday afternoon, still having no idea for what you are about to read, something triggered in the terminology "Pastoral Care" ministry. About 2 seconds later, the connection was made. So often, in an Associate role, a pastoral post exists within a church, for a "care" ministry. Home visits, hospital visitations, family situations and those in dire circumstances and situations where they find themselves in need of help in some way.

So, what do we call those who care for pastors?

Is the body of Christ more interested in coming to church to be a consumer rather than a contributor?

(I should almost quit right there and start typing the prayer... which if I knew what it was already)

Sorry; not sorry if that question stung for a moment. But seriously people... there are many factors for pastors and missionaries burning out.

Marital problems, because nobody is covering their marriage in prayer like we ask for ours.
Kids in trouble... because: no prayer
Financial difficulties... because: I give enough. God will provide for them.
No friends... they have lots of friends; plus I'm not "in their circle"
Criticism... should I be offended?
Attendance... if only our schedules weren't so packed, we'd be at church more often.

Maybe if you were in church more often, the schedules would come into alignment. We keep forgetting and returning; like a broken cycle... the reminder:

Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness AND all these things shall be given to you. 

We don't seek the kingdom to get the blessing. But there is a blessing that comes by keeping "the things" of life secondary to the kingdom of God and taking a stand for righteousness.

Easy to say. Fairly easy to do. Right up until you get out of bed. Then it will be the challenge of the day. Not the hardest thing of the day. But it will be the battle that lasts all day, because if you can go all day not having sought God; then you are one step further away. Which is the plan, by the way... to distract, detour and derail your life. And the life of Pastors and those in ministry everywhere.

Thus, we pray this #associatePastorTuesday... that God would work in the hearts and minds of congregations to do a better job caring for their pastors. Pray that there would be rising up of support for our pastors and church leaders, in times when the number of Christian leaders willing to take a stand for righteousness is on the decline. Pray for a boldness to preach the whole counsel of God and a compassion to meet people at their point of need; not in condemnation, but in love... that cares too much let people remain as they are. Pray for marriages, families, finances and friendships... that pastors would be strengthened in the challenges they face outside the pulpit and the four walls of the church. May they sense, even today, a love and support from the body of Christ; as you join with me and other readers in sharing and joining our mission... to #pray4pastors daily.

Caring for Pastors through the avenue of prayer.
Believing God will work the miraculous; bringing them back from the brink of burnout.
For the glory of God and His righteousness.
May it be done on earth, as we seek first, His kingdom.

- PNC

Another incredibly powerful message delivered yesterday morning by the Senior Pastor's wife, speaking to Mothers on the day we celebrate the incredible love and sacrifice the beloved women in our lives who have raised us and the women raise and help raise the next generation of young people. It was a great insight into the life of Ruth with practical application for today's living.

One concept stood out and is worth expounding: Orchestrated by God.

I don't know why orchestration is such a cool word. Perhaps it's the imagery of the environment it conjures up in the mind's eye. I love the definition Merriam-Webster provides: to arrange or combine so as to achieve a desired or maximum effect.

The baseline. The theme. The build-up. The crescendo. The timing of instruments, entering and exiting the piece at key times, adding tension, drama and passion. In this industry, everything is about timing. And if you are going to keep an element of surprise for the listener, then there will be moments were something will be interjected into the piece that may not make sense on its own merit, but when heard in its' entirety... in the context of where it's been placed and what it accomplishes; you won't be able to imagine anything else being there in it's place... not even dead space

You can almost always tell when something is too much.
You can almost always tell when something isn't enough.
You can almost always tell when something is missing.

For those in church leadership, there's a level of orchestration that they should possess. Ultimately, it's God that arranges the days of our lives. And for the moments and circumstances that He interjects that have yet to make any sense yet; well we are placing our trust in God already... what's taking it up another level or two truly cost?

So, pray this #seniorPastorMonday, for those pastors having difficulty watching the events of life and ministry unfold; trying to understand the arrangement of days as they are revealed from the hand of God. May their trust not falter or derail when the elements of surprise appear. Even when full context and big picture perspectives aren't clear, may they have the stamina and perseverance to continue to seek the face of God; knowing full well, He remains able and committed to making all things work together for His glory. May they be encouraged anew, that God does not waste our experiences, but uses our lives to create masterpieces... whereby all may know, He is God.

Our lives. His Creation.
A work, not to be missed.
Orchestrated by God.
For His Glory.

- PNC                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   

Today's prayer comes, courtesy of my favorite show, The West Wing. A few weeks ago, we talked about the importance of getting things started, about just getting to it and do it. As I reflected on my Saturday, I got to thinking about the sage advice that's oft repeated on planning.

Every minute spent planning saves 10 minutes in execution. And since it's only takes 10-12 minutes to plan you're day, you're talking about saving 2 hours worth of work... or increasing your productivity!!  Even if you don't have a full plan, at least have an idea? Consider this exchange on the show, between Will Bailey, who plays the role of Deputy Communications Director and Toby Ziegler, Communications Director. They are discussing a commercial by their political opponent.

Will:
I came in to show you the spots and to tell you I think we should run a counter-ad. I don't have an idea for one.

Toby:
Well get one! Have an idea! Don't come in here with half a thing and not be able to - you know, after you've walked me to the brink, and say 'we've got to do this, it's important, though I have no earthly idea how.' Like one of those guys who buys a big new thing, but doesn't really know how to get the most out of it!

Likewise, when just approach our day with a randomness, "I'll do this, maybe work on that", it allows for distractions. It throws us off our game and so easily, because we are not fully engaged. While reading a short clip about a study on productivity, there was conclusion called the Rule of 52 & 17. Work for 52 minutes and break for 17. The idea being that the 52 minutes of work is a sprint, like a high-intensity interval exercise program. 120% effort. Take a break. Repeat.  Rather than just going all day and burning out at some point.

So it goes with ministry. If there's not a game-plan, if there's not, like I had yesterday, at least an idea for how to approach a particular task, how would I stay motivated to keep working my way through the process of "this is done, what's next." It will be hard to be effective if all the bases aren't covered for what you are trying to accomplish. It will be hard to be efficient, if while you are trying to get things done, you keep passing by or going over the same area multiple times.

Have an idea. Find an approach. Make a plan. Get people on board to help get it done and get the most out of it.

Pray, this #effectiveSunday, that we would look at our lives and our ministries in light of what needs to be done, because it's important. Pray for creativity, planning and strategies, as churches and leadership prepare and pray they will make an impact in their communities and the world. Pray against a spirit of distraction and frustration; that people would remain focused on their areas of responsibility and expertise, like Nehemiah implemented during the rebuilding of the stone wall in Jerusalem. May the church accomplish much for the cause of Jesus Christ as we live life in ways that make much of Him and point others to Him, as the world takes notice, the difference Christ makes in the lives of those who have placed their hope and trust in Him alone.

Effective and efficient.
Because of an idea. By taking an approach. Having implemented a plan.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

ps: should you not know where to start; Ask Mom. Masters of multi-tasking. Executing plans. Getting things done. Having lots of idea. Happy Mother's Day.

Scripture tells us that God causes the sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous (Matt. 5:45). Interestingly enough, it falls right in the middle of Christ telling us, it's not enough to love our neighbor, but to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us. After the rain, Jesus goes on to ask, if you greet only your people, what are you doing more than the others? Pagans even do that!

In essence, Christ was asking, as you engage community, how will the world know that you are different, if you hate your enemies like everyone else does? If you only love those who love you, as tax collectors do? If you only greet like-minded people, such as the world does?

As I've stated before, I've been incredibly blessed with many friends and acquaintances, who are great people. And it's not because I'm a great guy. It's because I learned early on, by watching others, that people eventually get tired of hanging around jerks. So there is little to be gained by always being a mean-spirited, grumpy guy with a negative attitude that overflows into nearly every arena of life and relationship.

That said, I am truly grateful for the friends I have within the body of Christ. Yesterday might as well have a been a Monday, at least the first half of it, and sadly, my frustration level was through the roof. I was thankful and humbled to have a friend who could help cool me off through out the day as we texted back and forth, as I euphemistically talked about being on fire. I was not happy.

At some point in the morning, the Holy Spirit tapped me on the back of the head, so to speak... and I had to confess: I had an attitude that did not reflect well on the person of Jesus Christ.

It might not seem like much, but I had vented to a guy or two, who may or may not have a relationship with God and while they understood the frustration (and we all experience those moments), I had to consider if I came across in a way that I made my life more about me than about Him.

A little too honest for reality? Perhaps. But as it's been said, God loves people too much to leave them as they are, where they are. He has plans and purposes, above what we can imagine that go beyond who and what we are and have on this earth. Earth and its' stuff will pass; only what is God's and has been done for God will remain when all is said and done. So we have to be honest with who we are, honest about the realities of life and honest about our relationship with God. It's easier to work on that which has a pliable element to it. God can't do much with hearts that are rigid and cold. You know that working with such materials adds time, energy, frustration and work to the process, so if you are that way as person, what will God have to accomplish to get through to you what He desires for you?

Thus, a couple of things as we pray this #communitySaturday. Pray for pliable hearts and minds within the body of Christ, as we allow God, through the power of the Holy Spirit to help us become more like Christ and to display such to a lost and dying world who desperately needs God and needs to witness a church that loves differently from the world. Pray that even in difficult places with raw levels of honesty, that God's grace would abound and that we could short accounts with God, not allowing life to infiltrate our spirits to the point God can do little with us. Pray, as we engage community, that people will witness the love of Christ in our lives and that we would share and express Christ' love, no matter the frustration and difficulty of our day, regardless of whether it's a messed-up Monday or the farthest thing from a fun-filled Friday. May we keep the perspective, that eternity hangs in the balance; that only what is accomplished for the glory of God will last.

The honest truth, even in the raw moments of reality.
Through the love and grace of God.
By the power of the Holy Spirit.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

*author's note: My sincerest apologies you are readying this so late in the day. I had it written on my phone this morning, apparently touched the wrong part of the screen and it didn't save. This is my best attempt to rewrite, what you should have been ready, roughly 13 hours ago, now.  Thanks.

I experienced, yet again, some of the frustration that must have been felt by the nation of Israel.  It's hard to comprehend wandering around in the dessert for 40 years. I felt as though I too was wandering yesterday, despite not being lost. It was just how the day was arranged... by someone other than me.

Not everything makes sense and sometimes stuff is just not laid out the right way, what seems the right way, what may even be a better way. There's a reason someone coined the phrase, "all over the map". Mentally, that's exactly what I was drawing.

There's only so many places you can go. Only so many ways to get there. Of course, it's the dessert, but still. There's obstacles and landmarks. Nothing is a direct route. We've passed this place three times. We've been by here twice, now. It looks like this intersecting we will be approaching a third time. And look, weren't we just there a little while ago, as well?

[Makes you wonder if birds every take the scenic route. Of course, if the vultures start circling, you know you're in trouble. Sorry if that's a bit profound... I've had a couple such moments today, (in all humility).]

For all the joy, sadness, frustration, bitterness, laughs and tears, life remains a journey, not a destination. And for all the people in life and drivers on the road who insist on getting in front of you, whatever room they think exists for them to do so, we have to remain focused on Him who bids us to come to Him. And be ready for the lessons and moments along the way, even if it means revisiting them. More than once. Often twice. Sometime, hopefully rarely, thrice.

Pray, this #missionsFriday, for missionaries struggling with the way and ways things are happening and circumstances unfolding. Pray for strength to maintain the course and keep the faith. May the continue to seek the face of God and place their trust in Him, despite their weariness. May their spirits be fortified, as God provides and will continue to provide, resources that will last incredibly longer periods of time than they should. Pray for wisdom and discernment, that their route is being planned and directed by God. May they be reminded, that for the times there are errors and wrong turns, even those, despite the why, who and how of the matter, He is using it all for good. For those who love Him. For those called, according to His purpose.

