A quick and interesting perspective on effectiveness.

In writing these daily prayers, of which I haven't calculated of late, but we're at 740+ consecutive days, some days the ideas take a little longer to develop and process mentally before writing. Other days, I may still have not have much to go, but something super-natural seems to happen, beyond my abilities and the words simply take off as I start typing.

So yesterday morning, while processing mentally, I saw an unrelated idea on the social media fan page of my favorite show. I posted, hey here's an idea and the notifications started going off with everyone commenting on the idea with more suggestions. Pretty soon, I was watching and reading the comments more than developing the post!  Hence, yesterday's post was a little late.

This morning... 585 suggestions in a short 23 hours!!

And while I'd love to figure out how to make that happen here in terms of effectiveness for Bring Me 70, it was also an effective lesson in how quickly we can get distracted on the less important thing being more effective than where our priority should be; let alone the importance of the eternal thing.

Yesterday was fun and the conversation interesting and the engagement of others was awesome to watch. And it wasn't ineffective, as in the midst of all the posts, I commented about being late on this blog and someone asked about Bring Me 70... so who knows how many are reading this now, thanks to the distraction of social media.

Thus, on this #effectiveSunday, will you join me once again? Pray today would be an effective day for the kingdom o fGod. May we be careful in what we allow to distract us and detour us from the efforts and work of ministry; knowing that we may never know, as Scripture describes, what will bring forth fruit and what will fail. Pray for discernment and direction as we move forward in life and faith, one day and one conversation at a time... whether with 1 life, 5 or 585.

Won by One.
For the glory of God.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I think building the kingdom of God is about the small things... it's about the way we go about our lives; and reach out to others. - Eddie DeGarmo

On this #communitySaturday, what could be more simple?

Sure, the grand gestures are moving.
The deep, meaningful moments and conversations have their place.
Power-filled times of gathering are awesome to experience.

But it is the insignificant; the little things that contribute. I'm reminded of the scene in Sleepless in Seattle, where Dr. Marsha is on the phone with Sam and asks what made his wife so special? Not knowing how to respond exactly, he finally responds with, "It was a million little things."

And so it is for the church. What are the differences we are making and contributing to those around us, both from within and outside the four walls of the church. Helping those in need, whether visible or not. Investing in relationships. Open and honest communication without the entrapment of offense.

Of course, if we don't practice making a difference in the lives of those closest to us through small and random acts of kindness, then how will be ever be illuminated to the possibility and vision of doing something great? As the old book reads, big things happen when you do the little things right. And let's be honest... doing the little things right can be a struggle.

Guess that explains so much emphasis on daily bread and worry not about tomorrow, nor be anxious for anything. For if you are not faithful with little, who will trust you with great treausre?

Really tempted to keep this #communitySaturday prayer short, in keeping with the sentiment.

God help us be faithful in doing the little things right and building the kingdom of God in the small things. Give us eyes that see, hands that help and feet that move. Not in our own strength, but with the power of the God and the anointing of the Holy Spirit.

Your kingdom come
On earth as it is Heaven.
For your glory.

- PNC

Over the past few weeks, I've had opportunity to listen to a number of great preachers deliver some incredibly powerful sermons. Tossed in to the mix have been a number of episodes of a radio show called "Equipped with Chris Brooks". He can be found on the Moody Radio Network and I've thoroughly enjoyed the shows that I've heard so far as well as the interviews and conversations he has engaged in along the way.

Yesterday, he interviewed John Stonestreet, whose latest book is titled A Practical Guide To Culture: Helping the Next Generation Navigate Today's World.

Over the course of the interview, Christ fielded a phone call from a listener, who shared with them the situation she is facing with her daughter, who is struggling with an incredibly difficult and controversial topic facing our culture... gender identity.

I know... you're wanting to know what this has to do with #pray4pastors and #deaconThursday. Well, we're here.

During their conversation with her, John mentioned having a similar conversation with a woman who facing the same situation with her child. Of course, John gave some of the same advice, which at the top of the list, was to continue to pray. But then he shared with the caller, the question he posed to this other mom. Are you getting any support from your church?

The mom looked at John, as if to say, are you kidding me? She responded verbally, with:
"Oh, I could never tell my church." They wouldn't know what to do. As if she would be ousted or shunned if anyone at church knew this was the situation she was facing on the home-front.

As I've stated in the past, deacons and church administrators and staff are on the front lines of both the church and the community. People in these positions, fielding phone calls and other conversations literally have their fingers on the pulse of what is going on with families and people in need... dare, I say, perhaps more-so than the pastors themselves. It's exciting to see what churches are accomplishing through "life groups" and small groups, helping people to connect at deeper levels of faith and fellowship, but at the same time, such a response is a pretty strong indictment against a church... both for the concern that love and grace would not be extended at such a challenging time and/or that the church is not equipped to help people through such a process and conversation on any level, let alone spiritual.

