It's amazing how quickly we can get ahead of God. In this, go fast; go now, go faster world, how do you suddenly change gears, or more seemingly, come to a sudden arboreal stop. The world says GO! God says, Wait. Like a school crossing guard making us hold our place on the street corner for much longer than it appears to us to be necessary.

I pondered this yesterday, as I thought about some friends, and a decision they have been praying over and waiting patiently on now for months. I want to say it's been since November or so, because they knew a decision could take a few and it's been a few more on top of that. Last week, they got the answer to prayer they had been waiting to hear. This was followed up, by another significant change that is now pending in their lives.

As they brought this need to the attention of a small group of friends via social media, I simply commented, that God had come through on the other matter, even though it took much longer than was comfortable; and as such, God had a hand on this "new" dilemma and would provide wisdom and direction.

Meanwhile, elsewhere in life... notifications going off. Where are you? Are you there yet? Where are you now? We don't consider God asking such questions of us, but if you've been on the receiving end, you know after a while, they can take their toll on your day. Yet, we don't hesitate to offer these questions to God, as if we could hustle Him along.

Little did I know (or perhaps, recall) that Pastor was starting a new summer series on Wednesday nights, of which last night was part 1. On finding purpose, from the life of Joseph, he started with an overview of Joseph's story. Towards the close of the devotional, he pointed out something incredibly profound in the life of Joseph. In Genesis 37, where in one chapter, Joseph goes from favorite son to a sold slave, covered up by a fake death story instead of his cherished coat; if you look closely in that chapter, God is nowhere to be mentioned.

In all that transpires in that chapter, Joseph isn't seeking answers for his frustration and demise. He maintains through all of it, "God's got this. God's got me. And He will use this; all of it, for His glory." Which is pretty much His answer at the end of his story when His brothers plead for mercy.

A powerful reminder: God is not rushed. Why are you?

Pray this #deaconThursday, for deacons and church leaders feeling the pressure and temptation to succumb to hurry and rushed decisions and actions. Pray a quiet confidence that God has things under control, even when it appears is not even in the picture as things transpire and situations unfold before our eyes. May their resolve to trust in God regardless of what they see remain in tact and firm. Pray they continually seek the face of God waiting steadfast for His direction, as His bird's eye view sees all that we face and not just the 30-50 feet of life we capture from a crowded street view. May they experience grace for their missteps; may the trust God for the miraculous, despite others failures against us. Pray we watch with anticipation, how God will bring it all together for His glory and Honor.

For the cause of Jesus Christ
For the advancement of the kingdom of God.

- PNC

I don't know what made me think of this yesterday, other than the fact that once again, it came moments after acknowledging to God I had nothing for this post. But for whatever reason, I recalled in my mind, a scene from my favorite political drama television show.

The Chief of Staff is contemplating to handle resolving a situation before it escalate and the matter happens to arise while he is meeting with his lawyer regarding another challenge. In discussing how he plans to handle this negotiation before it becomes a real thing, he lawyer offers a different perspective and in support of her argument, uses the following phrase.

"Do it for the next guy."

In other words, consider tomorrows impact for today's actions.

All too often, in this highly driven, production-oriented, "get done as much and as fast as you possibly can" era, not only do what not always consider the impact it will make on one of many tomorrows, we fail to leave something "for the next guy" to work with and take our accomplishment to the next level.

We have all seen it happen, when there is transition.

There's the story of a task, job or project being performed at a certain level and brought to a certain stage and the "next guy" who is given or takes responsibility looks at it and has a "seriously?" moment. Something is wrong, something is amiss, something got missed... and the person who came behind is left spending considerable time in "correction" mode; having to fix things, that had they been done differently or altogether right, there would not have been a problem.

Meanwhile, had we had a more long-term outlook; had we been advised by someone who was considering the impact on tomorrow from decisions made today, I imagine things would look very different. They would have started looking different a long time ago.

What are we leaving for "the next guy"?
What are we handling well, that the next generation will be prepared to take to the next level?
What are we mishandling, that whoever comes along, will have to fix, correct and repair?
How are we considering the impact on tomorrow and allowing that perspective to influence today's decisions?

Pray, this #youthPastorWednesday, for pastors in the places of challenge and difficulty. May God grant to them wisdom and discernment in their decision-making. May their be a resolve to "do right" by the next guy. Pray the mind of Christ, to consider the impact of our decisions with an eternal perspective. May there be a passion to leave greatness in the hands of the next generation; having taught them stewardship and responsibility to handle it well; rather than leaving them a mess and no skills whereby they would able to clean it up.

Legacy.
For the glory of God.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

For whatever reason, I'm not really sure, I keep finding myself throughout the day, for the past few days, singing Petra's song Open Book. It talks about our life unfolding, with each passing day and our life being an Open Book before God. He knows what's in the next line, "will I stand or do I fall?" It's our recognizing that as we read between the lines of our life, we recognize it's His love that binds us.

The part that keeps standing out on the forefront however, is the following stanza:

"Cover to cover, Lord you know me
And what I want to be.
As You read the pages of my heart
Please tell me what you see."

We know God looks at the heart, while man looks at the cover of man.
We know many heroes of the faith knew the condition of their heart... just look at King David.
Scripture says God know intimately about us, the hairs on our heads being numbered.
He knows what we have need of, before we even ask or think.

And yet, these lyrics inquire of the Lord...

"What do you see when you look at what's written on my heart?"

While that answer will be different for each of us, depending on our place along the journey of faith, it's incredible to know that God is writing an epic piece of literature with our lives; using what the enemy of our souls meant to destroy us for His glory.

And in a similar vein of thought, as we prayed yesterday for pastors struggling in ministry because of difficulties in having a healthy ability of loving their self, I couldn't help but wonder about pastors; struggling with what is written on their heart; and what God is dealing with them personally, as He continues to work on each of us, to create us anew, to take on the image of Christ with each passing day.

What is He rewriting for His glory?
What direction is He taking with the twist and turns of life?
What will He map out in our life as we seek His face for which way we should go when the light goes green?

Consider this:

God has laid out His life; His story, as an Open Book for us to read.
We can not grow in the knowledge, fear and admonition of the Lord while keeping the book of our heart and life closed towards Him.

(I had to smile, just then, as I reread that... I can hear my pastor in my mind, stating what He often does in His messages: "Whenever you read the Word of God, it reads you.")