For the glory God and His honor.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I learned something new yesterday...that  I didn't see coming. Its hard to see sometimes what systems are related and such was the case yesterday morning. A car manufacturer informed me that the abs light will prompt a lockout of overdrive in the transmission (for theirs). To my more mechanically inclined readers than I, that might go without saying. But it was news to me.

Of course, along with his recommendation to get it looked at asap, was the advisement to keep the speedometer needle on the left side of the 45mph marker.

I had an Adam Sandler moment, from his movie, The Wedding Singer. His bride to be doesn't show up on the big day of his own wedding leaving a note she wasn't coming. When they finally do talk about it and she gives her reasons, his character replies...

"That information would have been useful. Yesterday!" (and actually a few yesterdays before that) for the purpose of this experience.

Of course, leave it to God to use the most unusual of situations to bring light to spiritual matters. And, I relayed this statement to the dealer, to make sure I understood what he was explaining and he confirmed my phrasing of the conclusion. I know... you are on the edge of your seat in anticipation. Wishful thinking on my part? Thought so.
Let me get this right.

A breakdown in this system could lead to a burn out in another system.

Wow. Then I pondered.

Breakdown of your vehicle will burn out the emergency fund.
Breakdown in communication leads to burn out in relationship.
Breakdown in leadership will burn out the organization.
Breakdown in marriage will burn out a community.
Breakdown in the spirit will burn out ones perspective.
Breakdown of the church... 
Breakdown of one part puts stress on surrounding parts obviously, but we are talking an entire system impacts another. Who or what picks up the work of the church if the church breaks down?

That's more disconcerting than the phone call that I had with the shop!

So, pray this #deaconThursday, for pastor and church leaders alike, facing challenges of all kinds, at home, in ministry, in community, in other areas of responsibility... may God watch over them and grant them the ability, to discern and navigate their way towards solutions that are beneficial. May they not be pursuaded to throw in the towel just yet, but to keep the faith; to continue fighting the good fight. We can't afford the delays that accompany the burnouts that are sure to follow shortly thereafter. Speak peace, health and life to the areas that are close to breaking. May the power of God and the healing process of the Holy Spirit accomplish the miraculous.

Standing firm....despite getting attacked on all sides. His purposes fulfilled, for His glory.

- PNC

The concept of sleep is incredible. We deny it. We think we can do more on less. We run ourselves into the ground, until we could sleep for a day. And even though, it may not be enough. I'm guilty. Well, not the sleeping for a day part, but staying up late, then getting up early, for sure.

Kids on the other hand... for the handful they can be and the disagreement every night with me about how it can't be bedtime because it's still light outside, they sleep as though they don't have a care in the world. Because they don't. And for all the moments of frustration and teaching and trying to get them to understand certain principles, a parent can't help but smile when they check in the kids before turning in themselves, to make sure the blankets are still on (which they never are) and the favorite stuffed toy is nearby. Every night... no matter how I feel, no matter what's transpired between me and them; I watch them sleep for a moment and wish I could fall asleep just that fast.

Of course, it probably helps I got them hooked on listening to soft, instrumental music to fall asleep to... something that drove my dad nuts when I was a teen, but now, thanks to Pandora, is a whole lot easier. I recommend creating a Yanni station.

Once again... simply stretching the imagination of considering the struggles the everyday believer to the perspective of pastors and church leaders and one wonders how they sleep. The affairs of the church. The concerns and needs of the congregation. The responsibilities of ministry. The fate and destiny of souls for whom eternity hangs in the balance. The accountability for which they will have to give for the pastoral duties. No pressure by the way, for pastors reading this. Keep up the good work.

