What an interesting week of news to start of the New Year?! And somehow yesterday afternoon, something started coming together, as I reflected on recent events, that have made national news, some political in nature, others in the sports world...

Sometimes relationships break. To be more specific, profession, work-related relationships. A parting of ways between employer and employee. The dissolution of business partners. Whether it be a "timing" issue, or a matter of productivity and results or differences in ideology and beliefs as it pertains to the direction and goals of an organization, these can be difficult and delicate matters.

Certain circumstances, such a break may be necessary, obvious and a clear and clean decision. Other matters are complicated and complex on numerous levels and the decision may not be to obvious nor clear. Plus, details can be weighed and balanced on what is truly necessary and what can be managed and corrected.

Such calls are strenuous and stressful for both parties involved. The decision may seem to be an easier one if personality differences exist or there's simply an element where friendship and comradery is lacking or amiss. But where such a bond does happen to exist and yet a professional partying of ways is in order can be a process we wouldn't wish on anyone.

Thus, on this #deaconThursday, pray for church leadership members, who are facing such decisions, even this day. Pray for a clarity of wisdom and direction as to how the matter and the specifics of their situation should be managed. Pray for discernment and understanding. May their be a grace over the conversation and communication that takes place during this time. Pray for truth to prevail and may God work the miraculous in whatever outcome takes place. May God grant strength and perseverance in the aftermath, to continue to move forward in the direction and plans that God has ordained for them to go.

That even the parting of ways between people
Would not lead to parting of faith between people and God.
May He continue to work all things.
For His glory and for His purpose.
For He makes all things beautiful
In His time.

- PNC

One truly has to laugh at times, at the parallel's between the earthly relationship of a parent and child and that of the spiritual relationship between the believer and God. There are so many instances and conversations that come to mind in which this conversation can go. But one topic stands above the rest.

While the details aren't important, there is a major change on the horizon in our household. As we get closer to it becoming a reality the kids are nearly non-stop excitement mode. When is the day? When does it happen? Tomorrow? This weekend? Two weeks?

We're thinking.
We're planning.
We're praying.
We're dreaming.

And yet, daily life continues with it tasks and struggles and responsibilities. And it's a balancing act, to be sure, of what needs to be done and what needs to be done in advance. But the barrage of questions of excitement from the kiddos continue...

...until there is but one response:

Kids, when it's time, you'll know!!

And isn't that how it feels with God? Whether within the life of faith and church, whether in the pew or behind the pulpit, so many conversations with God involve the favorite questions of kids everywhere.

When?
Why?
What?
How?
Where?
Now??... now?... now?

Yet all too often we don't care for God's response any more than the kids don't care for mine.

"Not yet. Not here. Don't worry about it. You'll find out when we get there."

On this #youthPastorWednesday, pray for those struggling with the balance of current life against the exciting prospect of what lies ahead for the new year. Pray for a spirit of peace and calm; that would wait and rely on God rather than rush ahead without caution or consideration. Pray for an inner strength, that would not be overrun, nor overtaken by fear, anxiety or stress. May God help to find and live in the balance of daily duties as well as preparation for the coming days. Pray a continual aligning and realigning with the hand of God and the prompting of the Holy Spirit.

That there would be a strengthened trust in God
And a fortified resolve in His provision
For we have all that we need today.
As we look to Him
Who holds tomorrow in His hands.
God will. On Earth. As in Heaven.

- PNC

I had to laugh just a little bit last night as yesterday's post played out in real life, albeit on a very small scale. We talked about life changing in just a moment as such grand events occur, such as entering a new year and my kids, moments before getting ready for bed, went from laughing and carrying on like teens (which they are not) to the opening seconds of an emotion 180 spin akin to a 2-year old (which they are also, not!)

Well, that happened fast.

Then, while watching an episode of Fuller House on Netflix, there's a scene where nearly every cast member steps into the room, ready to share their bed news. And just like that, everyone was having an "oh-no" moment.

Real life returned again this morning, as a friend posted on social media, the past two days of their life... further inundated with bad news and a rough start to the new year. Friends posted that at least all the bad things were happening at the beginning, but as we're barely one day in to the new year, it's hard not to consider... no, we're not getting all the bad out at the beginning.

It's highly likely and probable that there will be many more in the 364 remaining days of 2018.