And it's so incredibly true. You can not read God's Word without God reading your heart, shedding light to the "what's next" area of focus, whereby He will work on us, that we may become and appear more like Christ.

So, join me, this #associatePastorTuesday, as we pray for pastors experiencing difficulty with the work God is doing on them personally, in their heart, mind and spirit. Pray for those having trouble with what God is revealing as He reads the pages of their heart; perhaps not knowing how to deal with what is coming to the forefront or not being able to come to a resolution of what and how to change. Pray for their to be a genuine renewing of the mind, as they read and study God's Word. May their be fresh illumination into the character of God and the person of Jesus Christ through the power of the Holy Spirit. Pray the fear that prevents us all from allowing God full access to our hearts would be removed; the barricades set aside; that God would have free reign on Earth, as He does in Heaven.

What the enemy has meant for destruction,
May God bring to new life through restoration
By the blood of Jesus Christ
With the power of the Holy Spirit
Our lives, an incredible story...
Authored by God Himself.

- PNC

Once again, I wasn't sure what this morning's prayer would look like until the Spirit brought to my remembrance Pastor's message yesterday morning. Speaking on living a life of love, He used the passage from Mark, where Christ boils down the Ten Commandments into two. And in these two simplified commands, were three parties we are to love. The first, what I want to highlight on this #seniorPastorMonday.

Obviously, we are to love God with all four aspects of our being (emotions, will, intellect and physical). And we are to love our neighbor as our self.

We can not give what we don't have.
We can not offer to others what we have not experienced for ourselves.
We can not help from a lower position... we must do so from a position of strength.

Which got me thinking... how many pastors are struggling because they are having a difficult loving themselves?
There's a difference between looking in the mirror and liking the person that looks back out you, confident in who are, especially in light of Christ versus looking at yourself through your cars' rearview mirror and thinking you are better than ever other person on the road of life.

Yet, if you are battling your own weaknesses; suffering from a flawed image that is perhaps the culmination of years of neglect and mistreatment during ministry, then you will no doubt have difficulty expressing the love of Christ, let alone, a friendly, brotherly, neighborly love to anyone new because you don't feel there is any worth in your self from which you operate.

How will I see the positive in you if I can't see the positive in my self?
How will I share the truth of God if I don't see His truth in my life?
How will I share the love of Christ to you, if I don't experience His love for me?
How will I show grace if I don't receive grace?
How will I believe for the miraculous if I haven't witnessed the same?

Neither will a pastor experience victory if they wake up feeling defeated.
Neither will a pastor witness growth if they aren't rising to the challenge
Neither will a pastor accomplish much for the kingdom of God if they feel unable to conquer the world; regardless of whether they acknowledge the truth of "I can do ALL things through Christ who gives me strength."

So, pray with me, this #seniorPastorMonday, for pastors on the verge of breaking mirrors. For those frustrated by who they feel they have become; inferior, worthless, unqualified, incapable... whatever it may look like; pray God breaks down the  negative spirit. May they remember, as we sung yesterday, that we are no longer slaves to fear, but we ARE a child of God. Pray God would restore a spirit of confidence within them; that He is with them and for them and therefore, who can be against them. Pray they would be reminded; that nothing can separate us from the love of Christ; that there is power, truth and healing for their lives at the feet of Jesus. Pray the power of the Word of God would accomplish the miraculous; as God illuminates and renews their mind anew and afresh. May the fire within them be rekindled; whereby they would once again be able to love God; will all their heart, soul, mind and strength... and just as importantly, love their neighbor as their self.

A child of God
By the grace of God
For His glory.

- PNC

Let me preface this post by saying, I love my kids.

Let me follow that statement with, I'm pretty sure a few new gray hairs turned in my gotee yesterday.

Last night, I had en epiphany last night about grandparents.

They have much more patience with grand-kids, than their parents do. And the reason for this is simple... the kids don't pull with Grandpa and Grandma what they push with the parents.

Correspondingly, grand-parenting comes with an internal joy... it's the satisfaction that the time is around the corner, when the parents will return for their kids and exchange the pleasant goodbyes of "here they are... have fun!"  Like they've been wound up.

What is it, that parents can turn their face to 50 sheds of red or blue in giving instruction and direction to their children resulting in peace and quiet for no longer than a few seconds. Then it starts again. And after a decent nights rest, its starts again in the morning. Such as final preparations for church.

As last night came to a close... does this happen in churches? Do pastors feel this way? Are congregations anything like kids? The teen-age attitude that begins long before their age is in the teens. The rough-housing. The desire of the same toy. The disagreement over which cartoon to watch on Netflix.

[insert your priceless church conflict here]

If we haven't seen them, we've heard of them. And responded like parents. Seriously, this needs to be said? Repeated? How old are you? Why is this an issue? Did you not hear me the first time? Who's kid are you?

It's hard to be effective and efficient, as a parent or a pastor when it seems there is no growth. No progress. And the repetitious instruction and direction gets old... yet, must be maintained, if we expect in the long run for kids to grow up mature and healthy, and for the believer to have the same transpire in their faith.

Pray, this #effectiveSunday, that pastors and churches would experience healthy growth. In the maturity of their faith. In the ability to show compassion. In the efforts to express the love of Christ. May the frustrations of ministry and the repetition of issues, not detour or derail their focus. Pray for strength in the times of discouragement. May the church of Christ be one that brings honor and glory to God... in how we live our life; in how we point a lost and dying world to His life.

For the advancement of the gospel of Christ.

- PNC

I experienced a "hey I know that guy" moment the other day, as one of the former vice presidents of my alma mater has been making headlines in recent months speaking up on various social and cultural issues that have been unfolding in regards to Christianity and the Christian's response on these matters.

He is now the President of a Christian university in the southwest portion of the country and in an interview he shared this past week, he made a statement that stood out.

"This is what happens when you worship government instead of the gospel."

On this #communitySaturday, these are pretty accurate words.

We have legislated God out of public life; out of the public square. At least, society continues to keep making the push to do so. The church is not speaking the truth in love as they should; as the movement to be more concerned with "try not to offend" continues. We place our trust and hope in other things, in other people, in other identities and rather than standing on the Word of God, we stand in the shadow of government to protect us, save us, and defend us when someone says anything contrary to how our opinions and feelings.

I say "we" because, sadly, people within the church have such tendencies as though outside of the church, so collectively speaking...

God is love. God is grace. Absolutely.
Yet He is light. He is truth. And He is Holy.

When we find ourselves in a position where we hold humanity and people in positions of power with greater regard and reverence than Almighty God, who is to this day Creator of all Life; when the rights of those offended are more important than the rights of those still in the womb, we have clearly lost our way.

When we're more worried about the safety of our schools, than we are of a Mother's womb...

The truth is hard to hear. And I'm not for using it to demean and destroy anyone or anything. But our unwillingness to hear it and respond appropriately can not be so great that it should not be spoken at all.

As the church, we must rely on God and trust in Him to help; that our words would be seasoned with grace and that it would not be the opinions of man, but the truth of the message of Christ, that would resonate from our hearts and our lives as we engage this lost and dying world.

So, pray with me, this #communitySaturday, for the church to be the hands and feet of Christ. Pray we would meet those in need at their point and place; not expecting so quickly they would move towards the church without making a move towards God. Pray, people would find their identity in Christ first; not in government, career or social or culture issue. May the truth reveal the reality that every person must realize; we all fail; we all will fail and we all have fallen; short... very, very short of the glory of God. May we accept, that by the grace and love of Jesus Christ alone and His selfless act of death that we can be brought into health; into right relationship with Him who is able to do exceedingly more than any government ever known to man... for the Creator of Life is the institutor of governments as well.

For the glory of God;
For the cause of Jesus Christ

- PNC

Yesterday morning, I was given a desired deadline to meet. Nothing that hasn't happened before, except my reply was met with an even more profound response.

My reply was that I'd do my best.

This is nothing out of the ordinary. Nothing that hasn't been said to you by anyone that you've asked for them something specific to accomplish. Certainly, nothing that you have said to someone who has asked anything of you. And many of heard or said, thanks as a response.

So what stood out this time?

"I don't want you to do your best. I want you to do it. Get it done."

I posted a prayer a while back about "just do it" and what I've termed "NIKE Christianity". And while I don't want to be repetitive on the matter, the words stayed with me throughout the morning.

Life happens, especially as you rely on other people along the way. Delays happen and other people don't sense the urgency of what you are trying to accomplish and so you have to account for that. When all was said and done, I was 40 minutes passed the mark. Out of my control; a domino effect, in two delays that ended up causing two more; and had the first never occurred, I probably would have made the goal.

Be that as it may, though... what lingered was what God asks of us; of what God asked of heroes of the faith, from the passages of Scripture. And along the way, many of them spoke of their effort; recognizing that there was a lack... that they didn't have what they felt they would; that they would be unable to complete the assignment or that someone else was better suited for the task altogether. And in some cases, God made allowances, like Moses brother' Aaron, helping speak to Pharaoh. But it wasn't the same as if Moses had prayed for God to empower Him and fill in the gap with strength and grace from On High.

How more importantly, in this day and age, do we do the same. Like a kid arguing with their parent...."But Dddaaaaaddddddddd!!!!! Come on. We all had these conversations, both with people and our Creator. 

This is above me. This is beyond me. This is greater than me.
And it freaks me out to no end, that you would ask this of me.

Yet, loving Father God.
Go. Do what I asked. Do what I said. And I will be with you.

We love the part about God lighting our path, but we forget all too quickly, being a lamp to our feet. There may be some notice of what's ahead of us, but by and large, life is stepping out in faith and continuing to put one foot in front of the other, as we go about fulfilling the plan and purpose God has called us. Lest we see too far forward and back out. Nope... if I have to go through that; cross that, encounter and overcome that, then why even bother? As if our efforts mattered and realizing we were insufficient, we never bother to put in any effort at all.

That's the kind of thinking that will leave you forever missing the mark. You can't win a race that you don't start. You can't win a game in which you play. You can't live life while playing dead.

Pray, this #missionsFriday, that we not focus our minds upon our abilities or efforts in fulfilling what God has planned and called us to accomplish in this life, but we would simply obey. Pray for missionaries today, struggling with how God will bring things together and make everything work. May they resolve to focus on the task at hand; seek God's face for how to accomplish it and trust that God will be there with strength and grace to see them through to completion. May they not be concerned by the delays; stressed out by circumstances or worried about responses... instead, keeping their eyes on the prize to be found faithful in their service to the kingdom of God.

Our best efforts mean nothing if we first don't resolve to obey.
May the focus be on what God can do through us;
Not on what we can do for Him.
All for His glory
None for our fame.

- PNC

Yesterday was one of the longer days I've had at work in quite some time. Close to 13 hours. Add another 1.5 hrs, I was up before hand, for yesterdays anniversary post. We didn't make church last night, which we were bummed about... had I had an extra 15 minutes, we would have pulled it off.

Yet as I contemplated yesterday afternoon whether we'd make it or not, I got to thinking about the extra time my parents put in while at church, when they were heavily involved in ministry. Meetings before services, meetings after services, events on Saturdays... I got to thinking, "Man...what if I was on the board and we had a meeting after service tonight?" Which I think my Dad had a few off those happen after Wednesday's service. A long day, arriving late enough to church to miss the first 30 minutes of service (essentially) and then take care of church business after?

I know we all work hard, or we've had such commitments before. My friend was sharing over the weekend how busy her week would be, including a couple of work-related events after hours, that she had to be a part of that would take her to 10pm or so. Live gets busy and the days get long. And should the days go long long enough, you begin to feel like life is becoming more of a daze. You become too tired to sleep well, which just makes you want to sleep even more! Lest we not forget all the other factors that come into play into daily life; like managing kids schedules and homework, projects and upkeep around the home, and if there wasn't enough to do there, this same friend often brings work home with her (as many people do) so now you're working on work stuff while not at work.

When does this end??  A question we've all asked ourselves, yet pastors and church leaders dare not ask out-loud. Nor within earshot of anyone who might be in close proximity. Or far, for that matter, should they desire to scream the question at the top of their lungs. Who would understand?

We all would understand, except those in ministry are exempt from problems and frustrations and the voicing of them to others, let alone a close friend... which many don't even have that.

So, pray with me this #deaconThursday for pastors and church leaders struggling to maintain. Pray strength for those exhausted from the responsibilities of ministry and the balancing act of life at home. Pray rest, for those experiencing difficult with sleep, that God would bring a calm to hearts, spirits and minds. May their energy be renewed and their heads lifted. May their eyes see clearly; not glossed or fogged over constant barrage of problems and issues. Pray that God would surround them with people to come alongside and help carry the burden; that would pray with them; that would befriend them and show their support. Pray, today would be the day one more pastor is saved from the brink of burnout.

