I thoroughly enjoy and appreciate people who operate at the top of their game. Whatever they find to do, they do so with passion, discipline and follow-through. To watch them operate, "in the zone" is truly amazing.

I felt the spirit drop this thought yesterday afternoon, as I went about my day focused on my job, but I have one that allows for quite a bit of thought and reflection throughout the day. As I confessed to not having given much thought for what God would have for this prayer, I realized I had been too "in the zone". Immediately, I felt the reply... you were in the zone, like your kids get in the zone when they play, and forget to take care of the things you have asked them to do or accomplish while you are work. The fun "gets in the way" of the work and work "gets in the way" of the eternal.

It's a great thing to be a to be skilled in whatever your hands find to accomplish. To do great things. To produce. To create. To solve. Those who master their craft are generally well-compensated and well-rewarded for their efforts. We applaud hard work. We are attracted to those who are well-disciplined and focus. We admire those  who accomplish the impossible with seeming ease. We're usually not aware of what is going  behind  the scenes, but we know it would put many of us to shame, by comparison.

So, like much of life, it comes to priorities. What does one know. What does one do. But more importantly than that, who does one Know and what do they do for Him?

We all desire to do well and achieve great things; to be well-known, respected and revered. Yet, as been stated in many movies, the most important thing to a parent, are the kids. If we mess up on raising them, then nothing else really matters. Likewise, if we do great things here on earth, but not of it lasts for eternity; then you've only achieved temporary greatness. And there an incredible amount of hard work being performed for what will one day fade away.

So, pray with me, this #youthPastorWednesday, that pastors and parents alike, would model a life focused on eternal works. May they know hard-work and good discipline, in light of God's purpose and plan for their lives. Pray that kids would see the hand of God upon our lives, as we seek the face of God and prioritize our lives around what He would have for us to accomplish with the skills, talents, abilities and resources that He has distributed among His creation. May those who know God to great exploits for the Kingdom of Heaven. In whatever our hands find to do, may we work as unto the Lord. May we exemplify what it means to live "in the zone" in our walk with God and exercise our faith as our lives unfold one day at a time.

Masters of the craft of faith,
Operating "in the zone".
For the glory of God
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

My day yesterday wasn't a typically day, so I didn't go through my usual process of prayer and reflection as time passed on. What's more, I didn't get off until later in the day, which occasionally happens. The downside to this, is finding someone to watch the kids, for those time when my wife has to leave for work before I return.

These are times, I'm glad I'm able to rely on my parents. Nearby, they, like if not all grandparents, love spending time with the grand-kids. And I am incredibly grateful they are able to help cover the gaps in our schedule.

Life gets busy for all of us and we all need help (some of us more than others, I'll admit... perhaps even to needing to be at or near the front of that line). Be that as it may, there are great dividends to be gained by having people in your life and on your team who have your back, whether working alongside or ready to step in and help when their number is called.

Much like Associate Pastors. We all know they play incredible roles, have important responsibilities and tons of things to do elsewhere, but for the team of pastors who can be relied on to step up to the plate when their number is called... they are worth their weight in gold, especially when their positive response is one of willingness and sacrificial in nature. Their ability to step in and cover the gaps, when needed, are greatly appreciated.

The balance; however, comes when such people and circumstances are taken for granted and not given the appreciation they deserve. It's a careful line to walk, even when the conversation never goes in the direction that would lead to severed ties and crossed boundaries. But the potential is there and thus, worthy of our prayer.

So, pray with me this #associatePastorTuesday, for this balancing act within life and ministry. For those Associates who are being taken for granted, pray God would strengthen their spirits and give them wisdom. If conversations need to happen to bring about change, may they be seasoned with grace, love and understanding. May the tensions subside, the bitterness and resentment flee as trust and boundaries are re-established.... or perhaps established for the first time. Meanwhile, pray for church leaders struggling, where perhaps associates are frustrated and or unwilling to cover the gaps. They may not be being taken advantage of, but difficulties are beginning to arise from whatever prevents them from stepping up to the plate. Pray pastoral teams and leaders would find this balance where it's out of control; find ways to strengthen it if they do have it and find ways to implement it if they don't.

For as goes church leadership,
So goes the church fellowship.
For the glory of God
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

My apologies that yesterday's #effectiveSunday prayer got posted later in the day. The schedule of getting ready for church and things to get done before church got hijacked. As such,  it also meant that as I listened to the sermon, the back of my mind was trying not to lose the focus of the prayer that you should have been able to read by that time. Fortunately, in a powerful sermon on marriage, Pastor said something towards the end, that when He said it, I knew it would be the focus of today's prayer. Now, I just needed God's help in not crossing both prayers!

As we pray for Senior Pastors on Monday's, mine stated a change in schedule that they've had in their home, since they've adopted two, newborn babies (one at a time) in the past 4 yrs. In fact, it sounded like it's transpired after they adopted the second one, but the impact remains.

He shared how on Monday mornings, how he'd "race in" to church. Getting in first thing, if you will and get to work. However, he was able to recognize a shift, now in his marriage and the appearance of kids and balance in the home. He and his wife (who is also on staff) have always prayed together daily, but they now take an hour, specifically, on Monday morning, to pray over their home, marriage and the church. Interestingly enough, he went on to say the impact that has made; in the increased growth and overall health of the church as they have made this dedicated time on Monday mornings to come together in prayerful agreement.

Of course, my first thought was... how many pastors aren't doing this? And struggling, as a result. Perhaps the marriage is strong, but not strong enough. Perhaps it's in trouble and they just can't seem to come into agreement, either in prayer or on any other matter. Are they struggling to build a healthy church because they are having a hard time maintaining a healthy marriage? Is it noticeable to the congregation and thus, making a negative impact that hasn't been revealed in this light?

The spiritual health of the pastors' marriage speaks volumes to the spiritual health that can and should exist within the body of Christ. Else, where is the model that the church will look? I'm not saying my pastors' marriage, or any other pastor or my own for that matter is perfect. They aren't, nor is mine. But who seeks counsel in an area of life from a person who is also struggling in that area? I wouldn't go to someone who is in worse financial position than I and ask, how do I get in a better financial state?

