As I was writing yesterday's post on protecting the truth, I kept thinking about the power of numbers, and specifically, supporters.

We've all been the lone wolf at times.
We've all been the lone voice of reason.
Even John the Baptist was the lone voice in the wilderness.

But consider in your life, the power that comes from being surrounded by various levels of support. Family for when you are hurt by friends. Friends for when you are betrayed by family. Those who over comfort in times of great loss. People who laugh during moments of joy. Celebrations are sweeter when people are there to gather with and tragedy is a little less bitter when others mourn with you.

So to, is the truth more easily declared when there is more than one person speaking it. As Christ stated that the poor would always be with you, I think the same can be said for the detractors and naysayers. There will also we an argument against the truth, dismissing the truth, ignoring it or suppressing it.

Culture seems enamored with solidarity stances, yet someone speaks truth and people hesitate as to whether they should stand by it's side.

It's a weird phenomenon that I'm not sure is more disconcerting or depressing. And those who demand evidence of truth seem to be experts on opinion. Another strange dynamic, but for another time.

As a continuation, on this #associatePastorTuesday, pray that truth, while confident in standing alone, would not. Pray for unity with our church leadership, to stand for truth and in particular, God's truth. May there not be a shying away or diminishing perspective of it, but a confidence in its power to bring freedom and clarity to a culture and society that are lacking both. Pray that senior pastors would not stand alone, but that their entire pastoral team would be committed to what should be so simple and obvious. And while we on the topic of support systems, pray for those who hear and receive from the church and its' ministries. May the hear, recognize and reconcile truth as it should be applied to their lives.

For there is freedom in truth
And His Word is truth.
May we know His Word
To be used for His glory.

- PNC

It seems as if daily, there's another argument made for the need for the truth and for telling it. And for the past few days, I've found this phrase repeating.

Truth Protectors.

Know the truth. Yes.
Declare the truth. Yes.
Hold fast to truth. Absolutely.
Protect it? Um...

An interesting perspective, if you will on the concept of protection. We often think of protection as shelter, which it is. It's also boundaries and limits, as much as people like to argue they don't have their place. They do and they know it. But I would submit that protection also involves preparation.

Protection is making sure my kid doesn't run out into the street. At the same time, protection is giving that same kid the skill and mindset necessary to safely navigate the street, whether through walking, riding or driving. I can't protect them by refusing any interaction with traffic. The kid needs to know how to navigate the situation. And substitute traffic for any other issue of life. Dating. Drugs. Career. Relationships. Politics.

Ugh. The arena where so many leaders having seemingly forgotten about truth or they ignore it. I'm not taking sides, nor convincing you of anything. But here we are bombarded again with narrow narratives, rather than exposed truth. Perhaps because Colonel Jessep was right. Too many people can't handle it.

Perhaps too many can't handle it because not enough people tell it. We've sheltered it, rather than used it wisely in the public square. And now, when seen in public, nobody knows how to respond to it; as if it is a lost and foreign concept. And here's a play on words that you can read into whatever you will; I trust you're mature enough to handle it. Isn't it strange, that we are seemingly more open to allow what is unknown into our lives, while rejecting what is known.

I don't care what God has to say about my life and His plan for me, but I'll call a psychic hotline on late-night television. Um, what?
I don't care what God says about my finances, but we need to buy a new car, cause Joe down the street got a sweet, new ride. Too much?
Relationships experience a similar dynamic all the time.
You get the idea.

Consider this... if the church starts forgetting, ignoring or diminishing the power of truth; just how much trouble are we in? Is this a big deal in our churches? I don't know. It certainly seems like it is a growing problem, though. And you could probably tell me stories of how big and how long this has been the case.

If the truth doesn't matter, then nothing else does either. 

So, pray, this #seniorPastorMonday, that those who sit at the heads of our local churches, would indeed, be truth protectors. May they boldly speak the truth and steadfastly hold on to it. Pray that they would know it for when it is obvious and may they seek it, when it is not so obvious. Pray that would neither be a wavering from it, nor a recklessness in their handling it. May they use it rightly and often. Pray too, for those who need to hear it, for they are many. Pray for revelation in their hearts and minds, that they would receive it and in doing so, may their lives be transformed by the power and hand of God.

For the truth accomplishes so much more than deceit
For those who are willing to forgo the temporal for the eternal.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

As we often pray for our leaders, in all kinds of arenas of life, we understand that have vision to cast and agendas to achieve. And by and large, that's good. They have goals and often approach them with a clarity and purpose and pursuit towards improvement. Or at least that's what we hope.