Strength for the day.
Rest for the weary.
For those whose work, is the work of the Lord.
For His glory and honor, we ask these things.

- PNC

Welcome to Year 2, since the relaunch of Bring Me 70, this day, 12 months ago. This feels so incredible... with a few exceptions, you've been reading a #pray4pastors post daily, before I left for work in the morning... which is saying a lot, since, I'm not normally a morning person. But it's early enough that nobody else is up yet.

And for the past few weeks, I've been getting up even earlier, trying to write these in the morning, rather than late at night, then paying for it with my tiredness factor as I rolled into work.

It really has been the grace of God, how these prayers have come together; how he has given me insights and perspectives throughout the day, as I've changed my routine and spending the day in an attitude of prayer. It's not a matter of spending hours on end in prayer, but an awareness that God could drop something in your heart or bring a situation or person to the forefront of your mind, which you in turn, bring to the forefront of the God's throne.

It's required me to change some habits along the way. When I was writing these at night, after the kids were in bed, you can't write a prayer, at least not a good one, while half-engaged in your favorite television series that you've watched entirely the way through, more than a few times now. (it really is that good!) You can't be prepared for God to drop something in your heart if the radio is turned on to your favorite talk radio station for 11 hrs. (yes, their programming really is that good!) As already stated... I can't focus if I'm being bombarded with kids arguing over toys and the youngest coming up to me every 90 seconds with "Daddy, can I ask you something?" (yes, she really is that polite when interrupting you)

Likewise, developing good decision making skills (or better ones at least) take time. Instilling good habits and "best practices", also takes time. Helping kids do so, takes even more time! But as this past year has proven; it starts with commitment. Which is how the relaunch unfolded. The Spirit of God having a moment of truth with me, that "you can't have a page called 'daily prayers', and then NOT write a prayer every day!"

Today is a great sense of accomplishment for me and I'm humbled that God is using me to draw attention to the need to support our pastors and church leaders in prayer. As this culture and society continues to spin away from God, the same level of prayer support needs to be given to your youth, their parents, and pastors and life leaders who will prepare them for a life of good decisions, good disciplines, good habits. We celebrate the anniversaries of lives changed through salvation. We celebrate the anniversaries of those set free from addictions and weight-loss; of faithful service to a company or our country; to a ministry. So also, some of the smallest life changes can make significant impacts over the long term. Like earning interest on an investment.

But it starts with a commitment to doing something different. And that always goes better when relying on God's help to make the change. Interestingly enough, today marks the first day of another area in our life we are attempting to change, so while you're reading this, I'm speaking to myself. Stick to it and watch the difference unfold. Trust in God to do His part as you faithfully work what you are responsible for. As we prayed yesterday, diligently develop your responsibilities.

Thanks so much, for joining me, as we pray over the second year of Bring Me 70 and this #youthPastorWednesday, that pastors and leaders, as well as us parents, who possess and maintain good and Godly habits and disciplines. Pray that our young people would take notice of our commitment to do the right things and to be aware of our motives and intentions. Pray for a spirit of grace for our failures and "dropped the ball" moments. May kids recognize the hand of God and His favor upon those who seek Him first, whose focus is on what God has in store and desires for their lives rather than self and interests that are self-serving and opportunities that are self-promoting. Pray God would help us to live lives of consistency; not perfection, but always seeking to be about the things of God and how He would and should be glorified in our lives, as we live for His purpose and not our own. Pray great foundations of faith be laid in their hearts and minds that todays kids will grow to be modern day heroes of faith; impacting this world for the cause of Jesus Christ... no matter what the world looks like in the days and years to come.

For His Glory
For the advancement of the Gospel

Thank you, from the depths of my heart.
In all humility...

- PNC

Well, it happened once again. Late last night....something after 9pm. Not knowing what God in store yet, then, thanks to social media, something resonates.

On the page of a popular, well-known pastor and author was a meme with a profound statement:

God has anointed you to accomplish your assignment, but you are responsible for developing your gifts.

Immediately upon reading and recognizing the impact of such words, I thought of the young man who arrived into town over the weekend and will be interning at our church for the next two months or so. Throughout the history of Scripture and humanity, for that matter, anything that was accomplished for the glory of God, as well as what has been achieved, in general, did not simply and instantaneously come into fruition and greatness.

Absolutely, there was an anointing.
There was a calling; a sense of purpose.
And there was a season of preparation.
Of learning; of trial and error.
Of discovery and perfecting the craft.

The anointing does not mean there will not be work.
It doesn't dismiss the idea that the work, will at times, be hard and frustrating.
It does not negate the fact that the work will be inevitable.
It does not ignore the fact, that while there will be a grace that accompanies the anointing, it will not make up for what is half-hearted effort on our part.

For whom much is given, much is required.
And if you are not faithful in small things, who will trust you with great riches?

We get hung up on the riches being money, but a great and content life can be lived without the abundance of green and gold behind a vaulted door. It is one, in which, a calling is being fulfilled. And the accomplishments in the process are great because of the understanding of one's responsibility to grow, learn and develop their talents and abilities.

Mitsubishi had a great car advertisement back in the 90's, for it's 3000GT VR-4 sports car.

"Some are born great.
Some achieve greatness.
Some have greatness thrust upon them.
Once car manages all three."

Such is life. The first may happen without you. The second and third require not only your participation for your strive for excellence in the process. In whatever you do, do it as unto the Lord.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, that pastors and leaders will not neglect nor forgo, their responsibility to develop their gifts and talents. May the work on their craft, with diligence and perseverance. May they not quit and give up in frustration, when situations and challenges arise that they are uncertain how to handle and navigate. May their willingness to serve be strengthened and the desire to be used by God, fortified. Pray for a continued humility as they set out to do what God has called them to; relying on the presence of God and His anointing. May they not hesitate to give God the glory for what they accomplish, knowing full well, they have done their part by the grace and favor of God.

Anointed by God.
Faithful themselves.
For His Glory.

- PNC

Life has many battlefields.

On this Memorial Day 2016, we remember those who have given their life in service to their country. Their sacrifice is incredible and will never be forgot. Nor should it ever be taken for granted.