I don't know how to explain this dichotomy?

We want to the church to reach out to the lost and needy and share with them, that their brokenness is the result of Jesus not being present in their life, but then after they come to faith in Christ, they don't feel comfortable in coming to the people within the church and asking for assistance with the brokenness that exists in other areas of life as they work through their faith.

Does this make sense? Do you see the problem? What's the solution? Prayer... for starters.

As we embark on this first #deaconThursday of the third year of daily praying for pastors, will you join me once again? Pray that those in these critical church positions would indeed have the pulse on the church and the needs of the people, both inside and outside the four walls. Pray for wisdom and guidance as they converse and help people navigate life's difficulties. Pray that they would be equipped with resources and tools that will be practical and effective; that would help bring them through the challenge rather than feeling as though the battle will never end. May the church never forget, that everyone under the roof is in various states of repair and rebuilding by the Hand of God.

None of us are complete, fully-restored projects.
For God is at work in all of us.
Not making mistakes;
But using every detail and decision
To accomplish His purposes
That He may be glorified
In every life and every day that is nothing short of a miracle.

- PNC

I woke up earlier than usual this morning, still feeling that nothing really stood out to write for today's post. I crawled back into bed, not wanting to exit again the warmth any time soon; still thinking and searching for what might be in store. Nothing. Ideas, but not clear direction.

No "ah ha!" moment.

How often must pastors experience the same. In sermon preparations. In teaching series. In counseling sessions and conversations for people seeking insight and wisdom. Sure they are men and women of God, but they struggle just as much as, in knowing what to say, go and do as much as my episode was for the past couple hours.

It's hard to know too, when it seems clarity escapes you, just when you should step out and trust that God is going to work the miraculous with whatever ball you have decided to run forward. It's not that there's an issue in waiting on God... but a simply dependence on God to accomplish His will as you step out in faith with whatever is in your hand, dedicated unto the Lord.

"I have nothing God. It's all on you to do as you see fit with what I have."

So, pray this #associatePastorTuesday for those pastors who find themselves at times in places of indecision. Whether at home or at church, may God grant clarity and wisdom where the two seem evasive. Pray an increase in their dependence to wait on God; not through in inactivity, but faithful service to what they know needs to be done. May God strengthen and encourage them during prolonged periods; that God would guard them from making wrong choices and decisions. Pray protection to stay within in His Will and set apart for His purposes.

Strength to rise up
Even through the fog and the storms
Used by God for His glory
For the calling is sure,
Even when the direction isn't.

- PNC

No man is perfect. Least of all me. And the men and women I look to up, have and would acknowledge the same.

They make mistakes. They have their bad days. They have their bad attitudes.
Yet we all of our moments of influence; of profound insight. Hopefully we are imparting sound wisdom and relevant experience to those around us, to those who follow us, to those who look up to us.

I sat and listened to yesterday's sermon, and as Pastor shared the some of the statements that were made by the leaders of this nation from years gone by, all the way back to the founding fathers, I couldn't help but consider...

This is why it matters who are leaders follow.

I know, in this "politically-correctness first" period, we don't want our leadership vocalizing their faith nor their personal preference for the risk of offense. But this is how a community and a culture finds itself in difficult places. We leave behind the substance of their belief and character, while simultaneously demanding their words and actions be "above board".

How can we expect our leaders to lead rightly and upright when there is no declaration of the basis upon which they lead? Sadly, it's a trend that has permeated not only our politics, but also our pulpits. Somehow they appeal to our expectations, yet continually fail to meet them.

As we reflect, this Memorial Day 2017, aka #seniorPastorMonday, would you join me in expressing gratitude for past leaders who have given their lives in service to God and country. Pray also for our pastors and future leaders. May they be men and women who would love the Lord their God would all their heart, soul, mind and strength. Pray they would lead, both in our culture and our church from a firm foundation of faith. May God help them to live, not as perfect people, but as sinners saved by grace; understanding that all of us are in need of redemption and forgiveness through Jesus Christ. Pray they would lead with boldness, as they walk humbly before God and request of Him favor with man.

God be with those who have sacrificed their lives,
As Christ sacrificed His life for us...
In service to the Kingdom of God
That we may live in spiritual freedom here on Earth.
God bless (and heal) our land of His glory.

- PNC

Yesterday afternoon turned out to be a nice time to go for a drive. We spent a couple of hours hanging out with another couple and as we were texting afterwards, I got the following message:

"It amazes me that people are trying to sell something that they don't care enough to weed or clear out the trash."

Which got me thinking, just how much the more the odds of effectiveness increase when the minutia and minor things have been given the time necessary to clear them out of the way and off "the list".