Of course, depending on where you look, you'll quickly notice there are many who have agendas that are questionable, to say the least and dangerous, if we're be brutally honest. But it got me thinking about followers. The reasons people consider themselves "followers" are many, but do we view them as having an agenda with the same meaning and intent as the standard we hold for leadership?

I think the short answer is yes! Otherwise, there is no meaning for the term "hidden agenda". Likewise, advisors and those who are on the "inside" assisting leadership have their reasons and agendas as well. And when there is diametric opposition between any of the three, then the breakdown begins. Tensions become apparent, problems start to arise and the conflict becomes complex. And the longer it goes unnnoticed, ignored and excused, the more difficult the process of course-correction becomes.

The alignment is easy and inexpensive when caught early. Delayed and prolonged, it's a whole other level of work and cost involved to make things right.

Pray this #deaconThursday, that this would not be the existence of church leadership. Pray that those involved, especially at the leadership level or position of influence, would be a group who is in agreement and unity. Pray for those whose agenda and purpose is detrimental and damaging to the ministry and the advancement of the Gospel. May God do a work in their hearts and minds that would prompt a spiritual shift. In these challenging days, may the church be a people who seek God and love others. Pray there would be a genuine connection, whereby we would link the hurting among us to the God who loves and heals us.

For the only following that matters,
Is that of the leading hand of God.
For His glory alone. Eternal.
Unlike humanity's, which is fleeting.

- PNC

Truth and consequences. Cause and effect. Action and equal, but opposite reaction. Am I the only one amazed at just how quickly, as adults, we seem to forget sometimes that every thing we do, not only makes an impact, but also prompts a response.

The response may be verbal. It might be internal. The response could be immediate. It could just as easily be delayed. Yet in our finite minds, if there is not an immediate repercussion, then somehow we fall for the trick there might not be a repercussion down the road.

We learned it as kids. We teach it to our kids. We remind our friends. We criticize our leaders. Then we live our personal lives as if the truth of this matter applies to everyone else but us. And how very wrong we are.

Words make impressions. Ideas of consequences. And when truth is cast aside, chaos ensues. We can do no greater disservice to ourselves, than to believe a lie and then compound it, by sharing it with our youth.

As a great pastor once said, every generation needs its' own revelation of God. We can set the foundation and begin the build, but we must prepare them to live a life that will seek the face of God and accomplish His purpose for their lives. Even when we miss the mark in leading them along the way.

Pray this #youthPastorWednesday, that today's youth would hear the truth, seek the truth and know the truth for themselves. Pray for a revelation for today's generation. In a time of great chaos and confusion, pray that God would bring clarity, both through His Word and through prayer and preaching. May God guard hearts and minds from the lies of the enemy; that we would not be tempted to believe, follow and live based on half-truths and false premises. May we live and serve faithfully in the calling and gifts God has granted to us, whether as parents, pastors, leaders or friends.

For all of us are better
Because of one of us
Just as all are redeemed
Because of One.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

An early lead, is better than a late start. Especially, when, regardless of when you start, you are committed to see the process through to the finish. However, both positions have the deterrents. Getting a later start on something can cause just as much frustration as it does excitement. With every advancing step, you're tempted to kick yourself for not starting earlier.

Yet the earlier the start, the longer the road to traverse. For experiences and encounters, while providing great fulfillment, also offers competing opportunities for frustration. So you find yourself more motivated to advance or more quickly experiencing the fatigue and exhaustion that leads to burnout.

It's an especially interesting dynamic when it unfolds in leadership roles. It's hard to figure out which person you admire more at times. The one who has overcome a lifetime, whether almost literally or seemingly figuratively, of battles and setbacks yet persevere. Or the one who had a well-established foundation and started off on the right foot. It doesn't diminish the fact that they haven't had challenges and disappointments; it's merely a fact, that they have a long-time to make a powerful and lasting impact.

Of course, as I type this, none of us know how long we have. Perhaps a year. Perhaps 60 or 90 more. Why am I writing this as it relates to associate pastors? Because the people who fill these roles run the timeline of age and experience. Young people who have a solid foundation and early start for a long-lasting ministry abound. Conversely, an innumerable amount of older believers, some of whom have come to faith following years of a difficult life and step into church leadership ready to help others, whether they be younger or older than themselves.

The potential and prospect for incredible ministry is great for both of them. But so is the reality of burnout.

So pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, that God would strengthen both the younger and the older, who are help to lead the coming days of the church. May God grant to them, wisdom and discernment in the conversations and circumstances in which they engage and experience. Pray they would stay motivated and determined in their purpose, callling and responsibilities. Pray that neither past challenges nor the ones in the coming days discourage them to the point they would feel the desire to step away. May their faith remain strong; their resolve firmly planted in the hand of God.

A lasting impact for eternity.
Regardless of where they start
Regardless of when they start.
So long as they finish. Well. Strong.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I heard a nationally-syndicated radio host talking about authenticity and what a powerful perspective he offered. Specifically, pseudo-authenticity. The appearance of being authentic kills genuine authenticity. Why? Because eventually people see through it, for what it is. A cover-up. It dilution. The fakes, the frauds, the counterfeits... when people get burned bad enough, and often enough; it destroys the future relationship when genuine care, concern and compassion is shown.

We desire for people to be real; to be authentic. And while we can't always tell the pseudos apart at times, it's important that we have a discerning spirit about such things. At the same time, it's sad that we arrived at a place in our society and culture that we have to have a such a spirit. And so often.

It's really not that hard. Unless you happen to have something in your life that you know you shouldn't share. Perhaps an agenda, that if exposed would be rejected. Or sin that would bring life to a halt, if not ruin. Maybe we just don't like who we are and thus, present a persona that is not true to ourself, let alone true to those around us. Or the world, at-large, for that matter.

Whatever, the reason, pseudo-authenticity is a dangerous presentation to wear. It will cause damage to others, it's a disgrace to yourself and ultimately, is a great disservice to the God who created you with a purpose.

Pray, this #seniorPastorMonday, that those who lead the church from the pulpit would live and share a true faith. Pray that fear would not dominate what is said and done. May the factors that contribute to the falsehoods and misleading presentations be removed. Pray for a quiet confidence as pastors live and move in ministry and the calling God has placed upon their lives. Pray for authentic connections and relationships to be built and progress as the church moves forward. May there be a greater impact that is realized, as a result of honesty and truth that is lived out daily, under a covering of grace and an attitude of repentance.

For the glory of God
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

There's so much of life, the we look at, as cause and effect... in a reactionary way, yes, but in a process. The classic, "if, then" statement.

Then there's the song, So Will I. A truly powerful song, that I reflected on during last nights joint service, when men's and women's ministries comes together once a month with the college/career group.

So Will I talks about the vast greatness of God and puts into perspective what our response to it should be, as we position ourselves in relationship to who God is. And the chorus walks us through several justifications.

If the stars were made to worship, so will...
If everything exists to lift You high...
If the wind goes where you send it...
If creation reveals God's nature...
If Christ gladly chose surrender...

And a number of other similar statements; all as a reminder that while we might have reason for not doing and being as God would have us to be, we have, as the song states, a billion better reasons to do and be what God has called us to be and to do... and to go.

As the service progressed and the men gathered for their session, the long-term youth pastor, now associate pastor, shared some of his story. As a point of detail in the background of his ministry, reluctance to step into a formal, pastoral role. As if the responsibilities didn't "scare" him off, but the title itself. We've prayed before that sometimes titles can stand in the way, to the point that we don't engage or fulfill our purpose at any level.

But even still, sometimes there is just enough that stands in our way that we don't fully engage and take advantage of the opportunity that God would use to an even greater degree and measure than ever thought possible. And the power of the story is that there was one who sat across the table and called it out of him.

Perception. Discernment. Obedience.... to see it and to speak.
And to the hearer... to step forward in it.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, that God would do the supernatural, to break the barriers and fears that prevent pastors and would-pastors from stepping into the role and purpose that God has ordained. May God place people in their lives who would see the dream, calling and anointing that God is desiring to reveal and help them to respond in obedience. Pray that reasons to not do something be cast aside, in favor of the eternal reasons that God would have things to be done and courses of action to be taken.

May fear not hold us back from ministry,
But that faith would propel towards a greater impact.

For the glory of God
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Some people, you look at in disbelief and consider how they have the nerve. In a confused state of wonder, you ask yourself why they are the way they are, believe a particular way, act, speak and engage in a particular manner. Depending on the person, it's a varying degree of annoying.

Others, you view in similar disbelief and consider their resolve. In an admirable sense of awe, you ask the same questions. And depending on the person, it's a varying degree of inspiration.

You have to admire the resolve of pastors. I don't know how one can't.

In a society where people ask for truth and evidence, but then reject it because they don't think one can set aside their bias and belief and offer objective truth. Of course, what is objective truth when that same society has abandoned the concept of absolute truth.