That said, we all face battles. Of the physical nature. Of the emotional kind. Under financial pressure. On the home-front. With our kids; with our spouse. And on any other Monday, where we don't have the day off due to a national holiday, on the job site or in the office space.

Of course, the conflicts come in all sorts of sizes, over a huge range of topics. It may be against one party. It may involve many.  Some you see looming on the horizon. Others, seemingly out of nowhere. One minute, all is calm... the next, anything but. Voice raised, tensions mounting and forces are suiting up.

Yet for the believer, our battles are not against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers of this dark age. The sooner we realize and remember this truth when the see the tables starting to turn, the sooner we can recognize the importance of self-control and give ourselves a moment to let cooler heads prevail. These brief moments allows us to resolve internally, our determination to work through the conflict not with destructive words and fierce attitudes, but to speak life and peace into the storms that seek to take us out.

Such are the battles that have taken pastors out of the ministry. Conflicts and harsh words; fierce attitudes and people who have left their pastors standing alone at the pulpit... perhaps not physically, but they've withdrawn emotionally and spiritually. Over time, situations and circumstance have diluted and dissolved their way into the church culture whereby laying waste to the structural fabric and foundation of the body of Christ.

And the rebuilding, for whoever takes it on, is greater than Nehemiah repairing the walls of Jerusalem.

Pray, this Memorial Day, aka #seniorPastorMonday, for pastors and the battles they are facing and currently engaged in. Pray, that cooler heads would prevail as they work through conflicts and conversations. Pray that fierce attitudes would cease and that tensions would calm. Pray for an increased ability to speak words of life that encourage and build rather than discourage and break-down. Whether from the pulpit or in the parsonage, pray that the battles they encounter would not take them out of service, but they would come out victorious, by the power of the Holy Spirit, for the glory of God. May such times and their ability to navigate through them, testify to the greatness and the grace of God and that positive impacts for eternity would make their mark along the way. May people ever be grateful and appreciative of their service in ministry for the kingdom of God as we express similar gratitude for those who have served militarily for this great nation.

God Bless His Church.
God Bless The United States of America.
For His Glory and Honor.

- PNC

It occurred to me last night (or perhaps Friday and it took me the whole day to remember the idea a second time) that there's one guaranteed way to become effective and efficient.

Repetition. A habit of repetition. Which normally happens through practice. And what isn't a practice exercise towards greatness, is likely, at the very least, a daily discipline.

Consider, this Memorial Day weekend, those who have served to protect and defend their country and lost their lives in said service. A lifestyle of daily disciplines. A phenomenal amount of practice and training in their area of expertise within the unit of their chosen branch of service.

Repetition until they have gotten it "right".
Repetition until they are at the top of their game.
Repetition until they are the standard of efficiency.
Repetition until they are the model of effectiveness.

Unrivaled competency. Unmatched proficiency.

The idea from Friday, was S.W.A.T. Special Weapons and Tactics. Not just training to do the complex job of law enforcement. Specialized training in highly developed tools that required skilled hands and even more, thoroughly skilled minds. When you discover your daily disciplines aren't quite up to the opposition; you realize there's yet another level... which means, no matter what you know; you're never done learning.

I'm amazed when I talk to my brother... I'm so impressed and proud of what he has accomplished in his career in the private sector... all through the grace of God. And yet the number of times he's told me he has sat in meetings, conferences and training seminars and felt comparatively small, considering the level of knowledge existent within the rest of the room, continues to increase.

Likewise, my pastor. 23+ years as the Senior Pastor of a single church. Youth pastor. Associate Pastor. Taken opportunities to speak at churches and conferences, serves on the board of a global non-profit organization, holds a key leadership position within our district offices; teaches those studying and preparing for ministry... it's incredible how God has used him, not only in leading our church, but in helping train, mentor and build other churches and pastors. And the number of times he has mentioned, sitting in meetings and conferences and feeling so not worthy to be in the presence of great minds, continues to ascend as well.

So whatever your ministry's level of effectiveness and efficiency... taking another look, will surely uncover yet more opportunity to increase your impact within the body of Christ. If you're at the top of your game, the quickest way to lose that status is top practicing; stop your daily routine. Don't. Stay the course. If you're not at the top of your game as a church, ministry or pastor, seek out what's missing and inquire of the Lord where you should put your first focus. For the little I think I know, and the tons I know that I don't; I know there is always a "what's next" moment. No matter our walk and how much farther along it seems the person next to us in the room seems to be; there's a reason God has you where you are. Just be faithful in your efforts to be effective and efficient.

And on this #effectiveSunday, we will join with you pastors in prayer, for God to help strengthen you as you continue to be faithful in your service. May God reveal areas for improvement in your ministry and utilize your strengths to help mentor other ministries who are struggling. Pray for wisdom and guidance; that while the church seeks for ways to make a greater impact; that church itself does not become routine. May all who enter, have a life-changing experience; an encounter with the one true, living God... not because of what man has done, but because God inhabits the praise of His people; and honors His promises. To those who seek Him. To those who love Him. To those who serve faithfully in what He has called and set before them to accomplish.

For eternal impact.
For the advancement of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

If only we put as much energy into our current situation as we do in the prospect and excitement of another opportunity.

I know, sometimes the job is truly miserable and frustrating and even if it was 100% better by changes made on your part, a new one is still better. I know, the relationship is beyond words difficult and I may never understand exactly what you have or are going through... and even if it was 100% better by changes made on your part, it might be time to part ways. I know, you may not be able to stand your current living situation and the prospect of a new place... well it never hurts to look. And even if it was 100% better by changes made on your part, a move may be best.

I'm not making light of any circumstance or situation you face, nor diminishing the frustration I've experienced in my own life. Yet, as conversations transpire over such topics, you can't help but consider the possibility, that perhaps where you are is best for now. It makes sense for right now. It works for right now. And perhaps, the frustration, the dissension, the anxiety and attitude you feel towards what is unfolding before your eyes, really could be an entirely different scenario if you did what was necessary to make it 100% better.

The relationship is hard. The job is frustration. The living arrangement is... whatever. I really do get it.

(Funny, how God just brings to remembrance, right when you need it)

Felt like the Spirit just dropped within me, that all too often we change things up in our lives, without giving regard to the biblical principle from Romans 12, "as much as it depends on you, live at peace with all men"

While figuring out what's going on in the relationship, whether as friends, dating or married, what are you doing to express the love of Christ, that is opening their eyes to possibility that things in their life need to change, rather than you beating them over the head with words?