We need strong pastors to have healthy homes, if for no other reason, they bring a balance and stability to the church that enables them to build and influence healthy homes and marriages within the community. Healthier communities, contribute to a healthier nation... which we all agree we need right now; in many areas and aspects of life. But if the spirit isn't healthy, how will the body fare? For out of the heart, the mouth speaks.

(funny... as I pause for a moment, to think about how to start writing the prayer, I look at my phone. On the Bible widget, is today's verse: Ps. 139:23,24
- Search me, O God, and know my heart; try me and know my thoughts. And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting)

On that note, pray this #seniorPastorMonday, that God would indeed search our lives and that of our pastors. May the wickedness within be found and removed. May God lead pastors in the way everlasting, bringing insight into their own hearts and lives; whereby their faith continues to grow and mature. Pray their homes and marriages be strengthened; that they would be a testament to the greatness and faithfulness of God... a light to the body of Christ and the community-at-large of what a Godly home in faithful service to the Gospel should model. May the prayer time of pastors coming together with their spouse be fruitful; may their prayers and petitions be heard by God; that He would hear and respond... with insight, with revelation, with truth and wisdom, discernment and power. Pray the miraculous to be witnessed, in their home and in their church; that many lives within the community would see and know the handiwork of God; of His goodness and greatness... of what can happen when two people come together and stand in agreement on the Word of God through the avenue of prayer.

May today be a day of change.
Positive impact as the power of God is unleashed through prayer.
For His Glory and Honor, we pray these things.

- PNC

Still in reflection for a portion of day after being hit Friday morning from a young man who missed his red light, I read a post on social media by a man who wrote of how incredible of a woman he had had married. His wife had also recently been in a car accident; rear-ended by an older lady. Of course, her first reaction could have been  like the one her husband wanted to give, anger and upset. Something I similarly could have done Friday morning. But it wouldn't help.

Instead, the man's wife responded with compassion. The older lady was a cancer patient, struggling with the treatment process. Lots of other live events going on in as well, which never helps the stress of serious health issues, the lady was simply overwhelmed. The wife took the time to care, listen and share... ultimately, the kindness of a stranger and the love of God. When the police arrived on the scene the two ladies were in tears and laughter, carrying on as if they had been friends for much longer than the few moments that had passed while they awaited. After the formalities of the accident were complete, the ladies exchanged hugs. Law enforcement officers stood in amazement.

As the husband writes and cops relayed their experience, so many times these situations have the potential to spiral out of control, with emotions and intensity and police, like most circumstances have little idea what they are about to walk into when conflict arises among the citizenry.

But it was a moment for God to be glorified... all because one woman put thought to how her response would help resolve the matter rather than escalate it.

This was what I intended to write about before church this morning, and if you don't think God doesn't have a sense of humor, this morning's message was on having the B.E.S.T marriage. 

Blessing
Edifying
Sharing
Touch.

Principles that can be extended to any human interaction, when you think about it. Bless and encourage. Share life and show affection and care one for another. How much more effective would the church be in putting into greater practice, such a perspective.

Thanks, for joining with me, that this #effectiveSunday would be a day to increase our capacity to put greater thought into our first response. May we consider others before ourselves, as Christ did for us, when He was sent by the Father. Pray anger and frustration and confusion would not gain a foothold, nor the corresponding stronghold in our lives, but that our mind would be like that of Christ and His love in our hearts would flow from our tongues. In our relationships, marriages, families, friends and coworkers, may the church seek in greater degree, to be a blessing and not a curse, to encourage rather than destroy; to share rather than isolate, to care rather than battle.

To be an example of Christ
That many may come to Christ.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

Life really is about perspective. And timing. And the sovereignty of Almighty God.

Situations happen, that we don't understand, then we think about the ways it would be different. Of course, the default position is to figure out how or why the situation could have been avoided at all. But when you deal with the reality of what is going on or what has just transpired, you being to consider the ways it could have been so much worse.

Case in point: the young man, in his late teens, that ran a red light yesterday morning while I was driving a commercial work truck. Everyone is okay and thankfully, it just messed up the bumper on the truck, so after an hour at the scene and thanks to a body shop around the corner that simply hooked up a chain to the bumper and his truck to pull the bumper away from the tire and I was back on the road. However, the same can't be said for the kids poor, 2-year old Focus. Suffice to say, please drive carefully, especially in construction zones!

That said, as I went about the day, I considered how this accident will mess up the families schedule. The logistics, of what sounds do be at least 4 drivers in the house and the juggling act of work schedules and who knows what else and now the task of finding and securing rides because one car is down. However, the difference of a another second or two and 3-5 more feet and the impact would have been the center of his car or the tank of diesel under my door, which was still 3/4 full. Talk about situations being so much worse!!

I quickly became incredibly grateful to be alive, as if nothing had happened. I became all the more grateful to have accepted Christ when I was a kid. Yesterday morning could have too late. There's a reason in Scripture, that there is a call to respond, upon hearing the Word of the Lord. Today is the day of salvation.

Life is precious. Life is short. Life is not guaranteed for the next 5 seconds, let alone the next 5 years.

Plan as though you will have a full and long life of serving God and fulfilling the purpose and plan He has for you while on this Earth. Be prepared for a short life, understanding your last breath could be at the next intersection.

As the church engages community, I never want to pressure someone into salvation. However, there is a reason Jesus doesn't knock on the door of people's hearts just once, then leaves them alone. God knows where each life begins and ends and it is with that knowledge that there is a constant prompting of the Spirit as events unfold in our lives, in repeated attempts to gain our attention. Today is the day of salvation.

Jesus said in John 11, I am the resurrection and the life; he that believes in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live. And whosoever lives and believes in me shall never die. Do you believe this?