I can't fathom how often and long the days exist, where they feel as though they are fighting a losing battle. Losing for people who don't heed their advice, value their input, take suggestion courses of action regarding their life and or their faith. A losing battle for the hard-hearted who want nothing to do with God and the hard-minded, who want nothing to do with the church.

Do they know the battle is the Lord's? Absolutely. Does that take away the fatigue, hurt and discouragement that comes from standing on the front lines of faith? Not in the least.

The risk is great. The reward is greater. The days that feel as though the opposite is true? Perhaps too many to count. Dare I say, the pastors who have suffered burnout, could probably mark the day they that they felt the shift begin to take it's toll? Another reality we'd probably rather not acknowledge, but is all to real for certain pastors' existence.

Pray, this #seniorPastorMonday, for those pastors on the verge of breaking. Pray for those pastors who feel as though they are losing their resolve to continue in the ministry. May they be strengthened and encouraged. Pray the Lord would lift them up and revive their spirits. Pray that discouragement and frustration, while it may not be removed for from them, would not overwhelm or dampen their spirit. May it deepen their commitment and quicken their desire to accomplish even more.

Staying the course
For the advance of the Gospel
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

There's a scene on of the many brilliant episodes of The West Wing, where the administration makes a number of changes in the Ambassadorships, as far as the people who hold them are concerned. In the course of the conversation between the President and the Chief of Staff, the President jokingly comments on the changes, that if they continue and everyone keeps moving up, then he can go home!

I know... what's this have to do with pastors on this #deaconThursday?

It's simply a point of reference, as I sat in service over the New Year's weekend at the announcements being made in our own church leadership. Changes within the existing leadership and it literally was a series of three positions, that as the first one moved "up", someone took their place, leaving another vacancy to be filled. The connection made me smile and so I'm sharing it with you. You're welcome.

Of course, as the Pastor shared the back-story and the conversation that began 8-10 months prior to the changes being made; you get a sense of the prayer, wisdom and perception involved as church leadership comes together, seeks the face of God and carries on the conversations of what is God doing for the future of various ministries within the church and who should be casting and leading their future trajectory.

The business world calls it "scaling". Progress isn't a knock on people, resources or capacities. The truth is that every aspect of life reaches a point where the question of "what's next" (another West Wing reference) must be answered. Thus, if changes needed to be made and those will naturally require time and energy, then why not give due diligence to make sure that they are done right and proper?

The question answers itself. If only the prayer wrote itself.

Let's pray, this #deaconThursday, that church leadership would indeed give due diligence to the decisions and changes they are facing and discussing. Pray for an increased awareness and sensitivity to be on the alert for matters and circumstances that have yet to present themselves, but that leadership would benefit in taking a proactive approach. Pray for wisdom and discernment as they seek the face of God and discuss solutions and implement changes. May their be a covering of grace during times of transition and all the more in times of great difficulty and challenge.

For the best days are yet ahead
For those prepared to meet them.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

Welcome to 2019.

I trust your new year is off to a great start. And I hope you closed 2018 better than you entered. Or perhaps at least with a better perspective, if through difficult circumstances.

My apologies for the abrupt break in daily posts back in mid-October. While I've tried to keep personal matters from standing in the way of this undertaking, the truth is, I suffered the very thing we pray about daily. My energy level was getting low and for those frequent and consistent readers, you noticed the daily prayers were showing up at the end of the day rather than the start of the day. I was consistently playing catch-up. And that consistent state of engagement while drain you faster than simply entering with fresh energy and maintaining the pace.

What better time is there to do that, than the physical start of a new year. Hence the title.. RE_Boot.

Tomorrow is "back to work" day. And it should come with an accompanying spirit filled with excitement and rejuvenation. Should we not be as excited as the kids are to go back to school? Mine are. Perhaps yours are not. One day in and it's entirely possible you are not liking the prospect of how daunting this year appears. Yet there is a glimmer of hope and encouragement that it just might go better than planned, hoped or expected.

The positive outlook and steadfast hope that we attempt to instill in the lives of our kids from a young age is the very perspective we struggle to maintain on a daily basis, even when our social media pages are filled with memes that remind us that "tomorrow is a new book with 365 blank pages".

So, the question remains, what will God write in our lives this coming year? And more importantly, what will we write into and over the lives of our youth? Am I feeling a year older, thanks to a recent birthday? Yes. Am I ready for my kids to be a year older as well? Absolutely not.

All the more reason, to pray....

