We are desire a relationship. More importantly, we all desire healthy relationships. Be it romantic in nature, or a friendship, familial or work-related, nobody wakes up and says the equivalent of 'today, I want to be dismissed, ignored, disrespected and disgraced, abused or neglected'.

We long for love, grace and forgiveness. We seek acceptance. We desire a confidant. And we know that a healthy relationship is one that will make us a better person, for who wants to hang out with someone who makes them worse off than when they met?

Enter Jesus Christ.

And we question his existence. We reject the truth He speaks. We deny our sinful state in light of His sacrifice. And point to others whose relationship was "unhealthy" as cause for your staying away. It's logic that's on par with the reasons people offer  to not get married or not work professionally with friends and family.

Yet, relationship with God through Jesus Christ is direct. Yes, the body of Christ is interwoven, but it's hard to speak objectively on the health of someone else' relationship from one's own unhealthiness.

As I considered these things yesterday, I came home last night and later read a post on social media, about Christianity being the American Taliban.

Here's the difference.
Christ and those who suffer persecution for His sake did and do so in the hopes that others may have life eternal.

I don't wish ill-will on those who disagree with the Gospel... for it speaks daily to Christians, who struggle with the truth it presents, for it brings illumination to things in our life that we now must confront. There is working through it with the help of Christ. There is turning away sad, as the rich young ruler, who did not like what Christ presented.

One response desires health. The other, desires the status quo.
The love of Christ demands a response... not by force or bullying; He will wait for one. But one day everyone will give one.

So, pray this #misssionsFriday, that today would be a day of response, to the truth and love of Christ. Pray for those who've yet to hear the Good News of Christ; that their response to the invitation of eternal life would be one of health and that a solid foundation of faith would be laid, drawing them ever closer to the presence and power of God in their lives. As the truth of God continues to confront things in our lives that are out of alignment, may the church continue to seek His face and respond from a position of health. May offense and rejection not gain a foothold, but that we would continue to allow Christ to work in our lives; that we may greater reflect His image to a world desperately lost... and in need of a healthy relationship with the One true Savior.

Not my will,
But thine be done.
For the glory of God
For the cause of Jesus Christ
Whose blood was shed that we might have life and life eternal.

- PNC

It's interesting to reflect and consider career tracks and job decisions... how do people end up where they are; how do they choose where they go, what they should do, which position should they accept. Some people have the coolest and most interesting gigs.

Then, there's the rest of us! Overwhelmed. Frustrated. Stressed. Some combination of over-worked and under-paid... or paid well, but still too much hassle for the money. But all of it got me thinking...

Does anyone say "I wanna work in the church offices when I grow up?" Sure there's a need for great office staff and administrators and others who work to keep the church operational; just as much as any organization needs qualified people to keep things running smooth.

Hopefully people are stepping in and filling these positions because they do love their church and the people of God and want to make a difference utilizing their skills and resources for the ministry. But it's just as easy to see how someone could do the job simply because there is an opening and they need the work... which very well could have an element of truth to the reality of the matter.

As I considered this perspective yesterday while behind the wheel, I zoomed out the screen of my GPS. Sadly, life doesn't work like this. We rarely, if ever, see the complete picture of where God is leading us, from beginning to end. Turn-by-turn directions... what are those for the life of faith?

Indeed, the Lord does direct our steps; His Word a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. Which means we usually have very little notice of any turns or changes on the road that lies ahead. To those around us, this is the automotive equivalent of braking and making the turn, flipping on the turn signal as we begin cranking the steering wheel... "Oh, we're going this way, I guess!"

Knowing what God has in store for you; figuring out where you are supposed to be and trying to decipher how to bring your reality into alignment with God's plan is difficult. Certainly, it's a struggle, especially when it feels that there are pieces missing... as if a couple of turns weren't included on the GPS. Or perhaps they were a little vague. "Turn on unnamed road in 0.2 miles."

And we apologize to those around us for the abrupt change. But it reinforces our need for God's help. It establishes our need to seek Him first and trust Him with all our heart. Though we may want to back down and jump off, the journey is worth it, for those who stay the course.

Pray, this #deaconThursday for church staff struggling in the positions they hold. For those, whose heart perhaps in not in their work, would God strengthen and encourage them. Pray reassurance that God has a plan for their lives and a kingdom-purpose for their skills. May God grant them guidance and wisdom, as to whether they are or aren't where God desires for their lives. Pray for peace in their spirits where there is unrest. Calm where there is fear. Patience where there is anxiety. Pray a faithfulness for each of us, as we wait on God; trusting in Him anew and seeking His face. May we do well what is in front of us to do now while we await the "this is what's next".

Standing on the promises of God
Trusting in His timing.
For His thoughts and ways are higher than ours.
May we rely on His truth
To illuminate our reality.
For His glory and service, we pray.

- PNC

In talking with a wood-smith yesterday, we got to discussing what causes custom pieces to separate, crack or split. His first response... change in environment. Specifically, temperature.

Dramatic changes. Major shifts. Little to zero adjustment period.

Sometimes, certain changes cause damage; even to the point useless beyond repair.

In a word: environment.

Such is life. Major, unexpected changes cause shock to our systems. Health. Finances. Emotions.
In adulthood, it's problematic to say the least.
In childhood, it's traumatic... to say the least.

Even from a foundation of faith as well as a position in ministry, life can catch us off guard.
The stresses and changes cause scars and dents; cracks and splits to the very fabric of our being.

Some may be "easy" fixes.
Others may require some serious investment and work.
The most significant may require the hands of a master craftsman.

Thankfully, for the soul and spirit of humanity, there is Christ.

Carpenter by trade.
Savior from birth.