Pray with me this #communitySaturday, for those yet to accept Christ as Lord and Savior, that upon hearing the Word of God, would realize that time is of the essence. May they know that God is not willing that any should perish. God is patient with us, but our life, unlike God operates on time; thus our lives are not prolonged indefinitely until one comes to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ. Pray the Holy Spirit would continue to prompt those needing God to accomplish the miraculous in their lives. May the sovereign hand of God work in lives and situations, whereby He would be glorified and that during such times, many would recognize the grace of God and the love He has for each and every one of us. Pray for a peace that passes all understanding to come upon those that are distraught by life's circumstances and that God would grant wisdom and direction, as He reveals to them, the plan, purpose and destiny for which they were created.

For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord.... for a hope and a future.
And He works all things together for good, for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.

- PNC

Over the past year or so, some friends of mine have stepped out of youth ministry and have begun preparing for the mission field. There's so much that comes to mind when you think about one taking such steps.

Naturally, the spirit of the word mission, conjures up images of risk and danger, of high stakes and perhaps high reward. You think of unfamiliar terrain and surroundings; environments, that were it not for this assignment, you might not find yourself in otherwise. You think of sacrifice and what it might cost. Who you might lose along the way. Excited about what you'll be apart; yet aware of what you'll be missing.

These friends have recently started writing a series of notes, titled "Dear Pastor" and posting them to social media. The one they just posted a few days ago highlights the aforementioned images. It was an honest look at the emotions of missionaries. Six short statements of what scares missionaries, that pastors themselves often don't know.

- learning new language
- for their kids and how the change will affect them
- not fitting in
- creating a mess with the church organization
- leaving family and tragedy occurs in their absence
- selling possessions and relying on support

Sounds exactly like what anyone would feel would handed a "mission". The thought process; the emotions, the mental tenacity, the will to proceed. Sure it's exciting. It's also incredibly daunting. And it's times like these that loneliness and fear can set it, simply because not many people can relate. The struggle is real and the what if scenarios do play out.

Fall-outs with the organized church body happen. Financial support dwindles. Kids respond negatively and perhaps for a long-time. Tragedy strikes in their absence and they are unable to return to deal with the matter.

These are times, when just like pastors, missionaries need incredibly strong friendships. To stand by them. To pray with them. To talk with them and more importantly, listen to their stories and fears.

Accepting a mission by God is not for the faint of heart.

Pray, this #missionsFriday, that God would gird up missionaries, whether they've been on the field 20 years or 20 hrs. May the be strengthened and encouraged by the power of His might. May they stand on the promises of God  that yes and amen to them that believe. Pray for rejuvenation and refreshing of their spirits as they continue to work for the advancement of the Gospel of Christ. May faith rise in response to fear and their trust in God would be fortified. Pray for safety for their families; protection for the hearts and minds of their children, wisdom in decisions; provision of finances. Pray for a surrounding of friends, to come along side in whatever ways they can, that missionaries can keep the faith, continue the good work God has begun in them, in order that they may not burn out, but finish strong.

Focus and faithful.
Casting all cares to God
Unhindered in their mission.
For the glory of God
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

There's one friendship in particular, that over the past couple weeks has seemingly strengthened in my life. As I mentioned the other day, God has truly blessed me to be around many incredible people and make some great friends. But one, especially developed.

Over the past couple of weeks, we've started touching base more throughout the day, as we go about our day. We spend a few moments in conversation more often when we see each other in church. Funny enough, as we've both mentioned it a couple of times over the past few months, we each feel we get more from the friendship than we put in into it.

Sadly, many pastors don't have this experience. 60-70% of pastors say they don't have close friendships. And the number is close to the same ballpark for pastors wives. And this is data and research that is 10 yrs old!

We all go through life and trials and places of difficulty. Even in moments of stability, where nothing is really a pressing matter, there can still be a lingering sense of uneasiness in one's spirit. Decisions that need to be made soon, decisions that eventually need to be made in the near future, plans and arrangements of life; attitudes and behaviors that need improvement. Plus, there's things to get done and more things to try to figure when to get to them, so they can get done! We are never caught up and life keeps moving forward.

I can't imagine not having a close friend to confide in...

... man, our marriage; for whatever reason, it's getting edgy.
... these kids; farmers have an easier time with cattle.
... work, boy; if only making sense made money.

And the list goes on. Health issues that cause fear. Decisions that cause anxiety. Relationships in turmoil. Households and their living spaces in ruins (or seemingly so). Then for a pastor to be in these positions, have no outlet for their personal lives, yet live up to the expectation of delivering a timely word that will help the congregation draw near to God during these situations that are equally present in the lives of the congregation; yet they themselves can't get any traction if their lives depended up on it.

I'm grateful for my friends, especially this one with whom has quickly become a best friend.
My heart breaks for pastors and their wives lacking in friendships, with perhaps not even one "best friend."

Pray, this #deaconThursday, that in the midst of all the decisions that pastors and church leaders face as staff, teams, committees and the like come together; that their would be a spirit of unity and a spirit of comradeship. Pray that pastors would develop circles of friendship, be it with their deacon boards and outside of church leadership. May healthy friendships be established and bonds strengthened. Pray for a coming together of community within the church; that while everyone probably won't be a "best friend", pray that there would be a rising up in our churches, to support and befriend pastors; to build them up, to help them up, to lift them up and to encourage them. May they know that the battles they face are just like the rest of ours; disconcerting, frustrating and tense; yet we all rely on God to bring us through and we all rely on good people to help us keep our sanity in the process.

Together we stand.
Together we fall.
Together we help each other back up.
As friends. As community. As the body of Christ.
We have need of each other and of God.
To get through each day... one day at a time.

- PNC

I really don't plan out these prayers days in advance; I'm with you, each day, anticipating what will come next; as these take place and unfold, as an organic process of thought if you will, with whatever God lays on my heart.

That said, once again as it often happens, I was reflecting on yesterdays prayer (as I pray for these topics and perspectives throughout the day after having written them) and began to think about mental distractions in my younger years. The period of college that I mentioned, is still difficult to remember; simply, if for no other reason than it's what one of those situations where you look at it and think, "I knew better! What in the world was I doing?"

Then God brought to my remembrance a sermon series from the church we attended in the early years of our marriage. In a series titled Holes, the pastor laid out how the enemy of our souls is always attempting to take the children. Whether he can destroy them or simply derail them; he knows he is in trouble if they grow up to become men and women with incredible faith in and resolve for God.