... on this #youthPastorWednesday, pray that we would be people who what not allow the troubles and trials of life to take such a toll on us that we pass it on to our kids. While we may fall and fail at various times, may we teach and train them in the process of rising again. May they not be controlled by feelings and emotions as many in today's culture are prone to do; but may they live under the influence and anointing of the Holy Spirit. Pray His presence would fall afresh in our own lives, as we enter the unknown of 2019. Pray that fear would not control our decisions, but that our faith would follow Christ into the ordained destiny that He has purposed for our lives from the foundations of the Earth and Time.

To the New Year:
May it be the best one ever
As directed by the Hand of God
For His glory alone.

- PNC

So, we had a missions-focused dinner last weekend, followed by a small panel during the Sunday service. A simple, engagement of conversation that provided the congregation insight into their lives. Among the many points of discussion where things like calling and direction. Then they closed out the conversation with what they needed in terms of support.

Among the very first answers, if not the first...

Friends.

We've prayed to this end before, across the board, for pastors and church leadership and of course, missions. But to hear it first hand, naturally, reemphasized the importance and power of high-quality relationships. It's especially important in matters and circumstances where stakes are high on a daily basis and the work is, if you'll permit the play on words, "mission critical".

In light of eternity, that's true. And while it may not seem that way on a day-in an day-out basis, missionaries have daily struggles and issues they face as much as anyone else does, if not more. Thus, if we value great friends and quality time and conversation with them in the realm of our comfort zone, how much more is it important for missionaries who have, quite literally, been called out of their comfort zone.

Friends are hard to come by, at least, it seems that way at times. Conversely, if we were honest with ourselves, we couild point to times and seasons where we probably weren't in the best place to show ourselves friendly and thus, the connection was missed. And perhaps the opportunity for the miraculous to occur.

People come and go. Sometimes on purpose. Other times by default. And then there is a distinct and specific parting of ways. But like so much else in life, they begin and end by being and living intentional.

So let's pray this #missionsFriday, for those missionaries who are perhaps lacking in quality friendships, both where they minister and where they receive their support. Pray that God would give them the right connections and conversations to meet their needs, build them up and raise the quality of their life. Pray that God would give the clarity, to know who has come into their lives to be a blessing and encouragement, rather than a source of contention and discouragement. May they have a discerning spirit to know how to meet needs and invest in the lives of those they come in contact with on a daily basis. May God help us, as much as He helps them, that we may each be a better friend; contributing to make the lives of everyone around us better than we found them.

For God has never left us, nor forsaken us.
The great, friend of sinners.

- PNC

I heard another sermon recently which talked about wisdom. And once again, received a painful reminder of the constant struggle of trusting in God and seeking Him rather than trying to figure it out on your own with your solutions, skills and strength.

It's not enough. It's never been enough. It never will be enough.

Let me ask myself the question that many have done for me many times... when will you learn?!

Shall we count the ways and times that I don't heed the words of Matthew?? Seek first His righteousness; His kingdom.

Him.

Neither what we do nor what happens to us is about us. We deceive ourselves that it is and we defend ourselves that it is, but alas, the eternal reality of it all is that is not... about us.

But ideas, words, and decisions do have consequences as much as they have rewards depending on the nature and intent of it all. We don't always remember that that's the case and we don't always enjoy when the fruit of that comes true, but it is, nevertheless true.

The struggle is great and incredibly real, but the necessity to seek the wisdom of God should always be our first and top priority. In all things, great and small.

Pray this #deaconThursday for those struggling to trust and seek God first. May that always be our default understanding and response; even in light of the most stressful and difficult of circumstances. Pray that church leadership would resist both the urge and temptation to talk and work through problems and challenges merely though man's solutions and perspectives. May God grant grace and wisdom as they seek His face in all they do as church and ministry to their congregation and community at large.

For the glory of God alone.

- PNC

I got to thinking about the people that leaders surround themselves with, on a regular basis. You know this happens from time to time; we've prayed over this type of perspective numerous times, both with regards to associates as well as deacons and staff. What I find powerful, is that true leaders understand that they are not the smartest person in the room.

And while they may acknowledge that they are close to the front of the room; they realize too that they are the only ones... which provides affirmation that, like the rest of those, they still have room to grow, learn and improve. The improvement might be found in their field of expertise and wheelhouse of skills, or it's found in areas that they aren't so strong.

With that understand and perspective in mind then, great leaders are those who recognize the talent and skill of those around them; particularly those who may or may not be in positions of prominence or influence that aren't as "noticed" as much as the ones they themselves hold. It's the hierarchy of titles that we get held up on. Sadly. And frustratingly enough.