But, perhaps as a part 2 continuation of yesterday's thoughts, it's one thing when we can control our attitudes and responses to the circumstances and situations that happen to us directly; but it's somewhat hard when we watching it happen to others and we are faced with how to encourage and help them respond, whether they be our child of a few years or a friend of many years.

We all have "stuff" going on in our lives and the moments that serve to remind us that others have their struggles as well and need us, give us opportunity to set ourselves aside and share life with those around us. It's hard to do at times, even for those in ministry. Having to do it more often because of their position doesn't make the process any easier.

Thus, on this #associatePastorTuesday, pray for pastors, as they continue to serve others and play aside their own challenges and difficulties to help others. May God grant them strength and insight as they help others through their struggles. Pray they would be refreshed as they refresh others. May God move in their hearts and lives as they take time to invest in helping meet the needs and concerns of others. Pray they would not grow weary in well-doing, but that the Holy Spirit would be their sustenance throughout this entire year and whatever may come there way.

That we would live to serve.
God. And Others.
In humility and honesty,
In spirit and truth.
For we are never alone.
Thanks be unto God.

- PNC

Happy New Year!!

I'm not sure that there are many who are not among those balancing the joys of 2017 along with the insurmountable challenges as 2018 begins and those circumstance carry over. And while a new day and a new year certainly usher in a sense of excitement and enthusiasm to one's life, circumstances and realizations can quickly induce a sense of concern and worry which quickly puts a damper on one's spirits.

Personal matters, relational struggles and ministry problems...such moments and more can turn a glorious New Year's Day into just another manic Monday.

And yet social media posts have been flooded with the verse from Isaiah 43.

Behold, I am doing a new thing...

While I hadn't planned on inserting that verse in this post, I can attest that the sentiment certainly resonates. The battles and struggles may carry over and that's okay, for God is still in control, still leading the way and still protecting by His strong right hand.

Whatever the challenges, whatever the resolutions, whatever is being carried over or starting afresh, the first and best step that can be taken is a renewed trust in God's will and His ways.

Though we are tested daily regardless of the calendar, He can be trusted daily, regardless of circumstance.

On this New Year's #seniorPastorMonday, pray for those struggling with the ongoing challenges that have entered into 2018. May God give them insight to handle them, strength to endure and provision rise to above. Pray for those facing defeat and desperation, rather than excitement and enthusiasm. May their be a spiritual shift in their perspective and outlook; transformed by the God's Word and their mind renewed by His truth.

May 2018 indeed by a year of new beginnings.
That God would continue the miraculous
In the lives of those dedicated and devoted to His call.
A testament to His glory and faithfulness.
Even when the prospect of both today and tomorrow is dim.
May we see life through eyes of His grace and glory

- PNC

There's an old saying that like most, is quite simple and yet, as I passed while scrolling through my social media feed that I was browsing last night, I was struck by it's profound insight... perhaps distracted by thoughts of the New Year.

The life instruction reads as follows:

"To heal a wound, you have to stop touching it."

I'm sure, like you, many things have transpired in 2017 that have done damage and pain, whether it be physical, emotional, psychological, financial, relational or spiritual. And while we promise, hope and pray that things will go and be better in 2018, it's hard not to mess with and be reminded by the issues that have resulted from the instances and moments that we would rather forget than relive.

Yet, by not leaving the wound alone to heal, we sabotage our effectiveness and progress in the area and arenas of life that are strong and whole. We keep trying to move forward while focusing on a matter that just might work itself out if we stopped messing with it.

And I understand, there's a balance at work. In the literal sense, there's a check-up and a care-taking to the process and that's fine. But more often than not, the healing takes longer than it should because we continue to interfere with the process.

So, on this #effectiveSunday, as we prepare to step into 2018, let's pray, that this would be a day that we leave the wounds of life alone. Pray the efforts of ministry and church life would not be hindered nor detoured by that which has gone wrong, but empowered by that which has gone right. Pray for a spirit of rejuvenation and revitalization as we enter this new year, stronger and more whole than ever before. Pray for a renewed resolve in our pursuit of the kingdom and righteousness of God. May that which was meant to destroy us be used to propel us into the abundant life that Christ came to present and fulfill for the redemption of humanity.

For a new day has dawned
And a new year awaits on the next horizon.
This is the day the Lord has made
Let us rejoice and be glad in it.
With every part of our being
Both that which is whole and broken.
We are His and for His glory.

- PNC

Community does really take on all forms. The family and I ventured out on a little road trip for the evening and enjoyed it so much, I thought, why haven't we done this sooner?! Then, this morning, on one of the group pages that I'm in on social media, somebody, posted how grateful they were to be a part of the group and experience the online conversation. Around the same time, I discovered the "Electric Holidays" radio station on Pandora and again... how come I didn't find this sooner in my life?!

Last night's road trip reminded me again, of the accomplishments of a small group of people coming together for a single cause, mission or goal. And yet, whatever the purpose and pleasure of the group, it does not happen if people themselves do NOT come together.

And yet, we come together for such great times as Christmas, and again this weekend for New Years. It's easy to engage for the big moments, the big events, the grand holidays. But where and what are we doing the rest of the time. Every other lazy Saturday. The typical Monday morning at work. The Sunday service that isn't holiday-related or themed.

I only ask because 2018 starts in 36 hrs and change.

Are we ready to live differently?
Are we ready to engage differently?
With intentionality and purpose?
With clarity and vision?

What 2018 has in store for you certainly depends on what God desires to accomplish in your life.
It also largely depends on your focus, your attitude and your response as God guides your steps.

On the #communitySaturday before New Year's Eve, pray that we start, this weekend, to engage and live out community with a fresh attitude. May we engage with meaning and purpose, speak with clarity and truth and experience love, grace and forgiveness. Pray that we be a community that reflects Christ and is growing ever closer and deeper in our walk with God. May God work the miraculous in and through lives that are renewed in their resolve to be used for His purposes by by the power and anointing of the Holy Spirit.

May 2018 be a year for breakthrough.
Strongholds are broken
Relationships are restored.
Community is revived.
And life in Christ is lived to the fullest.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

Well, Christmas has past, the New Year is practically here and the reality of both are quickly setting in, depending on whether you've look at your bank accounts recently.

Ministry is a glorious blessing... and at times, a spiritually frustrating curse, for monies often seem to get diverted and directed to other things. They get put towards things other than going towards a ministry and even ministry funds end up being needed somewhere else, other than one had hoped or planned to be able to go and do.

Such was an experience I had yesterday. An investment that needed to made regarding a decision that had been put off for far too long. December is already an expensive month in my life without the expense of Christmas, and this year has been even more expensive due to other decisions that are in the works and required funding.

So while I sat in the chair considering this decision and the financial impact, I truly wasn't happy about having to make the choice. For in that moment, I was grateful to have the funds available, but at the same time, I kept thinking about how it affected many other decisions in the days and weeks to come.

Somebody's $4 per day specialty coffee habit is somebody else' $120 cell phone bill at month's end.

Thus, as we enter the New Year, it's an exciting, prospective time. It can also quickly become a time of anxiety and worry; both for how things will work out personally here on Earth, but more importantly, how life will be affected spiritually for all eternity.

Ministry may not be all about the money, but that doesn't mean that it's not affected by the lack or abundance of it either. While yesterday's investment may meet a real, physical need, a greater spiritual one still remains.

On this #missionsFriday, pray God would move miraculously on the behalf of missionaries and ministries that are struggling financially one year closes and a new one prepares to open. May God super-naturally provide through His people and even the unexpected sources and scenarios. Pray we witness a new season of generosity and blessing to those around us and the investment that is made into the kingdom of God. Pray for a spirit of peace and calm for those who are stressing and anxiety. May they place their trust in God once again, to open the windows of Heaven as He has done so many times in days gone past.

For He owns it all.
May He help us to do well
With what has been entrusted to our care.
For the glory of God
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I haven't watched many episodes of the show Pawn Stars of late, not that I used to watch it every time it was on before, but I happened to catch an episode or two yesterday and believer it or not, caught a reminder that I didn't see coming.

Rick, the pawn shop owner, purchased an old book, one that he took a gamble on, as the owner of the book didn't have time for Rick to call in an expert opinion. So Rick purchased it, on a hunch and a guess that he'd recover his investment.

Upon taking it to his book expert, it turns out she wasn't exactly sure what she was holding in her hand either. She in turn, said, let me make a call.

As such, on this #deaconThursday, is a pretty simple reminder.

Even the experts need an expert.

Advisory boards are for advice and counsel, wisdom and insight. And while at times they may get it wrong, the more important thing is do they have people in their life that they go to when they are unsure or uncertain of what to do?

We often talk about making the investment in the next generation, which is how such relationships are structured, but we don't also consider or remember that previous generations continue to build on their investment.