I know, I'm one to talk. As sit here waiting for everyone to finish getting ready for church, I'm noticing a few minor things around me that shouldn't still be staring me down.

Whether external or internal, visible or behind the scenes, I can't help but wonder the rate of effectiveness within the church, or lack thereof , because we aren't properly taking care of minor points of ministry.

We've witnessed in our church alone, the difference in Sunday morning service, since we started a few months ago making it a point of emphasis during Wednesday night's prayer meeting to pray that Sunday would be an effective day of ministry. Much like I've been asking you do with me every Sunday morning for what I just realized, has been for 2 years now.

Thus, will you join me again?

On this last #effectiveSunday of May, pray that today would indeed be a day of effective ministry for the kingdom of God. Pray that lives would be impacted for all of eternity. May hearts be healed and minds open by the power and revelation of the Word of God. Pray that today would be a day that people don't have a church experience, but rather a God encounter. Through the conversations that precede and follow service, may friendships and relationship begin anew and existing ones be strengthened, as we encourage and build each other up in the faith.

That the church would be built up in the most Holy Faith
Through foolishness that is the preaching of the Gospel of Christ.
May it be made alive, as it is applied to our lives.
That we would leave changed,
Having been in the presence of the Lord.

- PNC

For many a years, the church experienced difficulty in connecting with community... mostly because of the stigma of certain life events and circumstances that contradicted the beliefs of Christianity. As a result, it ruined our ability to effectively be the hands and feet of Christ to extend love and grace to the person without giving a pass on the sin or behavior of the circumstance. To make matters worse, when people do come to faith, yet still have to live with the realities of their former lifestyle, decisions and circumstances, the church still struggled to minister to such circumstances.

The world continues to spiral, seemingly out of control, as more and more within society we see people "doing whatever is right in their own eyes". Of course it doesn't help, that I dare suggest people within the church do the same.

Yet, I was reminded again this week that communities will only be as healthy as the community of Christ is healthy. For how can an unhealthy church effectively turn their community towards right relationship with God through Jesus Christ? Furthermore, if we don't reach out to the special circumstances and challenges of life that people are facing during these increasing difficult times, then we will only see further decline.

People are facing serious strongholds and addictions.
Single parents are being overwhelmed with life as divorce runs away
Human trafficking and sex trafficking is nearing out of control levels.
Kids in foster care are at numbers beyond comprehension.
And many pastors and church aren't equipped.

Those that are, are witnessing amazing testimonies of grace. Which many more need to experience for themselves.

Let's pray, this #communitySaturday, that God would help us to better reach those in extremely difficult and challenging places in life. May He grant us wisdom in our conversations and guide us to to the tools and resources to truly help those in circumstances such as the aforementioned. Pray for opportunities to partner with other churches and organizations that are working in these areas of need. May God help the body of Christ to become a more healthy community within that church, that we may be more effective in helping the greater community live healthier lives with the purpose and calling of God upon their hearts and minds.

Effectively reaching the needs of those around us
Because of the work God has done in each of us.
For we were all once lost in our ways.
And we daily look to the Savior of our souls.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

I got to thinking yesterday (dangerous, I know, right?) that we've devoted Thursdays to praying for deacons and church operations... more of a "behind-the-scenes" emphasis as we look to pray and encourage pastors. Then we pray for missionaries, but not the people behind the scenes of their ministries.

It is no longer selling everything you own and getting on a plane now, neither.

There is major prep work that goes into the process.

It these difficult socio-political times, they have to find a "point-of-entry"... like my friends whose focus of missionary work is caring for children. There's raising a budget and funds for the work. There's learning, of language and culture. There's curriculum and other resources to prepare, as some are going to places where the Bible has yet to be presented in the native language. And the list goes on and on.

Yet, if their aren't people to aid in the process; if the funds aren't available to produce the materials and support the sending and sustaining of missionaries and their families; if churches aren't coming along side and partnering with them in prayer and support...

I'm not saying God can't still accomplish the miraculous through anyone who simply packs and goes, for surely He can. Have we over-complicated the process? Perhaps. Has the support throughout the process though, hopefully helped overcome the fear and stigma that prevent people from stepping on to the mission field in the first place? Probably.

Either way, 400-500 missionaries leave the mission field annually, for the same reasons pastors are leaving the pulpit 3x as fast every month. Burnout. The work is great and the workers few.

Pray, this #missionsFriday, the Lord of the Harvest would send laborers. Pray God would raise up those who would help in the process of sending missionaries, in training and support and resources. Pray God would raise up more who would give to the cause, through their prayers and finances. As churches are struggling to meet and extend their financial support to the work of missions, may God do a work in those congregations to step out in faith and commit to the advancement of the Gospel globally. And pray that even this hour, that God would encourage missionaries who are frustrated and stressed by the work and the challenges they face. Pray for those going through the process, preparing to step on to the field for the first time, wondering what in the world they are doing. May God be their strength and guidance as they work towards the calling He has placed up their hearts and lives. Pray an anointing and a grace of their lives and homes.

