Last night, I had the pleasure of joining my Dad to a Sportsman's Dinner, hosted by a local church in the area... one with quite a large footprint in the community doing great ministry. The dinner was phenomenal and they had a great turnout. There was one "process", for lack of a better word, that we were a little disappointed with as far as the raffles were concerned, but that aside, it was a great night.

The guest was pretty cool, though. A MLB player from the 60's came and talked his experience. That was slick.... with some back-stories, that you'd never hear second-hand as well as some great insights, as the season is just beginning.

So what's this have to do with #effectiveSunday? Nothing. Except towards the end of the night, when the Senior Pastor shared a few thoughts after the guest player was done; and the pastor's opening comment was a response to some of the choice words used by the player during his spotlight-moment. I don't know the man's state of heart in relation to God, perhaps he's saved and it was just "one of those things". Perhaps he's not. It wasn't obscene...but it dawned on me just how quick, that either 1) a Christian could take issue with some of his words spoken at an outreach event held in the church building or 2) those visiting, non-Christians, who aren't sure how to handle it. Perhaps not offended by it directly, but curious why it happened and thus, turned off to the church, as a result. Maybe not entirely, but enough to second guess.

To the pastors' credit, his response was light-hearted and jovial. He only shared for a few minutes a portion of his experience between ministry and real life, essentially what we pray for every day. Pastors struggle just like the rest of us and it's just as heavy-duty at times. As he closed, many guys raised their hands, acknowledging their desire to be remembered in prayer as they are facing things in life that require them to look to God and trust in Him... perhaps more than ever before; perhaps for the very first time.

Whatever the case may be, it was an interesting follow-up to #communitySaturday, regarding double-standards. That's the thing with Christianity and real life. You never know, in the balancing act of the two, what will trigger someone towards or away from the things of God and being in right relationship with Him. Perhaps, even balancing act is an odd phrase... as if you have one foot in each world. Which doesn't work, by the way. But the Son of God came to earth, and lived life as we do. Real God. Real Life. Quite simply it is possible to point people to God, through our lives. Yet, even Jesus prompted responses which were far different from people returning to God.

It bears repeating...

We can't walk on eggshells, but we can walk in ways that are more reflective of Christ Himself and less of the person proclaiming to follow Christ.

So... pray this #effectiveSunday, that the church would not be hindered in it's ability to impact lives for God, because of deeds and words that trigger someone to turn away from God or at least hesitate to turn to Him in the first place. Pray for a level of grace, that people would understand that while we serve and celebrate a loving and perfect God, we ourselves are not perfect... nor are we automatically loving. Pray that the spirit of offense does not get the best of people... both for the believer and those yet to believe. Pray that, much like one bad review doesn't discount the quality of a product or service, that people would not be so quick to dismiss Christianity, the importance of the church or the necessity for salvation and a relationship with Jesus Christ.

In this day and age, the church must rely all the more on God working the miraculous as the church wisely utilizes it's resources to impact the community for the cause of Christ. For the glory of God.

- PNC

**editor's note: My apologies in advance if I've used this before... some things are worth repeating (plus, after 300 posts, there's bound to be some overlap)

For whatever reason yesterday, I was thinking about the movie, Facing The Giants. Actually, I probably do know the reason why, but one line in particular continues to stand out from that movie. The backstory, is of a football coach who 4 years ago, took on a losing-record football team at a small, Christian school. While trying to figure out how to turn the team around, he is also being challenged in his faith. To witness the exchange as he tries to practice in his own life, what he is desires to instill into the team is pretty incredible.

In a scene, where one of the students is waiting for his father to be picked up, the coach has this exchange, commenting on  their relationship.

"You can't judge your father by his actions, then judge yourself by your intentions. It doesn't work that way."
- Coach Grant Taylor

What an incredibly profound, yet overtly simply piece of wisdom. Funny enough, we all do it. Or have at some point.

Nobody likes double-standards. It causes political backlash. It causes marital strife. It causes separations among friends. In light of eternity, it turns people off to church and the concept of Christianity. It prompts those within the church to leave and go somewhere or worse, neither go somewhere or come back to Christ. In our attempts to understand God and who He is, at times, we even accuse God of this game!

It's easy to look at other situations, other lives and wonder... what are they thinking? And while, perhaps not a 1:1 relationship, let me use some literary exaggeration and say, that for "every" time you have that moment, someone is looking at your life asking the same question. Why is that? Because we all justify why what we do or say is a worthy and worthwhile moment in time, while the other side "has no excuse". It's frustrating to experience; for both parties. And it really is a game... albeit not a very pleasant as and when it unfolds.

And the eternal consequence is the real kicker. Granted we can't expect an unsaved world to know and understand all spiritual principles, but then again, Christianity is pretty basic. And when the body of Christ fumbles, sadly, the world uses it as an argument against God.

We can't walk on eggshells, but we can walk in ways that are more reflective of Christ Himself and less of the person proclaiming to follow Christ.

Pray, this #communitySaturday, that the church would indeed, be more reflective of the person of Christ, to a lost and dying world. Pray that double-standards in our lives would be eliminated, that we seek to live and exemplify Godly, Biblical principles in every day life. May we be careful not judge others and ourselves differently, for we ALL will one day stand before God and be judged equally by Him. May we seek to understand God, and know Him more... not in an effort to attain His position, but that He may be glorified, lifted up, in order that none should perish; but come into right relationship with Him.

We mustn't live in ways that cause further separation from God, but live such, that we draw closer and deeper in the riches of His love and the experience of His grace, now and forevermore. And yes, it will be for His glory and the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Once again, I'm reminded just how careful one must be when they are open to hearing what God might have to speak into or through their lives. A late-evening realization, I still really didn't have anything for #missionsFriday prayer.

Seconds later, I hear the television from the kids room. Whichever character it is from the cartoon, Agent Oso, who congratulates his work, having done it in just 3 simple steps.

Wouldn't it be great if life worked like that? Just three simple steps. And it does. Are you ready?

Step #1. Rise Up.
Step #2. Work
Step #3. Rest.

Too much work, and you'll never get consistently good rest.
Too much rest and you might never want to get up again, let alone work.
Failure to rise and then what...

A loss of motivation, a loss of stamina, a loss of focus... any work attempted won't amount to much, in terms of quality and any attempt at rest won't be fully enjoyed, knowing you've left your best efforts somewhere. They are not on the field, as if you were walking away know you've given it all; you haven't. You may think you have, but what you have dropped along the way is getting noticed.

It's difficult to balance, I get it. Work is demanding. Good rest lies just beyond the interruptions that are becoming too numerous to count. The energy, motivation and focus to rise again... they too are found in short supply.

There's a word for the conspiracy of causing the 3 simple steps to fail.

BURNOUT!

And it experienced by everyone. The entry-level. The executive. The just getting started. The almost retired. The parishioner. The pastor. The missionary. And the sooner the Christian can be snuffed out and burnt out, the better. 

The enemy of the souls of man would love nothing more. Yet for those who stand firm, in faith and in prayer... may they continue to rise up, do good work and be granted rest for their souls.

Pray with me, this #missionsFriday... for the hundreds of missionaries that experience burnout annually. They are tired from their good work. Exhausted from the stress. Frustrated by slow results. Desperate for resources. Pray for renewed focus. Pray for revitalized stamina. Pray for refreshed motivation. Pray that nothing be left on the field. May balance in their lives be restored. Pray for the miraculous to be witnessed, as God works in their lives to bring them back from brink of trouble. Pray their faith would be fortified; resisting the temptation to falter.

For the glory of God. For souls won for Christ, because the fan was flamed on the fire of one's faith, rather than doused into dust.

- PNC

Long-sweeping curves in the road... go for it!
Twisty two-lane back roads with no traffic, sign me up!

All provided you have the right vehicle.

Then there are low-speed turns. Situations on the road, where, regardless of environmental conditions, what vehicle you control at your fingertips or the load you carry, now is not a time to play Speed Racer.

Such is life. You know the conditions. You are aware of your surroundings. You know the terrain. Everything is secure and going well. Or so you think. Then... life.

As though a conspiracy against you has taken place. And it's amazing how just one thing can throw you off your game. The schedule. The to-do list. The game plan. The answer to "what's next" changes to, "now, we have to go do this thing, first". The dominoes begin to fall... hard and fast

Then the funny part... you were going slow! Using caution. Seeking direction. Praying in faith. And it still feels as though you dropped the ball. Or someone dropped one on you. Either way... if one is not careful, mistakes, even on low-speed turns can make a serious mess. And I'm sure you've discovered as I have, there are degrees of seriousness, used to describe the messes of life. But they shouldn't ruin the day. Or your week. Next month there will be another one. And by next year, at least a 100 more will be more memorable than this.

Time may or may not heal all wounds, but it certainly has a way off lessening the pain of the sting.

The church has made many messes. Some huge. Some blown out of proportion. Some insignificant and long-forgotten. And while God's grace is sufficient, what we often receive from man doesn't come close. No... now where near close.

But for all of that... God still uses the church. Still chooses to use the church. That alone, is worth pressing on. Moving forward. Taking on the "what's next" of life, even when it's interrupted, by "but, first this problem over here."

Pray, this #deaconThursday, for church leadership and staff... to continue to seek the face of God, as they move forward in the purpose and the vision of their ministry in light of eternity. May they overcome the discouragement and perhaps even the disgrace, of situations and moments where the ball got dropped; for whatever the reason. Pray God's grace, anew and afresh, for God is not done with any of us, yet. May the church leadership rise up in the strength of the Lord, not defeated, despite their states of weariness and frustration; may God supernatural move in their hearts and minds, to draw all the more closer to Him, seek Him in greater dimension and trust Him, with a more child-like faith. Pray for the release of life's messes over to God, who makes all things beautiful... in His time. In His purpose. In His Sovereignty.

For His glory. For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Does anyone else miss grade school?

The particularly fun part of the day, was always the time when you picked on the one kid who was just too easy of a target to pass up. Unless you happened to be that kid.

No matter what you had to say in response, your words did little good. The taunter always (seemingly) had snappier comebacks. Especially when told "knock it off". Oh yeah? Who's gonna stop me?

Fortunately, God takes up the cause of those who place their trust in Him. The taunter of our souls may think he has the upper-hand, smarter, wiser, cooler and with his buddies, has you outnumbered on the school-yard of life. But such is not the case.

Satan really is, just a bully. A frustrated, angry, egotistical angel whose pride caused his fall. As I heard it confessed once, from a former bully,  like him,  Satan isn't at a good place in his life. He knows his future is not bright and he is determined not to suffer in eternal misery alone. If can't have what he used to have, neither can anyone else. Sadly, we continue to give him more credit than he deserves for what is going on in our lives, and the world, rather than focusing on Him who truly cares for our well-being, has dreams and destinies for our lives, that He believed in so much, He sent His Son to ensure the opportunity for all of humanity to hear that message.

Of course, with every passing moment, that message is getting more and more drowned out. Busyness. Social Media. Sports. Academics. Politics. It's getting drowned out to adults and kids alike. Not just about life with Christ today, but for the life to come. God is on your side... the only question is, who has yet to make a decision to side with God?

So, on this #youthPastorWednesday, pray for the youth of today, where the distractions that drown the message of Christ are many and persistent. Pray for the Spirit of God to break through the noise, capturing hearts and minds; drawing all people unto Himself. Pray that people would not be drawn to false doctrines and teachings; nor bullied by the enemies of their soul. May the plans and purposes of God come to light, as people come to know and experience the love and knowlegde of Jesus Christ.

Satan's army may be great, but the Army of God is greater. May the youth, in particular, of today, experience first hand, that God loves them and will never leave them or forsake them. Pray pastors be strengthened anew, as they work tirelessly to this end.
A generation fired up, for the cause of Jesus Christ. To the glory of God.

- PNC

So, this is kind of interesting. There's a decision under consideration by my wife and I that happens to be the same decision being worked out  by some friends of mine, technically, in 4 other households to specific.

As I prayed yesterday regarding this circumstance, as each of us are needing direction, I found myself praying that God would show us the path He has for us, and "gently put us back on it, when we happen to miss a step."

For whatever reason, I immediately recalled, what has transpired in many an action movie, but particularly, Indiana Jones... where he's walking the path, and a misstep results in a sword shooting out, or a boulder rolling in front of him, or any other obstacle meant to immediately destroy the one trying to traverse the path.

And so it feels, in real life. One wrong decision. One bad turn. One second guess. It doesn't take much, and we can find ourselves in serious trouble, simply from trying to navigate this life while facing challenging situations and difficult circumstances.

Pastors, receive no special exemptions. In the church. In the home. Whether it affects the congregation or the family, any one of us have specific points in time where we look book and recognize, that certainly we should have, could have and probably needed to make a different decision compared to the one that we actually made. And while the decisions may not be matters of life and death or serious bodily harm as Harrison Ford overcomes on the big screen, that doesn't make them any less important. Worthy of covering in prayer. Substantial enough that we shouldn't' try to sort it out without seeking the face of God and trusting Him to illuminate the way.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for the challenges and decisions facing pastors. Whether figuring out what's best for the family at home, or the family of God, may they seek the face of God. May they do it first. Pray, the strength to resist the temptation to lean on human understanding and reasoning. May their faith be fortified as plans are discussed, even when their is a leading and a prompting to move in ways that don't make sense. May they trust in God's plan and purpose, as they pray for God to light the way and make the path clear.... that obstacles designed to take them out would pass; that they would safely cross over, to the where and what God has in store for them.

For the glory of God, we pray to these things. In the name of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Pastor has posted the question before and it came up once again, during this mornings' service.

How do you know when you are servant?

When you get treated like one!

Christ offered a seemingly backward model for us, in Scripture. He who wants to be greatest among you, must be servant. Similarly, he who wants to be first, must be last and servant of all.

For those who like decision making, this can be challenging. For the one who constantly thinks they have a better way to go about a task, the relinquish can be difficult. There's a lot to be said on the valley of decision, when the responsibility and the expectation to act lie with you. (and  much has been said). But leadership that takes in a 360-degree perspective; goes beyond themselves, consider the impact on others; the costs; the demands...

... for the one who steps out into what God has called them to, even when it goes against conventional wisdom; when they recognize, that while they lead, God is able to accomplish so much more when they step aside to His will; then God is able to work the miraculous, above and beyond what we can ask or imagine.

It goes contrary to what is taught on leadership these days, when it comes organization development as busin
But then again, what within the kingdom and economy of God is consistent with the world system, in the first place?

Pray, this #seniorPastorMonday, for pastors to have the mindset of servanthood and the attitude of humility as they lead staff and congregations into great relationship with God. May the decisions they make be led of the Spirit, aligned with the will of God and biblically-sound, where warranted. May they not rely on previous experiences or direction (such as Moses did),  but trust daily, for God's direction, as the display Godly leadership through Christ' example of a humble servant; willing to set aside their will in order to know and hear the will of Gd

For the glory of God. His will accomplished as His servants care after the affairs of men.

- PNC

I saw a great marquee the other day, in front of a church.. although, now I can't remember if I saw it, driving or scrolling through social media. (maybe both?!)

Come back and visit this Sunday. Easter is over, but He is still risen!

We prayed on Friday, about compelling the community to come... that the message of Christ is the only one that stands differently from all other religions.

Yesterday, we talked about portraying Christ to the community, rather than self; especially as culture continues to move further away from truth and absolute principles, while constantly promoting self.

How tragic, for all the prayer for the unsaved, the witness of our personal experience with Christ in our lives and the compassion of one's soul to continually invite them into relationship with Christ and on that journey of decision, they step into a congregation that contradicts the testimony and the invitation that was extended.

Church is a dynamic environment. I understand church cultures operate differently, but relationship with Christ is a state of growth and maturity. There's a difference between biblical disciplines and "going through the motions" routine. The latter can and often does, quickly become mundane... less than exciting. Much like a life without a plan and a purpose.

Just cruising. As if on auto-pilot. And this is one relationship that doesn't last long in automatic mode. If life a highway, there's twist and turns, fast curves, elevation changes, weather conditions, various hazards and obstacles... all of which is much more enjoyable with a manual transmission and a clutch! WHY?? Because you have a greater sense of the experience because it's an extra level of engagement. A greater sense of control. An increased level of focus. All of which prompts the driver to take the moment much more serious. As the intensity increases so does the fun, typically as well. 

Certainly, you are unsure at the start, but soon you're screaming in excitement...LET'S DO THAT AGAIN!!!

Nothing is worse, than an experience being praised by one; then when you finally decide to check it out, the experience is nothing like what you were told you should expect.

No points are awarded to those who are inconsistent. Credibility is lost. And the church, has lost enough of that over the years. Sadly. If you haven't experienced that reality for yourself, surely, someone only a couple degrees of separation from you has quite a tale to tell that will prove my point. So much for effective and efficient.

Pray, this #effectiveSunday, that while we don't get any points, guests and those curious to know more about God and who Jesus was then, is today and what He can accomplish in and through their life, will find the church consistent. In the message of Christ. In the life of the believer. May they see an active faith; not fake or superficial, but one that takes the issues of life, the struggles of regret, the disappointments of bad decisions and effects of situations that may or may not have been their own doing.... a faith that takes all their stuff and turns it to God. Pray that God miraculously makes something beautiful out of those who willingly humble themselves to a place where they can trust God with their mess. Pray that many would come to understand, their life is not the worst that God has seen. He is not the plumber, mechanic, dentist, bankruptcy lawyer, teacher having never seen this before in a customer, patient, client or student and is hesitant to do the work because it's unfamiliar.

God looks at every life, no matter the mess one has made of it and says, "Not only can I handle it; but you won't even recognize it when I am done. Only God trades our ashes for His beauty. Not just consistently, but for each and every life that comes to Him, through Jesus Christ. For these things, we pray. For the glory of God.

- PNC

.We live from our experiences.

The decisions we make, in light of the challenges faced, based upon previous encounters, information and outcomes all work, conspiratorially, i might add, to move us in one direction or another. And should we find ourselves, not liking where that takes us; then we have to figure out what to do differently.

Try a  new experience.
Take a new level of risk.
Get new information.
Change our environment.
Talk with new people.

At some point, you have to break the cycle that causes the frustration.

While, not a hard and fast rule, generally speaking these dynamics are true:

Hurt people, hurt people
Damaged people, damage people
Broke people, will break people

Conversely...

Healed people, heal people.
Forgiven people, forgive people
Restored people, will restore people.

A change in their life, a transformation in their experience, a revelation that life can be different; that we are not dictated by our past, but can be made new... not out of shear will (though that can get you pretty, far, I'll admit); however... made new through the power and the person of Jesus Christ.

Come eternity, you will not be remembered by your job title, your address, the emblem in your garage, the brand label on your jeans. You will not be remembered by your church affiliation, your political point of view or your gender state and interest.

On this #communitySaturday, who will you portray to the world, who you are. Your rights, opinions and assertions? Will you give people a piece of your mind, or a piece of your heart. This is the ability to see and interact with culture through the eyes of Christ. While challenging at times, as we battle our own humanity, the church must remember, that what they have experienced in Christ, is meant for the world to experience.

So, pray, this #communitySaturday, as the church engages culture, that we would point others to Christ. May our interactions be graced with the love and compassion of Christ. May we allow the Holy Spirit to do His work as the condition of man is revealed in the light of Jesus Christ and the truth becomes clear... we are all broken before the cross. We can all be restored because of Him who hung on the cross. Pray for lives transformed; new creations in Christ... not that we may have a better life here on earth, but eternal life for a better time after our death.

Counter-Culture. For the person and purpose of Jesus Christ. To the glory of God.

- PNC

The marketing department at Porsche, says that "There is no substitute."

While automotive enthusiasts may debate that point to the bitter end, there is no such debate when it comes to Christianity and other world religions.

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Ha! Who am I kidding? There is but One God. One Truth. One Messiah.
One Death. One Resurrection. One Judgement.
One way by which men can be saved.

I saw a great cartoon the other day, that showed in my social media newsfeed: Christianity compared to the rest.

Christ' ministry: public
Christ' death: public
Christ' appearance post-resurrection: public
What is told: eye-witness accounts of His story to the public
Many turn to Christ

Compared to the alternate...

Man receives dream/personal word/bright light moment/revelation, etc... in private
Man writes down thoughts... in private.
Man tells the story of his private experience to others.
Many follow the man.

For this reason, the co-exist bumper really isn't possible. Certainly not to the extent people would like to think possible.

It amazes me, what people will accept as truth, but deny the author of all truth, the it's possible that He is who and what He says He is! There are no absolutes, except what serves their belief or their agenda. God is man's concoction, but for the thousands of millions of years that we have evolved and the battle between Christianity and other religions can't be resolved? Christianity is just one of many? It's mind blowing, how consistent Scripture is, when properly understood in all of the context within it's historical, eternal, redemptive message versus one's private illumination message.

There's a big difference in the power of the testimony of one who has encountered Christ and the transformational power of His love and forgiveness of sins versus the story of one's spiritual exercise. What is the difference? The transformation itself. Behold, I make all things new. The blood of Jesus washes whiter than snow. We are new creations, in Christ. Sure, the spiritual exercises of others may help and improve life,  but it pails in comparison to the description of sinner saved by grace, because of Christ' unconditional love for me.

Therein, is the truth.

Relationship with Christ starts with His unconditional love. Religion starts with my conditional actions.

So, pray this #missionsFriday, that the eyes of many would be opened... not to spiritual enlightenment, but to a heart made new through the forgiveness of sins. Pray for the understanding, that there is but one way to God; that it's not based on what man has control over, but on what Christ accomplished through His obedience. Pray the truth of Scripture would be revealed as people seek to the missing element of purpose and faith in life. May the doubts, preconceived notions and expectations step-aside, when faced with the unconditional love of Christ.

Sinners. Saved By Grace. Through the love of Christ. To the point of death. That we may live with God forevermore.
Eyes open to see. Ears open to listen. Hearts open to receive.

- PNC

In a moment of jest with God, early yesterday afternoon, I once again suddenly realized I had no ideas for this post. (Fresh content, served daily @ Bring Me 70!!)

As if playing, poker, I realized my fate and folded. "I got nothing, God. What do you got?"

Suddenly, I was reminded of the Friday night poker game, from an episode of my favorite political drama. Staffers enjoying some down time after work, discussing a situation and one staffers' "faith in humanity". The other players have all folded during this hand, it's come to two staffers.

As they close out this particular discussion, the one shows his cards.

"I've got ace high flush. Give me your money."
To which, the other staffer replies: 
"I've got tens full of queens. Give me yours."

Then, my light-bulb moment. Forecasting. Even your certainty is uncertain.

As we've prayed a couple of times the past few weeks, regarding pastors, in transition, it's official... a pastor friend is moving "up" if you will... from leading youth, to leading a church, as senior pastor. I'm excited for him and the family and know they will do well. In reality, he has his work cut out for him.

The church currently runs 120 or so in attendance. A strong base to start from. Many small churches would love to see 120.
The challenge... the 900 seat sanctuary. Forecasting.

I have no idea the backstory of this church. ZERO. ZILCH. NADA. That said, I see two possible scenarios (and both could be wrong, for all I know!)

1) They at one time, thought they could or were growing at a rate to need that much capacity and never got there.
2) They came pretty close, until something transpired; and the 120 is the remnant that remains, or perhaps with some growth mixed in.

How do you account and plan for such things? Corporate is different. People by and large, make decisions driven by brand loyalty. Gas. Groceries. Clothing. Cars. Anyone on their 6th iPhone?

Planning for church growth, though? Number of new salvations; growth from personal invitations, growth from events in the community; job changes, growth in the community itself...plus, people leave for various reasons; people switch churches, depending on life changes or ministry changes... 120 to 900 or vice versa, however and whatever occurred is a huge swing!

Again, perhaps I'm wrong and something else happened. But in this day and age when people are more faithful to their brand than the church, you can't help but wonder what is going on.

Who recommends a great church? Where are the great churches? We stand in long lines for the newest dining experience, latest movie release and the next big thing on stage. Not that those aren't fun and great and have their place, but in light of eternity, the only reason a church building should be empty is if its' congregation is on the streets, compelling others to come in!

For Christ to come and offer life and life more abundantly, how it must destroy His spirit, to see churches on the verge of closing shop and pastors exhausted to the point of turning in the keys to the building.

The forecast may be bleak today, but the promise for tomorrow is bright. So we pray...

On this #deaconThursday, for churches facing the challenges of church operations, keeping the doors open, reaching the community, strengthening the faith of it's congregation and so much more... God grant to them discernment and wisdom as they continue to plan and pray for direction, in fulfilling the calling in the communities where they serve. May God strengthen the collaborative efforts of pastors, staff, volunteers and church boards, to reflect the power of God in their midst; that they would indeed compel the community to seek God for themselves.

Expand the tent-stakes, for the harvest is ready. May the gatherers be many...
For the cause of Jesus Christ; the glory of God and the edification of the church-at-large.

- PNC

No matter where you find yourself in life, you are never done learning. NEVER!

I went to college, where we often talked about the concept of being a 'life-long learner". I loved and looked forward to the process. Nowadays, I'm not so sure... I keep feeling as though I'm going through the same lessons over and over again, like I'm missing something and having to take a mulligan on the last test.

I feel there's so many things that I have to learn, that I'd like to learn, that it's a little dis-heartening to think about. Then I think about the people in my life and in various circles. Two incredibly brilliant men, whom I admire, have both acknowledged, that on numerous occasions, they have stepped "into the room" and felt as though they were at the bottom. People, who you listen to their conversations and experience, and you just know... beyond doubt, they are on a whole other level. And there's many more friends, who know so much more. My Dad and I have had this conversation many times... "how do you know all this stuff?"

Some of it is a matter of interests and the variety thereof. Some of it is motivation.  Then there's this aspect, that I posted on one of my other blogs (Less Is More...More Or Less). Titled, The Classroom of Awareness:

There is as much to be learned simply from watching the mistakes and faults of those around you as there is learned through instruction and study. It requires an awareness of who you are now and a decision about who you will and won’t become moving forward.

That's really the starting point. Knowing who you are; finding out if you don't know already. What will help you grow and develop, intellectually, emotionally, relationally and spiritually? Be on watch for moments in time where an exchange can or will occur, that will move you one step closer to where you want to be and who you want to become.

For the parent or pastor still in this process themselves, things get dicey quick. I texted a buddy tonight, that I felt like I was stuck in a "when Dad gets his act together, we'll start listening to him" zone. I know I'm not alone, but in the moment, it's frustrating. Fortunately God's grace is sufficient. And after a deep breath, another teachable moment to share with the kids. Hopefully they'll catch on quick... if for no other reason than to avoid some of the frustrations I've experienced.

On this #youthPastorWednesday, pray for Gods' help! To come quickly, in helping pastors and parents alike, figure out how to best handle teachable moments. May God give us the words and insight to effectively communicate with them, lessons that will stick with them for a life-time. Pray for kids and youth, that they would, for all their days, seek and inquire of the Lord, for the situations and challenges they will face on every front; in every aspect of life. Pray for the supernatural in their lives, as well as a grace, for when they make mistakes or experience failure. May they get up, rise up and try again.

God is always with us; having never given up on us... no matter how many attempts it takes to learn. May they grow to be life-long learners of many things, starting with God and His Word.

In His Name, we ask these things. We give You the glory in advance; none of us as grandchildren, but children... of the Most High God.

- PNC

Leave it to God, in His sense of humor to provide confirmation, that I am facing something in my life, up close and personal, at this particular stage, for the very first time. I wasn't thinking about it, when I came up with the title, either. Hours later, the irony switch flipped.

I found out over the weekend, that friends of mine had taken on a new role at another church a while back. While the one spouse had been involved in worship ministry in the past, now she was leading worship.

A whole new world.

To this day, I love how our Worship Pastor describes this role. There are worship leaders and there are lead worshipers.

It's a great and powerful perspective... especially when you find yourself in unfamiliar territory. One focuses on who you are, the other, on what you do. One focuses on your position to man; the other on your position to God.

The more I thought about this, yesterday afternoon (as I pondered another potential situation, that also would be a first), I thought about how often God called forth men and women, totally unprepared to do in full, what God had asked of them. Save this... their heart was willing. Sure they had doubts. And questions. And hesitant moments. But, in the end, obedience won. They dug deep, did what God asked and God use them to advance His kingdom. In the process, their is much to be learned from the lives' mistakes to their life's faith.

So you and I must do the same. For unfamiliar territory. For unknown outcomes. For unseen paths that await us, as we move forward with God. It may be our first time, but for God, He is a seasoned professional. We can trust Him, for His help, guidance, support, correction and love. 

Pray with me, this #associatePastorTuesday, for those pastors finding themselves in unfamiliar territory and situations... facing challenges, difficulties and opportunities for the first time. Pray for wisdom to make the right decisions. Pray for understanding, that they would know what you desire to accomplish. Pray for strength, that they would not give up in frustration. Pray for favor, that God would prepare their steps and place the right people at the right time as to work the miraculous.

May God have His way in our lives as we acknowledge our reliance upon Him. Whether we be experienced or rookies, God also has something more. Something new. For His glory; accomplished through willing hearts.

- PNC
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     

Over the past few weeks, we've prayed a few times for associate pastors who were considering the transition to senior or lead pastor, within a church hierarchy. Most recently, I did have a real life situation that prompted this being a focus of prayer for the Bring Me 70 community.

Now, knowing that this transition is taking place, a detail in the story prompts this aspect of our prayer focus today. When my friends stepped in to candidate for this Senior Pastor position, the church overwhelming responded in favor of them. And I immediately recalled what our Senior Pastor shared when he announced this process was taking place... advice that he was passing along, having heard it many years before, that was given to his father, as a young pastor:

When you candidate for a church, you'll know very quickly, a sense of the Spirit, as to whether it's the place God would have you to be or whether you should wait for what's next. And just that quick... here was a favorable response to my friend, in overwhelming support.

It just goes to show, the importance, of how much both a pastoral candidate and a seeking church need to be in prayer and Godly counsel as to who God would have placed in positions of ministerial leadership and pastoral office.

What if the church was so desperate, they just picked the 1st person that came into the picture. What if they were so tired of waiting, they settled on less than what God had for them? This isn't case with my friend, but what if they were so ready for a change, they took a church that was not a good fit. What if impatience got the best of them and the rushed the decision?

Disaster for both parties. A ministry ruined. A church crushed. A witness in the community blotched. A family uprooted and relocated, unnecessarily. A congregation neglected and left feeling abandoned because those in charge made some bad calls and plays.

Plus... let's face the reality of life for a moment. A transition in church leadership as a pastor moves to what God has planned for them, means the church they depart now faces that same transition process! Corporations go through the same thing, but somehow hiring and firing in ministry feels like human resources on spiritual steroids. At least it would to me. Such decisions would keep me up at night, long hours and days after I had drenched and doused them in prayer.

Perhaps I'm hitting too close to home as you read this. But life is real. So is ministry. And just like the secular marketplace makes decisions that are best for the company and sometimes  people get hurt; so to, churches face similar challenges. What's best for the church, the protection of congregation, the integrity of the faith... and yes, the soul of the individual. It's all the more reason to pray regarding this element of church life. Which we're starting now.

Pray, this #seniorPastorMonday, for churches that are some place of transition, be it with pastors, deacons or positions of staff members. Pray for divine wisdom and revelation, that pastors are placed in right churches, congregations and communities... not because one is better in nature or in the offer, but because it's God's will and perfect plan, that they be placed where they are for such a time as this. Pray for direction in the management of the human resources element of church life; for wisdom in handling situations that need to be dealt with, while still expressing, the compassion and love of Christ throughout the conversation. May churches know the decision God would have them to make for their ministry, as much as the pastor would know the will of God is for their calling. Pray for a peace that surpasses all understanding; regardless of the outcome... even when there is no understanding to be found.

May God be glorified.... even in the most difficult of decisions and the most agonizing of processes.

- PNC                                                                                        

It's Easter Sunday!

Jesus is alive. The Man whom you seek is not here, but He has risen. And returned to heaven to prepare a place for those who accept Him as the Lord & Savior of their soul.

Christ did, once and for all, what until that point, was done "regularly". A sacrifice. There had to be a death to pay for the wages of sin.

What's incredible about the cross and the resurrection is that because Christ paid the price for sin, it makes salvation a gift.

You receive a gift. That means someone else has already paid for it. And from the generosity of their heart, they offer it freely; as opposed to a note attached, requesting reimbursement. Nor, unlike some gifts, does it come with a disclaimer of "having an understanding" as if it were a gentleman's agreement.

It is UN-conditional. There is nothing of value from a finite individual that would satisfy an infinite God. Perhaps in His sovereignty God knew that fallen man would interfere. God is not willing that any should perish... so the only way to do guarantee that nothing stood in the way, was to keep salvation simple and free. 

Jesus set an unconditional precedent in His interaction with humanity during His time on earth.
Love. Forgiveness. Acceptance. Not for what is external and known. But for what is internal. And known only by God.

Sadly, the church, over time, has placed conditions. To be "a part"... actions, behaviors, attitudes, words, socioeconomic position, status....the superficial, the external. The church, has at times, overlooked the soul of humanity. The only part that matters in the end; that God cares about the most.

How can a church be effective if it fails to see people as God sees them? Broken. Damaged. On the verge of certain death. In need of spiritual rescue. In need of restoration into who He created them to be... in His image.

What a better thing to pray on this Easter, #effectiveSunday, that the church would show the love of Christ for humanity as He did, through the cross and resurrection; UN-conditionally. May God forgive the times, we as the church have dishonored Him, when we have looked down at others, visitors... perhaps said or did or passed by, as though they didn't belong... help us, God. May the church remember, Jesus left the throne room of heaven to taken on sin. From the prince, to the pauper and the pastors of them both, none of us belong. Pray this Easter Sunday, many come to experience the forgiveness of God, His love for their life and redemption through Christ's sacrifice. 

May the body of Christ exhibit Christ in ways that bring honor to Christ. For the cause of Christ.

Too much? No. One can never have too much of Christ. Happy Easter and God Bless, as you celebrate His life!

- PNC

It's Easter weekend, and churches are in a frenzy of events geared toward community and telling the world what Christ accomplished for all of humanity over 2000 years ago and why it matters today. In a couple hours, kids will be scrambling for more candy than they know what to do with, hidden in Easter egg-shaped and sized containers. Tomorrow, the celebration of a risen Savior. And at our church, it kicked off last night, with an intimate gathering of friends and neighbors, for a great time of fellowship and a Christian comedian... for laughter does good like medicine.

We had an absolute riot.

I got to thinking last night, as we left... after my wife and I talked with a friend for quite a while about a matter in our own lives, followed by my touching base with another friend "real quick", just before getting behind the wheel, that there's a difference between the world's sense of community and the church. It's not that one is better, for I know many unsaved people who are, for what it's worth, great people... would give the shirt of their back, help where they can and support you, even when others didn't. And even in church, sadly not every one is like that. I get it.

So, as a disclaimer, I'm incredibly blessed to be a part of a strong, healthy church, that while not perfect,  probably doesn't a number of "issues" that other churches face. I'm sure it's by design, and there's a number of reasons for it, which are worth exploring later... but here's my point.

The community of churches-at-large, care about people to the depth of one's soul.

Yes, they want me to be healthy, but to carry out an eternal purpose. They want me to succeed, but with the intention of using God's blessing to bless others. They want me to have a strong marriage and a healthy family, not just for the sake of my sanity and a retreat in the number of gray hairs; but that we may make an eternal impact in the lives of those we come in contact with on a daily basis. They want what's best for me, not because I'm the greatest guy they've ever met, but because they know that we are designed and created with destiny. Furthermore, they serve to remind me that for all the trouble we face on our earth, this is not our final destination.

This world and all that is in it, is temporary. So what good is the purpose of doing anything, if it doesn't remain after ever last life has passed over into eternity, unless their is something incredibly awaiting in eternity?

What awaits us, is God the Father! What awaits us, is the Son of God. The One whose life we celebrate this weekend, in what He accomplished on our behalf that we may have an eternity worth living for, rather than living with an impending doom. The difference in community is the difference for eternity.

So, pray with me this #communitySaturday, that it would be a day, that as these two communities interact, through kids hunting for eggs and other events, that the world would discover that there is an eternal purpose for life on earth. May peoples' eyes be opened to see and hearts to receive, that an eternal destination of hope & love is available to them through Christ' death and resurrection... that doom and despair is not inevitable. May the community of Christ effectively demonstrate His love this weekend, to those in need of love that lasts beyond our faults and failures. For love that is super-natural. Unconditional. Eternal.

May the community of the unsaved experience Christ in ways beyond what humanity can accomplish on its' own, through the expression of care and concern from the community of the church.

For the glory of God. For the cause of Jesus Christ. For God is not dead. He is surely alive. May many see for themselves.

- PNC

On this Good Friday, follow this train of thought with me, for just a moment.

An online dictionary defines "suicide mission" as is:

"(of an action) undertaken or (of a person) undertaking an action in the knowledge that it will result in the death of the person performing it in order that maximum damage may be inflicted on an enemy "

In the war against the soul of man, by Satan, through the avenue of sin, I have but one person up to the task.

JESUS CHRIST.

We've seen it in the movies. We've heard the real life stories. Perhaps you are reading this, and you have lived it.

The HERO. The one who steps up and does what needs to be done, when no one else is willing; when no one else is available; when no one else can inflict as much damage as another potential person. Accomplishing the impossible, through the supernatural, Christ did what no other person could. Plus, because it's a spiritual war, not a physical one, there's the whole qualification aspect, to be able to pull this off.

There was only one, perfect person who could accomplish the task of making the gift of salvation available to all of humanity that would stand the test of time.

What remains about this whole deal, is that salvation through Christ on the cross was not in response to Satan, as if it were a contingency plan or something. No. This was The Plan. From the foundation of the universe, was this... the ultimate suicide mission. Of course, like any epic mission, the element of surprise, for the enemy was Christ' resurrection. You don't believe in someone accomplishing the impossible unless they live to tell about it or there is evidence that the mission was successful. On Easter weekend, we are reminded, that in this war, both are true.

Mission: Accomplished. Survivor: One. Rescued: Whoever chooses to call on and believe in the name of the Lord.

Pray with me, this #missionsFriday, that Easter 2016 would be a time of many, coming to faith in Jesus Christ. May the gift of love and redemption, made available to us through this heaven-bound mission, be realized. That Christ defeated the power of sin over man through death on the Cross. Pray people would understand the victory that is available to them, because the Son of God accepted certain death, in order for fallen man to have an open invitation for eternal life. His love poured out; giving of Himself, taking our place, to accomplish the miraculous; the supernatural; the impossible.

All because God SO LOVED THE WORLD.

- PNC

Tuesday night, while catching up on social media, I came across a post from a pastor, about resources that were available from district level of their church affiliation for new church plants. In the comments that followed, an interesting conversation about church planting versus church revitalization. The pros and cons were though-provoking... the money that goes into a church plant that may or may not last to the 5-year mark, while churches needing "makeovers" have been there for decades. Plus, there's the whole, how many churches can a particular denomination or affiliation need in a given area?

On the flip-side; depending on the structure of the church as an organization, the chain of command may or may not be able to direct people to specific churches or areas. Ministry is a calling. I understand, how dicey things can become when there is overlap in an area between two churches of the same affiliation. That said, who really wants to be the person to tell a pastor that they are "wrong" about the area God has called them to, based on there already being a particular church for that community? Granted, they just might be wrong. Who knows. But the amount of prayer and time with God that had better occurred before having such a conversation ought to amount to a staggering number.

Say all that to say, depending on the organizational structure of a denomination, fellowship or affiliation, some incredibly complex procedures and decisions can result in some tense and frustrating moments. While I haven't been "in the room", I can only imagine the discussions. On second thought, maybe I don't want to do that.

The truth is, each church has it's own culture. And aesthetically-appealing structures may help people feel welcome, but ultimately, it's the culture that keeps them coming back. As I told my girls last night; they were telling me how much they had fun in their class, then they asked about mine. Service was great, then I got to talk with a few friends. I love my church friends.

Church can get complicated. Fast. For all the decisions a church has to make, plus the long-term effects that hang in the balance combined with the input, direction and desires from higher-ups in the organization... now we've got ourselves a show (to quote a line from my favorite television political dramas)

On this #deaconThursday, pray for churches and their governing bodies at district, regional and national levels... for the decisions and challenges they face that affect their community as well as their organizations. Pray wisdom and discernment would lead the discussion; may God's will and Him glorified remain at the center of their plans. May the temptation to compare be kept at bay; that pastors and decisions makers would focus on remaining true to their own calling and understanding their culture and using their strengthens for the glory of God. Pray for those churches, being planted and revitalized... may God breathe afresh into those communities, that many would come to faith in Christ and that the faith of many would be strengthened and encouraged to make a greater impact for the advancement of the Gospel.

For all the quirks within every family unit, I'm glad to be apart of the family of God. For churches young and old, standing strong or learning to walk... if your doors are still open, God is not done with you.

- PNC

The acronym is an extension from a moment of quick thinking in handling my oldest child the other night. Having worked herself into an emotional frenzy for not liking what she was told, I couldn't get her to calm down. Nor could she catch her breath to do it on her own. Hopefully we will have long had this under control, well before she hits the teen years, but for now, it's still a work in progress. However, these moments raise my frustration level and... well, gotta love parenthood. What do I do? The joy of being the adult... actually have to do the adult, mature, responsible thing, no matter how hard it may be in the heat of the moment.

What gets me, is how fast the emotions turn. It's like a switch! Could you locate it again? RED LIGHT! As quickly as you started, you need to turn it back off. You have to stop. You have to get control. As I continued trying to figure out how to get my message through to her, that she wasn't hearing, I walked across the room, grabbed a pen and paper (which turned out to be the back of the phone bill) and wrote the following:

ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS STOP. (caps not for emphasis, it's just how I actually write on paper)

Having taken a deep breath or two as I walked back across the room, I sat next to her and read it. Then had her recite it with me. After a few rounds, I replaced the "YOU" with "I".

ALL I HAVE TO DO IS STOP.

A few more recitations, then I inserted her name after the "I". Moments later, it had gotten through. Light switch found!! (for now)

I've since decided the phrase needs to be a family motto for our household. As shared in Tuesday's prayer post, situations and tensions, peoples' actions and responses can change so quickly, it will make your head spin. By the time mine stops spinning, there's a couple of new gray hairs that have joined the coup d'etat on my face. But before getting bent out of shape, frustrated, angry and flying off emotional handles, how much better would things turn out if we took a deep breath, and...

Stop. Think. Decide. Act.

Compose yourself. Give yourself a few minutes to assess what's going on. Figure out some appropriate options and make the decision based upon on what is best, all things considered. Then move forward accordingly.

It's advice I'd be better off following more often. It's something I want to instill in my kids. It probably help provide some reinforcement to my marriage, for no matter how strong marriage is, reinforcement is a good idea. And kids will be kids. Parents around the globe experience breakdowns such as this in their kids. As do pastors, in their own families. They also see the aftermath of kids, whose parents haven't handled parenting duties well. They see the aftermath of kids who haven't been taught self-control, in their words, actions and behaviors; physically, emotionally, intellectually and spiritually.

So as much as I covet your prayers, I covet your prayers for pastors. Struggling to raise their own kids, while noticing daily reminders in the lives of others; how important their job is at home, to do well. In the meantime, they can only do so much for the kids in their ministry; as they watch their lives unfold, perhaps not having Godly principles instilled in them at home, let alone reinforced.

Pray, this #youthPastorWednesday... for this generation of young people; being shorted on so many levels, missing the stability of a Godly marriage in the home, lacking a Biblical foundation of principled-living, denied the truth of a God who created them, loves them and has a plan and a purpose for their lives... that they have a destiny beyond the tecnhology they hold in their hand that didn't even exist on the day of their birth, perhaps! Pray for pastors, struggling in the raising of their own kids... perhaps at a loss of what to do and say that will change the lives of those kids in their ministry who are facing troubling and difficult situations; circumstances that are robbing of them of their childhood, forcing them to grow up and take on life much sooner than expected. Pray God would bring supernatural wisdom and direction and healing, as we learn to control and compose our life; that we may act and respond in ways that would glorify Christ and not self.

May we seek His face, in all things. It's so easy to do, when we remind ourselves, that no matter what we are going through...
ALL WE HAVE TO DO IS STOP.

- PNC

"Time is ticking away. Tick, tick, ticking away."

Words sung by the popular Christian rap band, DC Talk, in their early years, and obviously, still very true many years later. It keeps a steady, even pace, yet seems to go by faster, all the more... like it is building up speed.

This felt especially true yesterday morning, as I stopped at a customer site, where they had moved buildings.... literally, right next door. I asked when they made the move, suggesting it had been 3 or 4 months. The guy replied... September.

But more important than the all too quickly passage of time, is how quickly life and situations can change. In an instant. Faster than my Keurig filled my coffee cup. Information that can change a decision. A response, whether emotional or intellectual that changes the nature and dynamic of the conversation. It's these "drop of a hat" moments, that can catch one off guard, and cause things to elevate in ways that we never intended.

It may not be an out of control moment, but certainly one that you could reflect on and think, that really wasn't necessary. There isn't or wasn't a valid reason the situation should have played out like that. Yet in the moment, everyone has the potential to act and react in ways that do not line up with intentions. Like the article I read the other day, on a Pastor who gave theoretically advice, should he one day find himself discussing a moral topic with his child. It happens to be a topic, many people, including Pastor have had to actually have with their kid. The sole comment at the time I read the piece, was to the effect of... should you find yourself actually having to have this conversation, let us know if you handle it how you've written about here.

A healthy reminder, that for all of us, life can get just a little too real... way too fast. And for as much as the everyday Christian needs God's guidance and direction in such circumstances, how more for Pastors and those in ministry.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for pastors and the situations they face, like we all do, when life and conversations change quickly, in ways we didn't expect. Pray for their actions and words, whether they are first or in response, that they would have the wisdom and discernment to not make matters worse. Pray for a calmness of spirit and a peace about their demeanor... that God is at work in all of our lives, even when it gets hard and difficult. May their be a grace and love that transpires... that brings about healing and guidance to challenging circumstances, rather than more harm and frustration.

For all of us are called to reflect Christ as we follow Him. And while we all fall short, His grace is sufficient.
May we operate in that grace, daily. No matter how fast to goes by. For the glory of God, we pray.

- PNC