As important as it is for the 45 year old to make an investment in the 25 year old, the 45's relationship with their 65 year old remains ongoing. And the 65 continues to learn from their 85 year old.

The expert always has their expert... it's how they become one themselves and help to build another as well.

And on that note...

Let's pray this #deaconThursday, for those who are perhaps feeling inadequate in their ability to give advice and consent. May God would open doors of opportunity for new relationships to be forged and existing relationships to be strengthened. Pray God would grant wisdom and insight by His divine hand; especially for those facing insurmountable and time-sensitive challenges. May God move on their behalf, providing creative, super-natural solutions to situations that look impossible to man but are possible through God.

May God lead, guide and direct
Into all truth, those who seek His face.
That we would not lean on our own understanding
But look to author and finisher of our faith,
To Him who ordains the steps of the righteous.
And reigns Supreme over all.

- PNC

Some kids are pretty bold in their response as they engage in conversation. The moments of brilliance that result in laughter and hilarity are priceless and stand to be treasured; sometimes making an impact that we remember for a lifetime and at other times, lasting long enough to help us keep our sanity for another day.

Conversely, are the arguments and responses of varying degrees of defiance and disobedience; words created to emphasize one's most basic point... "It's not me" or "It's not mine."

What's truly amazing is that even as kids grow to become parents themselves, at times the conversation doesn't change with their own parents. My Dad and I still have moments much like I had with my child yesterday... "if you would just do what I said!"

As such, I've had many teachable moments of late with my kids; that usually result in my providing them my desired answer. 'Yes Dad' is the correct answer.

And yesterday, a spiritual truth came to light as I told my youngest these words in expressing my frustration...

"'Yes, Dad' solves half the problems in your life, child"

Isn't that how it works in our faith as well?

For the Christian in the pew, for the Clergy in the pulpit, if only we would respond to our Heavenly Father in like spirit as we wish our kids responded to our parental pleas.

How much would life be different?
How much more would life be blessed?
How much more ministry would go forth; anointed, inspired and effective?

Don't feel bad if this is hitting a little close to home. I'm having difficulty even writing it.

But consider if we learned this faith principle as much as we desire our kids to learn this life principle? May it work in our homes as God desires it work in our hearts.

On this #youthPastorWednesday, pray that for those leading ministry and learning from ministry, that we would respond to our Heaven Fatherly with words of affirmation. May our hearts be ever-so sensitive to the moving and prompting of the Holy Spirit. Pray the spirit of antagonism and argument be far from us as we work our faith and walk in it. May God help to live as better examples of what He can do with lives and hearts that are surrounded to Him. Pray we would witness a change in our world as we allow God to change our lives.

While the problems won't disappear,
May our attitude and response help dissipate
Their control and influence over our perspective
To trust God and obey in a greater dimension.
For His glory and to His credit
Because of our Father's love for us.

- PNC

If you missed the Countdown To Christmas marathon on the Hallmark channel, with the barrage of Christmas flicks, you've missed some really good movies. Of course, their always seems to be a build-up to some sort of relational conflict between the growing love and affection of two people, who are an unlikely pair; at least if you were to ask the two of them.

Sometimes, the conflict appears to be truly something that would cause a real-life hurdle in one's relationship, but for the most part, they seem to be light misunderstandings. Granted, these movie relationships run on truncated timetables, from not standing each other to falling for each other in a matter of days or weeks, so there's that.

But the real-life analogy is how quickly the most unsuspecting and unassuming of situations and misunderstanding can create conflict among friends, co-workers and others affected by one's authority or decisions. As a result, relationships, whatever their nature, become strained and challenging; more or less troublesome to both parties.

The cool part with the movies is that they are quickly resolved. The truth of the conflict comes to light and an effort is made to resolve it quickly and bring understanding to the one who didn't have the full story.

The sad part with reality, is that such resolution is not rectified in a matter of minutes, but remain in limbo, for days, weeks, months and years. Misunderstandings of many kinds and varying degrees loom overhead and navigating them can be more difficult than they should be and take infinitely longer to sort through than what one would reasonably expect or assume.

So, on this #associatePastorTuesday, pray that the conflicts that arise in churches and their leadership teams would be "short-lived". Pray that misunderstandings would be clarified quickly and promptly. May challenges and difficulties be overcome. Pray for wisdom and discernment; that understanding would be at the forefront of the conversation, with a goal and a pursuit of resolution. Pray that conflict would not destroy and ruin the people and relationships that are involved, but that they would be made stronger and greater as a result.