Until the whole world hears,
The Good News
Of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
For the glory of God our Father.

- PNC

I think I listened to one too many sermons on the radio yesterday, because at some point during the afternoon as I recalled the portion I wanted to share in this post, I suddenly couldn't remember who it was that preached these points.

But he was preaching on priorities, and how often pastors and ministry leaders get them in the wrong order, as we all do at times. He shares the proper order in his life as follows.

1) My personal relationship with Christ.
2) My relationship as a husband to my wife
3) My relationship to my kids as a parent.
4) My relationship to the church as a pastor.

Then he concluded that order with the fact that all too many pastors have #4 as their #1... which is easy to do as he shared the time I came to realize that he had done the same. But it leads to disorder and chaos so quickly. It's the fast-track to burnout.

For what is a straight-forward list, it takes an intentional, disciplined approach in our daily lives to continually walk and act in this manner. It may not always be popular. It may cause some to get upset as they witness that they are not being made the priority they think they should be. Yet even as Scripture states (and can I add, what has often been shared in many a movie), what good does it do to gain the whole world, but lose your soul... and your family?

Shall we pray, this #deaconThursday for church leadership at all levels? Pray for those where their priorities are askew; where personal faith and family are taking a back seat to ministry. May God help them put their life back into proper order and bring healing and restoration to the dysfunction that has resulted. Pray for insight of purpose as to how better live intentionally. Pray for break-through in their lives and ministries as they go through this process; that what was being held back would come forth.

Forgive us, for making the work harder than it needs to be
Because we have misplaced priorities
For how can we effectively lead abroad
If we are not properly leading our homes.
For the glory of God
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I continue to pray God is going before me to ensure these prayer post don't "feel" or come across as repetitious. Certainly, not consistently repetitious. That said, it's been interesting how God has used parenting analogies as cross-over topics for prayer regarding kids and teens.

The sermon that played on the radio yesterday was a little hard-hitting. Specifically Jonah's' rebellion. There's so much depth to consider as it relates to our 21st faith. But a couple of points stand out.

The salvation of the cities was delayed because of Jonah's stubbornness.
The merchants sacrificed their cargo, aka their livelihood, at the expense of his refusal to obey God.
On a comedic note, could we consider the fish inconvenienced by God, as it says the fish was "appointed", to get Jonah?
Not to mention the fact, of just how casually we respond to God with a solid "NO", not thinking for a minute, the ripple effect of what follows and what other means God may employ to bring us to a place of "YES".

One of two things are true.
We all remember how our parents reacted when we told them No... if we had the guts to do so.
We all know how we react when our kids tell us No; should they have a similar strength of gull.

Yet, much like in parenting, to tell God No shows a sense of distrust on our part. Or so it seems. And as much as a parent doesn't want to hear they aren't trusted, how much more of an offense to express distrust in a God who so loved us to willingly offer His own Son to take our place.

Though the "everyday believer" shouldn't be so casual about telling God No, neither should pastors, for no doubt, just as we witnessed in the life of Jonah, people in ministry have their days and moments where they would rather not "go and do" what God has directed.

Let's pray this #youthPastorWednesday, that God would help pastors (and all of us, actually) to place greater trust in Him, no matter what the level of our faith. May the appearance and prospect of the task not discourage pastors from stepping forward in affirmation and obedience. Pray God's Will would not be delayed. Pray that others would not have to the make a greater sacrifice than what it would cost to repond "yes" from the onset. Pray the consequences and stress of stubborn rebellion would be averted; that we would not willingly stand in the way of God.

For God will use whatever means necessary.
May we not miss out on the blessing through obedience
Because we stuck to our argument to not participate in His purpose.
For He knows the plans He has for us...
A hope and a future.
To be used for His glory.

- PNC

 I recently heard, perhaps, the most powerful sermon on forgiveness ever. It truly was a powerful message that I dare say, touched nearly everyone within earshot. During the course of the message, the pastor shared of a situation in which a pastor was passed over for a position in ministry. Thus, the individual was offended and the actions that followed to express his frustration were apparent over the years.

Yet, ultimately, the power to forgive falls with the one offended, regardless of where the offender is real or perceived to be in the wrong for his or her actions. Otherwise, the cycle is simply perpetuated and correspondingly, harder to break as time continues.

It's amazing as well, how unforgiveness carries over into other realms of life and becomes a blockage. As explained through the analogy of a door, it keeps one from going out, but also keeps others from coming in. So our refusal to open the  door is a permission slip to reject whatever may await us on the other side.

Which is fine, unless it's the presence and blessing of God that we are ultimately blocking.

Whether from behind the pulpit or in the pew, I think we can all agree that's the last thing we would want to refuse into our life as a follower of Jesus Christ.

Thus, will you pray this #associatePastorTuesday? Pray for those who are struggling with letting go of an offense, whether real or perceived. May there be an opening in the door of their heart and mind to extend grace and forgiveness. Pray for grudges and bitterness to be laid at the cross. Pray for healing in the lives of those where unforgiveness and bitterness have become strongholds. May such situations and circumstances not hinder the work of the ministry or the advancement of the Gospel. May God work the miraculous as He sees fit, as people work through the process and release of being offended... that it would not get the better of our spirits, nor our faith.

For as we open the door to extend the character of Christ
May the blessing of God return through the same door.
That in all things, God may receive glory
And draw each of us closer to His heart and presence.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

We know and understand that pastors have battles and struggles just like the rest of us. We may not think about them often, but I'm always amazed to hear such moments of transparency. It's not because I'm shocked to hear them open up... I think it's because there is some sort of comfort or solace in hearing a commonality. Like pastors kids always listen to their parents who never get upset with them for not listening or have to raise their voice to get the child's attention.

Yet, on this shortened, #seniorPastorMonday, I heard such a moment of transparency recently that I didn't see coming.

A pastor of 20+ years of ministry shared how the enemy attacks him on Monday morning. When it comes time to file his printed sermon notes, Satan strikes. With thoughts of how the next sermon won't be as good. How God won't give him another message like that. The message he preached yesterday wasn't as good as he thought it was. It won't have the impact that he's prayed it would have.

By the way, if my pastor is reading this; yesterday was a home-run. A hard-hitting home run, but never-the-less, it was powerful.

Yet what's the response to the enemy's attempt to discourage? The aforementioned pastor looks at 20 years worth of sermons and calls Satan's bluff. I have evidence. God is still moving and working in this ministry and through these sermons. What comes next will be good because what has been preached has already made a difference. And so, he presses on. Today might be another struggle, but one more sermon is a nail in the coffin of Satan's argument that God is faithful to send forth His Word through the foolishness that is the preaching of the Gospel.

So, let us pray, this #seniorPastorMonday, for pastors needing encouragement. May they be reminded once again, perhaps as they look over the records of sermons, of the faithfulness of God to lead them in their ministry. Pray discouragement would not distract or derail their hearts and minds, but prompt them to press in all the more into the presence of God. May God grant them fresh revelation and insight as the prepare for the next sermon; that the anointing of the Holy Spirit would fall fresh.

For He who called you
Is faithful to complete the good work He has begun
For God is with us in the battle,
Even for those in positions of leadership.
While no one is immune,
We keep our eyes on Jesus.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

A summer quickly approaches, so does, among others things, the popular time for weddings. Last night we attended the wedding of my wife's cousin. Upon getting back to the residence, we scrolled through social media for a few, to discover the daughter of friends from our former church had gotten engaged. Such a fun time.

After so many years of marriage (insert your anniversary counter), it's exciting to see the smiles and laughter and enjoyment of "young love". Perhaps life has taken it's a toll and you forget what it was like in your own relationship, or you do remember and it just feels so far removed.

Either way, I got to thinking as we were about to leave last night about the vows. We often have grand ideas about wedded life and how things will go and work out and more. And life does hit. And it its hard.

We all hope to be effective and achieve long-lasting marriages with happiness along the way, despite the inevitable trials and struggles that simply can't be denied nor averted. While we plan and strategize, hope and pray, we simply don't know. Which is why there is power in the vow.

For better or worse.
For richer or poorer.
In sickness and in health.
Til death.

The process of effectiveness begins with commitment... no matter what it ends up looking like, we will work together to accomplish the dreams we hold and the purpose for which we have been created.

So, while I ask that you join me in prayer this #effectiveSunday, that all churches will experience a powerful day of coming together in the presence of God, I feel a specific sense for new church plants. Pray for the special challenges and needs they face as they work to become known and established in their neighborhoods and communities. May their efforts result in increased numbers and support. May more established churches come alongside to encourage and invest in these teams and pastors. Pray for creativity as they spread the word on the streets; that God would lead and guide their steps and conversations. Pray God would provide resources and people to help carry the burden and pressures of ministry start-ups. May they witness results for the kingdom of God; that any attempts of the enemy to thwart or hinder would be defeated and that they would not be detoured, distracted or derailed. Pray the power and anointing of the Holy Spirit to go before them and prepare the way as well as the hearts and minds of many; that God would accomplish the miraculous as people are committed to the process with only a hope of what level of effectiveness they may achieve.

Living life one step at a time
Advancing the kingdom of God one heart at a time.
May God continue to illuminate our steps and our path
For His glory and the salvation of many souls.
Impacting our cities for the cause of Christ.

- PNC

I'm having a good laugh this morning, but only for a moment.

My friends posted a video on social media of their daughter having a tea party. Mom and Dad are sitting on the couch and Mom is getting left out. As she's recording, she keeps asking, if she can of some tea. Her daughter, being a stinker, keeps saying "No" and walking over to Dad and pouring him more tea. She was bummed... laughing, but bummed.

I replied to her #momsnotinvited with #dadsliketeatoo.

What's not funny, though, is the reality of our society. We have been on a steady decline because of our Fathers. It's not entirely their fault. Politics and policies have helped foster the perception that more government help is available when Dads aren't present. The excessive consumer mindset has driven more Dads further into the workplace to help support the lifestyle. The portrayal of Dads on television and film... well, that's a whole other element. Divorce is through the roof and as if Dads being booted aren't enough, they are trash-talked to the community and the kids. This damages relationships (and it goes the other way, against the ex-wife)

As Dr. Meg Meeker explained in an interview this past week, discussing her new book, Hero, most of society's problems can be fixed by restoring Dad's. Drugs are rampant in neighborhoods, in part because we're are relying on police to come after the fact, rather than Dad being present to step in before the fact. Relationships with kids and teens are seeing irreparable damage, because Dad isn't there to daily show and reinforce love, confidence, values, integrity or faith. They aren't learning healthy friendships and relationships because they don't see Dad having valuable friends and a strong marriage.

Thousands of hours and millions of dollars... in government services and resources, in counseling and therapy, in court costs, legal battles, and law enforcement; in community relations and "curb appeal" of neighborhoods, drugs and rehab programs... and there's more you are thinking of, even as you read this.

We are witnessing the generational effects of having begun removing fathers from the picture decades ago and while we cry for their return, we keep looking for other solutions which don't hold a candle to what is truly needed.

They simply need to come home.

Will you join me, this #communitySaturday, as we pray for the return of Fathers and true Fatherhood. Pray for families and communities where Dads are absent and missing. May there be a process of restoration and healing whereby they would be able to step back into the picture. Pray for a movement of men who will step in and stand in the gap. Pray for marriages to be restored. Pray for communities to be brought back to life; that they would be places of hope and healing. May there be a spiritual revival, of Fathers coming to the place of salvation through Jesus Christ; whereby receiving the grace and forgiveness of God, that they would be able to extend to their homes, families and communities.

As the world begins and ends with God,
So, to, does society rise and fall with Fathers.
For while we were made in the image of God
We have been reduced to treatment worse than dogs.
May God forgive us and heal our land.
That we may reflect His character and His glory
To a world and a people desperate to know they are loved.

- PNC

I heard a great concept the other day... in essence, it was this.

Why trouble trouble when trouble troubles enough?

And how much of it begins when we find ourselves in a serious state of the unknown?
(I see you looking at me, Dad, asking if I really want an answer to that as it pertains to my life :-)

I've been a car guy since my days of playing with Hot Wheels during church service to keep me quiet. I remember telling my driver's ed instructor I was fairly experienced behind the wheel and the conversation that followed, as my Dad came with me and corrected the conversation. "He doesn't have nearly as much experience as what he said he did."

Expounding however, on being in the dark, I recalled a scene yesterday from The West Wing. C.J. Cregg is the new Chief of Staff after the previous CoS, Leo,  suffered a massive heart attack. His Executive Assistant stays in to help C.J. get acclimated to her new position. In walking her through the schedule of her day, she tells C.J. how Leo would circle items on the daily briefing memo that he needed more information and/or a clearer understanding so that he was better prepared for whatever direction the conversation took throughout the day.

C.J. starts circling an item here, and there, and here... and here, and the next one and another. Finally she draws a big circle across the entire page. Clearly she felt like she was in over her head in this new role, but she quickly finds her way.

In the meantime though, is the power of confession. We don't always know as much as we think we know and even the experienced and high-powered among us have items on our briefing sheet that we have to refer and return to daily and acknowledge... we will miss the mark without help.

Keep missing the mark long enough and you've not only troubled trouble, but you've created an open invitation for burnout... among other things.

On this #deaconThursday, pray for those deacons and church leaders who are feeling as though things are over their head. Whether they be "new" to serving in a ministry-leadership capacity or they are well-versed in church and business matters, pray for the items and issues that require increased clarity and understanding. Pray also, for an increased awareness of the power of confession. May the door not be left open for burnout, nor trouble; may leadership be careful not remain too long in states of the unknown. Pray worry and anxiety would not dominate hearts and minds; but continually placing out trust in the hands of the Most High God.

