Deconstruction

I mentioned the other day, that walls are great for protection and defense, but somewhat difficult to utilize when it comes to communication. Depending on the nature of the relationship, we may desire more communication or we may wish for even less than what already exists. Of course, any number of experiences and the actions and responses of any and all parties involved can lead to the building of the walls.

Yet, if we are going to live, act and communicate in a spirit of love, both in the relationships closest to us and the relationships that have yet to be formed, then we must start with ourselves and commit to showing and expressing love. This is a daunting and difficult task, even for the strongest and closest of relationships; because if things are already a struggle, one can't help but wonder if it's worth the work for an unknown outcome.

Friends aren't immune. Family is not immune. Marriage, certainly isn't. Ministry, not on your life.

Keep in mind, I understand boundaries. Not every relationship is for bearing the deepest parts of our soul. I'm for healthy boundaries, knowing full well, not everyone will be BFF's with each other for life.

However, co-workers can push our buttons. Spouses can drive us crazy. Kids can make our hair change color and occasionally, even the countenance of our face. Relationships are hard work. One with God can often be the hardest of them all.

But as people of faith, reflecting daily the power and presence of God in our lives, we do and should be taking intentional steps to communicate well, the love and grace of Jesus Christ... perhaps not specifically through evangelistic language, but certainly with our everyday words of conversation and activities of normal life.

I don't say this as having perfected this process, just an acknowledgement that if I could do better as a person struggling from the pew, there's no doubt those behind the pulpit are struggling as well.

So, pray this #youthPastorWednesday, for pastors that are struggling in their communication. Whether it be at home or at church, pray for the work that God is doing in their hearts and minds to greater reflect Christ. especially for those in ministry to kids and youth. May God give them wisdom and strength, for the relationships that are at a critical and delicate stage. Though relationships are difficult and those closest are sometimes the hardest, pray for a covering of grace; that God would move on the hearts and minds of those who will be on the receiving end of the efforts to communicate and reflect Christ.

Though walls serve a purpose,
May they not become strongholds
Whereby God's love and truth
Are unable to transform lives.
May we do our part well,
For the glory of God.

- PNC