May what was intended to damage and harm
Be used to bring glory and honor to God
As they work to advance the cause of Christ.
For the health of the church and the kingdom of God.

- PNC

Merry Christmas!!! 

It is my hope and prayer that you are having a wonderful time with family and friends and enjoying this day that we commemorate the celebration of the birth of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

And before I get too deep into this, I'm humbled for those who've joined in prayer and continue to do so on this special day... one that started very early. I don't know about you, but when I asked the kids what time it was and hand me my phone, it said 5.42. Seriously kids? I might as well be walking out the door for work!

Meanwhile, on social media, I'm delighting in the occasional post of those whose kids slept in... including my pastor friend, who as of 8am was the only one still awake. With kids roughly the same age as mine, he was enjoying coffee and cinnamon rolls all to himself. Sadly he is no longer literally on the other side of town, otherwise I'd have accepted his invitation to come hang out.

But what a beautiful day to rest. As we commemorate through the giving of gifts in honor of God's gift to humanity, may His being the reason for the season ever be on the forefront of our minds.

And for pastors, who are perhaps in the midst of difficulty and struggle this Christmas, may they be renewed and refreshed as they remember the ministry God has called them to serve. As quickly as it can become a day of activity amidst a looming sense pressure, frustration and unpleasantness, it must remain a day of connection. Not only of drawing close with family and friends, but to the Creator of all families, God our Father, and the friend that sticks closer than a brother, Jesus Christ.

So... as we celebrate the birth of Jesus and indeed, the beginning of the Gospel story, let's pray for pastors and with them, church and ministry leaders. May today be a day that we all remember the reason for the season and the reason for our ministries. Pray today would be a day that we rejoice in the gift that has been given to us and remember the importance of the gift that has been entrusted to us to share with others. Indeed, may today be a day of rest and renewal, both for those who are staying home and for those traveling across town, both figuratively and literally.

May our faith be placed in Christ alone.
And our faith in humanity, perhaps restored.
As we draw ever closer into the presence of God
Surrounded by His grace, love and forgiveness
In the company of our beloved family and friends,
Strangers and aliens, as we all once were.
For the glory of the kingdom of Heaven.

- PNC

We've talked a lot over these days of prayer, that the fulfillment of effectiveness is seeing things through to completion. And the Christmas season, in fact the entirety of the Christmas story, is no different.

The very power of the miracle of Christmas, is the glorious completion and accomplishment of Christ' ministry to the end of the crucifixion and on the other side of the resurrection.

For indeed, what would the joy of the promise of this miraculous birth be, without the promise of His return for those who awaited and believed in God's redemptive plan for humanity?

It turns out, as Christ is our example for so many other aspects of our life, that even in His humble beginnings, the effectiveness of the story of His birth is as great as it is because of His ending.

Christ's Mass.
The Gospel story is the one and the same, Christmas story.

How awesome!

Pray, this #effectiveSunday of a Christmas Eve, that God would accomplish the miraculous once again. May today be a day of truth, revelation and liberation, as the presence of God fills our hearts and minds with the power of His Story. Pray the people of God would be effective in reaching those who've yet to realize the promise of God, through the birth of Jesus Christ. May today be a celebration of life as we celebrate the life of Jesus; Immanuel, God with us.

For He is with us.
And works through us.
To fulfill His plans and purposes
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Community can happen anywhere. Even when you aren't looking. I was reminded of this earlier this week, when at the end of the day Wednesday, the boss says, today is Carol's last day, if you want to say bye before you leave.

Upon walking in, my co-worker and I were greeted with many tears. After 13 years, she was pursuing a career, for which she had put herself through a Master's degree and you would have thought we had walked into a funeral home. I know they were tears of joy as well, for it's an exciting prospect that awaits her, but it was like watching someone who had never been away from their home and friends for more than 48 hours move half way across the globe.

We laughed and joked about it for a few minutes, as it was a priceless moment, but it proves once again, that you never know the strength and power of relationships and the impact you can make me, even when your interactions with someone may either be but for a few minutes a day or hours at a time throughout the day.

So, how does it get built when you aren't noticing that it's happening? It' in the small things.

It costs nothing to be kind.
It takes little effort to smile.
Laughter is medicine.
Speak truth seasoned with grace.
Don't be a jerk on purpose.