Surely, we've all been in positions where we looked at the "leader" above us and wondered what in the world they were thinking about a particular matter. But, like a good parent, great leaders should desire those under their influence, to go farther and achieve greater than what they have done and even yet to do.

Let's pray this #associatePastorTuesday to that end. Pray that associate pastors would continue to grow and strengthen, not only in their faith, but also in their skills. May they be ready and able to take on the responsibilities of ministries and churches as they grow and expand their influence and outreach. Pray for a preparation as God opens doors for the next generation of church planting and expansion. Pray that leadership would not be fearful or intimidated by the knowledge and talent of others in the room; but come alongside to help strengthen, and encourage them to be and do greater things.

For the kingdom of Heaven
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I posted a music video on a social media group page the other day, and while I missed some of the initial comments that followed, from the ones that remained ( I think a few got deleted, it seems), I could pick up that they were talking about when leaders or influencers have a moral failure. For the specifics of this post, they were talking about the band that I posted and the lead vocalist who had fallen.

But among the comments that followed, was one's opinion of how leadership needs to be held to a higher standard (which I agree with) and how they have but one shot in ministry. And that kind of troubled me. As if there is no room for grace. And even less room for restoration.

As I reflected on that mindset, I couldn't help but think of the leaders found in Scripture. If there is no grace, Samson doesn't get one last request to be used to display God's power. David's reign should be over after Bathsheba. Yes, there were great consequences, but today's political climate would require is immediate removal from office. Jonah dies in the fish if his heart does not change. Moses... pick a spot in his story where it should end earlier than it does.

Then there's Peter. Talk about a guy who shouldn't have gotten a second change a ministry. "Deny me before men and I will deny your before my Father in Heaven." Sorry, Peter. GAME OVER.

And yet, grace enters the picture and the process of restoration takes place. And Peter is never the same and obviously, the world is forever changed.

Even today, we discount ourselves and others from ever being eligible for a second chance. There will always be consequences; but God specializes in making beauty from ashes. Even when the ashes are our own doing... or undoing as the case may exist.

So, pray this #seniorPastorMonday, for those struggling with the failures and mistakes that feel as though they are disqualified. May the Holy Spirit minister to them anew and afresh. Pray for those who dealing with actual consequences and difficult challenges that have threatened their position and influence within the church and community. Prayer for a spirit of repentance and humility; of brokenness before God. May their not be a hardness of heart, but a pouring out of the soul in order that God may work the miraculous. Pray for churches that are going through a healing process as well as the pastors and families that are going through a process of restoration. May grace abound, truth prevail and love conquer all.

For salvation itself is a second chance
As is sanctification as we are refined
By the power of God
And the work of the Holy Spirit.

- PNC

A couple of points worthy of revisitation, as I continue to ponder the word, associate.

It's a reflection of your environment. A complete picture, of your physical surroundings, the people in the space and the emotional and spiritual quality that can only be gauged by one's soul.

The buzz phrase of late, is that "you don't need that kind of negativity if your life."  And social media makes light of it, by highlighting a variety of scenarios... the person in your life who doesn't like coffee; or chocolate, or anything pumpkin spice. The friend who isn't geeked up by all things Disney or conversely, your favorite car brand. We make light of things quite frequently.

But then we consider the thing we survive and tolerate on a daily basis; that at every instance or occurrence steals from us. Perhaps it cuts out a slice of joy. Other times, it feels like a chink in the armor. It may not cut us to the core, nor to the quick, but it's a cut nonetheless.

Death by a thousand slashes may take a while, but death ensues regardless.

Churches have cultures and environments just like any other business and organization. And so do the pastors and boards who lead them. And so the people and places in which we position ourselves become crucial to both our health and our success. On a personal level. On a professional level. And yes, by all means, a ministerial level.

So, pray this #associatePastorTuesday, that God would grant wisdom and discernment to pastors, regarding where they go and with whom they align and associate themselves. Pray that God would use them to be influencers and world-changers because they have been encouraged and spurred on to greater things and in kind, do the same for others around them. Pray also for grace; for churches and ministries where the tension is tight and the environment more stressful and disconcerting than what is normal and acceptable.

For we are not only products of our environments,
But creators of it as well.
As God created us
For His glory.

- PNC

It seems we're watching a dangerous trend recently. And by recently, admittedly, it's probably been the past number of years... maybe longer. We're witnessing an antagonism towards leadership that goes beyond personality differences and disagreements in direction. So great is the dichotomy, that it would seem there is a growing group hoping for the failure of leadership.