While Satan has purposed from the beginning to destroy humanity at the earliest possible time, Jesus Christ was planned from the beginning to redeem humanity.

While in the moment this might be hard to remember, for those in place their trust in God and those whose vocation is the advance of His kingdom, it should be at the forefront of our minds. No matter what comes against, no matter what may cause damage; by the power of God we are not beyond repair.

So, pray, this #youthPastorWednesday, for those pastors feeling overwhelmed by the stress and struggle of life. For the situations and circumstances that have caused cracks and splits in the very fabric of their being, whether by their own decision or affected by others, may the spirit of God would strengthen and renew their hearts and minds. May the not be overtaken by frustration or depression, anxiety nor fear; but that hope would arise and stand within them. May they be assured and even reassured, of the plans and purposes for which they have been called and instill the same, in the lives of the young people to which they minister.

For what the devil planned for evil,
May God use for good.
To those who love Him.
Called according to His purpose.
In service to the kingdom of God.
For His glory and the cause of Jesus Christ.
The carpenter of our lives; Savior of our souls.

- PNC

I woke up this morning and realized in between snooze-button hits, that I could just as easily written this post for Thursday, when we pray for church staff and administrators. While it's possible it may be well-suited and quite applicable, I think it denies the truth that even pastors make mistakes in their job responsibilities which need to be dealt with, just as the rest of us encounter.

Regardless of which side of the desk you sit on, disciplinary action is never a pleasant experience. It doesn't matter if it is a stern warning or correction or a formal ding for the record books. It is quite a simply, a disconcerting event; emotionally frustrating and mentally taxing... in a word, stressful.

We know the ones you hear about usually don't end well... and that's fine. Most people don't hear about the bumps and bruises of the everyday "bad days" at work, when this and that problem arise and someone bears the burden. But are these conversations just as difficult and challenging as the everyday office desk or job-site? Probably.

Perhaps even more-so, as both parties have an understanding of grace and compassion; patience and discernment... looking at the matter through the eyes of faith and perspective of stewardship. It's not that the secular boss doesn't possess these traits, but if they aren't a Christian, the conversation could and probably does look and sound very different from what we might assume goes on between a senior and associate pastor, or the like.

Needless to say, having been on the receiving end of this conversation in the secular marketplace before, I have a slight understanding of how much more discernment it must take to have to deal with similar matters when it comes to ministry. To that end, we should pray (as I hit the snooze button one too many times).

So, let's pray this #associatePastorTuesday, that indeed, God would grant wisdom and discernment, for the times of difficulty when job and ministry responsibilities need to be discussed and corrected. Pray for a spirit of understanding, of grace and compassion. May there not be a fear to have the hard conversation and the difficult decision; but to confront problems in light of the truth and with a spirit of love. May God help each of us, as we work as unto the Lord and not just ministry-related things that are God's work. Pray a greater understanding of the stewardship of our talents and gifting as we approach our work and their responsibilities; that even in this, we would reflect and point others to Christ.

That whatsoever your hands find to do,
Do so as unto the Lord.
For we are His workmanship.
Clay in the Potter's hands.
For the glory of God.
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

One of the young ladies (a H.S. Senior) from our youth group at church, sang during yesterday's offering. She did a cover of First, as performed by Lauren Daigle. An incredibly powerful song, her performance was phenomenal.

Yet I found myself being reminded once again, the struggle we all face in our faith with going to God and doing so first.

Before our needs, before our cares... are we really giving Him our heart and our praise?
Are we doing so first?

It remains, all to easy to let frustration dominate when things go south. We respond from our emotions as we rise to confront the matter, rather than in prayer as we fall to our knees.

Pastor said it well yesterday, as we discussed Jesus time in the garden of Gethsemane, leading to his betrayal.

"Prayer should be a first response, not a last resort."

However, it seems that one of two things happens. We respond in prayer when it's only the worst of circumstances. We seek him when things have gotten the most difficult.

I know, it's easy to think Pastor's have their spiritual life "so in order" or that anyone who has been a Christian should have their faith "down" by now.

Still, it's a daily sacrifice. To bring our heart to Him before submitting our needs; to raise our arms in worship before we cast our cares. To seek His face before seeking direction. We come to Him for what we need from Him rather than simply for who He is (and by we, I'll stand first to confess).

Pray, this #seniorPastorMonday, that indeed, we would be ever aware to respond to life in prayer. Not only may we be quick to bring our needs and cares, but even quicker to present our hearts and hands in worship, seeking only Him, rather than to simply receive from Him. May we not wait until the final hour, but in the first seconds. Though the struggle is real, pray the strength of God would work and revive our hearts and minds; drawing us ever closer to His presence.

First... in our response,
In our worship,
In our requests.
Seeking the face of God;
Lifting up the name of Christ.
To Him who sits on the throne
Be blessing, glory, honor and power,
Forever and ever, amen.

- PNC

I was ready for this week to be over, almost from the start of it. Like many others, I'm sure I wasn't alone in this sentiment. Wherever you were, Friday was a gorgeous sunrise. Then, it felt like it started going downhill and well... let's just say my frustration could have been prevented. By none other than myself.

My feeling of a manic Monday having merged with a Friday the 13th... okay, that might be a slight over-exaggeration. Yet, thanks to the encouragement and support of a few close friends and the nagging reminder that I simply had to make the best of my stupidity while attempting not to worry  and the day eventually came to an end. A long time later, albeit, but indeed, today is a new day.

I love that God uses ALL things for His glory.
I am amazed that He would desire to use my stupidity.
I am humbled that He would desire to use me at all, quite honestly.
I wish the frequency of my mistakes didn't seem quite so close together.

With God, all things are possible.
Without faith, it is impossible to please God.