While trying to navigate the workforce, what attitude displays Christ in your life, rather than what's being done that is causing more stress and work for you than what should be the case?

In whatever circumstance is causing turmoil or disruption in your home life, what are you doing to allow God to bring insight, wisdom and creativity into making changes that will bring peace, stability, hope and joy into the circumstance, rather than thinking a drastic and expensive solution will fix it all?

If we feel in our own lives or give advice to our neighbor that a drastic change is needed right now, we'd better be seeking the face of God and certain he has spoken clearly, specifically to that situation, to move in a different direction. Otherwise, and sorry for the cliche, but often times prayer is more about changing us to become more like Christ, whereby we see life and solutions with a different perspective rather than our own finite insight and desires. Sure; it might mean the change takes a little longer. We may have to work harder and do more than we already are. We may not see immediate results. But allowing God to work in our life and trusting Him to do the work, that if we tried to accomplish on our own would be 1000x more difficult, is a much better solution than our forcing change and finding ourselves in worse circumstances than what we wanted to desperately escape.

I'm running out of room to go into detail, but I've witnessed first hand... when circumstances changed, however they did, the person(s) who did "what depended on them" came out better, healthier and happier as a result. Those who didn't, even though their circumstances are now different as well, are still frustrated...

...because all change in life, starts with the person in the mirror, not the person next to us.

Pray, (after reading this longer post :-), this #communitySaturday, that no matter our circumstances and the frustration that ensues, that our attitudes would reflect Christ. May our responses, however tempted we are to place our rights and opinions first, be ones that reflect the love of God. May there be a desire to inquire of God, His plans and desires for our lives, family and friends before we state our own. Pray God be glorified as we live according to His Word and not our own desires of the flesh. May our words be positive and constructive towards others, rather than negative and hateful; despite what past experiences may have transpired. May the world see a genuine faith; that our trust in God is as real as the struggles of life that come to us all... yet for those who hope in the Lord; these struggles will pass. And we won't be remembered for what happened in life, but how we responded to how life happened.

For the glory of God
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Our devotional during Wednesday nights' prayer service this week was on the missionary heart of Paul. It was a great teaching on his life, especially when you consider the detail with which he describes his suffering and what he endured for the cause of Jesus Christ... and more importantly how he handled it. Like worship while in prison.

However; pastor got my attention when he stated the following:

"I wonder how many pastors miss out, when they walk out just too soon."

Such is the purpose and meaning of endurance. Whether or not you can see the finish line or the next goal marker doesn't really matter, for life is a serious of corners and bends, ups and downs and you never know just how close you truly are until you are there. Take for instance my own church... pastor took this on in 1992, after a number of pastors had tried to revitalize and had been unable to see it through. Yet here we stand. A testament to the grace of God, first and foremost, but right behind that... a testament to the perseverance of a pastor determined to desire God's will regardless of what circumstances look like.

It hasn't been easy. It won't be in the future. But it will be worth it. Like investing for retirement. You can't see it. It's a sacrifice for the present. But what will you miss in the future by not doing today?

Such as it is with mission. One may never see the return of what they have invested into the lives and souls of those around them until we reach eternity; but that should not be a deterrent to pressing forward, pushing in and trust God to bring us through the difficult places and the challenging times that seem to last longer than we would like... which even though, may almost be over we endured just a little longer.

I loved how pastor closed out Wednesday's service.

"There's the horse, that takes off and races ahead. Then there's the mule, the stubborn animal that digs in his heels. When it comes to the will of God, I don't want to be either."

What a great prayer to pray, this #missionsFriday, that missionaries (and pastors for that matter) would have a heart of endurance. Pray that as they seek the face of God and His will for their lives and ministry, they would neither take off ahead nor dig in in hesitation. May they walk with God in confidence of the calling He has placed within them; able to discern the leading and the prompting of the Holy Spirit. Pray they would share the heart of Paul; able to worship in the least like places, unshakable joy; unending commitment; unstoppable perseverance. May God place in their lives the right people to come along aside and may God work the miraculous as they remain faithful to the cause of Jesus Christ and the advancement of the kingdom of God... in all things; no matter how difficult the trials and  fires may wage against them. Pray victory for their lives, even this hour.

Patiently waiting;
Faithfully enduring;
Until we hear freedom...
When God says "GO!"

In the name of the Lord
For the glory of God.

- PNC

My kids of late, have been repeatedly watching Daddy Day Care, starring Eddie Murphy. An hilarious comedy, one my favorite scenes is when they invite Marvin to join the team. What convinces him isn't the opportunity to impact kids, though he does very well with children. Dr. Spocks' book isn't about Star Trek, he admits. (Go figure.) It's the love-at-first sight introduction to Dillan's single mom, Kelly. But in the preceding moments, Charlie (the dad with the day care idea) preemptively tells the visiting social worker, who is helping them go through the approval process, that they have already Marvin. Of course, why tell them that? In a knee-jerk response to the social workers observation that they have taken on even more new kids since his last visit... so they must have gotten some more help (as required by law).

Ratios.

I'm not sure why I was thinking about this movie, but as it usually happens, something within wondered if a same rule of them applies to ministry. It should. Of late, one of the mantras of my own church, especially in the last year as our "LIFEGroups" ministry was revamped, is that "as the church grows larger, we must get smaller". Essentially, it's the idea that if you don't carefully plan community and structure ministry in a way that is not only effective and efficient, but that allows anyone to come into a smaller setting and immediately begin making connections with the body of Christ, you will increase the likelihood of success in growing a healthy and mature church.

So, the importance of making sure people don't get lost, spiritually or physically for that matter, when they enter a church is crucial. This is why pastors and leaders burnout. This is why Moses was given the advice of his father-in-law (and heeded those words) of assigning others handle the day-to-day issues and disputes of the people. Leadership has it's place and those at the time have a huge responsibility. But like anything else, effective management of the big picture requires and relies on the effective management of the detail and minutia.