Wouldn't it be great to know about Job's childhood? What did he endure to become the man who gained the confidence of God when Satan inquired, "who can I mess with?"

Meanwhile, we do hear of the life of Moses; hidden in the river as a baby, because there was fear for his life.
Joseph, sold into slavery while falsely being reported as dead.
David, overlooked by his own father as possibly being the one to lead Israel.
And many more.
While we're at it, let's not forget our Lord, under command to be found and destroyed. They essentially lived in hiding for a period of time.

But if he can't destroy our children, he can certainly ruin them. Lies to the mind. Scars to the heart. Distractions of situations and compounding feelings; instilling confusion and wreaking havoc in their hearts and minds, so that they will struggle and stumble their way into adulthood and if there's any way to build angst and anger, bitterness and frustration against the body of Christ and God Himself, then the enemy is well on his way to rendering them useless for the plans and purposes God has created them.

Pray with me, this #youthPastorWednesday, for the mental, spiritual and emotional protection of our children. Pray over their hearts and minds, that God would strengthen and guard them from the lies and attacks of the enemy. May parents and pastors alike recognize trouble in their lives and bring light to dark places; whereby God can work in the lives of young people. Pray for the miraculous; that this generation would know their God. May their be a resolve to know the things of God; that the distractions of life would not gain a stronghold in their lives that would keep them from the destinies they were created to fulfill. Pray a spirit of quiet confidence in their lives; that God holds them in His hand. Pray for their Pastors, that their example would ignite a spirit of expectation as a foundation of faith is laid that will set the course as young people grow and mature in their faith, as they walk with God. Though young, may the not be restless, but walk with purpose.

While there may be holes in their lives,
May the be made whole, by the power of the Holy Spirit.
For the glory of God.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I am so grateful for friendship. There was a time in my life when I didn't have many. And worse, wasn't sure that I ever would have many. Yet it amazes, how God uses events in our lives as well as people to bring us to places of insight and understanding.

I thought about this yesterday, as I reflected on yesterdays prayer and Sundays' message. I took the opportunity to pray with a couple of guys, as service was coming to a close; my second friend having had a particularly hard week. In a quick moment of what I can only believe was a prompting of the Spirit, was the difference between the state of our heart and our mind regarding our faith.

As I prayed for my friend, the thought process developed. We stand strong in our faith; our heart belongs to God and we believe in Him with all of what is within us. The mind however; likes moving us. Worse; it likes moving in every other direction.

It's a attack of the enemy, really. To detour. To derail. To destroy. Mentally, if we can get distracted; if we can get distracted for long periods of time... what if scenarios start playing out, why did I do this, why didn't I do that; we being to wander, wonder and waiver with possibilities and the outcomes thereof until an alternate reality exists. Albeit a mental reality, we are way off base. And mentally, nowhere near where and what God has in store for us... most likely.

I remember my college days. You know what's in your heart; but mentally, it's easy to start justify things that have no place in the life of the believer. Yet, eventually, the possibility exists that your mind can lure you away and take your heart with it and you have to recognize that while your mind is not focused on God, your heart is also not near His. That usually spells trouble. It's usually accompanied by all sorts of spiritual red flags, that are worth heeding sooner, rather than later.

We all struggle with it. The heart is willing. The flesh is weak. The mind, a traveler.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for pastors facing this battle. They are not alone. It's happened in my life; turns out my prayer with my friend, was accurate, not because of me, but because of the work God desires to accomplish in His life. Pray that their heart would remain passionate for the things of God. Pray God would guard their mind; from being lured away into thoughts that would distract; from scenarios and possibilities that cause worry and anxiety. May their heart remain pure. May their mind remain focused. Pray for synchronicity, that both their heart and mind would be in tune with the heart and mind of God; to follow His direction; to seek His face; to hear from Heaven; to move in the promptings of the Holy Spirit. Pray the enemy would be unsuccessful in his attempts to distract, derail, detour and destroy our pastors and church leaders.

Passionate hearts.
Fortified minds.
For things of God.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

We had a guest speaker yesterday morning, who preached an incredible message simply titled, "God's Waiting Room." While there are many character he could have chosen for illustration, he spoke regarding the life of Abraham, waiting on the promise of God for a child. As he closed the message highlighting a few practically applications that we can make in our lives as we wait, it was his last point that particularly struck me and I'd like to highlight for the purpose of today's prayer.

The question posed was essentially this:

What do we miss out in life because we don't lower our pride and allow the faith of others to come alongside and join us in our situation?

What an awesome question! As such, it's modeled in both the old and new testament. Job's breakthrough came when he prayed for his friends. Likewise, in Jesus' ministry, with the four friends who tore into the roof to lower their paralytic friend. Scripture says, "when Christ saw their faith..."

If that wasn't enough, the testimony shared by our guest speaker was just as powerful to hear as from 9-5, at the top of every hour through a M-F work week, he had people from church come pray over his wife. By Friday, whatever it was that had ailed for over 9 months, had left and has never returned.

This is the cause for burnout. Lack of friends to turn to in times of difficulty. Feeling nobody can help in times of adversity. Thinking no one can comfort and walk with you as you face insurmountable challenges.

If only more pastors would recognize how much we are for them and support them.
If only more parishioners would stand and rise to come alongside and stand in agreement with pastors for the places in life they find themselves.

There is power in the agreement of prayer.
There is strength in standing beside a friend and lifting them up spiritually before God; joining their faith and approaching the throne of grace, boldly.
There is great need to do so for pastors, missionaries and church leaders.

Thanks again for joining me as we #pray4pastors.

On this #seniorPastorMonday. pray first and foremost, that a spirit of pride would not stand in the way of pastors reaching out, even if only to one or a few people, to request needing prayer and support for whatever it they face. May feelings of loneliness and all that accompanies it subside, as they recognize people do care for them and that God has forgotten them in their place. Pray for the church, to dismiss their thinking that pastors have their act together. May they recognize the need to join their faith in support as well as join in the mission and calling the pastors  have for the communities they serve. May relationships and tense relations between the pulpit and the pew be mended and healed. Pray a spirit of unity come over the church, anew and afresh; that the impact of the church would increase as God watches people come together and witnesses the faith of those who are friends.

The miraculous.
Where one or two are gathered in My name.
May God be in their midst.
By His Grace and for His glory.

- PNC

Forgive me for the musically-inspired prayer again this morning, but as we were out and about yesterday as a family and I had the music on my phone playing through the car stereo, this song started playing. As you're hearing, it's a great up-beat, rock song, played by a band I would have loved to have seen in concert. However, as I listened to the lyrics in light of yesterday's prayer about the world NEEDING Jesus, I thought... what incredible lyrics to consider in light of the effectiveness and efficiency of the church.

"I wish I'd done it a long time ago. I wish I'd given my life to the Lord. I shoulda done it... a long time ago."

There are many things in life that we look about upon and think "coulda, shoulda, woulda." Many circumstances that cause reflection and I wish, if only, gee isn't there a way...

Even secular music acknowledges this life's dilemma... wasn't it Cher, that sang, "if I could turn back time..."

Pastor, even when not given a "direct, salvation message", continues to remind us, that upon hearing the Word of Lord, today is the day of salvation. There are many things worth considering putting off a decision, or "sleeping on it" or there's a process to doing so; yet salvation, in light of eternity is not guaranteed.

Not to mention, the plans and purposes God has for us... what do we miss out on in by post-poning a decision for Jesus Christ? What do we miss out on by putting God on hold and saying no to what He has called us to do and be and accomplish in this world for His glory? Pray such would not be the case.

On this #effectiveSunday, pray today would be the day of salvation for many. May the not delay in coming to Christ. May the Word of the Lord be preached, heard and receive a positive response. Pray lives would be changed for eternity; that God would be glorified and draw many to Himself. May the power of the Cross, through Jesus' life and resurrection break down strongholds and hearts and minds and that today would be a day of freedom in Jesus Christ.

Grateful, to be able to say:
I gave my life to Lord... a long time ago.
For His glory!

- PNC

The events of this world, continue to cause a flood of emotions. Frustration, heartache, anxiety, grief, anger. Clearly we have a problem of evil; that can only be acknowledged as such, if we take in account that everything has an opposite position, which is good. Which "everyone" seems to acknowledge as being, in their daily lives.

So how in a world full of "good" people, can we be witnessing so much evil? 

Simple. Goodness is not enough.

Evil resides in the hearts of all of us, until is it replaced by the person of Jesus Christ. At which time; the war of internal conflict begins. To live as Christ in us or to give to our selfish desires.

Nothing else is working. Other religions; more laws; different politicians; increased taxes; raised awareness; new regulations... all of these problems and none of the fixes actually fix (at least not long term).

So, on this #communitySaturday, what do we say? How are we to respond? I have but one question, as I shake my head in disbelief to what we are experiencing in this world.

When will the world see... We NEED JESUS!!!  I leave you with the lyrics from this great song, performed by one of my favorite bands... and in a slightly different change of pace, as you pray today, pray these lyrics; that through the churches conversations with community, people would come to know Christ and understand, He is all there is.

WE NEED JESUS!

- PNC

When will the world // See that we need Jesus?
If we open our eyes // We will all realize // That He loves us
When will the world // See that we need Jesus?
When our hearts are as one // And believe that He's the Son of our God

[Chorus]
The Lord is our God // And we shall never want
The Lord is our God // And we shall live forever
When we share the love of Jesus // See each other as He sees us
Then His love will see us through // His love will see us through

When will the world // See that we need Jesus?
When sister and brother // Love one another as one
When will the world // See that we need Jesus?
Will we ever understand // Jesus is the Son of man?
We must live in the shadow of His love

When will the world // See that we need Jesus?
If we open our eyes // We will all realize
That He loves us // When will the world
See that we need Jesus? // When our hearts are as one
And believe that He's the Son of our God

Don't worry... this isn't part 5, of the ongoing perspective we've had in the prayers this past week. However, the situation and church in mention, got me thinking yesterday. Depending on the reports, roughly 500 or so missionaries leave the mission field every year. Some place the number as high as 700. There stories don't often make the news; certainly not mainstream, and often not even in lesser known publications or even in church circles.

Are not the reasons very similar? Are there not troubled marriages on the mission field? Difficult parent/child relationships and tensions? Do spouses not change over time and think, "I can't do this anymore?" Do they not experience a turn-around where the culture they are trying to impact for Christ ends up influencing them more and they fall from the faith? Fall from grace? Surely, this can't just be a Western civilization "thing", that pastors get caught up in the power of the pulpit; the personality of the pastorate, the money, the relationships...

There was a sage piece of advice once given to a pastor by a lifelong minister...

"Keep your hands off the women, the gold and the glory."

Relationships. Finances. Ego. The downfalls of many pastors lie in just those three areas.

When burnout happens among missionaries, we rarely hear about it and often, even less about why. So, I wonder... at that rate, much like in the pulpit; who will take their place and how quickly will they be ready?

Thus, when my friend updated social media yesterday with a picture of 400+ kids during Senior High bible camp of their praise and worship service and their "praying God would send them", I couldn't help but smile and thank God... along with 70 other people who also liked & loved the photo!

The struggle is real. The timing is crucial. God is Sovereign over the Earth and clearly pieces are being arranged that people may recognize to a greater degree, their desperate need for a Savior; and not just any savior, but Jesus Christ and Him alone.

Pray, this #missionsFriday, for missionaries; seemingly falling and walking from ministry in seeming obscurity. Pray God would protect and fortify their homes and marriages against the attacks of the enemy that would try to take them out. Pray temptation would flee and that they would stand strong in the commitment to God and the work He has called them to fulfill. Pray for the communities and the people groups they serve; may their be health and strength as they hear the Word of the Lord; as they respond; as they grow and mature in the faith and understanding of God through the teaching of the Word. Pray for the generation God is raising up; may the church be more and more, of the posture of usability; for whatever it is that God would have us to accomplish for His glory.

For the advancement of the Kingdom of God
For the cause of Jesus Christ.
Used to be an impact on our world,
For the glory of God.