Pray, this #youthPastorWednesday for pastors having difficulty finding balance in life. May the find rest for their souls, peace for their mind, strength for their heart and energy for the body. For whatever would come against them, may it not defeat them. Pray for a quickening of the Holy Spirit to empower them in a greater dimension. May their ministry rise to new heights, as they are rested, recharged and renewed.

For the glory of God.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I love driving. Traffic I can handle. Knucklehead drivers are short-lived, for paybacks are rough. Yesterday morning, though, I think I nearly came to a breaking point. The morning started out a little rough, quickly got a more frustrating, then the headache started. When I thought it was over, it turns out 20 minutes later, there was one more "you've got to be kidding me" moment. Sure enough... it was Monday alright.

Major construction zones involving a major freeway shutdown between to other freeways (even if it is only one direction) does not mix well with morning rush-hour traffic.

Not on any day ending in -"day", let alone Mondays. I was not happy.  So much so, that at 8.19am, I texted a friend.

"I am so ready to go home."

Barely two hours into the day.  Later in the day, I told a guy I felt like I had had a birthday... as if the frustration of the morning's events had actually aged me. I should have my kids count the gray hairs in my gotee and we could keep a runny tally. That counts for some math homework, doesn't it?

Okay Conlin. Make the connection.

In my moment of angst, I realized what was happening. People were so concerned, like I was about avoiding the back-ups, that we started looking for other routes. Of course, there's only so many places you can go, so with everyone having the same idea, we all quickly found ourselves where we didn't want to be... part of a bigger back-up. So thinking it's not worth the hassle, you figure out what to do next. Then thinking you might be okay and can make up some time, perhaps you inadvertently make a wrong turn... too late now. You're gonna have to ride this out for a moment before you can correct it. And of course the correction takes a few more minutes. Plus... still more traffic. We've all been there. There's usually someone in the seat next to you offering a map or your GPS is chiming it's favorite word: "Recalculating".

Next thing you know... is this how the nation of Israel felt for 40 years?

You try to make the best and the most of difficult situations only to discover your solutions aren't really all that great. In fact, in the short term, they lead to greater headaches. In the end, they turn out to be not much of a solution.... at least not without some finesse and "tweaking". No matter how much experience you've picked up during your travels of this life and the roads there, you've quickly learned as I have (and was reminded again) that hindsight is 20/20. Which is all the more reason, no matter what the circumstances, we continually, daily, constantly call out to God, seek His face, ask for what we have need of and praise Him while we trust in Him. No matter what the distractions, detours and the frustrations; may prompt in us and cause us to react. The traffic will cease. Eventually.

Join us, this #associatePastorTuesday... that there would be a peace and a presence in the lives of our pastors, that speaks volumes to the truth that God is not caught off guard by those things meant to distract, detour and derail them. May their spirits be lifted above the noise and confusion; may their focus be clear; their purpose united. May the cares of life not consume their minds, or weigh their hearts, but that they would draw nearer to God; casting their cares on Him, for He cares for them. Pray the stress subsides and the storms will calm.. the traffic will clear and the days will get better.

For the glory of God. By the power of the Holy Spirit. For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Relationships are interesting. Especially when there is a deep, emotional bond. When the person is gone, you generally are okay, because you know where they are and that there is a reason for it. When they are around, and you get to spend time with them, the day is great. Then the prospect of them being gone again, or at least returning to a schedule where that will be the case... let the emotions roll.

It can be a moment of sadness. It can be a serious bummer. Depending on the person, it can turn you into an emotional wreck. Perhaps it's overestimating for the adults among us. But consider your younger days or what kids go through... with extended family, grandparents, changes in the schedules of parents. As much as kids don't like major changes in their lives, neither do adults handle significant changes all that well at times... particularly when prompted by the Holy Spirit or it seems God is moving in a particular direction. Such moments can cause us to become unsettled, emotionally-speaking.

Oddly enough, I'm writing this from a situation less than hour old, but recalling a conversation from Sunday afternoon lunch with friends about challenges of knowing the how, when and where of what God is doing and what He is store for one's life. Like a kid not knowing the details of what's going on or where someone is at and how long they will be away, we too, in our walk with Christ can get frustrated and emotionally out-of-whack, as God has a thing about leading and directing one step at a time.