Yet, part of me wonders... how would I live with myself, without faith?

My life isn't that hard, certainly not as hard I seemingly make it out to be at times. Yet I am aware of what I struggle with, both in life matters and in my faith and I don't know how I would live with myself without the perspective and understanding that there is a God who loves me for who  I am; takes me as I am and calls me to be more through the power of Christ at work within me.

Knowing this... why would I choose my rights, over His righteousness?

The truth of the matter is this... a "know-it-all" attitude creates difficulty for those around it.

For the Bible is replete with the lives of those God used... the somebodies who thought they were a "nobody". Conversely, even God has a hard time working with somebody who thinks they are a "know-it-all".

Our lives are nothing in and of themselves. However, as our lives are submitted to God and the work of Jesus Christ, it creates the opportunity for His story to be told through us.

Our story becomes a "plot twist" moment for His Story. There is no hope in my experience unless after all is said and done, there is a "but God" moment, whereby His grace and glory points the hearer to Christ.

"This is possible for your life, as much as it is possible for mine. And who am I, but a flawed and broken man?"

On this #communitySaturday, may we find ourselves with opportunities to share the life of Christ by what He has worked in our own lives. Despite our faults and failures, even our incredibly stupid moments; may hope combat the spirit of depression. For we are his workmanship. Pray a spirit of humility about the lives of believers, for we are neither right nor great in our own standing, but stand as rags in light of His righteousness and greatness only describes our need for a Savior. Pray for a spirit of compassion, as we hear the stories and struggles of those whose lives and weeks have been far frustrating than our own; but never forget to offer the hope of Christ... that He may work the miraculous in their life as we have experienced for ourselves.

His life told through ours.
Our failures and imperfections in His hands
Become opportunities for His forgiveness and grace.
Clay in the potters hands.
That all might hear of the goodness of God.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Wednesday, I had two ideas bouncing around the back of my head, for Friday and Saturday's post. I couldn't decide what day they might be best suited, as they could have gone either way. Yesterday, I lost them both. I prayed God would bring them to my remembrance... I think Saturday's concept came back, but what to do for what you are reading now?

Then last night, when I finally got home, at one point someone posted a previous "word of the day" on social media. And by previous, it was a day from last April!

Palliate: to relieve or lessen without curing.

While we know and understand there are many situations and circumstances for which there are no "cures" and our best efforts to little to relieve or lessen the agony, pain, sadness or frustration of life, my first thought was God's passion for our souls.

Even our faith at times can't comprehend the how and why of God's working in our lives. But in light of the eternal path of our soul, how wonderful is it that God does not attempt to relieve our sinful state without a "cure".

He didn't put forth a best effort, "that's as good as it's going to be; I did what I could; You can't tell from a distance" when He confronted the sinful state of man.

He provided an answer. A solution. A spiritual "cure".
When it came down to His love for us, He did not palliate a viable option to help our suffering.
He sent His Son.

On this #missionsFriday, there is no relief for the sins of our soul but through the "cure" of the cross of Christ. It this day and age where every message is louder than this, in the end of eternity, none matters more.

Pray, this #missionsFriday, that even as missionaries face difficulties in their own loves and they struggle to help others in their time of difficulty, may the message of the cross rise above. May the power of God transcend our present, yet temporal pain and frustration; that whether we recognize for the first time or remember once again... just how miraculous is the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. For missionaries that are tired and weary, may God renew their hearts, minds and spirits; empowering them from heaven. While their "best efforts" may not be enough, by the power of the Holy Spirit, the love and grace of God is indeed, more than enough. In fact, is exactly, what is needed.

Regardless of who we are;
Where we find ourselves
And the state in which we exist.
Jesus Christ is the only true relief.
By the grace of God, may many experience the power of salvation
Even to those at the ends of the earth, perhaps at the end of their rope.
For where sin created a problem,
God made a promise.

- PNC

Can I go on record and state what we all know is true, yet, can't seem to fathom just how true is this reality... time is FLYING!!

I wanted to start this post with a reference to a previous post and either time is cruising or age is catching up... I can't remember if what I wanted to reference was last week or 4 weeks ago. It's going to drive me nuts. So... "recently", we talked on a #deaconThursday about how deacons and church personnel are the face of the church in many respects, sometimes more than a pastor. Office staff and admins are on the other of end of one's call for help. A deacon's influence and position can be strategic in a church's community relations. Together they look for opportunities to take church to the community as well as bring the community to church.

This often happens, at the expense of their own personal lives and needs; just as it does for pastors and other ministry leadership positions.

Case in point... friends of mine from a previous church. He has served on the board. She is a church admin. Their son and his wife are coming up on 5 years of marriage in a few months. Late last week, via social media, she updated the situation on her daughter-in-law's pregnancy. 24 weeks in and she was in the hospital; doctors attempting to delay a premature delivery.

However things worked out, come this past Sunday, this little guy was born via C-section.

A whopping one and half pounds.

And while I'd love you tell you this trooper is in good shape, sadly, my friends' meme says it all.

John 13:7.
Jesus replied, "You don't understand what I'm doing now, but someday you will."

No words were spoken and four days later, my heart still breaks just thinking about their circumstance; but I can't get over the fact that for 12 hours on Sunday, God had a purpose for that baby boy being born. In his 12 hours on this earth, he made in impact on peoples' lives and in their faith; in their perspective to living and how they approach each and every day that will never be forgotten.

12 hours was all it took.

Ranks right up with 12 disciples to change the world... that's all it took.

I can't fathom this loss. On a number of occasions in recent years, I've wondered what would happen if I tragically lost my wife, or one or both of my daughters... heaven forbid all at the same time. I've cried just thinking about it.

Actually living it boggles my mind. Indeed, it now boggles their lives.

Yet, time marches on. Though the healing process will take time, other needs, other issues will arise and garner their attention. Ministry issues and opportunities to minister will need tending and in the sovereignty of God, this piece of their lives will be used for His glory in the advancement of the kingdom of Heaven.

For the moment, it's an "in-your-face" life changing event. As time continues to fly, the experience will become a part of the story that God uses to transform the lives of those who hear it. Which requires first, hearing other's stories. It's not easy now, for sure. It may never be. It probably won't be for a while. For that and more, there is grace. And the comfort of the Holy Spirit.

On this #deaconThursday, would you join me in prayer; using the specific loss of this family as inspiration to pray over those in ministry who set their own struggles and losses aside to help others. Pray God would give rest to their weariness and comfort to their mourning. Pray His peace for their unrest; calm in the midst of the storm. Pray for healing, both physical and emotional in this time of unfathomable pain. May the body of Christ surround them with love and support as we are called to do; to intercede and stand in the gap... bringing those in need to the throne of grace.

Beauty from ashes.
Joy from mourning.
Provision for our loss.
Protection and strength in exchange for vulnerability and weakness.
Trusting in God, despite what we don't understand.
Our lives for His purpose and His glory.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I should have known, as I seriously considered that God might be using the "verse of the day" as a basis for this post, that some element of it would appear in my life quickly.

James 3:16
-- For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.

Right in the middle is where I found myself, in case your curious. Strife and confusion. But nothing my headphones and The Healing Rock radio station, courtesy of The Healing Stream Media Network couldn't help relieve and buoy my spirits.

Interestingly enough, James says, envy. It's close relative jealousy, involves the thought that one was more rightly deserving. Envy involves the want or coveting of something that has simply been awarded or achieved by another. Whether I deserve it is a mute point... I'm simply discontent that you have it or obtained it.

Perhaps strife is a bit strong for my experience. I don't know that it qualifies as vigorous and bitter conflict (probably not, actually) but to consider the mixing of envy and bitter conflict and the problems that follow are both obvious and unpredictable.

We have seemingly perfected the art of comparison and yet, it controls us to the point of creating stress and tension... confusion ultimately, and getting it sorted out is never easy.

Kids do this well. Comparison comes naturally. And quickly. If not handled properly, it sets them up for a life of continued discontentment... such that bitterness will set in and create conflicts quick enough to make one's head spin. I'm amazed at how often I am faced with my own discontentment in light of where others are in life. I'm not sure if it was any easier before social media, but Facebook certainly has not helped this epidemic.

Sadly, it does and has crept into the church and the very fabric of ministry. As much as organizations boast of increased sales, gained market share and improved customer or employee retention, so to churches... talk of increased attendance, explosive youth groups and amazing vacation bible school programs.

What a dangerous message to send to the next generation of adults, that we have not only figured out how to handle (or mishandle, rather) discontent in our home, but that we've allowed it to present itself within the church. Conflict ensues, confusion results and now the enemy has access to destroy, as the opening has been created for other evils to enter.

Well... now we know how to pray! On this #youthPastorWednesday, pray a spirit of contentment; in who were are people, and as believers... as the children of God. May we live by example and put behind us envy (and jealousy, for that matter). Though we will face difficulty and conflict in our lives, may the Holy Spirit help us, that it would not create bitterness within us, whereby dominating both word and deed; action and reaction. Pray a constant reminder that our identity is in Christ and we are His. May we do well, to teach and instill the same,  both in our homes, and our youth and children's ministries. Pray a consistency among the people of God, that while we are not perfect, we do call on God and rely on Him to help us live a life pleasing to Him, displaying the love of Christ to a world being destroyed by the evil within.

May we overcome evil with God.
By the power of God
And the love of Jesus Christ at work in our hearts.
Content, not because of our self,
But who we are in Christ.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

It is good that iron sharpens iron. It is a direct relationship; a true 1:1 comparison. Inspired from a devotional I read yesterday, it got me thinking... of course, about ministry.

We often hear of "big picture" conferences and gatherings designed for a defined group, but I couldn't help but wonder, if there aren't times where they should be more specific. Case in point, it's great for pastors to get together and encourage one another and learn from each other, but as we break up the week and pray for specific positions within the church, is it not wise for worship pastors to meet, share and learn from other worship pastors? Associate pastors have issues and challenges that differ from senior/lead pastors. Likewise children's and youth pastors have an entirely different perspective, regarding their target audience of ministry.

I'm not saying there's not overlap, that these pastors can't learn from others who hold different responsibilities elsewhere in ministry; but at the same time, a dad struggling with his teenager is more likely to seek help from another dad with a teen than one with a toddler. A specific iron needs to be sharpened. A specific iron is required.

The same is true for business. It's a great opportunity for managers and CEO's to learn from each other and those times are necessary and appropriate. But you'd have to agree, the conversation looks entirely different if the room were exclusively CEO's or exclusively a group of specific managers, like sales or HR.

On this #associatePastorTuesday, can we pray, that opportunities for connections  would be opened? Pray that conversations and discussions would take place, whereby pastors would be sharpened, both in their ministry life and their personal life. May relationships be formed, that would give way to mentoring, encouragement and wisdom, as specific ministries are able to speak into similar ministries. Pray the challenges and difficulties they face would be opportunities for life to be spoken; that health and wholeness would result. Pray that any spirit of loneliness, abandonment or fatigue would be laid at the cross, as hearts and minds are renewed and strengthened, by the sharpening of iron.

A spirit of unity
And solidarity of purpose
For those advancing the work of the God's kingdom
Through the office of "pastor"
For the glory of God.

- PNC

My pastor's birthday was yesterday. For the past couple of weeks, he had been taking opportunity to share his birthday wish. While a couple of people showed up with his favorite kind of pie, (which I'm certain made his day), his wish wasn't necessarily a selfish one, as much as it was his love for the people of God.

Daylight savings time messes with all of our clocks, literally and physically, and so his birthday wish, was that Sunday morning would be a full house, despite the time change. For reasons, outside of the time change, we were late to church...and thus, quietly slipped in the back; the very back to be exact, as it appeared there wasn't much room anywhere else.

Indeed, Pastor got his wish. The house of God was "full" (to the tune of a good 80-90%).

It can be argued that not all prayers get answered; or they do, and it's often not how we would hope or desire; a "wish" if you will. But this simply story got me thinking yesterday of just how many pastors struggle with their congregations.

For perhaps many more pastors than we realized, church leadership seemingly has an uphill battle on it's hands at every turn and decision. Volunteers for ministry opportunity, funds for a special project or outreach, support to help people in need... or something as simply as increasing attendance to any given service...

All of these circumstances create stress and frustration in the life of a pastor, for it affects their ability to accomplish the two-fold reason for ministry: to shepherd the people of God and to impact their community with the Gospel. Yet, if at every turn, they feel as though they are pulling teeth, the work of the kingdom of God becomes a source of exhaustion rather than a source of joy; a place of tension rather than a place of peace.

Granted, spiritual battle is hard, but the battle is against the enemy of our souls, not an internal battle with other believers. Yet for many a pastor, this is their reality. Daily. Sadly.

So, will you join me, this #seniorPastorMonday. Pray for pastors weary from the battle(s) within their own congregations. May God strengthen and raise them up, above the frustration and difficulty. Pray for a fresh perspective and a rejuvenation in their heart and mind. Pray an easing of their burden and a breakthrough in the blockages within their church; that ministry and support would be unhindered. May God grant the desires of their hearts, to these pastors who are jealous for the lives within their community; that a new found freedom and release would occur in the spirit-realm.

May the kingdom of God advance
As the battle from within decreases
And the efforts of the church turn to the ministry
And advancement of the cause of Christ.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

PS: the cool part, was pastors' friend from his childhood neighborhood visited the church; and gave his live to Christ at the close of service!

Winds have ripped through my home state in the past 24 hours causing major power outages scattered abroad. So severe is the damage, the utility company is reporting this is the worst in their history, with over a million customers left in the dark.

My best friend said this morning, as soon as the first power line fell, the utility began calling for back-up from two or three states over; in hopes that upon their arrival, the storm would be over and they could get a jump on assessing the situation and getting grids brought back online.

Despite people's best efforts to make the most of a frustrating situation, being left in the dark isn't very fun. Sure, the candles and blankets are romantic, depending on if any kids are around, in which case it's just loads of fun, unless they are easily frightened. Staying with family and friends is a joy until someone realizes why you don't live in the same neighborhood in the first place.

We love you, but I'd like my space back. (if anything, I'm more likely to hear this than to say it, but I guess that might depend on who was over, if I were the host). You know how it goes.

As I consider though, the plight of the western world being left dark, I couldn't help but be reminded of the spiritual plight of this world... left in the eternal darkness short of living a life illuminated by the truth of the Gospel of Christ.

For inasmuch as the utility company was scrambling for reinforcements and skilled labor to bring towns and communities back "on-line", so to, the church needs to be scrambling to bring people "in-line" to God through the person of Jesus Christ.

I for one, know I should and could be doing more. Yet, in this technology-driven world (as my phone charges via my laptop, my youngest stands by grandpa playing with her leapfrog tablet and the oldest sits with grandma playing on her kid kindle fire), it's easy... perhaps too much so, to not be concerned about those going without the luxuries of this modern age. How much do we consider their plight should they miss the eternal luxury of heaven by being left in the vast darkness of eternity outside of the presence of the glory of God.

May it not be so. The utility company spent almost the entire day before they started issuing estimated times for power restoration. May we not lose any time in delaying the opportunity to tell people how much longer they are to wait in spiritual darkness.

For as much as we want the lights turned on (and now), all the more, may people desire a spiritual awaking to the light of Christ. For we are His light to the world.

Pray, this #missionsFriday, that it would be a day of spiritual light-switches being flicked on towards God. May many lives be activated as the truth of God's Word illuminates hearts and minds. Pray that the blinders of this life would be cast aside and the desire for the light of Jesus Christ to transform our lives. May we not be distracted by the temporal pleasures and set-backs of this earth, but focused on the joys of heaven, content with the blessings of God that He has bestowed upon humanity.

May the people of God work as tirelessly as the linemen
That hearts would be brought online to the things of God
Long before we worry about whether power grid is functional.
For whatever power this earth produces; it pales in comparison
To the power of God at work in the lives of humanity.
For those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Every church works just a little bit differently. Whether in ministry or operations, each organisation has its own culture and structure. I'm grateful to be a part of a church that is well-balanced. Notice, I didn't say perfect. For as long as imperfect people fill the pews, there will never be a perfect church. 

That said, at our recent business meeting, the term of service for one of our deacon couples has come up... which for our fellowship means taking a term away from the board and allowing others to serve.  In addition, it grants for the board member and spouse to step back and serve in other capacities; which they often already do anyway. Furthermore, though it prevents burnout.  Most ministries within the church are incredible time commitments and the board is no exception. If anything, dare I say that serving on the board is one of the bigger commitments, short of pastor.

Sure, the congregation laughed when pastor joked about bringing two couples on board to fill the vacancy left by one couple leaving, because that's how big of a hole they are leaving behind; but the joke proves my point.

The other amazing benefit of such a code of operation, is that by having an alternating rotation of when one's term expires is that you get the advantage of bringing fresh minds and perspectives to the table of discussion without losing the experience of those still seated. The whole board is getting replaced all at once.

Just one more incredible piece of the puzzle, that is the ministry of the modern day church. Technology is amazing. The buildings are incredible. The opportunity before us is great. But in the end, this is another humbling truth, that the advancement of the Gospel only happens by the activeness of the people of God.

So, shall we pray this #deaconThursady... pray for those stepping away for a period of time; that God would rejuvenate and strengthen their hearts and minds. May this be a time that God would do a new work in their lives and families. For those that are coming into the rotation, may God might use them for the building up of the church and the supporting of the leadership. May a spirit of unity carry them through every conversation and direction. While there will be disagreements and times of difficulty, may they not reach a level of hindrance or destruction to the mission of the church. Pray God accomplish the miraculous as people continue to humbly take positions of support and investment into he kingdom of God through service to the local church.

Ministry moves forward
As people continue to step up.
May many more stand and say
"Here am I... Use me"
For the glory of God
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

-PNC

I found myself pondering again, the words of encouragement I often received in my youth.

Keep your heart sensitive towards the things of God.

My parents and brother were incredible supporters during my formative and teen years, and while they are a handful of things they talked me out of (that were probably for the best even if was disappointing to hear at them time), they never let me forget who I was and whose I was.

My mom's next oldest sister was perhaps the one who most often who spoke the exact words. Her mother-in-law, an incredible woman of faith, who served both in missions and as a Pastor, shared this sentiment of encouragement whenever I saw her. Talk about a woman who had some stories to tell when it came to her relationship with Almighty God and her walk with Jesus Christ.

Sorry... got side-tracked just thinking about her. That said though, maybe Nana makes the point I'm looking to make.

As life progresses and the challenges grow increasingly difficult, if we aren't careful, we can quickly become distracted and desensitized in our spirit. Perhaps not entirely closed off to the things of God, but life encroaches and our time is sapped and tapped; drawn, quarter and calendar-ed off and all-too-quickly, the pace of our walk with God is off.

Satan has always been out to destroy the child. Thus, if at a young age, he can't cause enough chaos to harden hearts towards God, he steps up his game into adulthood. Of course, anything he can do to thwart the advancement of the Gospel, makes pastors of children and youth, a trifecta target.

Yet, just another reminder, that the enemy of our soul does not discriminate... against physical age, spiritual age nor ministry position.

Thus, pray, this #youthPastorWednesday, that God would strengthen their resolve; not only to the ministry, but in their personal journey of faith. For the attacks of the enemy that they encounter personally, may God grant to them wisdom and direction in overcoming the challenges and difficulties they face. Pray for friends and mentors who will stand beside them and stand with them. In ministry, may the Holy Spirit renew their hearts and minds to new depths in the faith. May their understanding of God and His Word bring transformation and revelation to the kids and teens they lead. Pray for conversations to bring clarity, revelation and transformation to the hearts, minds and souls of young people. May foundations of faith be set and established, not only for life on earth, but for the eternal reward.

That what was meant for destruction
Would strengthen one's resolve.
What was meant to harm,
May it be used for good.
To those who love God;
Called according to His purpose.
For the His glory.
And the advancement of the Gospel of Christ.

- PNC

Life can truly be difficult at time, can't it? Sure for obvious reasons, every one would agree. You look at situations and circumstances, and no matter who you are, you would look and say, "Wow."

For the rest of the time though, I think we make life difficult through the simple act of comparison. I'm the worst at this... and have been for as long as I can remember, sadly.

It an increasingly competitive time and the massive advances in technology and lifestyle, it's hard not to look at other people's journeys and wish you were in a different place or that your journey wasn't what it was. Not just in every day life, but also in matters of faith. We can wish we were more spiritually mature, more involved and engaged in the church or ministry... more (insert your spiritual battle here)

We make these comparisons from the pew. Pastors make them from the pulpit.

Followers look to their leaders more than Who is leading the leader.
Leaders can fall trap to focusing more than their following (particularly, the size of it) and forget who they are following.

Mentors are awesome and I'm a firm believer in everyone having someone "farther along" in their journey of life and faith speaking into someone else. But at the end of the day, I keep coming back to the encouragement of Paul.

"Follow me, as I follow Christ."

This is not a blind following. We should be close enough to recognize when the one person we follow is amiss in how they follow Christ. If don't fall prey to the trap of comparison and each, focus on our own relationship with Christ, rather than others and where they (or we) may or may not be in that walk, much of life would simplify itself.

Would you join me, as we pray this #associatePastorTuesday. Pray for wisdom; that pastors would know where, when and with whom they serve in ministry together. May they not fall trap to comparison living, but grow and strengthen their faith as they keep their eyes on God. Pray destruction and disaster would be avoided; that pastors would not get caught up in the following, nor would the followers be led astray. May the people of God resist the temptation to live a comparison life to others and focus on what God is doing in our life as we stand in light of Christ.

For we are not conformed to the image of our neighbor,
But the image of our Savior.
That God would be glorified among us
As we live for Him alone.
For He alone is God.

- PNC

Yesterday after church, the family and I went over to my parents place for dinner. The food, of course, was awesome as always. However, when my oldest started making a little bit of an issue of not wanting to eat/not feeling well; I eventually switched gears, if for not other reason than to avoid getting frustrated with the situation and asked what topic we should discuss.

A few seconds later, after making a joke about discussing religion or politics, Dad spoke up... here's a topic!

And the discussion started.

After a few observations were made and a couple of "those are complex concerns", he then threw in the caveat...

What if this is a situation involving a pastor (and their family).  Now, keep in mind, this isn't a dominate social topic in our current climate, nor is it a blatant morality issue for which they shouldn't be in ministry. It is however, a complex issue and a decision that affects the family unit as a whole. While I wouldn't call it a "lifestyle" decision, it certainly is a decision that affects their life and lifestyle for a period of time... and when it involves church leadership, it's easy to understand how some might have concerns.

(I know you're frustrated about my not being specific about the topic; just practicing discernment)

The big picture though, as I continued to think about our discussion is the difficulty and challenges that ministry faces. Whether personal or public, not everyone will agree with the decisions people make and the lives they lead. I don't understand some of those made by my friends, let alone pastors and they may not agree with the ones that are made concerning my family. And that's fine. At the end of the day, each has to live with their own and the results or consequences that follow.

One of the points that came up, though is the discerning of the Spirit. Sometimes people are spot on and others are so far off that it's incredible.  Christians get it wrong, as do pastors. Yet as church leaders, there's another level to consider... one that sometimes gets missed and that's where the problems begin. The decisions of those in charge, do affect those under authority. Directly or indirectly; immediate or delay... it will happen, eventually.

So... pray, this #seniorPastorMonday. Pray a true, Spirit of discernment for pastors and leaders. While they still may make decisions not everyone will agree with; may the be extra careful to know when they have truly heard from God regarding direction. Pray for strength in their families, as they live and operate as a unit. For those they lead and influence, may God grant them wisdom in their conversations; that as they live and work, their relationships would sharpen and draw people closer to God, rather than words and deeds that would separate and divide. Pray against the attacks of the enemy that would desire to use circumstances to cause riffs and strife, whereby attempting to derail and disrupt the ministry efforts of the church. May their impact in the communities they serve not be hindered; but advance the kingdom as they Gospel goes forth; both from the pulpit and the pew.

As we live for an audience of One.
That God might be glorified in all we say and do.
Not for the applause of man
But in obedience to God.
For the cause of Christ.

- PNC

Welcome to consecutive post number 642!

Thinking and waiting on the Lord and what He had in store for this morning, I got to thinking of the growth and expanse (albeit slow) of the presence of this sight and it's impact via social media. In light of #missionsFriday, I think I'm getting a glimpse of the struggle of pastors and missionaries.

It's not a huge glimpse mind you, but as an example. The twitter profile for this sight, which you can follow @bringme70, has struggled to break triple-digit followers. A few get added here and there and every few days or weeks, I notice the numbers drops... by one, maybe 3 or 4. And it's a week or two before a couple new people find us. (keep in mind, this all organic promotion, by me...no paid advertising)

As I watch this happen, I have to wonder... does this happen often? People like things, then unlike. Follow, then un-follow. And just what are they reading, that they are unfollowing? Do they not realize the sight is a daily call to prayer? Is my writing bad? Are they reading something in the perspective, such as you are now, that is challenging or upsetting and rather than letting God work it on in their lives, they are choosing instead to excuse themselves?

I couldn't help remember again Brad Stine... "the truth offends... but it's our job as Christians to not be maliciously offensive".

Which I hope you understand, nor do I believe I have been malicious in any of these posts.

Yet, responses can't be controlled. So, how must pastors feel? If people are sparse in their church attendance... if they come and go based on whether the like what they hear; missionaries struggle see salvations for the same reason, as they minister to those who've not yet heard the gospel.

Lives hang in the balance of eternity!! Yet the right to be offended takes precedence of the opportunity of the truth of God to work the miraculous in our hearts and lives. I understand. Many of these have hit and challenged me; even as I've typed them out. But the show must go on.

So, will you join me, this #missionsFriday. Pray the truth would be revealed, regarding the love of God and the act of love through Christ's sacrifice. May the bait of offense not dominate people's response, but that hearts and minds would be prepared to receive the Word of God. Though uncomfortable to hear and receive at times, may the promise of God and His plans and purposes outweigh our current state. May the condition of the human heart be realized and prove all the more, our need for a Savior, whereby we are brought into right relationship with Almighty God.

That we seek the face of God.
As we follow none by Christ.
Made new in Him.
Changed by the washing of His Word.
We are not left to ourselves,
Nor unchanged by His presence.
Thanks be unto God.

- PNC

Well, the sickness bug has been making it's rounds at our place. And beyond the common cold once or twice a season, we really don't battle major sickness. But for the past few weeks, we haven't been able to kick this garbage. Of course, as it usually is, I'm the last one to get hit which started yesterday morning.

So, in hopes of going to bed early, since my day starts 7 hrs from now, I'm writing this post the night before... which I haven't done in quite a while. Oddly enough, the rainstorm is passing through, and I felt prompted this morning that this post would discuss the storms of life. Ironic?

Indeed, when it rains, it often pours; both figuratively and literally.

The stresses of life and the occasional sickness that wears us down; they often coincide. None of us are immune. It rains on the just and the unjust, the righteous and the wicked. An unpopular concept in this politically correct mindset, but the truth remains. Good things happen to people, who on the surface may not deserve it; just as much as horrific things happen to people who deserve "better."

In the midst of all of it, life continues. Bills. Repairs. Scheduling conflicts. Work worries. Tiredness. Exhaustion. Short-fused attitudes. Don't get me wrong; life is full of joy and happiness, laughter and contentment, peace and rest. But the realities of the toll life can take on our physical bodies, our mental state and our spiritual perspective can not be ignored. We find ourselves asking when the weather will change.

That said, the rain is refreshing. Life-giving. The struggles remind us, that we are alive. And it may not take much more than checking your bank account at the end of the month to remind us that our hope and our trust is not in ourselves or our abilities to endure, but in God... who provides all that we have need of according to His riches and glory.

Pray, this #youthPastorWednesday for pastors for whom life is raining. May their faith be encouraged as they continue to seek the face of God first, and His righteousness. Pray the storms of life that weigh them down would not discourage them, though such times may occur. May they be reminded that such storms give opportunity to testify of the goodness and greatness of God. For pastors of youth and kids; may their stories inspire hope and faith. Pray that their lives and testimonies would prompt young people into a relationship with God, through Jesus Christ and strengthen the faith of young people that they may live a life of great faith; of perseverance and trust. May God Almighty accomplish the miraculous, by His sovereign hand... that it times of doubt, uncertainty and many questions, the church would stand firm, confident in Christ as the Answer; the Author and Finisher of our Faith.

For indeed the rain will come.
May we be certain to build our faith
On the Rock of our Salvation.
For the glory of God.
Peace. In the midst of the storm.

- PNC

I Corinthians 15 is a pretty cool chapter, but as I considered what God had in store for this post, I couldn't shake the encouragement that verse 58 offers.

"Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, unmovable; always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as you know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord."

In the preceding verses, if I can boil it down, Paul essentially says that what Christ accomplished through His death and resurrection is possible because of who He is. If we are dead because of Adam, then we are alive because of Christ. However, without His death and resurrection, we have nothing. There is no witness, no testimony... no gospel to preach whereby man can be saved.

Paul goes on to explain many more spiritual truths, making the comparison between the physical and spiritual man before arrives to this place of encouragement, but he understands well, the power of the gospel as it transformed his life, from one known as a prosecutor of the faith to a protector of the faith.

Our victory in life is made possible the life of our Lord Jesus Christ.

The enemy would love for nothing less, than cracks in the armor of our faith; areas of weakness in our life, whereby he can distract us and use our frustrations and concerns against us to take us of course. Even to the point, that Paul witnesses in his day; that some were not preaching the full gospel (which is much of his explanation in this chapter) But whether the challenge of ministry lies in our understanding of the gospel or life has skewed our perspective of what God has and desires to accomplish in and through our lives, Paul's encouragement stands.

These are days in which pastors and parishioners alike must be steadfast; unmovable. The truth of Christ and the power of God is alive and at work in our midst and though the days may feel as such or attacked as such, the gospel of the kingdom of God, is not a vanity exercise, nor the labor with which we pursue it.

Join me, this #associatePastorTuesday; that pastors would be encouraged, to remain steadfast and unmovable. May God strengthen the weak and the weary among us; that Christ would be made alive in their body, mind, soul and spirit. Anew and afresh, may the be revitalized in their efforts to preach the Gospel and make Christ known. Pray the distractions and disruptions of life would not throw them of course; but they would continue the race, fighting the good fight of faith.

Steadfast and unmovable.
Not by the naysayers in life,
Nor the disruptions of it.
Preaching the full gospel
And the whole counsel of God.
In a world of darkness
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

For all the times that Christians look at life, look at their faith and consider just how often we wish God would reveal things to us... like we are having a hard time figuring out the mystery. Then there are those moments where it's pretty hard to miss.

Take this timeline, since about 9:30 or so, Saturday night.

The kids and my wife all have been hit and miss with the weather the past few days, so everyone is tired and just attempting to plow through. It's been frustrating and a little on edge. In talking with my wife that night, I simply shared my frustration... life just gets hard. And I mentioned our schedules and the importance of praying together.

I point out the last four words, as come Sunday morning, both kids still don't sound too great... so I'm flying solo to church. Pastor gets up and preaches a stand-alone sermon, titled Marriage Matters. (funny, God)

So, we all know divorce is high. Somewhere between 1 in 2 and 1 in 3 marriages, end in D.
However...

For those that attend church regularly, the odds drop... considerably. 1 in 155.
For those that attend church regularly, AND Pray Together regularly... how's this? 1 in 1155

Well, if that didn't put an exclamation point on things. Then fast forward a few hours. Taking the oldest to urgent care, to get her ear looked at. Two guys in a front of us, one with two young kids.
The first pharmacy across town is closed, so we head back to the 24 joint. Of course, there's one on both corner... I pick the one I frequent more often anyway. The guy with the two kids is also there.

In a moment of discussing life, and my frustration with sick kids and how this week may go, God drops a bomb on my parade. The man shares that he's getting a divorce. After 16 years, it's "going down fast". And here, essentially, I was complaining. Not anymore. My broken heart sank.

In the back of my mind, I can hear pastor. My wife and make it a priority to pray together every morning before we go our ways and on Mondays we have an extended time of prayer, sometimes as much as an hour to an hour and half, for our families, the church and your families.

Reducing the risk... the odds are favorable when prayer is involved. Not so much, when left out of the picture.

So there you have it. This #seniorPastorMonday, will you join me in prayer over marriages. For this stranger, pray God would strengthen him during this time and that God would sovereignly intervene for he and his family. Pray for pastors, that the demands of ministry would not take priority over their marriage and their home. May God place protection of their relationships and their children, than in spite of difficulty and challenge, they would resolve to come together and commit to prayer and seeking the face of God together. Pray God would accomplish the miraculous in the lives as the approach the throne of grace, as one. For those pastors whose marriages and home life is in trouble, may God grant them strength and wisdom; bringing healing and restoration as they work through the troubles they face. What Satan meant to destroy, may God work in them and through them to bring about good, for His glory and honor.

That God would fortify those whose hearts are set on Him;
Strengthen those who have committed their lives to ministry.
Though life is hard, may it not overtake and consume us.
That we would arise victorious;
As the hand of God, leads and directs in the plans He has ordained.
For His glory and the cause of Christ.

- PNC