- PNC

I honestly had no idea when I wrote Monday's prayer, specifically surround the situation with Perry Noble and the church he founded, that it would turn in to this... yes, this is essentially part 4 of #pray4Noble. I didn't know it was coming until about 20 minutes or so after I posted yesterday's prayer.

Satan, the enemy of our souls, knows that life is complex. Along with that, our relationships and connection points, that bind people together. He is out to seek, kill and destroy and will use whatever means necessary; so anything he can do to gain access and use opportunities such as this gain ground on an individual or a group, rest assured he will use it to his advantage. He is determined just as much as hold fast to the promise that God will use the same situation for His glory.

We've prayed for Noble and what God would work in his life directly through this situation.
We've prayed for the pastoral board that has been involved in this decision and now must continue forward.
We've prayed for Noble's family, specifically, his children and their response.

So who's left?  Well, his congregation for sure; but more specific than that, those who remain and continue in church operations to meet the needs of the congregation and do the work of ministry; albeit now with the aftermath of this matter on the forefront of everyone's minds.

This was the founding pastor! Consider the deacons and elders who have been involved since day 1 on every decision that affected the church and it's direction during this time. Administrators who bought into the vision and mission of this church, to ensure effective ministry to this body and to this community. To have risen to this level of growth and prominence in their community, not to mention nationally and global as the expanded their influence to the greater Christian community and churches across the world. Consider the staff and volunteers who remain; who are now fielding questions from every direction and helping people through a difficult time of intense emotions, strong opinions and unsettling conversations.

This church is 20,000-30,000 in number. (I can't remember which it was that I read Sunday night). I pray they come out victorious and intact as they go through this; however, this is what Satan lives for... to take down an influential pastor as well as his family and to destroy the church that remains after his removal. This is an opportunity for him to wreak havoc. An opportunity for chaos. An opportunity for him to do his best work.

Yet for all this, he remains a defeated foe. Through prayer, may he be reminded of that today.

On this #deaconThursday, lift up this church in prayer. For the deacons, admins and staff that must continue carrying out ministry and help the pastoral team in the next steps of direction for this body, may God grant incredible wisdom. Pray conversations would be seasoned with grace. May they remain steadfast; standing on Biblical principles to guide their decisions, with every step. Pray for a humble confidence; relying solely on God to see them through this time; yet confident God will meet every need; provide every solution and will work miracles; whereby their impact for the kingdom of God will be greater than ever thought or imagined in their history. May the havoc be non-existent; may the chaos cease. Pray a calm in the midst of the storm; that this would be a time for all involved to draw closer to God and strengthen the bond of unity among them.

May their trust be in God alone.
The author and finisher of our faith.
Through whatever we face.
Victorious; for the glory of God.

- PNC

As I was posting yesterday morning's prayer to social media before running out the door to work, the last page I attached the prayer link to was our particular life group page from church. As I posted it, I typed "part 2" as an intro to link, as if it were a follow-up to Monday's prayer, as it still revolved around the same situation as #seniorPastorMonday. Immediately thereafter, I felt the Spirit speak... "you know tomorrow is #youthPastorWednesday". In other words, consider this part 3, as the situation regarding Perry Noble's dismissal from the pulpit will greatly impact his family and children.

In discussing with a few friends, a situation that one of them is going through, I shared some thoughts with their son, who happens to be in his final teen years. I clarify his age, to recognize the fact that in parenthood, our children go through stages where they are more aware of life's circumstances and thus, are perhaps at times more informed about matters than they would have been at a prior age.

That said, now being adult myself (and for quite some time now) also with kids, I understand just how much more, what you do and don't tell your kids matters; what they can handle; what they should or shouldn't be privy to hearing or seeing. The list of situations and experiences in my own parents life and there tons of things they've gone through that I don't "know the rest of the story"; or the first part of the story, for that matter.

So, I shared such sentiments with this young man. You may be told certain aspects of a situation, you may be involved in part of the conversation, people may approach you regarding details of the matter; there remains and always will remain, certain things that will only be resolved by the person directly impacted. Even in marriage, you can't live the other spouses life or make their decisions. You might be affected even more so, because of the nature of the relationship, as well as more involved in the conversation for the same reason. But unless you are actually the decision-maker of the matter, then no matter how much you know; how much you are involved or want to be involved or want to speak up and weigh in on the situation... there are some battles that can only be fought be one person.

This situation can and will be difficult for the Noble family. I can't fathom. It will impact his marriage. It will impact his family. And each of them will have a decision to make as to how they handle and process the matter as it unfolds. But as I explained to the young man, it's easy to be upset because we see our parents upset. It's easy to be frustrated on their behalf and to take on their battles for ourselves. But to each his own battles. I'm not saying we don't support each other in them. I'm saying I can't live your life and you can't live mine. My parents had to recognize they couldn't live mine. And I'm sure there's matters I'm in the dark on because there's no way I could have lived theirs.

Thus for these kids... they are in a difficult place. They are directly affected. And no doubt, the enemy of our souls will exploit this situation regarding their father, to get a foothold and stronghold in their lives, whereby he can derail, detour and destroy their live. What a tragedy... if they responded wrongly to their parents because of what's transpired; wrong in their response to the church; to God; to society... justified as all of it may seem.

Pray, this #youthPastorWednesday, for kids and specifically, the Noble family; that this situation would not take residence in their heart and life as a place for the enemy to gain ground. Pray God would guard their heart and mind; that bitterness, anger and defeat would not control their emotions and thoughts. Pray this would be a time to draw close to God and rely upon Him; to trust in Him that He will work the miraculous in this family and these circumstances. Pray for this marriage, that God would do a healing and restoration in their lives; that the Holy Spirit would guide their conversations and that grace and forgiveness would take over as confession unfolds. May these circumstances, difficult and humbling as they may be not give way to defeat and loss; but pray they would arise victorious and stronger than ever. May they stand on the other side of this and proclaim, "Look what God has done!"

For the glory of God
By the blood of Jesus Christ.
Stronger for the kingdom of God than they would be apart.