I heard in an interesting thought on work relationships the other day, that I thought was good...

Employers get the employees they deserve.

Then I got convicted, and realized that's probably a two-way street. Employees very well receive from their employers what the deserve as well. Thus, if you want better relationships, to an extent it is within the power of the person who desires it to work at improving it.

On this #communitySaturday, whatever "community" looks like, pray that we would engage with kindness. Pray that we would continue to be people who would speak truth seasoned with grace. May we not be people who would come across as people who intentional jerks or mean-spirited, but extend acts of goodness and words of encouragement. Indeed, may be we know by our love, even when it is hard.

That we would live according to the Spirit
Rather than controlled by our flesh.
That Christ would be revealed to others
Through lives devoted to Him.
For the glory of God
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

You've heard it say many times before, but Dr. Tony Evans has a great way of stating that you can't live your life of faith as a piggy-back to someone else. As he continued to talk about one's personal journey and Christ as the Good Shepherd and sheep knowing who they belong to by knowing the voice, I remembered just how wrong Oprah's statement on faith was.

If you'll remember, she talked about her belief that there were many paths to God. The problem with her statement was that paths are not converging to the point where we all arrive at the same God. Thus, we are not coming up the many sides of one mountain, but each, climbing the mountain based on our understanding.

What's funny about the human condition, especially in today's culture, we don't desire to be identified by others. We know who we are, we know how we want to be know, we know how we want to be perceived. And how dare someone wrongly identify our character, persona or being.

Meanwhile, God knows who He is. He has stated who He is. He has revealed who He is to all creation. And yet, we stand, albeit defiantly... this is who "God" is and what He means to me. And if that wasn't bad enough, we continually compare our starting point and position on the journey to others.

Those in ministry and in missions battle this frustration in their personal lives. Not to mention, are in a constant state of helping others navigate the same dilemma. Fortunately, God knows where each of us and what route we are on, as we endeavor to draw closer to Him and His presence. And every journey starts with one decision. What will you decide regarding Jesus Christ?

So, pray, this #missionsFriday, that people would come to the understanding of the true identity of God. May they not be consumed in the comparison of their journey, but focused on what God desires to accomplish in them and through them as He draws them to Himself. Pray that the Shepherd's voice would be heard; that we would know, understand and live in the fullness of our eternal identity that is grounded in Christ. Pray for strength for missionaries; that are both frustrated with their own life of faith or are struggling to help others navigate the Christian faith. May God grant them insight and understanding; bringing light and revelation to dark circumstances and confusing experiences.

May the peace of God that surpasses all understanding
Fill your hearts and minds.
That you would know the truth
And live in the freedom and fullness
Of God's grace and glory
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

If you've never listened to the nationally syndicated radio show, Red Eye Radio, that plays the post-midnight/pre-sunrise hour slot, you are missing out. They have some pretty incredible discussions on both serious issues of the day as well as interesting topics and comedic conversations. I happened to catch the final stretch yesterday morning though, and they talking about human interaction and attitude, among other things.

And while it is overly obvious, the point that was made that for some reason resonated with me, I couldn't help but reflect. Perhaps recent months have brought some introspection to the forefront of my life as though turning a page, or I really am getting older. Either way, the adage seems to be true... be the change you want to see in the world.

That said, back to the comment I heard on Red Eye Radio...

When one person is happy, others will be happy.

Or as comedian Jeff Allen always reminds his audience, happy wife, happy, life.

Haven't you noticed the same in your life?

Frustrating people can be frustrating to be around.
Confused people leave you feeling as though you don't know how to help.
Stressed people make us even more concerned about their well-being than normal.
Aggravated people cause irritation that quickly escalates.

Misery loves company. Conversely; however, happiness is contagious. Try it. Smile when you don't feel like it.  Offer a kind word when one isn't warranted.

Act as if ye have faith, and you will have it. In other words, fake it til you make it.

Seriously, though... all these emotions and situations exist and live within church leadership, both on Sunday and every other day. So... if church leadership isn't happy. Well, you can probably guess the impact that leaves, especially over an extended period of time. And my apologies if you've witnessed this first hand. It does happen. And that's why we're praying.

On this #deaconThursday, pray that those within church operations would indeed by an environment of joy and happiness. Pray for a spirit of unity and cohesion as they work together in ministry. Though disagreements, stress and frustration are inevitable, may their be a sense of love and compassion to work through such moments together. May they be overwhelmed with a spirit of encouragement and synergy; a building up of each other in the most holy faith. Pray that stress and struggle would not derail nor burn out their efforts, but that there resolve would remain steadfast.

For the joy of the Lord is our strength
And laughter does good like medicine.
May the love that permeates our hearts
Flow from our lives, impacting those around us
For the glory of God.

- PNC

I'm not sure who was speaking on the broadcast when I changed radio stations yesterday afternoon, but I caught part of this man's testimony as he talked about the health struggle he endured early in life and into his grade school years.

I quickly found myself relating to his story, as we dealt with kids who gave him static regarding his physical condition and how one copes with that. Cyber-bullying is a serious problem, perhaps even worse than in real-life, although, real-life bullying left a lot to be desired as well.

I had to laugh, as he talked about "having to go to school".

Just because you ignore "them", doesn't mean you don't hear what they say and that psychologically the words don't still make landfall somewhere in the recesses of your inner-man.

You can't go somewhere else to get away... it's not like there's another lunchroom.

Defending yourself doesn't work; somehow your replies are simply more ammo for them to use as return fire against you.

Teachers expect you in class, parents tell you that you have to go and the system only allows you to miss so many days. It's like lambs being thrown to the wolves.

Thus, whether face to face or through Facebook & friends, our spirits not only wound quite easily at times, but very early in our lives as well. Whether for situations beyond our control like a physical condition or kids being mere kids, such wounds do not quickly heal.

And isn't interesting...any medical condition, we go to a doctor. Parenting and marriage, a counselor. Finances? Dave Ramsey. For all our broken and troubled arenas of life, we seek and find a professional or a guru to bring healing and correction to the problem. Yet with a wounded spirit and damaged soul, we skip, bypass or overlook altogether, the Creator in whose image we were created.

For the child or the adult, the sinner or the saint, the pastor or the parishioner, spiritual wounds require spiritual healing. Why isn't our first turn to God? Even when the decision is obvious, we wait and prolong seeking His face and casting our cares.

Pray this #youthPastorWednesday, that God would be the first that is to be trusted with our wounded spirits and damaged souls. Pray for those still struggling with the scars of their past. May God do a work in each of us; for daily, we in the most unexpected moments, we realize we are still very broken and scared people. Pray the mercies of God that are new every morning fill our desperate need for forgiveness and the opportunity to be and live better today than we did yesterday, this morning better than last night.

For God doesn't waste our experience
But uses it all for His glory
As a testament to His grace
And the redemptive work of Christ
Through the power of the Cross
And the help of the Holy Spirit.

- PNC

Well, this was kinda weird this morning to happen like this, but I promise, I'm not making it up. I woke up this morning, laid in bed and asked what God would have for today's post and before I could even finish the thought, "I need something...", the Holy Spirit dropped the word.

FRESH.

It seems of late, that people efforts and life purposes have been long endeavors. I know this happens all the time, but it feels like this has been the year of longevity. A pastor has led the same church for 25 years, national names of recognition are hitting their 24 and 25 year marks in their field. A friend has had the same job for 19 years.

And this project is half-way through it's 3rd year... of having a daily prayer and perspective to pray over our pastors and church leadership. And I thank you for joining with me.

Yet, when life and it's responsibilities lose their appeal, when relationships lack purpose, when clarity diminishes and obviously, when things go wrong or get just plain hard, it is a downright struggle... a frustrating struggle to find the wherewithal to run through our difficulty with joy.

Interesting, that I type this as my dear friends are preparing to deliver their 4-month old baby girl into the hands of doctors who will perform open-heart surgery today. And they are emotionally-wrecked, yet resolute in their faith.

Whatever you face, God has you. He has "this".
Whatever your circumstance, God remains, the great "I AM".

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday for those who need a freshening, and a refreshing, in the life and ministry. May God work their miraculous for them, as He will for my friends. For healing, for clarity and direction, for a revitalization of life and purpose; may the Holy Spirit breathe afresh into situations and circumstances that overwhelm hearts and cloud the minds. Pray today would be an undeniable sense of renewal.

For indeed, His mercies are NEW.
Every. Morning.
And who would want it any other way.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

It's always a pretty incredible thing, to hear the powerful sermons that come to the forefront around the Christmas season, for truly the thought of God coming to Earth to redeem a broken humanity is hard to fathom.