I disagree with how you are going about this decision or direction is no longer sufficient. We are witnessing attitudes, actions and statements that reveal the downright ruination of those in leadership and authority. Nowhere is this more apparent that in the political landscape, but we've watched in the business world for years and decades. In the battle of competition and market-share and the domination of a space within an industry, many have secretly and openly wished for the failure and downfall of their nemesis.

Now, I can only hope and pray that our churches are not seeing this, neither from their congregations nor the leadership. But I bring this topic of because I think the cracking of the door of this whole process as well as the animosity that results from the fall-out does rear it's ugly head within the church.

Leadership at every level certainly has its' faults and missteps; glaring mistakes and downright failures. It's understandable to a degree, for we are all human and for the believer, possess the understanding that we all fall short of the glory of God.

But once the crack has broken wide open, regardless of whether or not our hope for demise was secretive or public; we see people use the failure of a leader as justification to no longer trust that leader. And we take it one step further to make an argument against the bigger picture... the organization, the institution, the very foundation.

We take a flaw or bad result and use that as a basis to completely start over. And while there may be a time and place for doing so, that should not be our default rush to corrective action.

For in doing so, you may very well eliminate all the inherent good that does exist and never recover; because of the imbalance of our perspective, one runs the risk that they may never recreate the balance that the people before have striven to achieve.

Pray this #seniorPastorMonday, that God would guard the hearts and minds of pastors as they lead their churches and ministries. Pray that their failures, defeats and mistakes would be few; not from a place of perfection, but as a deterrent for people to use that against them to bring to ruin their life and their ministry. Pray God would give them wisdom as they navigate these challenging times and vast variety of experiences and beliefs that they will encounter on any day of the week. Pray for discernment as the communicate, both on the street and from behind the pulpit. May their be engagement to speak the truth and to show love; for the two are inseparable.

For God does not call the qualified
But qualifies the called.
And Pastors do what they do;
Just like the rest of us.
By the grace of God
For His glory alone.

- PNC

God is on our side, obviously. Although, sometimes, it doesn't feel so obvious. For pastors as much as believers.
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Conversely, though... just how frequent are the days where it feels as if nobody is fighting for us? There is not one who is stepping up for our defense, standing in the gap and acting as an advocate on our behalf. What do we do then?

Hopefully, we do the very thing that King David did!

He encouraged Himself in the Lord.

Was David tired? Exhausted? Burnt out? Frustrated? Stressed? Anxious? Absolutely, in fear of his life? All of the above at various times. And also, very "out of line" with some of his decisions. But he had a resilient faith and a heart towards God.

And he didn't wait for someone to come along side and help him get through the difficult places and overwhelming circumstances. That's not to say he didn't have those people at times. But when they were no where to be found, he didn't sit there waiting for them either.

So, let's pray this #associatePastorTuesday, that when it's one and God, pastors would remain steadfast. Pray pastors would be renewed and strengthened, even in the days and times when no one comes alongside to help in the moment. Pray that they would not lose heart, but stand resolute in the face of opposition and obstacles. Pray the overwhelming and insurmountable would diminish, as they continue to place their trust and call on the name of Lord their God.

For even when they stand alone and advocate for themselves,
God is near and present; fighting on their behalf
As close as the mention of His name.

- PNC

I've recently been informed that a true man admits when they are wrong.

Of course, it's not "new" information, and yes, thus far, I've withheld my sarcastic response, as the comment was directed towards a current political problem and not me directly. However, I am taking it to heart and acknowledging as such here and now.

I so relate to Paul. This is my biggest struggle. And it's not eternally-heavy issues, but it's the frustrating things of adulthood that keep from living a blessed, prosperous and effective life.

"The things I know to do, I don't. And the things I don't want to do; I continue to do." 

What's this have to do with ministry?  Because I got to thinking about the burden pastors carry; about how much they desire to do for others; to share the Gospel, to make disciples, to lead the church to go out and do the same and to change their communities with the love of Christ for the glory of God.

And they can't do it all. They can't personally meet every need. They can't respond to every request. They can't pray with every person, nor make every visit. The time, energy and money simply doesn't solely exist in their life to solve every problem. Yet, if wishing made it so, an overwhelming majority of pastors would be fight to be first in line. Simply because that's where there heart lives. Not first in line for their own benefit; but to fill the gap of someone who can't get to the front of the line or doesn't feel worthy to stand at the front of the line.

Some people can't stand pastors and church leadership.
I can't help but stand in admiration while simultaneously convicted.

For the handful of things that are out of balance in my life; why would God use me? And while I'm fully aware that many pastors would acknowledge they have their own list of things that are out of balance, they continue to position themselves to desire to be used by God all the more. The question of why still hovers at times, in their lives as well.

I think it's a sign of both an active, yet troubled faith. For we know to press on; but doubt says don't bother.

And we're back to Paul's struggle. Shoulda, coulda, woulda, done this and not that. But alas, here I am. Which is really the only response God cares about when He calls for us. Not all the stuff, not all the excuses. Just as we are, where we are.

Pray, this #seniorPastorMonday, for those pastors struggling with wanting to do more in their ministry, and yet resources, in whatever form they are needed, are lacking. Pray that God would give them wisdom, to steward their time, people and resources properly. Pray for an obedient spirit that would not be so focused on simply doing the most good, but meeting the need to which God has specifically directed them to take care of at that moment. May God continue to raise up people within the church, who will surround them and support them in the ministries and outreaches in which they engage the community and the world. Pray also, for proper balance; to take care of what needs to be done and not become so distracted that the days pass, filled with meaningless moments.

Stronger and better; not because of ourselves,
But by who we are in Christ
To do what He has called us to do
For the glory of God.

- PNC

... are those that are fully informed.

Yes, I waited late in the day to write this. My apologies.

But the truth is this... information is critical.

When it's missing, all kinds of problems and questions crowd the room. Some of the questions are worthy of discussion. However, some of the answers may be troubling and the problems that are created go beyond challenging.

I've said it before and it bears repeating... there are times where it's impossible to have "all" the information and so you find yourself making decisions with the best information that you have at the time. And sometimes everything works out well. Other times, you find out that you were wrong and need to make changes.

Meanwhile, we all would love to believe in the truth. We all tell ourselves that the truth matter, that we seek truth, speak truth and desire the truth to come forth when it is apparent that pieces are missing from making a complete picture by which accurate assessments and conclusions can be made.

That said, we all make justifications. We all make excuses. We have all focused on one aspect of an event and forgotten other important aspects for any number of reasons. Then if you have a terrible memory, this process of having and retaining things of importance from which to build upon as you progress through life, events and the decisions involved and things can get challenging.

Life is difficult and at times, incredibly hard. Often though, it's hard because we make it that way. It's not that we bring circumstances and events upon ourselves, though sometimes that is true. But we allow are responses to be dictated by many things that somehow take importance over the truth. Fear, anxiety, opinions, relationships, career, government and more.

If only we would make decisions from the onset and respond better to life and events earlier than we do, how much would our life, and society change? And the church for that matter?

Pray this #deaconThursday, that God would guide church leadership to be fully informed, to the best of their ability. Pray for the decisions they face and the challenges that lie before them. May God give them wisdom as they lead. May we be reminded of their importance, not because of who they are, but because of the position and responsibility that they steward. For though power corrupts and absolute power corrupts, absolutely; pray church leadership would lead with grace and humility. May they never forget that it is God who has raised them up and ultimately, God who takes them down.

May there be but one agenda,
The cause of Jesus Christ.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

I have a friend who is a university president; who among his many brilliant insights and perspectives on a variety of issues has a simply profound, three-word phrase.

Ideas have consequences.

Just when you think we've encountered troubling times on society's landscape, something gets more outrageous, more bizarre... another level of unbelief with increasing frustration regarding the process and procedure of how things transpire.

You look a situation or circumstance and ask, how have we arrived at this place?
Then you reflect on the steps and the courses of action that were taken after a direction was set. Wisdom would tell you to walk; and when things go wrong, it's easily correctable. However, when you through caution and warning out the window and take off running, the warning signs are harder to see, let alone notice with enough time to respond.

Thus, we find ourselves in trouble. All because we looked at an issue and thought the boundaries were too restrictive. So we compromised and made allowance with "safe-guards". We changed how we present and teach and affirm and correct. And I'm not against change. But clearly, certain movers and shakers in our culture were convinced certain changers were being made for the better and after decades of results, perhaps a rude awakening is bringing us to a place of understanding that change for change' sake isn't enough.

Compromise has it's time and place. But like anything else, it depends on the people involved and the state of the relationship. Otherwise, it's simple dilution. And given enough time, whatever was once intact, will fall apart.

Pray this #youthPastorWednesday, that God would grant wisdom and discernment as they lead, both in ministry and life. Pray that they would exercise discretion as they make decisions and give direction. May they be careful in the arenas in which they compromise and truly consider the motive and reasoning to do so. Pray they would be the influencers and leaders in the lives of the youth, where for many of them, we have failed in days gone by.

Better. Not on our own merit,
But by what Christ has accomplished in us.
For the glory of God.

- PNC