- PNC

Why pray for pastors?

Because life is becoming increasing complex; difficulties await around every corner.

For the church, people have so much weighing upon their hearts and minds; burdens, challenges and in the midst of sorting through it all... wrong advice, wrong counsel, wrong biblical teaching, wrong theology. Perhaps not entirely wrong, but incomplete or inaccurate.

I couldn't help but continue to pray for Pastor Noble and his church, that we prayed over yesterday. The decisions that team of pastors now face; the aftermath that congregation now must endure; the impact this situation will make on their community, as well as it's greater impact thanks to the internet and social media... doing the right thing and handling difficult decisions in the right manner and proper perspective is already a delicate process without the flood of public opinion in real time.

Much of the comments I've read on this particular situation are well intended and I can already understand why the church felt the need to release the details of the situation that they did; yet I understand the concerns of those making comments. Meanwhile, it appears the decision makers have followed the biblical mandate for handling situations like this.

It doesn't leave one in the position to say much more than can simply be stated with love and compassion.

This church, this pastoral team, this community and the church-at-large.. we need prayer. It needs to be our first concern. It needs to be our first response. It needs to be our first decision. Whether a decision-maker, observer or commentator; whether directly affected or affected from a distance, it begins and ends with the power of prayer.

So, pray this #associatePastorTuesday, first and foremost, may God be glorified in this situation. From the handling of this circumstance and the decisions that follow; to the conversations that people have as they work through their faith and understanding, may their be a spirit of grace and compassion that this is both a difficult and delicate place for the Noble family and this church. Pray for the decisions this pastoral team faces moving forward; may the continue to seek the face of God and follow Biblical principles as they proceed in ministry. Pray for the Noble family; healing and restoration; beauty from ashes and strength from fear... may the Holy Spirit do a new work; a fresh outpouring as they commit this matter and their marriage to God anew and afresh.

Grace. Greater than ALL our sins.
Life has no situation to present to God
That cannot be impacted by His Presence
Through the power of prayer.

- PNC

As I left church yesterday after service, my mind was transitioning between reflecting on the sermon and figuring out the final preps for the birthday party in our family. There have been many variations on the statement "as goes ____; so goes the ____". Family, nation, etc. So, here's what I felt the Spirit drop in...

"As goes the Shepard, so goes the flock"

There's any number of reason, theologically that one of Christ's titles is the Good Shepard, but as I thought about this yesterday, I realized that humanity for all its faults and failures and evil tendencies would recognize no other way, then unless God came down in human form and set the example for how we should live in a way that brings glory to God. Furthermore, Christ set the example for what a healthy relationship with our Heavenly Father looks like. No other person would accomplish what Christ accomplished, unless God Himself set out to do so. Which is exactly what happened.

Fast forward through the day. The birthday party was great. Everyone had a great time. And by nights end, I was exhausted falling asleep during an episode that my wife and I were watching on Netflix. Clearly, it was time to crash. Of course, upon crawling into bed, I was partially awake again. One last scroll through Facebook, and a friend comments on praying for Perry Noble and his family. Recognizing the name, I thought "hmm, wonder what that's about." Sure enough, seconds later, there was the article. Alcohol abuse and a strained marriage, and he has been relieved of his pastorate in the megachurch that he started. The church had made a statement announcing the decision; which in and of itself, has caused some controversy as to how it's been handled and communicated.

My heart sank. At a time in our society when we need healthy churches, healthy congregations and healthy pastors to make the most of their impact in the communities and the impact of a church such as this, now has this challenge on the forefront of their minds and at the top of their list, of having to navigate. What a difficult and challenging place to be; not only in dealing with Noble and his family, but now the aftermath and the effect this will have on the congregation and the community as to keeping proper perspective and keeping the faith to continue in ministry.

To all this, all I can say is, this is why, God kept prompting me to get serious about this website. We don't know what our church leaders are going through, often until it's too late. Or it's late enough that the only way to deal with it is for something to transpire as what this megachurch is going through; as well as churches of all sizes and denominations have experienced in the past. Lord, we need your help. Today!

Pray, this #seniorPastorMonday, for Pastors, and for this leader and his family. Pray for the long road to recovery they face as a family and that he faces as a man of God. Pray for grace and forgiveness to permeate their home, as well as the church and that they would experience new found freedom in Christ through His love and the work of the Holy Spirit. Pray over the process of healing and restoration; that God would guide their steps for whatever He has planned for them next, as they overcome this battle in their lives. Pray for the congregation and community, as the commentary has already begun about whether the church leadership and media has done right in handling and even reporting on this matter (as we prayed yesterday on the element of criticism, timely as it was). May God guard the hearts of the pastors of this church, who now are moving forward in this ministry; may He grant to them wisdom, understanding and compassion as they lead this church closer to the presence of God. Pray the enemy would be unsuccessful in his attempts to use this as a means to gain ANY ground, whereby he might get a foothold on this church, to cause disruption and discord.

May the church bind together
As we #pray4pastors
In the name of Jesus Christ
For the glory of God, in ALL things.

- PNC

Perhaps part 3, in the unplanned series of prayers that started Friday morning, as we've once again, faced horrific tragedy and the barrage of commentary that naturally ensues. The question came to me, after not really given much thought for today's post... that after all the commentary and conversations, differing perspectives, opinions and experiences, I was left with this on the forefront of my mind:

At one point does criticism cease to move us toward solutions and becomes criticism for criticism's sake?

Hows does one handle the critic who uses criticism for the sake of themselves? For they seemingly come across as being more interested in continuing the problem (or at least putting it in the spotlight) rather than acknowledging that the time has come to move from criticizer to solver.

There's an element of wisdom in knowing the time for solutions.
There's an element of leadership in focusing on solutions.
There's an element of prayer in understanding imperfect people do not create perfection.

In the church world...
In the business world...
In our culture and society...
In our congregation and community...

What's the point of exposing a flaw that nobody bothers to fix?
What's the point of noticing an error that nobody will correct?
What's the point of stating a problem that nobody wants to solve?

We all have value and worth, but eventually contempt arises for the critic who does nothing but life up to the their title. As though, it's in their spirit, as a default modus operandi. Such make the possibility of effective and efficient difficult. The drive for correction may be good for a season, but taken to extreme (like anything else), you lose the balance... of doing it right; doing it well; being effective, being efficient, and having the greatest impact. All of which are usually the desired goals anyway, for whatever a reasonable person or group is trying to accomplish

Pray this #effectiveSunday, that the church would not be found having or harboring a critical spirit. May they find a balance, as they look at problems, whether within the church or outside it; that there would be a focus on solutions. Pray the church would not ruin their witness and impact by continuing criticism just for the sake of it, or for their own. Pray wisdom for people in leadership roles; as people look to them for direction, insight and answers; that their own criticism would not stand in the way of a clear analysis of the present and a correspondingly clear vision of the future. Pray, that in these times of serious problems, that we would have serious people, interested in solving them rather than telling whose to blame for them.

That we may all become more like Christ.
And point others to Him.
For the glory of God;
Whose help we desperately need.

- PNC

As I’ve reflected the past few days of what we are experiencing as a nation, one thing is clear. The problem is complex. The solution is simple. And as you can read about in my personal blog; the conversation will be unbelievably difficult.  (SO NOT READY)

Rightful and reasonably so, as our experience is diverse. Our upbringings are broad. Our knowledge is vast.
And if we allow a moment of honesty in our lives, the confessions will be humbling.

Many will try to identify the root cause of the problems and challenges we face. As a society. As a nation. As a church. As a community. However, as it goes with roots, there is never one. It is a system. Of varying lengths. Of different thicknesses. Tangled and twisted, sorting through it all will take time. And grabbing roots will be like grasping at straws.

We are all law-breakers.

For all the the labels and identifiers we are known by based on our behaviors and decisions, they all stem from the source… the sole root, that once removed spells the beginning of the end for the offshoots.
As the church engages the community, pray the truth of the matter be revealed in the heart of every life.

SIN.

It lives in the heart of all of us. Some labels assigned to behaviors, tendencies and lifestyles sound worse and more damaging than others, but at any given moment, one decision could secure us severe consequences.

I could admit many faults. I could confess to many identifiers and labels, for I am no better than the worst offender. So the only confession and admittance that overcomes the root of SIN is simple. Yet tragedy will continue as society continues to deny the power that lies in one simple statement.

“Hello. My name is Peter. I am a Sinner. I am in need of a Savior.”

Any other confession, however noble and admirable it may be, whether made to one individual in a private conversation or proclaimed in a status update on social media, is secondary to the acknowledgement of our need to be in right relationship with God, through the person of Jesus Christ.

Any other solution is nothing more than applying a bandage to a patient in need of open-heart surgery. Which is essential what that confession does… allows Jesus Christ to remove the root of Sin. It doesn’t fix us, as there are still other auxiliary roots left behind, but with the source removed, it allows Christ to work in our lives, such as the visible issues to which society looks at and says, we should do something about this.

Yes. Yes we should. Humble ourselves in the sight of God and pray.

On this #communitySaturday, may there finally be a turning point in our world, where the blinders fall off, and in looking for the root of the problem, many will find the TRUE source that needs to be dealt with. Pray that in finding the heart of the matter within the life of every individual, may they acknowledge that faith in God alone through the person of Jesus Christ is the beginning and the end of the only confession that needs to be declared.
– PNC

Tragedy abounds. Tragedy surrounds. Criticism raises its voice. Demands for answers. Speaks before full knowledge of truth. Speaks from anger. Speaks from frustration. Speaks profound insight. Speaks intelligently and with good intentions.

Yet, until it's first-hand...
Even those on the front-line of situations and circumstances; there's a difference between being a first-hand witness and being a first-hand player.

It's the difference between saying "I was there" versus "I was involved."

We look at lives events, some with explanation within reason; others without explanation with no regard and offer our statements of "if it were me" and "if it were up to me" and yet we look at this world and neglect the most basic, spiritual truth.

God has a plan, purpose and destiny for every life. Born and unborn. Of every color on the spectrum of skin tone. Of creed and faith; of principle and experience; of status and prominence; of wealth or ruin and any and all deficiency of the aforementioned.

When offered the challenge to put ourselves in the experience of another that we might gain, true 1st-hand revelation, we usually aren't so inclined. I can't, wouldn't or won't put myself in your shoes.

Sadly, we do the same when confronted with the life-changing power of Jesus Christ. That faith in God and prayer and church is fine for you; but I don't see it working for me. And here's the laundry list of why I'm beyond God's help and my standing by rejecting said help.

And yet, the entire work of missions and the advancement of the Gospel of Christ has been in the sharing of one's first-hand experience. And the invitation extended to the one next to us. Don't just witness the power and presence of God at work in humanity. Be one involved in the power and presence of God; and the work He has in store for humanity... that has seemingly gone out of it's way to not so much tell God we don't need His hand upon our nation, but has done as much removed His hand from us for Him. We haven't told God to back off. We've told Him, to in fact, back off.

Whatever the tragedy being discussed today and whatever one lurks around the next news cycle, one can't help but wonder what would happen if nations today, did as read in Scripture... leaders leading it's citizens in repentance and crying out to God.

Forgive us. And as we turn from our wickedness, would you heal our land?

On this #missionsFriday, pray for those working in all nations, as tragedy runs abroad. Time is short and days are evil and nations and its' citizenry are crying out for life to look and to be different. Pray leaders and leadership would come to a place of revelation and understanding that life has purpose and meaning; that all of life matters and it starts with the person of Jesus Christ. Pray for the church to not just be witness to the presence and power of God, but to be involved in greater dimension in sharing the love and forgiveness available to all of humanity because of Jesus' sacrifice on the cross. Wrongly accused, wrongly beaten, wrongly crucified; but for the Sovereign hand of God, a way was made that whosoever may come into right relationship. May the truth of God and His Word go forth, as never before... and as promised, not return void.

Pray; society would turn from its ways; seemingly right in their own eyes
And seek the face of God. May He heal this land.
We are in desperate need of His working the miraculous in our midst.

- PNC