And once again... if it happens for the life of the "everyday" believer, how much more challenging for the lives of pastors and church leaders. It's how God works. We can't change it. But in our human ness, it can be difficult to process and "roll" with how God works. If only the actually process of placing our "trust" in someone was as simple as hearing them make the  statement "trust me". But for the power of prayer...

Pray, this #seniorPastorMonday, for pastors and church leaders struggling to continue to place their trust in God, in situations where it is getting increasingly difficult and frustrating not having a clearer picture of how and where God is moving and directing. Pray for a strengthening of their emotions, as well as mental, physical and spiritual stability. May there be a reassurance, that Christ is one who sticks closer than a brother. May they be comforted anew and afresh, that God will never leave them or forsake them. For the challenges and circumstances they face, may the Holy Spirit bring peace and comfort to their heart and mind, standing firm on the promises of God; that He will accomplish the miraculous as they place their trust in Him, perhaps in a greater dimension than ever before.

Confidence in the character of God.
Peace as they place their trust in Him.
For His glory and honor, we pray.

- PNC

I had a brief moment yesterday, as I pondered Saturday's prayer on friendly churches with Biblically-sound ministry.

Quite simply it came down to this...

How does a church plan to be effective if it is not first, friendly?
How will a church have an efficient ministry, based on something other than the Word of God?

People will have little to no desire in growing and strengthening their faith, in their walk with Jesus Christ if they are not surrounded by people who genuinely care for their well-being. People, in general, don't allow someone to speak into their life with whom they have zero rapport.

Consider this... we will get along better and have more in-depth, meaningful conversations if we both value each other as a person enough to know and share that there is more to life and more in store for them from God. Otherwise, a simple cold-shoulder, let alone anything resembling meanness, rudeness or harsh words will ruin the chance we will be friends.

Similarly, with ministry. What is ministry that isn't Scriptural? How do you point others to Christ? How do you help them discover the plans, purpose and promises of God for their lives? On what do you base principled living? Healthy relationships between God and man?

The passage from Timothy just came to mind, that talks about Scripture being inspired by God and " is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness" The purpose of this, is that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work!

I like how the New Living Translation states it, as its language expounds on those four ideas...
[it] is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right.

I shared a statement online a while back of a realization I had regarding a point of frustration in my own life.

Life is like homework. Sometimes you need a friend to help you figure it out

I mention this, because just as I was thinking about what to type next, I thought about how people pick what they like and don't like and correspondingly apply (or don't) to their lives. What happens if you do that with homework? You start skipping sections or subjects altogether and it will kill your grade! How silly of us, to think we can skip and avoid sections and subjects within Scripture and think it won't have an adverse affect on our lives. What's more amazing, are the situations, circumstances and justifications we use to back up our position in trying to prove something has changed regarding the application of Scripture in today's culture.

So, pray this #effectiveSunday, as it bears repeating, for pastors to teach and preach the whole counsel of God. Pray the Holy Spirit move on hearts and lives that we would not be so quick to use Scripture to justify ourselves, but rather continual bring ourselves into alignment with God and what He has said in His Word. Pray for churches that have a culture of friendliness and bible-based ministry... may they not lose that environment, but foster and strengthen their standing for the cause of Christ. Even more, pray for churches struggling... where the environment is tense, critical, cold and frustrated; where Scripture is skipped, over-looked or perhaps rarely examined at all. May the power of God move on the hearts and minds of those involved in these circumstances and bring about change... a drawing unto Himself. May the veil be lifted and revelation come forth; that while it may be hard to receive, the moments of teaching, rebuking, correcting and training are helpful in the long-run for the health and success of the church.

The body of Christ. Functional. Healthy. Complete.
By the power of the Holy Spirit.
For the cause of Jesus Christ
To the glory of God, the Father.

- PNC