Consider, Nehemiah, rebuilding the wall of Jerusalem. He couldn't do the work himself. But because everyone focused on the portion of the wall that was right in front of them (their piece that was manageable; that they could and were held responsible for, and the wall was restored in record time. When nobody thought it could be rebuilt. When their aren't enough pastors; when their aren't enough teachers, volunteers, ushers, helpers, staff... granted there may be a point where it's possible to have too many and you lose effectiveness or efficiency at the other end of the pendulum swing, but I venture the number of churches in that classification is few; but more kids require more adults. More employees require more managers. And corresponding, for the church that wants to experience a healthy, vibrant congregation growing in their maturity of faith, they will need more leaders... in whatever role is best suited to the ministry.

Pray, this #deaconThursday, for churches struggling to do the work of the ministry because their aren't enough "hands-on-deck". Whether there be a gap in pastoral positions(s) or a deacon board with only one member, or the church office be understaffed; teachers for Sunday School; volunteers for VBS...whatever the need be, may God place on peoples' hearts the desire to be more involved. For those already well-engaged in multiple ministries, may they be strengthened and renewed as the serve. Pray the blessing and favor of God upon their lives for their service. And for situations needing fresh vision and a new approach, may their be a spirit of creativity and excitement as they seek the face of God for the direction they should take.

- PNC

Parenting is hard work.
Anyone who says otherwise, I venture, hasn't been a parent.
Likewise, pastoring is hard work.
Anyone who says otherwise, hasn't been a pastor.  

It makes me think filling both roles is a recipe for exhaustion. Especially, if your ministry is kids and teens.

I'm reminded of the comedy bit from Jeff Foxworthy...

"...by the time we get to church, I need church. I've done yelled at everybody in the car."

There's a reason pastors are burning out...1500, 1700 a month now. And missionaries, following suit. Not at such a staggering rate; but a pretty good clip nonetheless.

The frustration of constantly trying to get their attention, to follow instruction, to listen to advise, to live Godly lives, to show compassion, to obey...

Are we talking about children or the congregation?

My heart truly goes out to pastors struggling with difficult congregations. And to parents, facing incredible uphill
battles with their kids. Then I remember my own... which pales in comparison to a number of friends of mine, not to mention plenty of others I don't know.

I can't fathom pastors facing both simultaneously. Yet so many do.

Not having a friend to talk to about family issue. About ministry problems. About marital battles.
Not having finances to provide for the home... or advance the ministry.
Not having the tools, resources and people to help accomplish tasks.
Not having the time to get away, relax and regroup.
Not having... time of any kind. Preparation. Study. Prayer. Fun. Faith.
Improving skills as a parent. Becoming a better pastor. When does that happen again?

I haven't even scratched the surface, which begins with the barrage of people who think churches just want your money and pastors have taken on the responsibilities for the same reasons.

So, pray, this #youthPastorWednesday, for pastors facing a double whammy of difficulty; in both the church and the home. Pray for wisdom and direction, in how to best handle the situations they face. May there be discernment for the battles at church; grace for the battles at home. Pray for the strength and stamina to endure; that God would comfort them in the midst of their frustration, whether it be with the church or the family. Pray God would open the doors into their lives to help relieve the burden... friends, provision, resources, rest and reprieve and time...to take care of what's important; to draw closer to Christ; to become all that He has in store for them to become.

For the glory of God
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I think we've all been here. You find yourself in situations and circumstances; places of decision or at least, decisions on the horizon... you are trying to figure things out and you look at time, resources and finances all while thinking, this should work.

On paper, we should be okay. It looks like it will be okay. It will be challenging, but seriously, this should work. Upon execution though... this doesn't seem to be working. What's missing? What's is going on or happening that is wrong, that is causing this to feel like it is not quite working... as it seems on paper, it should.

It's not always a matter of contentment either, as in we need more for the mere sake of we don't have enough.  Life does get to a place where "almost" doesn't quite cover all the bases and what you have has reached the end of its ability to stretch... or so it seems.

The planning; the strategizing, the conversation... for all the details and you find yourself scratching your head thinking... "I don't know what to do."

It happens across the board when it comes to life. For long term decisions. For short term planning. And I understand, sometimes you just have to step out and see what works and what doesn't and if it requires you to come back to the table and re-evaluate, then that's what you have to do. The list of things for which people had to go back to the drawing board, because of the gap between the plan on paper and the implementation of the plan with tools and resources in hand would require it's own library to house the volume of books.

Consider the great Thomas Edison... who thanks to the internet, who knows what the actual number is in this quote...

"We now know 1,000 ways NOT to make a light bulb." Along the way to finding the solution, he and team found plenty of ideas and plans and implementation of plans that ended up being the exact opposite of a working solution. (I know... how much of a solution can it be, if it doesn't work?) Well, used an an example of what NOT to do, the solutions that didn't work, did bring clarity and direction to the project, as ultimately, they figured it out.

I pondered these thoughts yesterday, as I considered the decisions of pastors... short-term game; long-term plans. The frustration of "why isn't this working quite right" gets intense after a period of time (and not a long one at that) And if it's bothersome in everyday life, on personal matters as well as in business; how much more on plans that impact eternity?

Pray with me, this #associatePastorTuesday, for pastors facing challenging decisions; for circumstances where the plan and it's implementation are not coming together as it seems they should. For those that can't figure out what is amiss; for what things may need to be changed; if there is a lack of resources, skills or funding... may God grant to them wisdom and insight as to how they should proceed. Regardless of the severity of the matter, may their be a peace and patience as they walk through the process. May their be a calming of the hearts and minds as conversations take place and the work ensues; that God holds everything in His hand and that He is and will provide for all they have need of. May they remain steadfast in placing their trust in Him; in seeking His face; confident in the provision from the hand of Almighty, Father God.

Enough... for He is all we need.
For His glory and honor, we pray.

- PNC

A little over four years ago, my pastor and his wife adopted their first child; a baby boy. Since  then, they adopted a little girl as well, who has yet to turn two. Their testimony of how the opportunity unfolded is absolutely incredible, especially after years of trying to have kids on their own. It really is an amazing showing of God's grace and mercy and divine intervention of bringing this family together.

That said, their son, is awesome. Both kids are, in fact. To describe him as a high-energy kid would qualify as an understatement of the most serious kind. He is a 100-mph kid.  Their are two modes: chill and race. And you can tell when it's race mode and there's about to be transition. As I walked in yesterday after service, he sat next to my friend, who was serving in nursery with his wife. The kid is covered in sweat. As though he has spent the entire day behind the wheel on the track. We all watch in amazement... wishing we had that energy and stamina. Then we go home, praying for Pastor as they try to keep up, jokingly expressing our gratitude that God is keeping them young.