May we be ever careful to not get ahead of God
Whether in our petitions or plans
Or our wisdom and understanding.
Trusting in Him for all that we need
One day at time, for each day has its' own trouble.

- PNC

For as much as we give the Devil too much credit in certain circumstances, I think it's just as possible that perhaps, we underestimate him as our as adversary just as often.

Consider the power of prayer. As I heard a sermon yesterday talk about how God shows up throughout the book of Acts and the events in that portion of Scripture are shrouded and covered in prayer. Thus, the enemy of our souls knows, that anything he can do to get us distracted and interrupted from making a commitment and investment of time and energy into the activity of prayer itself will go a long way into keeping us from seeking the face of God... let alone any victory or direction that may result.

As often stated by many before me; life affects us all. As the sun was out and yesterday was beautiful, so too are we all getting wet this morning with a fresh, cool rain. And as quickly as the everyday Christian can get preoccupied and concerned with the affairs of this life, so too can challenge and circumstance dominate the avenue meant for prayer.

Thus, I'm reminded again, even this morning, how blessed it is to be a part of a church committed and devoted to the power and process of prayer. From the pastoral team and leadership on through to the congregation. Yet other churches may not be so blessed. Nor Associate Pastors graced with such strong leadership. Not that Senior Pastors don't have the mistakes and imperfections, but there is a spiritual discipline and understanding that they are able to instill in their team and lead the body of Christ.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, that indeed, our pastoral teams and churches themselves would be greater people of faith, of the Word and most importantly, of prayer. May we not allowed yourselves to be so consumed and concerned with the affairs of life that we look to other people and conversations for direction, guidance and whatever else we might have need of before we approach the throne of grace. Pray for a boldness to our prayers, a confidence in God's ability to answer and a clarity to move in purpose in the things God has called us to obedience.

For we are His
And He awaits
Those who call on the name of the Lord
And are saved.

- PNC

This past weekend marks the 29th anniversary of one of the most tragic bus accidents in our nation's history, as a church community was returning late from an outing on a Saturday night when their bus was struck by a drunk driver traveling on the wrong side of the freeway.

Read more here:
www.nytimes.com/1988/05/16/us/fiery-crash-kills-27-in-kentucky-as-truck-and-youths-bus-collide.html

I have a number of pastor friends who are close friends with the pastors who were leading that church at the time of this tragedy. And as a friend posted to social media yesterday, he offered this comment, regarding the pastor and his wife... "{she] called all the families who lost loved ones in this tragedy yesterday. As she has every year, for 29 years now".

Though their ministry continues in other realms and other places, such was the impact on this community and obviously this church, that they are still ministering to those whose lives were forever changed on this earth by this loss.

It just got me thinking about the power of legacy. And the power of pastors who remain committed to the call of God upon their lives to serve the Kingdom despite whatever great triumph or tragedy they may encounter along the way.

I simply can't fathom, actually. What a time for God to show up and accomplish the miraculous. Which He did in the aftermath. But what a dangerous time, for the enemy of our souls to accomplish much destruction and havoc to the foundation of faith in peoples' lives.

Thus, will you join me this #seniorPastorMonday in prayer? Pray for this church family specifically and these pastors, who after all these years continue to reach on those impacted. May God strengthen and encourage them, that even though time heals, it's the power of God that continues to work and accomplish His purposes through the affairs of life. Pray the testimonies of His grace and glory would continue to be declared from this community; that what the enemy meant to steal, may God return with blessing, favor and increase. Pray also, for pastors' like the Tennison's, who perhaps have struggled to keep the course and such tragedies have taken them out of the ministry and calling God has for them as life has simply overwhelmed. May God accomplish the miraculous in their lives even this day.

For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord.
No matter what your life looks like.
Yesterday, today and tomorrow,
The I Am has the whole world in His hands.

- PNC

We've talked and prayed many times over, for wisdom and guidance among the leaders and advisors within the church. As if life wasn't full of difficulties and complexities already, society keeps moving and pushing issues and scenarios which seemingly take us to the next level.

There's one more caveat in the mix. One more factor to consider. One more twist to the plot.

It's no wonder sometimes why those closest to situations are shaking their heads in confusion while observers are shaking their heads in disbelief.

What adds to the fun is that each of us, at one time or another has looked at the situation of which we are not the decision maker and thought we had or have a better way to handle things. Yet all too often we miss the mark in making the right decisions for the circumstance which are ours to handle, manage and correct.

Consider then, what is trending in the churches over the past few years. We've placed a greater emphasis on growing the church and less emphasis on actually building the church. So things look good to the observer, yet the decision makers are missing the mark when it comes to making disciples.

Pastor Chuck Swindoll was discussing this phenomenon yesterday during a radio broadcast, then he dropped this gold piece of wisdom...

We need a greater sense of  "adherence to the truth, rather than agreement with the majority."

What's popular, what's comfortable, what's "trending"... sure, they be nice and attractive options, but it that what is truly best for the decisions we face or does moving in such a direction simply add to the complexity and confusion that will await us further down the road.

So will you join me in prayer, this #deaconThursday? Pray that our pastors and church leadership would indeed have a great sense of adherence to the truth. May we not get so caught up in trends and opportunities that we move farther away from the spirit and will of God for His church. In times of increasing complexity and confusion may God grant wisdom and direction to leadership; to do so with integrity, love and compassion. Pray that God would guide and direct conversations and decisions; that the church would continue (and return where needed) to making disciples, rather than growing crowds.

May lives be impacted for eternity
That spiritual truth would develop deep roots in hearts and minds.
To draw closer to the presence of God
Whereby we better reflect the character of Christ.
For the kingdom of God is near.

- PNC

Youth Pastor friends of mine are getting married this weekend. In honor of this life-event, I thought it would be good to share a great thought I heard yesterday during the radio broadcast of  sermon.

He was speaking on marriage and reiterated an often made statement, that with regards to ministry it's important to major on the majors. However, in marriage, the importance shifts to majoring on the minors.

Eternity is beyond belief. The kingdom of God is beyond description. The body of Christ is large; the depths of Scripture are like treasures buried in the tunnels of rabbit holes. And we could severely miss the miraculous of the Bible, the profound wisdom of His Word and the complexity of His character by focusing on the minor points of faith rather than the fullness of the Gospel.

Thus, in ministry, there's needs to be a focus on the things that matter most.

Conversely, there's marriage... which is full of difficulty without the pressure and responsibility of ministry. Yes, it's important to be on the same page on the major issues. Agreement and unity contribute to one's success and longevity. It's not that you'll always agree, nor feel united, but you're committed to getting through the process.

Meanwhile, there's daily living. And just like our personal relationship with God, it's the little things that contribute to the richness of the relationship. The time in conversation. The time in fellowship. The time in prayer and activity. These are not "big ticket" items. Yet, when they are lacking, the sense of richness is gone. And the door is left open for feelings of inadequacy and worthlessness.

This is when people start looking for an exit... both in the human relationship and their relationship with God.

And once again, the kids are watching.
At home and at church.
At the marriage of their parents.
At the marriage of their pastors.
At the marriage between the church and Christ.

Let's pray this #youthPastorWednesday. Pray for this marriage of my friends; that God would help them as they walk through life in marriage and grant them wisdom as the lead in ministry. Pray for the youth, who will sit under their ministry and watch their marriage. May they understand the depths and richness of a genuine relationship with God and a realistic comprehension of Godly and God-centered marriage. Pray for the homes of pastors and church leadership that may be experiencing difficulties; and the kids are indeed watching and learning about relationships at both a physical and spiritual level. May God work the miraculous in such circumstances; that healing and restoration would occur, and that grace and forgiveness would abound.

As a three-strand cord is not easily broken,
May the marriages of those in ministry be fortified
And ministry all the more effective,
As they operate from a place of health
Because their leadership lives and moves in health.
For the glory of God.
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I recently witnessed the power of Psalms 34:18

"The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saves such as be of a contrite spirit."

It got me thinking just how often we look at situations and while they may seem at the time like they are a bigger deal than what they really are (if we put them in a proper perspective or timeline), we don't always find ourselves responding to them correctly.

Sure, there's a time to be upset about our circumstance. Frustrated with the details of the situation. Perhaps it's someone else' fault; more often than we care to admit the problem lies with ourselves.

It's amazing just how quickly, even when we aren't looking, pride stands up.

We don't want to go. We don't want to do. We don't like to hear. We don't want to feel.

Yet the power of God lies in the power of confession.
It exists in the admission that we cannot live life on our own
We cannot endure the trials and troubles of this life on our own.
Even when situations are caused by our own misdoings and misgivings; God is able to move in the circumstances of our lives that begins with our standing before God... broken and contrite.

It's easier to do when it's obvious. Sometimes.
It's often much harder, though, when it comes to the refining points of faith.

So, pray this #associatePastorTuesday, for pastors that God is dealing with and refining. Pray for the situations and circumstances where it may be harder to acknowledge that their heart aren't spirit aren't as broken and contrite before the Lord as what He desires. Pray for those pastors who feel perhaps God is not moving in situations and circumstances; may their be an illumination in their hearts and minds even this hour that God moves through the power of confession. May they find mercy for their mistakes and grace wherever they may go.

That God would accomplish the miraculous
For those who would call on His name
Whereby we are saved.
For His glory.

- PNC