And if you'll permit me to include among them, my pastor is on a series discussing the Adventurers, a play on words of the characters of the Advent season and he said something yesterday that really provoked some consideration.

In discussing Mary's response to the promise of Jesus' birth and the account of her visit to Elizabeth, this observation was made. And although we see it in Luke 1:38, it exists numerous times elsewhere through Scripture.

What is truly amazing about the sovereignty of God and the free will of humanity is that God will not act for us or through us without our consent.

Consider how often we see the response.

I am your servant.
May it be as you have said.

It's a nod to the power of prayer! A direct relationship between our petitions and God's Hand, which we further see through both era's that are divided by Christ' life.

Thus if we limit our prayers to God, it stands to reason God's response will in turn, be limited?

Yet if we are open and willing to see it through to completion....

How often do we look at circumstances and decide "no more". God's plans take time and any time we abort the mission early, it usually spells bad news in comparison to what would have been, had God been allowed to work in His time.

So, on this #seniorPastorMonday, may I encourage you as our congregation was encouraged? Let's pray today, that Pastors will not abort the mission. May they see through to completion, the plans and purposes that God is working in their lives and ministries. Pray for those, where there needs to be a realignment as God's servant and a willingness for God's word to come alive and manifest itself in our midst. Pray for Pastors who are tired of the journey, may they be strengthened. As they refresh others, may they be refreshed themselves. May the power of prayer be rekindled and fanned, as unleash themselves to God's sovereignty.

May the miraculous occur
As promises are fulfilled
For those who remain in Him.
Unrelenting, unwavering.
Faithful to the cause of Christ,
For the glory of God.

- PNC

Isn't kinda funny how people and relationships work?

It's so easy how Christians can be so disheartened when they look at the world and take issue with what they are doing and know that life would be so much different and improved with a genuine relationship with God through Jesus Christ.

Conversely, the world looks at the church, and gets frustrated by what Christians AREN'T doing and think, man if they only did what they preach (or what they understand to be Biblical or consistent with Christ's teachings).

Yet, in the end, effectiveness truly begins by knowing what we are to do and sticking to doing it and doing it well. Yes, we must spur others on to do the same, but it's of little meaning and effect if we aren't doing all that we can do and more, starting with ourselves.

And I'll be the first to say that is true in my own life.

Thus, on this #effectiveSunday, pray that we would be the church God has called us to be. Pray that we would walk in His ways and live according to His truths. May we engage the world, rather than criticize. May we speak truth in the face of falsehood. May we witness the grace of God in a world full of judgemental words. Pray today would be a day of reconciliation; of people both within and outside the four-walls of the church coming into greater relationship with God through the cross of Jesus Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit.

To the betterment of humanity
For the glory of God
And the cause of Jesus Christ.
Let it be so, even this very day.

- PNC

For the past couple of days, I haven't been able to consider... what if God had a zero tolerance policy? Ultimately, we know He does, because we will all stand in judgement before Him one day.

In the meantime, His grace is abundant; His mercies are new every morning.

This isn't a license to continually make wrong choices, bad decisions and live in conduct contradictory to the Word of God. Sadly that needs to be pointed out, as much, both within the Christian community, as well as society-at-large, use God's grace and mercy to continue in their wrong-doing.

But what if, based solely on the suggestion of wrong-doing, God called deal-breaker, game-over.

No call to repentance.
No opportunity for confession.
No extension of grace.
No gift of forgiveness.
No invitation towards redemption.

As I look at community, whether on-line, or in-person, we seem to be moving ever-farther away from being people of grace, forgiveness and second chances. And please, don't you dare read what I'm not writing. Accountability, transparency, consequences... there are necessary. But if they are not balanced with the knowledge and understanding of the truth, then we are both living and judging lies. Which is hard to do for a people that denies the Truth of God, while claiming some moral grounding that is not grounded in Scripture.

We seem to be running in the dark, rather than walking in the Light.

On this #communitySaturday, pray that would we be seekers of truth. May we be people who would extend grace and forgiveness and seek confession and repentance. Pray that we would be sensitive to the work of God in our own lives as live as examples of what God desires to accomplish to those not living in the redemptive work of the cross of Jesus Christ. May the Holy Spirit help us to live with an eternal perspective and to be voice of truth in a world of darkness and even darker lies.

For we were once lost,
But have now been found.
Called out of darkness
Into His glorious light.
Having confessed our sins
And redeemed by the blood of Christ.
For the glory of God.

- PNC