Yet for the Pastor who tries to keep up this pace in his or her life and ministry; well, it's really not sustainable. Eventually it all catches up to you. Burnout. Frustration. Errors. And who knows when and where it will manifest and what will be affected as a result. Wrong counsel in a meeting. Wrong point in a sermon. A wrong decision. The possibilities are endless; but none of us our immune... at a certain point, rushing leaves you vulnerable to making mistakes; which depending on what's a risk, could turn out to be a costly maneuver. To this, I think we can all agree, the church has experienced way too many such circumstances.

So, pray this #seniorPastorMonday, for those pastors struggling to maintain. Whether they've tried to keep a fast pace and are on the verge of burnout; or perhaps, they've been in 'chill' mode long enough and having a hard time getting motivated to pick up the pace for what God desires to accomplish. Pray for God to help them to move with Him; not lagging behind as to create distance between them, neither racing ahead that they miss instruction that would keep them from disaster. Pray for the stamina and energy necessary to carry out ministry and the plans God has for them; that God would raise up the body of Christ to come along side and engage in supportive ways and volunteer opportunities. Pray that mistakes in ministry and life would be few; that they would seek the face of God in all things; in all decisions; relying not on their own understanding, but trusting in the Lord and knowing what His will is, for the circumstances in which they find themselves. May those tired and exhausted, find rest; renewed by the power of the Holy Spirit and that God would help them find balance, as they re-engage in life, in ministry, in community.

Godspeed... for His glory.
By His grace.
Through the Holy Spirit.
For the cause of Christ.

- PNC

So, I yesterday morning, I experienced a pretty incredible miracle. Before anyone worries, it's not health related... just the amazing hand of protection by Almighty God. That said, it's one of those situations where you know something is wrong, but you don't think it's quite "that bad" until after and someone "in the know" looks into the matter and says, "Here's what's going on."

When you're reply is "Seriously? How in the world? I knew something was up, but not like that", you know that disaster has been averted. And it wasn't anything I did to avert it. As I began thinking about how to rectify the matter in the next few days, I considered the effectiveness of the church. Truly, at times, there is a grace over church leadership and operations. Perhaps everything isn't perfect; running like a well-oiled machine, but you're getting things done and getting were you need to go... even if it is running on borrowed time offered by the hand of God that includes a couple doses of grace.

And of course, in those moments, you know... you recognize as I did, something is amiss and not knowing eventually becomes more of a hassle than knowing and so you have to have a reality check and figure out where the problem exists. Sure, it may result in a worst-case scenario problem, but at least now you are "in the know" rather than in the dark and you can create a game-plan to moves you toward resolution(s)

It may take an outside observer to speak up, about the potential seriousness of the issue. It may take the Spirit of God, prompting you to search out someone who can help. Eventually, the not knowing will drive you more crazy that knowing. And that may not be true once you do know what's going on, but again, a fully-informed perspective is a more powerful place from which to act and negotiate than the position marked by a huge question mark.

Thus... pray, this #effectiveSunday, that whatever is going on in church, that is keeping the body of Christ from being effective and efficient, they would start with the area(s) that seem amiss. Pray they take the time to look into the matter; even if it requires a set of experienced eyes. May they be ready to have to act on the information that comes to light, if there is any intention of making the situation better or re-evaluating if anything should be done differently altogether. May the grace and protection of God be with them, even after they discover just how far they had traveled on borrowed time. Pray God's strength and protection in circumstances, the seriousness of which is not yet revealed. For as He cares for the birds of the air, how much more does He care for those He created in His image.

Situations will get better...
Operating as they should.
The grace and protection of God.
For His glory.

- PNC

How quickly time passes. The day comes and goes. Another begins. The next one ends. And before you know, you're being asked... did this get done? Did you make that phone call? Where are you on this project? Or my favorite... "Where are you @?" (as it appears on my phone, when the text notification sounds off)

Meanwhile, people are experiencing incredible moments as "everyday" life progresses.

A friend from church had a family member pass, whose funeral was this week. The funeral for my friend, Stephanie, who we prayed for twice on this site, was this past Wednesday. Then two more funerals, held for members of our church; one of which was yesterday, the other, later this morning.

And in the midst of it, mid-Friday afternoon, I realized regarding this prayer post... "I haven't given it much thought".  This is how life goes. Absent major events and reminders along the way, we miss how precious and fragile life can be and just how short our time on earth is given how quickly it moves. Like how quickly the sun rises. Just a matter of minutes and the drama of atmospheric screen changes so quickly. Once all the cool color fades, it seems so less impressive for me.

And if you don't think time passes fast, an old friend called last night. He said, exactly what I often say... "I keep meaning to call you and finally thought, I just need to do it." It took a minute to figure out when we had seen each other last... came to the conclusion, it was their daughter's birthday party... from 3 years ago!!  Which got me thinking... the list of people we keep saying we need to get together with and hang out more often and old friends that we don't get to see that often anymore is getting longer; with each passing week. The conspiring of schedules, between family and work, church and other activities or commitments and the next thing you know, somebody's kid turned 14 and another just graduated high school. How did this happen?

We all got caught up in our life. And quickly, yet, not conscientiously, put everyone else' life on the back burner as we focused on what we had going on, where were going (for the day or for life) and what we were trying to accomplish. And in the process, we've missed out. On great triumphs. On great tragedy. And it's always the tragedy that triggers the reminder that people are more important than the job, the cars and the stuff money can buy and how we wish we had more of both. Not to mention, better cars and better jobs.

Pray, on this #communitySaturday, that the church would indeed, as remain we focused on the person of Jesus Christ, remember that Jesus cared and cares most about people. Where they are at. What they have need of. It's not their position in life. It's not their stuff. It's not their job title nor their Facebook status. May we be concerned with matters of the heart, whether they be experiencing times of rejoicing triumph or mourning tragic loss. May we not be so distracted by the concerns and affairs of our own lives and families that we, unknowingly, disconnect form those around us. In all things, may the church of Jesus Christ be about pointing others to Christ, whether as an introduction to Him or encouraging a greater depth of relationship with Him. Pray God would accomplish the miraculous in all circumstances as we seek to be used by Him, for His glory.

His ways, not ours.
His thoughts, not ours.
His plans, not ours.
It's not about me... and we're probably all the better for it.
By the grace of God
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC