Life can truly be difficult at time, can't it? Sure for obvious reasons, every one would agree. You look at situations and circumstances, and no matter who you are, you would look and say, "Wow."

For the rest of the time though, I think we make life difficult through the simple act of comparison. I'm the worst at this... and have been for as long as I can remember, sadly.

It an increasingly competitive time and the massive advances in technology and lifestyle, it's hard not to look at other people's journeys and wish you were in a different place or that your journey wasn't what it was. Not just in every day life, but also in matters of faith. We can wish we were more spiritually mature, more involved and engaged in the church or ministry... more (insert your spiritual battle here)

We make these comparisons from the pew. Pastors make them from the pulpit.

Followers look to their leaders more than Who is leading the leader.
Leaders can fall trap to focusing more than their following (particularly, the size of it) and forget who they are following.

Mentors are awesome and I'm a firm believer in everyone having someone "farther along" in their journey of life and faith speaking into someone else. But at the end of the day, I keep coming back to the encouragement of Paul.

"Follow me, as I follow Christ."

This is not a blind following. We should be close enough to recognize when the one person we follow is amiss in how they follow Christ. If don't fall prey to the trap of comparison and each, focus on our own relationship with Christ, rather than others and where they (or we) may or may not be in that walk, much of life would simplify itself.

Would you join me, as we pray this #associatePastorTuesday. Pray for wisdom; that pastors would know where, when and with whom they serve in ministry together. May they not fall trap to comparison living, but grow and strengthen their faith as they keep their eyes on God. Pray destruction and disaster would be avoided; that pastors would not get caught up in the following, nor would the followers be led astray. May the people of God resist the temptation to live a comparison life to others and focus on what God is doing in our life as we stand in light of Christ.

For we are not conformed to the image of our neighbor,
But the image of our Savior.
That God would be glorified among us
As we live for Him alone.
For He alone is God.

- PNC

Yesterday after church, the family and I went over to my parents place for dinner. The food, of course, was awesome as always. However, when my oldest started making a little bit of an issue of not wanting to eat/not feeling well; I eventually switched gears, if for not other reason than to avoid getting frustrated with the situation and asked what topic we should discuss.

A few seconds later, after making a joke about discussing religion or politics, Dad spoke up... here's a topic!

And the discussion started.

After a few observations were made and a couple of "those are complex concerns", he then threw in the caveat...

What if this is a situation involving a pastor (and their family).  Now, keep in mind, this isn't a dominate social topic in our current climate, nor is it a blatant morality issue for which they shouldn't be in ministry. It is however, a complex issue and a decision that affects the family unit as a whole. While I wouldn't call it a "lifestyle" decision, it certainly is a decision that affects their life and lifestyle for a period of time... and when it involves church leadership, it's easy to understand how some might have concerns.

(I know you're frustrated about my not being specific about the topic; just practicing discernment)

The big picture though, as I continued to think about our discussion is the difficulty and challenges that ministry faces. Whether personal or public, not everyone will agree with the decisions people make and the lives they lead. I don't understand some of those made by my friends, let alone pastors and they may not agree with the ones that are made concerning my family. And that's fine. At the end of the day, each has to live with their own and the results or consequences that follow.

One of the points that came up, though is the discerning of the Spirit. Sometimes people are spot on and others are so far off that it's incredible.  Christians get it wrong, as do pastors. Yet as church leaders, there's another level to consider... one that sometimes gets missed and that's where the problems begin. The decisions of those in charge, do affect those under authority. Directly or indirectly; immediate or delay... it will happen, eventually.

So... pray, this #seniorPastorMonday. Pray a true, Spirit of discernment for pastors and leaders. While they still may make decisions not everyone will agree with; may the be extra careful to know when they have truly heard from God regarding direction. Pray for strength in their families, as they live and operate as a unit. For those they lead and influence, may God grant them wisdom in their conversations; that as they live and work, their relationships would sharpen and draw people closer to God, rather than words and deeds that would separate and divide. Pray against the attacks of the enemy that would desire to use circumstances to cause riffs and strife, whereby attempting to derail and disrupt the ministry efforts of the church. May their impact in the communities they serve not be hindered; but advance the kingdom as they Gospel goes forth; both from the pulpit and the pew.

As we live for an audience of One.
That God might be glorified in all we say and do.
Not for the applause of man
But in obedience to God.
For the cause of Christ.

- PNC

Resurrection Band wrote a song by this title for their Innocent Blood album and while it's both a great and simple song, sadly for our friends at our Bridgepoint Church, in southeastern Michigan, the song become a reality.

Yesterday afternoon, there was smoke on the holy ground, as multiple fire departments responded to the call... their house was on fire. Taking out the sanctuary, daycare facilities and offices among the damaged, witnesses say the sad moment of truth was when the steeple toppled through the roof.

I can't imagine.

Some parishioners have attended the church for 40 plus years.

Miracle, of miracles, no events where being held on the campus at the time of the blaze and the community has already circled around them in support. Services for the 400 member church are being held at one of the local school facilities.

Which brings us to this #effectiveSunday. It's easy to look at an organization and ministry and think of how much more could be done with more money, more space, more equipment, resources or people. And while God uses those things to advance the kingdom and His people to proclaim, the effectiveness of ministry is in the people and the power of the Holy Spirit.

Though the buildings are nice and the technology is great, it is the people coming together to worship God and hear His Word that allows for a church to be equipped to impact their community.

Thus, on this sad, yet glorious morning, pray this #effectiveSunday that the body of Christ would be quickened and strengthened as we come together to glorify God. Despite great tragedy and loss, may the words of our testimony point a lost world to the person of Christ. Though we don't have the answers may our lives point to truth; that God is sufficient for all that we have need. May today be a celebration in God's provision in the past and the promise of the future; that He has plans and purpose for our lives, of hope and a future and not of harm. Pray for the leadership and congregation of Bridgepoint; may today be a day of new beginnings in what God would desire to accomplish through this loss. May their ministry return and recovery exponentially, as it did for Job.

For it is God who works in all things;
Beyond our understanding.
According to His riches in glory,
For the advancement of the gospel of Christ.

- PNC

I Corinthians 15 is a pretty cool chapter, but as I considered what God had in store for this post, I couldn't shake the encouragement that verse 58 offers.

"Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, unmovable; always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as you know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord."

In the preceding verses, if I can boil it down, Paul essentially says that what Christ accomplished through His death and resurrection is possible because of who He is. If we are dead because of Adam, then we are alive because of Christ. However, without His death and resurrection, we have nothing. There is no witness, no testimony... no gospel to preach whereby man can be saved.

Paul goes on to explain many more spiritual truths, making the comparison between the physical and spiritual man before arrives to this place of encouragement, but he understands well, the power of the gospel as it transformed his life, from one known as a prosecutor of the faith to a protector of the faith.

Our victory in life is made possible the life of our Lord Jesus Christ.

The enemy would love for nothing less, than cracks in the armor of our faith; areas of weakness in our life, whereby he can distract us and use our frustrations and concerns against us to take us of course. Even to the point, that Paul witnesses in his day; that some were not preaching the full gospel (which is much of his explanation in this chapter) But whether the challenge of ministry lies in our understanding of the gospel or life has skewed our perspective of what God has and desires to accomplish in and through our lives, Paul's encouragement stands.

These are days in which pastors and parishioners alike must be steadfast; unmovable. The truth of Christ and the power of God is alive and at work in our midst and though the days may feel as such or attacked as such, the gospel of the kingdom of God, is not a vanity exercise, nor the labor with which we pursue it.

Join me, this #associatePastorTuesday; that pastors would be encouraged, to remain steadfast and unmovable. May God strengthen the weak and the weary among us; that Christ would be made alive in their body, mind, soul and spirit. Anew and afresh, may the be revitalized in their efforts to preach the Gospel and make Christ known. Pray the distractions and disruptions of life would not throw them of course; but they would continue the race, fighting the good fight of faith.

Steadfast and unmovable.
Not by the naysayers in life,
Nor the disruptions of it.
Preaching the full gospel
And the whole counsel of God.
In a world of darkness
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

So, I had an epiphany this morning, as I was getting ready for church (and now watching the clock to leave for the same!) Courtesy of the timing of God, the Healing Stream Media Network's "The Healing Rock" radio station and David Zaffiro, singing "Find My Way."

I love this song, particularly because of the piano work, but as it played, I considered the story of the Prodigal. Upon realizing the error of his ways, he knew what to do to correct it. He knew where to go to correct it. He knew how to get their; he knew the posture to take and the words to say, whereby he might plead his case, as he acknowledge his mistake in life and submitted his request for forgiveness.

Wow!

Aren't we the same way?

We know what's wrong.
We know what we should be doing, saying, completing.
We know how to respond.
We know to whom we should turn.
We know what we must confess.
We do, in fact, know where God is and how to get to Him.

Yet, all to often, we sit far too long in the mess in which we've created (and perhaps others have contributed to making for us). The "ah-ha" moment comes at different times for all of us, but thankfully, like the prodigal's father, neither does our Heavenly Father move or leave. He is the same God, in the same place, as He was when we failed as humans, and took off... in search of what was ultimately, worse than what we apart of from the beginning.

On this #effectiveSunday, will you pray with me, today is an epiphany day? Pray the realization of many; that whereve we find ourselves, may we find our way closer to God our Father. We cannot be effective in what we know and do and where we go unless we pick ourselves up. May today be a day of movement and progress; not a pulling away by our desires, but a drawing to the presence of God by the move of the Holy Spirit. Pray we would not be hindered in our efforts, nor delayed in our journey; but directed by the power of God.

Find our way;
That we may know His way
For our lives and our families.
Our churches and communities.
Led by the Spirit.
To be in right relationship with the Father.
For His glory.

- PNC

Over the past few weeks, we've looked at the concept of grace. We've talked about failure. The theme that runs throughout this site, is burnout and all that comes with it; so naturally, there's a understanding of stress and expectations and keeping perspective.

As I reflected on this yesterday, I stood (technically, sat) amazed, that salvation is not a "once and gone" opportunity. Yes, we are constantly being made anew; being conformed to the image of Christ as our life and faith progress.

Certainly, when one hears the Word of the Lord, it'd be awesome if there was always an immediate response, as "today is the day of salvation". Yet often, for many, it's not. So there is a continual prompting, as God continues to knock on the door of people's hearts.

He cannot promise to never leave us nor forsake us, then not be on the other side of the door when one decides to respond to the call of salvation through Jesus Christ.

God either is, our ever present help in time of need, or He comes and goes as He pleases, and may not be found when we call on Him.

Thankfully, this #missionsFriday, that is not the case for me. Nor, is it the case for you. Pray with me, this would not be the case for others. May today be a day that many, call upon the name of the Lord and are saved. Pray God would accomplish the miraculous, as people respond and open the door of their hearts and minds to the person of Jesus Christ. May the cares and concerns, the frustrations and failures of life not stand in the way of His transforming power. Pray today would be a day to bear witness, once again, of the goodness and greatness of our God.

Indeed, may today be the day of salvation,
As people hear the Word of the Lord.
As they call upon Him and are saved.
A day of increase
For those counted as "whosoevers".
For the glory of God.

- PNC

It seems like I've been typing this an quite more frequently of late... that life is hard and the battle is real. And it is.

In fact, there are days, we all have them, that you just don't want to get out of bed (as evidenced, I'm watching the clock and typing fast, before the "run out the door to work" moment). We look at the situations taking place; those that seemingly have no end in sight and the corresponding conversations that are equivalent with beating a dead horse and wonder... is there ever a break?

Will the storm ever pass?
Will things ever "die down"? Even a little?
Could I catch a moment or two to breath?
To gain perspective?
To step back and consider... even, reconsider?
Reprieve? Anyone? Please?
And five more minutes of sleep, if there's any to spare.

And we all have difficulty. It's hard not to compare; my battles are worthless and pale in comparison to the reality that many of you are waking up to this morning. And yet, you are asking the same aforementioned questions. (and inserting your own favorite phrases) Yet, God is in it all and with you, through it all.

I hadn't planned this, but during our last night's mid-week service, Pastor discussed Job. And asked at the closing, do we have an "others" faith. From Hebrews 11;35 and the few that follow. We all look at the hero's of faith for who their lives and challenges worked out incredible. Verse 35, tells of the others, for whom it worked out without the happy movie ending. Tortured, beaten, persecuted and more. Yet, they were recognized for their faith and perseverance, not knowing how life would turn out for them.

As we face these difficult times together, can I relay what Pastor asked us?

Do you love God for what He does for you? Or do you just love God?

No matter what we encounter, nor what the outcome, may burnout not prevail.

Thanks for joining me, this #deaconThursday, as we pray for a steadfast faith. May we resist the temptation and the suggestion to curse God, when life gets hard and beyond our understanding. Pray for a steadfast faith that stands in the face of trial and potential slaying. Pray our hope and trust in Him would prevail; that those struggling would not give up the fight. May faith arise. For those need a break in the battle, pray the Holy Spirit would quicken body, mind, soul and spirit. Pray once again, strength for the weary and encouragement for the broken-hearted.

Though we be surrounded on all sides
May we remember God stands on our side.
Through the fire and the flame,
Never leaving or forsaking.
May our love for Him and our trust in Him prevail.
For no other reason than He is God... and we are not.
For His glory and the cause of Christ.

- PNC

Proverbs 24:16 says that a just man, though he falls seven times will rise again.

How often we are reminded of many truths!

Falling isn't failure. The failure come when we refuse to rise.

Is it possible the seven times reference is similar to Christ's when asked how many times we should forgive? It's not about keeping score, nor keeping record, but learning from our mistakes, no matter the severity or the stupidity of them (hard as they may be when they happen; frustrating as the aftermath that follows)

Though we may be known for our mistakes and mishaps for a season, life continues to reveal that the intersection of action and reaction is constant. What's more, our reactions are often more telling of what's in our hearts and minds that the actions that stand on their own merit.

For as long as we live in fallen world and deal with a fallen, sinful nature, the struggle will continue to be real (more real, than we care to admit to live in at times, granted). People will do us wrong. We do wrong by other people. Accidents occur. Mistakes are made. Some will be life-changing disturbances. Others, simply "bang your head on the desk" stupid frustrations.

The wicked are brought down by their calamity; but for the believer, our hope and identity stand with Christ. We have neither to live in our failure, nor or fallen state. By His strength and His grace, we persevere and press on in the faith we profess, difficult as it may be on the days that are worse than the others. Yet our lives speak to the future and to the generations of leaders and followers who come behind us. God help us to do well by them.

Pray, this #youthPastorWednesday, that the church and its' pastors, would lead lives that continue to rise. Though disappointments and mistakes about, may we not be known by out flaws, but by the witness of God's working all things together for good. Pray the testimony would go forth; that God does not leave us in our fallen and broken condition; that the lessons we learn are not in vain; yet useful for the kingdom of God. May we be people of perseverance, in the face of adversity and difficulty; rising to the challenges of life; even to the point of refusing to rise. Pray the Spirit of God would strengthen us in our weakness, for even we no longer feel like getting up, may we find the wherewithal do so for the edification of the body of Christ and the glory of God.

Fallen no more,
Made alive in Christ.
Made anew in His plans and purposes.
Using our lives for His glory
For in our weakness, He is strong.
May our focus rest upon God, rather than ourselves.
Placing our trust according, for the cause of Christ.

- PNC

Grace truly is an amazing thing.

How in the world, we could ever expect to give it or receive it without acknowledging that it exists as a gift from Almighty God remains a mystery.

Of course, we all know life is hard and the days are rough.

We have our days where we look to receive and probably don't.
We have our days where we are asked to give it and would rather not.

Justification often stands in the way of both. Often skewed by our own perspectives, we make the most interesting arguments and reasons as to why and who is worth this gift.

In reality, none of us are worthy to receive it.
Likewise, none of us are in a position to grant it either.

Indeed grace is a gift. Having received it from God makes it that much easier to give to our fellow man. At least it should. Yet, sadly, whether within the church or outside of it,  we often hesitate to extend it. For when we do, it is simply another opportunity to reflect and exemplify our Lord and Savior. Granted we must use wisdom and discernment at times, that we may truly understand and handle the circumstances we face; but more often than not, grace should flow more often than it probably does.

It's a struggle for us all. It's a struggle for our leaders. And in the context of that relationship alone, grace is a difficult process often made more complex by the expectations created by faith.

So, pray, this #associatePastorTuesday. Whether in need of receipt or expected to grant, pray for pastors in difficult places where grace is needed. Whether at home or at church, may God grant to them wisdom and discernment as they walk through the conversation and decision process. Pray for understanding, that they would know the when, where and how to respond to the people and circumstances they face. May our first thought be to exemplify and glorify Christ, in all that we say or do; even when we are inclined to assert our rights or stand our defense.

May we extend grace
When it is undeserved,
Even as we have received grace
That we did not deserve.
That the world may see Christ
Reflected through imperfect lives.
Amazing grace, indeed.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

As we prayed yesterday, as a congregation during the morning service, the term "insulation" was brought to our attention. For whatever reason, it truly stood out.

Life happens to all of us. It rains on the just and the unjust. We all expect trials and tribulations, but as a pastor-friend of mine shared on social media the other day, things just seem to be especially difficult and challenging.

We trust in God to provide and move on our behalf when the enemy comes against us. Yet in moments of intense pressure and increased attack, we truly need a miracle.

We need God's protection. We need His strength. We need His comfort.

We need a reprieve. Insulation. Distance from the war.

It's hard to find, because life continues.
It's hard to keep perspective because the demands and decisions that require us to engage and remain involved. Yet in our spirit, there is no other option except to call down Heaven, to stand in the gap on our behalf, in order that we may continue to stand firm in our faith, for the glory of God and the witness of Christ.

In that spirit, would you join me, in standing in the gap this #seniorPastorMonday? Pray for pastors facing increased stress and challenge, as my friend and his family are encountering on a personal level. May they be encouraged by the hand of God, as He brings comfort and a level of insulation from the battles of life. Pray for renewing of the mind and a strengthening of their spirit; may there be a revival in their resolve to face and overcome the struggles of life.

May God work the miraculous
For those doing the work of the Lord.
Strength for today.
Hope for tomorrow.
Encouragement for others.
To testify to the goodness and greatness of God.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

The human mind... the human body; the structures and the tools we create to accomplish projects and tasks; all of it is pretty incredible.

It amazes me just how much we can take on, provided we keep things in balance. Conversely, it's equally amazing just how quickly stuff can go wrong when not kept in balance.

It's good to be challenged; to test the limits of accomplishment... to be stretched as a process of growth and maturity. There are times for such a process. However, as we load our lives and our lists, if tasks and goals, people and projects are not properly placed as we take them on, we will, perhaps too quickly, begin to see the effects.

Things may begin to fall off; we will notice going weary in a particular area or arena of life. Eventually the shifting and moving about will affect what surrounds us, at which time, the recipe for disaster is spelled.

Be careful, then, how you fill your life and spend your time, for being out of balance is problematic enough. Over-loading one's life without giving thought to balance leads to certain demise and potential destruction.

Pray, this #deaconThursday, for church leaders whose lives are out of balance. Whether they are over-loaded or simply failed to properly place the things and people of their life, may God grant them wisdom as the proceed and sort through the mess. May God help them recover, for those who are burnt out and worn down. Pray strength for the weak and rest for the weary. Pray God would help those who struggle with taking on too much, to establish healthy boundaries... understanding what they are capable of; understanding, more importantly, what God would have in store for them to accomplish. May God grant discernment in knowing the when and the who of what should be met with a "yes" and a "no" response. May we understand the affects of our productivity and our effectiveness when we are over-loaded and out of balance.

That we would be people of health.
Operating in health.
Speaking life.
Living well.
Serving effectively, the kingdom of God.
For His glory and the Gospel.

- PNC

None of us know, the day nor the hour we will be called home; into eternity with Christ. (or God forbid, without Him). Or destiny is before us; our untimely departure unknown to all, but a sovereign God with a perfect plan who uses all things for His glory, even after we have left this earth.

Without fail, towards the end of the year, social media in particular, gets flooded with comments after some amazing people have left this life; people of great accomplishments, people of legendary fame; people relatively unknown, except for the small circles in which they impacted greatly the lives of those around them. "This year can end any day now" is a sentiment shared by many.

Then the New Year starts, and one wonders... really? This is how we are starting?

Last week, our church held the funeral of the most incredible lady of faith, as she finally went home, after a 4-yr battle with cancer. Her faith and steadfast trust in God was remarkable and her smile lit up the treatment ward, as she dressed for each day; like her reality didn't affect her attitude. My heart breaks for my friends, in the loss of their mother.

Then the city of Detroit, lost a man of great impact... pizza magnate and Red Wing's owner, Mike Ilitch. Fans, friends and family... the outpouring of love that has gone forth for the love and appreciate of a man who did so much for his community and beyond, as a business icon, simply can't be ignored.

Finally, in the past few days, Christian music pioneer, Larry Norman, too, passed into eternity. Another great; who left an indelible mark on those around him, not to mention the hundreds of thousands, who came to Christ through his ministry and music and even more, whose faith was encouraged by his talent and his words.

All that to say; and this isn't a projection of the demographic make up of church leadership; but loosing people of influence and those in our daily circles of involvement is never easy... whether they be family, friends or business. As I considered the Earth's loss of these people, I couldn't help but consider all the others, whose lives are being mourned, even this hour. People of influence. People of faith. People of prominence or relative obscurity. Friends. Leaders. Mentors.

As those in church leadership begin to step away from ministry due to age and health concerns, whether they are senior pastors or not, I couldn't help but wonder the value and contribution that has been gained over the years, and what will be lost when they go. For those associates and friends who will fill their places, God help them, as we pray He will for the friends of the aforementioned.

Pray, for these families, friends and congregations. May God grant them strength and comfort during this time of loss. Pray that as we reflect, it would cause us to celebrate the time we shared with them on this earth and what God accomplished in and through their lives. May their testimonies speak the truth, of the goodness and greatness of the love of Jesus Christ among us. Pray for those who remain; to tell their stories; to apply what we've learned from them and continue their legacies. May we impact our communities and our worlds, whether local or global to greater degrees than they, as we have been inspired that this world is not about us, but God. Pray we recognize our place and the plans He has for us... to do good works for the cause of Christ.

May Heaven be our home
As we  are just aliens and strangers.
Travelers here... simply passing through.
Bringing glory to God
Leading others to Christ.
For the advancement of the kingdom of God.

- PNC

In the movie, The American President, Michael Douglas plays the role of a widowed President who falls in love with a lobbyist. A classic 90's romantic comedy, the opening scene is of President Shepherd walking through the White House portico, from the residence to the Oval Office, which is personal aide by his side. It's Monday morning and the previous night, he had given a speech. In an impromptu move, he skips an entire section. Enter, the personal aide's comment, that the speechwriter would like to talk to him before the day begins.

In the quick and brilliant writing that is Aaron Sorkin, President Shepherd replies,

"Well, it wouldn't be Monday morning if Lewis wasn't concerned about something I did Sunday night."

Of course, when Lewis sees the President, his first words are his frustration about dumping an entire paragraph. The President simply quips in reply, "And Monday morning it is."

Isn't church, much the same way?

We know how much disagreement can arise between staff and leadership, in any organization, but we are foolish to think it doesn't happen in churches. And not just from the staff. Congregations are often quick to speak on matters and areas of concern or question; whether regarding decisions or conversations, ministry or direction; a sermon... or any other of the 100's of situations that arise in any given week.

Leadership requires thick skin and a church will quickly find itself in trouble if the pastor is a "push-over." It's not matters of any degree of difficulty shouldn't be handle with care and compassion, but if decisions are always being made by the shifting directions of some people's frustrations, then eventually everyone will be frustrated with the leader who can't or won't cast vision and stand by the courage of his or her convictions; let alone the decisions they make.

All the more reason, to #pray4pastors.

On, this #seniorPastorMonday the 13th, pray for pastors in the decisions they face, both at home and in ministry. For those in challenging positions, where wisdom is lacking, pray a super-natural indwelling of the Holy Spirit to bring illumination to their hearts and minds. May they ask of God, who gives generously. Pray for those within the church, and staff, who are having difficulty expression areas of concern with tact and gracce. May their be a wisdom on their part as well, to know when to speak up and how; that God would grant discernment as to the process of trusting versus questioning leadership. Pray emotions would not dominate these times, but that God would be glorified, as the church reflects Christ at all times and moves forward in the plans and purposes God has ordained from them to accomplish.

May clear direction
Lead to sound decisions.
That the people of God would move in unity.
Overcoming disagreements,
That the work of ministry may go forth.
In confidence. With competence.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

And as is later stated in the movie, "politics is perception"

We don't like to think of the things and obstacles that stand in our way of accomplishing the task at hand. Whether we have set it before us, or someone else has placed it on our list; we all look at the mission, should we choose to accept it, and figure out a game-plan and strategy to "get it done".

To not expect or prepare for obstacles along the way would be foolish; like not preparing for the storm when building a house.

However, it's frustrating when the obstacle to a person or organization comes in the form or a person or group.

A parent dealing with the adamant attitude of a teenager... or the defiant voice of a child who thinks they are closer to their teen years than they actually are; a manager struggling to deal with the naysayers on the team; perhaps the team member whose boss won't listen to the voice of reasonable suggestion... whatever the situation, figuring out how to navigate the relationships that come into play with the task-at-hand can create and quickly become seemingly insurmountable obstacles to one's ability to be effective and efficient.

Over time, it affects the entire organization... or business... or church.

Thus, will you join me, as I offer my thanks once again for #praying4pastors. Pray, this #effectiveSunday, that God would grant to His people and church leadership, grace and wisdom in dealing with difficult people and tense relationships. May the Holy Spirit impart wisdom as places of understanding are sought; that people and teams would come to mutual and equitable agreements. Pray that emotions and feelings would not run the table, but the Word of God would guide their steps and prayer direct their conversation. May disagreements be worked out; that discernment would prevail as concerns are brought forth, addressed and solved.

Pray God would go before us, to show us the way.
May His presence go with us as we move forward.
For if God is not in it, then we should not desire it.
As we move forward, to advance the kingdom of God.
For His glory and honor; in the power of His name.

- PNC

I mentioned yesterday, the "aha" moment, in dealing with the attitude of my oldest daughter the other night and the seemingly instant "drop" in my spirit, that it wasn't her, but the enemy trying to set a course in her life that was unhealthy, at the very least and disastrous, at it's worst.

Then, yesterday's verse of the day resonated.

Hebrews 4:12
... for the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.

That moment with my daughter was not anything great or magical on my part. It was however, an answer to prayer as we've continued to lift her up before the Lord; asking and seeking wisdom as parents and praying God's hand upon their lives and his purposes fulfilled in and through them as the progress.

Likewise, as Pastor shared last night, that his pastor encouraged him when he took over what was left a remnant of a church many years ago. His Dad spoke into his life during the early years of rebuilding, that if they did the "right" things now, it would establish them for greater things later.

"What goes up fast, comes down fast". (thanks Pastor, I'm borrowing this)

Whether raising a family or raising up a church; indeed, may today be a fresh and new start, for the Word of God to speak and direct our lives and to allow us to speak and direct that which crosses our paths.

So, pray, this #deaconThursday, may God's Word remain at the forefront of our lives. Pray for wisdom and discernment in our churches and homes; that as the face of God is sought, He would reveal and illuminate His will, plans and purposes that we should walk and carry-out. May that which was meant to derail, detour and destroy be cast aside; as the church presses on towards the prize of the high calling. Pray an awareness of the spirit; to move beyond the natural and operate by the power and prompting of the Holy Spirit.

That those who know their God
Would do great exploits.
Wisdom beyond our years and abilities.
For the advancement of the kingdom of God
And to His honor and glory.

- PNC

Yesterday marks day two of our lost remote.

Monday evening, I came across a social media post, that linked to an article on the verse of Scripture discussing provoking your kids to anger.

I've yet to read it, but I couldn't help as I went about my day yesterday, if came to remembrance as I sought direction for today's post. As usually happens, reflecting on the happenings of my day and life often transcends and fast-forwards to ministry... how pastors handle family issues, and in particular, how kids and teens under their ministry are impacted and receive the messages, direct and indirect that they pick up along the way and carry with them until confronted.

Two plus hours going through the kids bedroom last night and still no remote.

I'm fit to be tied. To no avail, it was time to think about getting the girls ready for bed.

Then, an hour and half after bedtime and I was face to face with the matter... my oldest upset and telling me, once again, she was a bad kid.

I'm not sure what took so long, to recognize in this moment, that this was a spiritual battle.

There was no gearing up. The attitude change was immediate, as I stepped up to engage...

Repeatedly telling her she was loved
Repeatedly telling her I refused to believe the lie that she was a bad kid.
Repeatedly telling her that I refused to believe this spirit that was raising an attitude against me that would not listen to the truth.

I stood my ground in reaffirming her as my daughter, whom I love and always have and will.
I stood firm, reaffirming that she is a gift from God; an inheritance from the kingdom of God.
I boldly served notice, that this defiant spirit has no authority, nor place in my home.
And of course, the hard part... acknowledging my role in all of this. Whether I had set an example that was less than Christ-like or that an upset and frustrated attitude was justifiable to display to those around us; regardless... the lie that's she's a bad kid is no more or less of a lie, than my believing that I'm a bad Dad.

But I won't allow her behavior to dictate the truth of who she is in Christ, then I should believe the lie of the enemy to my spirit, that I am less of a man, husband, father and friend than what Christ speaks over my life.

As if I wasn't already tired, stepping into spiritual, warrior Dad mode did me in.
Perhaps that's part of the problem.

The whole trick of the enemy...
...to be frustrated with the temporal so that you are unaware of the flanking invasion.

If I am not immune to such a battle in my life and home, how much more for pastors; and the kids and youth (and parents for that matter) that sit under their ministry.

So... will you join me once again?

Pray, this #youthPastorWednesday, for the attacks that are being waged on our youth. Pray the enemy would be thwarted; that his lies would be refuted. Pray for boldness to confront defeatist attitudes in our homes and churches. May we not be so frustrated and bothered; angered even by the things and circumstances that don't matter, but righteously stand for what weighs in the balance of eternity. Pray a hedge of protection, of our youth, and our pastors that lead them. May their identity be found in Christ; His purpose and plans made known for their lives and for the events that are designed to destroy their lives would falter. Pray the grace of God would cause them to rise above and live victorious.

Confidently walking in the ways of God
Speaking the truth in love.
Spiritually wise to the attacks of the enemy.
Having done all to stand; standing firm.
For the glory of God.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

My daughters misplaced the remote to their DVD player yesterday... which happens to be the same remote for my DVD player. So, the wife and I ended up falling asleep to You've Got Mail (as it automatically plays, without going to the menu first) Then this morning, as I woke up early and couldn't fall back asleep, I started it again. 

We arrive at the scene for Joe Fox arrives at the café, when he finds out he's about to meet his competition in business, Kathleen Kelly. When he finally decided to step in to the cafe, of course, Kathleen having no idea How knows his competitor is the woman he has been chatting with online, the conversation is tough. And Kathleen, the next morning, discusses the outcome. 

The unexpected.

As Joe Fox states it, when Kathleen later asks, unknowingly where he was, he says that she expected a friend to arrive and met her enemy instead.

Thus, I was reminded once again, the challenge and frustration... the breakdown that exists after the failure of a senior pastor. The environment changes, trust is broken and the conversation is disconcerting. We haven't talked about the roles reversing. Associates are just as prone to struggles and failures, placing senior pastors and church leadership in just as difficult a place.

Relationships in ministry are difficult. Oftentimes they have a greater element of friendship to them than a normal workplace environment. So when difficulty arises and the conversation gets overtly challenging, things can get shaky.

So, pray, this #associatePastorTuesday for relationships among church leaders. May difficulty not derail or destroy the friendships that exist. Pray also, that failures would not hinder the work of the ministry and the impact the church endeavors to make upon their community. Pray a grace and a wisdom over conversations... as differences are worked out and problems solved, may God be glorified and honored in how such delicate matters are handled. May their be a strengthening of their resolve; that nothing would stand in their way of fulfilling the calling and purposes that God has placed before them.

May they be found faithful servants,
Stewards of their calling.
Anointed to serve.
God. Others.
For the cause of Jesus Christ

-PNC

Pastor preached an incredible sermon yesterday on failure. While I should have picked up on it earlier, that it would prompt today's post, it was towards the end, that it clicked.

So here it is, when it comes to failing in ministry.

The difference between Judas and Peter was restoration.

Judas betrayed Christ.
Peter denied Christ.

And what made the difference in the aftermath?

Peter's response... which is the same for all of us, when we have dropped it.

Admit it. Confess it. Forget it.

Judas decided to respond to his failure against Christ internal and it destroyed him... literally.
Peter decided to respond to his failure against Christ by submitting it to Christ... externally.

And because of the confession of his mouth and the repentance of his heart, he was restored... not only to right relationship with God, but called to return to ministry.

By properly responding to his failure by turning to Christ, God was able to accomplish the miraculous... a story of triumph for the kingdom of God, rather than a tragic ending.

Pray, this #seniorPastorMonday, for pastors struggling with failure. May the respond appropriately to Christ, not holding it in, but handing it over to God, whereby He might accomplish His good work, even in spite of our setbacks. Pray a spirit of humilty, confession and submission; that a spirit of pride would not stand in the way of a healthy and right relationship with God. While the enemy may desire to sift our leaders as wheat, may our prayers rise up for the strengthening of their faith. Pray too, that God would help the body of Christ... that they too, would respond correctly to the failures in church leadership, as well as their own lives... may pride not be our downfall, nor our destruction.

Humbled in our confession
Restored through our repentance
Lifted up, through our lowly state.
For the glory of God
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

So, yesterday was a little difficult to swallow.

I understand. How do you think I felt writing it?

As we've prayed before about the balance of ministry as we work to be both effective and efficient, as well as the balance in discovering where to start when we don't know at times; yesterday's post simply brought both back to the forefront of my mind.

It is entirely possibly for the church and it's congregation to be involved in both ministering at a local and an abroad level... to be both active and supportive.

If you'll permit me, we also have difficulty starting things, rather than sometimes simply stepping out and seeing what works. Granted there is an element of wisdom that needs to be practiced here, but all too often we allow not knowing exactly what all might happen or how and the unknown prevents us from doing anything at all. Is there something to be said about going and believing God will direct as you start taking the first steps in faith?

Perhaps. But one thing is certain. Inactivity and a lack of involvement will not advance the efforts of the kingdom of God. Nor obviously, will it lead to a sense of effectiveness and efficiency.

Pray, God would help all of us, this #effectiveSunday, to ministers of the gospel of Christ, and of grace. May we find our place of ministry, in both a local and global context. Pray God would grant us wisdom as we step and go, divinely directing by His sovereign hand. Pray the church would be a people who effectively fulfill the calling and purpose God has placed before us.

That not one would perish.
That we would stand before God
To hear "well done, good and faithful servant"
For if good news is share-worthy,
How much more, the Good News of Christ?

- PNC

I'm just letting you know up front... this one might hit hard.

I don't recall when, aside from the past 2 weeks, people's faith has been more called into question over the events and reactions that have arisen nationally and globally. As we continue to move deeper into a post-modern mentality and maintain a perspective that places the global impact at the forefront, living a life of faith becoming increasingly confrontational.

While many would argue it's Christianity doing the confronting, I would dare to say it's a society that has moved farther away from the things of God, demanding Christianity move with them. Eventually placed in positions of compromise... eventually placed in positions where they must reconcile their faith with their environment; whether the truth of God's Word influences and directs life more than political and social pressures.

Thus, in a moment of reflection yesterday, I felt God pose this question. So taken aback, I replied...

"Really? That's what I'm to share?"

Faith begins with the decision of an individual; which is why it's asked in Mark (and Matthew and Luke, for that matter), what does it a profit a man to gain the whole world, yet lose his own soul?

Conversely (and here's the bat)...

What does one gain to minister globally, yet not minister locally?


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(letting that sink in)


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(a little more?)


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And we've seen the social media posts.

"If you don't care about this refugee, remove the pro-life sticker from your SUV"
"Jesus was a refugee"  (referring to their fleeing to Egypt after the decree calling for the murder of kids)

Then, this morning...
(and of course, I can't find it to quote it, but it makes my point...)

"If you can't take care of the homeless children in your country...."

The dichotomy is challenging. Jesus commands us to "go", yet He also teaches on stewardship. That to whom much is given, much is required. If we are not faithful in the little things, how can we be trusted with with true riches? Does not this also apply to how we handle and care for our relationships? 

Good job, reaching out to the one across the street. You walked right over the one who sat at your doorstep.

One who is weak, does not call to another weak to help them... they look to one who is strong. The sick look to one who is healthy. The poor do not go the poor to help break the cycle of poverty.

If our faith in Christ is not strong and if we are not faithful where we are, how can God trust us to be faithful elsewhere?

All that to say, if we are to impact the nations for the cause of Jesus Christ, perhaps we should do so from a place of effectively having impacted our neighborhood with the Gospel of Christ.

God help us, this #communitySaturday, to find the balance in reaching out to our neighbors and the nations. May we see and act on the needs around us, whether they be a literal cup of cold water, or a great endeavor. Pray we would be faithful to be used where we are planted; while also not afraid to "go" when God so directs. Pray a grace over our conversations, as the church works to find a balance between faith and good works. While Christians aren't perfect, pray for a continual seeking of the face of God; that we love Him with all that is within us; and love our neighbors. Whether across the street or across the waters; pray a boldness to step out and be ministers of the Gospel and of grace.

To impact our world-at-home
To impact the world-at-large
May the truth of God's World be revealed
As our light so shines before men.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC