A Fine, "How Do You Do?"

Dear Father Time...

If you could stop sneaking off when I'm not paying attention, that would be great.

Sincerely,

The guy asking where the day went.

But it's #communitySaturday. A day to relax, a day to enjoy the company of family and friends, neighbors and strangers. I wasn't reminded today that there's no reason for people to be a jerk on purpose, but it was cool to watch as people respond to statements that bring back fond memories or a good laugh.

Is the world facing some serious issues? Absolutely. On a global scale. At a national level. And in the very homes in which we live. However, no matter what you are facing, you can decide to be intentional to not be the one who adds more stress, burden, frustration and angst to a person's life. You may not have a clue as to what they are facing; in which case a lack of second thought as to how you respond may or may not break their limit.

As enjoyable as social media is, that same environment is a prime example of a world of responses of which "a second thought" was not even given third consideration, let alone a first. It's communication that nearly requires as much, if not more discernment than that which occurs face to face or even via over the phone. We all know that it doesn't take much for a conversation thread to take a turn for the worse on your favorite platform, but at the same time, it really doesn't take that much to intentionally work to be a positive force for good.

It's as true online as it is standing in line. If the desire and willingness to make a difference is present, and it's going to require time, effort and a level of intention, then why not do something that will make someone laugh, bring encouragement, lift their spirits, brighten their day and lessen the stress of this present life. What a mean spirit it must take to make matters worse than is necessary. Granted, you don't always know that will be the outcome, but more often than not, it is reasonably predictable.

So, let's pray this #communitySaturday, that God would help us to be a blessing to those we come into contact and communication with; regardless of whether its' on a social platform or a neighborhood porch. May we be people that are a joy and blessing to be around; rather than a bear and a burden. Pray that our egos and agenda's would not be the driving force, but that God would use our perspectives and personalities to reflect the care and joy of the Lord through a demeanor that is not controlled by frustration and stress.

For it is not that we are without our own battles,
But that we breathe a little easier having entrusted them to God.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC