We all have our favorite places of comfort...

A chair for relaxing, a blanket for consolation, a pillow for rest, the preferred positon for the driver's seat of our favorite car... you weren't expecting that, were you?

***Wednesday bonus story: My former roommate was in automotive benchmarking (aka: vehicle teardown & analysis). When we moved into our apartment, he brought with him the driver's seat from a Volvo sedan. Total bachelor pad decor, but it was incredible comfortable. I wonder if he still has it?

We have our favorite foods after a stressful day (hopefully on the somewhat healthy side), our favorite music or station to clear our minds... all good things. They are important; they have their place, and they are critical to our sanity most of the time.

The problem is that comfort does not position one to take action.

Sure, there's a lot to be said for being comfortable while you are working, and certainly, your productivity is affected accordingly, but that's not the train I'm on.

As you look about your life; what's in it, what's wrong with it, what could be better and what needs to be fixed or removed altogether... places of uncertainty, unrest and grief can and should be powerful motivators that prompt us to get things sorted and straightened out.  Granted we won't fix or accomplish everything, certainly not at once, but places that lack comfort make room for the miraculous.

Consider Peter in the boat. Granted it might not have been comfortable with the surrounding storm, but certainly it was more comfortable than being in the water. Yet, when answering the call to step out of his comfort, the miraculous happened.

Moses left the comfort of Egypt, the disciples left the comfort of their professions, Ruth denied the comfort of returning to her family choosing the uncertainty of staying with Naomi, Gideon went against his better instinct, turning away the support of a massive army in favor of a select handful by comparison...

Lest we forget... a ministry repleat with the miraculous, doesn't exist if Christ doesn't leave the comfort of heaven.

Whether a parent whose served God most of their life, a young person learning about God; a seasoned Senior Pastor or the first time pastoring kids and teens... how a great a reminder that powerful change is possible when we move out of our comfort zones. More often than not, the uncomfortable places are breeding grounds for the miraculous in our lives.

Pray, this #youthPastorWednesday, that though difficult and a time disconcerting, may we not become so lax in our comfort that we fail to step into places that are uncomfortable. May pastors (and believers alike, for that matter) would respond to the prompting of the Holy Spirit and the call of God as to when and where He would have us move and engage in this life. Pray opportunities to take action and witness positive change for the kingdom of God would be great and frequent.

Unafraid of the uncomfortable on earth, 
For the comfort of Heaven awaits.
May boldness and strength drive us
In anticipation of the miraculous.
For the glory of God
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I experienced an interesting insight yesterday afternoon, while we visited the local play-land so the kiddos could get out some energy and play games. We had a good time, given that we were there for a few hours and the kids cashed in their game tickets from some cool toys (like we needed more things to put away when bedtime rolls around)

Of course, what play-place experience isn't complete without a game taking your tokens, but not printing out the correct number of winning tickets?

Ministry is not about seeking the approval of man, for those who do so receive their reward... having exchanged the eternal for the temporal. 

It's easy to get caught up, even as I consider the simple things for this site. I watch twitter followers come and go or the visit count of the number of readers flucuate on any given day. Some days I smile, other days, I wonder what happened.

Even for pastors though, a similar temptation exists. Why is service attendance so strong on Sunday morning, but 80-90% gone on a Sunday night... or 60-70% gone on a Wednesday night? Why do some events bring out more support and volunteers than others? Why are some sermons more well received? Worship portions of the service more powerful one week than the last (or next). Community outreaches that generate more impact or notice than others... and if you are in ministry or a pastor reading this, you could add even more to the list.

Whether we consciously consider such situations for longer than a second or two or not, we are human.

In the efforts to do more, to be greater, to make be more effective and efficient in our impact, to be more involved, more understood... at the beginning of all it, is the process of analysis. Which if we aren't careful quickly leads to something I've more familiar with than I care to admit... over-thinking.

One more reason why it's probably a good thing I'm not in ministry, but I understand the importance of praying for those who are.

On that note... pleasse join me in prayer, this #associatePastorTuesday for pastors struggling with the temptation to overthink and over-analyize their ministry efforts and the results they produce. Pray they find and retain a balance in utilizing best practices, where possible... for improvements are necessary in the church, but not get caught up in the last trends, opportunities or strategies in their area of ministry, as  a means of "competing" with other churches. Pray they would continue to seek the face of God first, for what He would have in store for the decisions they face and the direction they are too take. May their first answer for whatever "success" they achive in ministry on this earth, be directly attributed to the sovereign Hand of God and His favor and blessing on their lives and the anointing that rest upon the as they faithfully fulfilled the calling placed upon them.

For the tokens of earth will pass away
The rewards of heaven last for eternity.
May the desire of the temporal subside
And the pursuit of God arise within us.
For all these things follow those;
Who seek the kingdom of God and His righteousness first.
For the glory of God.

​- PNC

Pastor preached a great message on Stumbling In 2017.

While he presented a great, Biblical insight as he presented the message, in the back of my mind, I was thinking... I feel like the posts for #seniorPastorMonday always come out of a sermon point. Not there's anything wrong with that... it's just something I though it'd be cool to be inspired by something or someone else that God dropped in front of me.

Enter a quote by George Muller, the evangelist in England during the 1800's whose orphanage cared for over 10,000 kids under his leadership.

In preaching on the journey we face this new year, he quoted, among a number of scriptures, Psalm 37:23.

The steps of a righteous man are ordered of God...

While discussing the life and work of Muller, he shares the "version" of that verse as stated by Muller....

The steps (and stops) of a righteous man....

Well...that did it, Lord. Thanks!

As change is on the horizon in my personal life already in the weeks to come, this truly struck a cord.

That God orders our steps and has ordained a plan and a destiny for a life (should we choose to accept it) is pretty incredible. Yet, when a road block or obstacle enters our way; when the unexpected happens and we see our life being detoured and diverted in a way that makes no sense, or the outcome now seems elusive...

Well, where is God now?

Ordering your steps... even at the points of detour, diversion, avoidance manuevers and dead-halt stops.

Sure, in the moment it's gonna freak us out and throw us off balance, causing worry, frustration and stress. To which we just realized God still has us, still directing us. We are not set on the course, left to not be in His presense again until we finish. The promise that God will never leave us nor forsake us has no expiration date or time stamp.

As we enter the reality of 2017, I can't think of anyone better to pray for, that every step and stop in the journey with God is by His Sovereign Hand.

Thanks once again, for joining me in prayer, this #seniorPastorMonday, that pastors would find strength in that their steps are ordered of the Lord and comfort that the stops are as well. Though they stumble, whether great or miniscule, may they rise again by the grace of God and the power of the Holy Spirit. May they never find themselves so far out that they experience the removal of the hand of God upon their lives and ministries. Pray the stops and detours of their personal journey as well as they public ministry cause them to press in and draw all the closer to God; seeking His face in greater dimensions than ever before. Though the trials be great, may the come out purified, as God stands with them in the fires of life in which they find themselves, regardless of whether it be from their own actions and decisions or impacted by another's.

Walking or stopped;
Moving or waiting
May the bond to God remain strong,
Though we rely upon Him, 
It is He who lifts us up by His strong right hand.
​For His glory

Well, it's New Year's Eve!

And if you are reading this, you've successfully made it through 2016 and everything moment of excitement, frustration, worry, joy and laughter that has accompanied the days. Pending the time that remains when this post comes across your radar, let me say this first.

I command the blessing and favor of God over your lives and your family in 2017.

Whatever 2016 has brought to you, I pray it has been a year of no, if not very few, regrets.

If it has or you know those, for whom are leaving this year behind in frustration, may I offer some words of encouragement as the church engages community:

Regrets will be few....

When you seek to give glory to God in all circumstances.
When you take the time to express love of Christ to those around.
When you seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness.
When you allow the Word of God to direct your steps
When you place Christ at the center of your life.

On this New's Year Eve, what better a time than to have the conversation that 2017 has the potential to be the best year ever... not because of the stuff, but because of people. Not because of our own agendas, hopes and dreams, but because of the miraculous change in one's life through Jesus Christ and the work of the Holy Spirit.

Christianity does make one's life perfect here on earth, it does however change how we view our time and our purpose here on earth... for if it doesn't, then what is the point?

Here's to praying 2017 a year of eternal change and eternal purpose; a year of great faith no matter what awaits.

Pray this New Year's Eve, aka #communitySaturday, that in times of reflection, people would understand the true changes that may need to occur in their lives. Whether in matters of faith, perspective, purpose or habits, may God bring illumination and wisdom to hearts and minds; that we may live life to our full potential. May 2017 be a year of placing Christ at the center and seeking first the kingdom of God. Pray the mercies of God, that are new every morning, position us to glorify Him in all circumstances, both in word and deed.

Rejoicing as we exit 2016.
Grateful for His Hand of protection and provision
Excited for the prospect of 2017
Lives changed for eternity
Because of the body of Christ
Presenting a genuine faith of God every new day; every new hour.

- PNC

Once again, for whatever reason, I had DeGarmo & Key's classic, "Casual Christian" playing in my mind this morning. It probably doesn't help that my favorite online streaming radio station has played it a few times over the past couple of days... including last night, before typing this!

Then something clicked as I prayed for God's help, what He might have for today' perspective.

I'm always amazed at how pastors and their families transition in ministry. Most often, there truly is a calling and a moving, to another church or place of ministry in the sovereign hand of God. It is true and genuine and when it's all said and done, people stand, understanding the move was from God; as sad as parting ways is to endure.

Every once in a while, the transition is a struggle... because it's outside the will of God, quite frankly. I don't know how pastors handle it when they get it wrong. Many don't do well; many more, it takes a while to recover.

That said, whatever the details of the transitions that take place within the pulpit (and the success and difficulty thereof), it's the deacons, administrators and staff that remain. For very extended and prolonged periods of time, those who hold these position within the church go above and beyond to make sure the church moves forward, in its' ministry, mission and purpose to the community they serve.

These church leaders and many more volunteers who serve in key positions are planted, committed and involved; wanting what's best for their families, their church and the communities in which they work, play and worship.

Now, that's not to say, pastors aren't those things... for surely they share the same sentiment; whether they've led the church for two years or twenty-five. But let's be honest... if a pastor is called to another church, community or ministry, then he or she is no longer involved in the day to day activities of the former church and the former community. Thus, what happens to the church during times of pastoral transition and their influence and impact on the community during these times are crucial.

So would you join me in prayer?

On this #deaconThursday, for these church leaders, who even this moment, find themselves in states of pastoral transition. May God grant to them an anointing in the decisions to be made and directions to be taken. Pray for wisdom, as conversations are had and meetings are held, that God would lead, guide and direct their every step. Pray for grace, as these times are difficult and the circumstances that surround them are flooded with many emotions, depending on the nature and reason that started it all. Pray the church's impact and influence in their community would increase, as they and the body of Christ testify to the goodness and greatness of God, even during times of uncertainty. Just as God has moved pastors out of a pulpit and to other churches and ministries, pray the sovereign Hand of God would divinely fill the pastoral roles that stand vacant.

May the people of God be passionate for Him.
Living lifes of great faith in the midst of great uncertainty.
May the church light up the night,
An everlasting light to the community.
Because those who follow Christ will be known for their love.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

I am praying tonight for many things, among them, that I am about to witness a breakthrough in the days and weeks... the hopefully result of a heart-to-heart conversation I had with my two beautiful kids this evening. 

Though I had to separate them twice, off to an out-of sight spot for each of them (just so I could get them to understand Dad was serious about this conversation) I'm hoping they understand my frustrated point of view.

A pretty simple one at that... you listen to other people you respect in this life; your teachers at school, the kids pastor at church and the people who teach their class there, Grandma & Grandpa.... they kept telling me what they do that shows they listen and respect them, but couldn't quite tell me why. After some prodding and concluding that is was simply "because of the position they held", then what was missing when it came to Mom & Dad?
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I know right... who in their right mind listens to their parents?? 

As a great comedian once stated, "when I was 14, I thought my Dad was the dumbest man on the face of the earth. When I was 21, I was amazed at what he had learned in 7 years."

Meanwhile, I went all day, narry a clue as to what to write for this #youthPastorWednesday. After the conversation with the kiddos, it occurred to me...

Does God have those parental moments? Really? You'll listen to your earthly parents, but not the prompting of the Holy Spirit? Teachers, scholars, professors, but not My Word? You read and take into conideration the written words of great philosophers and poets, yet not the heed the words of Christ?

Whether we are young in the faith or seasoned, we have earthly relationships where we, or the other part, wonder how certain dynamics seemingly play out. Thus, it matters not, spiritually as well... the possibility for any Christian, whether in the pew or the pulpit to experience a similar dynamic in our walk with God is great.

Thus, pray this #youthPastorWednesday, that church leadership would be strengthened and encouraged to lead by example. While, like parents, they fail greatly and often, may the church know and understand what kids know of their parents; their hearts are in the right place... desirous to love and seek the Lord God Almighty. Pray their lives would not be thrown off balance, when life interferes with their faith; but that their faith in God would lead, guide and direct the paths they choose, the conversations they have and the decisions they make. May their faith not falter when life gets difficult and the tension and frustration of the moment takes center stage. Pray they would respond in ways and words that glorify God.

May all these things follow,
Those who seek first the kingdom of God.
By the power of the Holy Spirir
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Family relationships are work. Even in the greatest of families, with the most incredible amounts of love.

In the families where there is great struggle and tragedy, even stressful points of tension at seemingly drops of a hat, there are moments of great joy. Moments when personal issues and troubles, relatioal frustrations and differences on life and living... they are all set aside in the interest of showing care and concern for those we love, just because of the nature and foundation of the relationship.

I considered this yesterday afternoon and the power that such moments can have, when they happen.

They are disappointing when recognizing such a moment is needed
They are frustrating to wait in anticipation, as a hope is seemingly prolonged.
They are a joy to watch such moments unfold... when it finally happens.

Every time I consider the difficulties of family life, I wonder how pastors do it.

Then I remember the plethora of reasons pastors burnout out and end up leaving the ministry. They don't alsways do. Amidst the struggles and challenges of ministry are the struggles and difficulties that await when they come home. Frustrations with extended family, kids fighting over toys while it's still Christmas day and spouses upset with conversations that quickly took a turn downhill... whether the joke wasn't that funny, the sarcasm wasn't well received or the wrong answer was discovered wrong after being spoken.

Like the professional mechanic whose vehicles are the last to get worked on, or the plumber, whose wife's kitchen is the last to get fixed, so to pastors, perhaps more often than you and I both probably realize, can have difficulty  keeping their families in healthy, emotional and spiritual states of existence.

All the more reason, we pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for pastors battling family difficulties and frustrating relational tensions, whether in their immediate or extended households. Pray God would give wisdom in handingly whatever strains may exists, in the marriage or in parenint; in siblings or with in-laws. Pray for strength and rest, where matters and circumstances have lasted seemingly longer than anticipated or expected. For the short-lived moments of tension, pray for grace... that they would be quickly dismissed where they are not important and quickly resolved for real problems, avoiding the potential to become drawn-out indefinitely. May the challenges at home not dissaude, diminish or derail the efforts of ministry and the work of the church. Though the balance is hard, may God move on their behalf in all things.

To receive the glory and honor He is due
Both at home and at church
In the community, here on earth
Before the cloud of witnesses in heaven.
Displaying Christ, no matter who stands in front of them.

- PNC

  I trust you all had a wonderful and joyful Christmas!

Ours was great, minus just a couple of moments, which we'll just leave at that. 

Today's prayer focus though, is brought you directly from yesterday morning's service, as when I heard it, I thought... "what a great thing to pray for as we prepare to enter the New Year in just a few short days.

Pastors's desire to agree in prayer, was simply that in 2017, those who step through the doors of the church would feel the powerful conviction of the Holy Spirit in their lives.

It is the work of the Holy Spirit in our lives that performs the miraculous as we live to bring glory and honor to God and lead a life that points others to the person of Jesus Christ.

We can not become more like Christ on our own... that is how each of us came to the place of needing Him in the first place!

As I thought this morning, getting ready to type this out, my favorite streaming music station played the song, How Long, performed by The Front.  (The Healing Rock station is the one to listen to!  http://www.healingstreammedia.com/stations.html)

The song talks about how we keep calling out for help, yet keep ignoring Christ' knocking on our heart. Thus, Christ asks, "how long" are we going to do this?

Each of our lives and our faith in Christ can only be accomplished as we walk out our faith and the Holy Spirit works in us... it can be set by anyone else, nor can we seek to please anyone else... for that matter, we can't be guilted or convicted  by others in our faith; although many have tried.

The only life-sustaining change in our lives comes from a genuine encounter with God through Jesus Christ followed by a continuous process of the conviction and leading of the Holy Spirit that draws us closer to God, whereby we live more for Him than ourselves and reflect the life of Christ to the world around us.

{closing lyrics]
Tell me, how long, // oh, how long,
can you hear Me call your name // and run the other way?

Tell me, how long, // oh, how long,
until you change your mind // and let Me back into your heart?

Pray, this #seniorPastorMonday, that 2017 would be a year of the Holy Spirit accomplishing the miraculous in lives of all walks; that many would come to know the saving power of Jesus Christ. Pray that God would grant wisdom and discernment, as people search for understanding in the lives and work out their faith as it applies to daily living. May the convicting power of the Holy Spirit work in many lives; that addictions would be broken, relationships restored, healings of all kinds and many signs and wonders that would display the glory of God at work in our midst. Pray 2017 would be a year that the church would witness the super-natural, not in a weird or suspect manner; but as a show to unbeliever that God's love for humanity is great and real... available to any who would call on the name above all other names... Jesus Christ.

For God so loved the world
He sent His all Son.
That those who call on the name of the Lord
Will be saved.
Life-Changing moves of God, by the power of the Holy Spirit.
For the cause of Christ.

- PNC

I think many Christians find themselves at times, questioning their faith.

No matter how long one has been a Christian, no matter how long they have been a part of a local church body, no matter how many services they have attended or outreaches or church-related events... 

Moments arise in life, in difficult circumstances and in our reponses to it all that make us pause and reflect... can this be reality in light of my faith and how do they impact and affect each other?

As the mental train continued, the speakers in my head started playing Petra. The updated version, from the Back To The Rock album is perhaps my favorite of the two, but I heard the lyrics to the song, Bema Seat.

When our labor all retire // There will be a trial by fire 
Will your treasure pass the test // Or will it burn up with the rest 
You may build upon a sure foundation // With your building in dilapidation 
When it all comes down to rubble // Will it be wood, hay, or stubble 
Or precious stones, gold and silver- // Are you really sure? 

[And we all will stand at the Bema Seat // All will be revealed - it will be complete 
Will there be reward in the fiery heat  // When we see our lives at the Bema Seat ]

Every talent will be sure counted // Every word will have to be accounted 
Not a story will be left untold // We will stand watch the truth unfold 
Every score - will be evened - nothing to defend 

Every building will be shaken // Every motive will be tried 
He'll give reward to the faithful // Will you receive or be denied?

If the everyday Christian struggles with the solidity of their faith, feeling as though life and it's hassles and concerns are dominating their perspective rather than their relationship with Christ setting the pace, how much greater the struggle for those in ministry!

Pastors, we expect have a strong faith and a great personal relationship with Jesus Christ. We assume, at least... which is why burnout always seems as a surprise. Yet, for deacons... admins... staff...

Frustrations about whether their conversations and decisions are making a difference, showing up for work trying to figure out how they can just get through the day, forgetting that ministry is for making an impact for the cause of Christ rather than the cause for our own agenda. Just because it's disconcerting to think about ministry in this light doesn't mean that there aren't people in ministry who have or are living this reality.

​Life is crowding out their faith, rather than faith directing their lives.

Pray, this #deaconThursday, that God would come quickly, to the aide of those struggling in ministry while living out a true and genuine faith in Christ. For whatever questions and concerns and doubts that may be rising and occuring in their heart and mind, pray that God would bring peace to their spirit. Pray God would bring about a divine appointment, whereby they may confide and converse their struggle. May God perform the miraculous where there are legititmate areas in life that God desires to do a great work and bring His glorious light to areas where our faith has perhaps faltered. Pray the reassurance of the Holy Spirit would bring comfort as those in difficult places are reminded that the enemy of our souls is a defeated foe.

- PNC
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They say, "what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger."

Meanwhile, frustration, stress, anxiety, fear, unanswered questions and the friends and cousins of all the aforementioned will take you for a ride for frightening than most can imagine.

A detour unnoticed will leave you lost.
A derailment uncorrected will leave you stuck indefinitely.
A point of destruction left unkept will be harder to restore, the longer one waits.

It's amazing at times, the influence that little annoyances and inconveniences carry, as they impact our lives, plans, attitudes, words and actions. Depending on one's level of self-awareness, it may take an outsider or, more often a true friend to shed light on the impact. Even the most self-aware, can miss what has thrown them off, even on their best day.

On their worst day... well, there's a reason they call them "worst days".
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Even our broken points, given the time to heal and recover, come back stronger. It truly is an incredible process and an even greater mental exercise to consider.

This is why Satan has always been out to destroy the children... all throughout Scripture. Moses. Josheph. David. Christ. If he can take out kids and youth, teens and young adults... while still in development, still learning, still growing; if he can prevent or destroy the foundation, if he can disrupt the building up of one's faith, by any means necessary, he will do so.

What the enemy of our souls fails to realize or remember, is God is made strong in our weakness. The catch is that we remain close in our relationship and reliance upon Him. That is the caveat to our faith; the key to our survival. We must guard and protect it at all costs.

Thus, pray this #youthPastorWednesday, for young pastors, that are early on, in their ministry to kids and teens. Pray God would strengthen them; to lead by example and model a life of firm faith and great conviction. Pray God would lead, guide and direct their conversations, as they minister; that they would impart knowledge and widsom that would build firm foundations of faith and draw young people into the presence of God and relationship with Him through Jesus Christ. May the plans of the enemy be detoured and derailed; unsuccessful in his attempts to destroy our youth. May God perform the miraculous through the faithful service of pastors who have a passion for kids and teens to truly know God, not just His works and His ways.

Living life;
Holding fast to the faith we profess
Being made complete in Christ.
Sons and daughters of the Most High God
Strong in the Lord, though broken ourselves.
For His glory and honor, we pray.

- PNC

I've learned a valuable lesson this Christmas season.

Don't wait until one specific day to conduct an overwhelming majority of your Christmas shopping. The kids knew this happened over the weekend, as they went out for a few hours with Grandpa and Grandma to do some shopping of their own. All had a great time.

However, for the rest of the weekend, every couple of minutes, one question had been placed on "repeat."

"Can we open presents yet?"

Can we open presents yet?

Can we open presents yet?

Is it Christmas yet?

Then this exchange, which my wife didn't find as funny as I did.

Yes, you can open presents!
Really?
Yes, as soon as today is Christmas. Is today Christmas?
No.
Then no, you can't open presents.

Is this how we are in our faith? We get a glimpse of what God might have in store for us and rather than wait for the destined time, we push on God. Can we do this? Can we go here? How will this happen? When? Where? With you? Can we go yet?

Or worse... we don't get a clear, or even a reasonable indication, of what God might have in store, and we start searching, not knowing what we are getting into and where we might be headed; stepping into unknowns that we have no place digging.

It's a frustrating time for sure. I understand. I've been there. Multiple times. And each time has some point of stress and agony.

If this is dangerous ground for the believer, all the more for those in ministry. Impatience in personal matters can cause some serious damage. Impatience in ministry raises the potential for inevitable ruin in some form. I pray that it doesn't; but it's hard to miss how it wouldn't. Come to think of it, I watched it once. They've come out stronger for it, but it was a hard road full of difficult questions and conversations and the congregation suffered in the process.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for those struggling with the waiting and anticipation of what God has in store and the promises that await. For those who have acted on the impatience or perhaps, misunderstanding of the hand of God and are now in places of difficulty, pray God's wisdom and direction... that He would guide their steps and direct their paths, as they are rerouted back to the place God has in store for them. Pray that the spirit of defeat would not detour or derail them; may frustration not dissuade them, but may the wake up each day, confident in the hand of God to sovereignly direct them. For whatever the next steps are, may there be a peace and comfort; that God is still in control, full of grace, mercy and compassion... willing and able to redirect us back to where we need to be and focus on what is at hand.

Worry not,
Neither be anxious,
For in due time, may God place you
Exactly where He will use
To bring glory and honor to Him
In ways that are beyond your control and ability.
Wait on Him and seek His face.
For He knows what you have need of, before you ask or think.

- PNC

After writing yesterday's post on retention and attrition before walking out the door to church, I couldn't help but consider the primary defintion of attrition. Perhaps a confimation that I was on the right path mentally, for the past couple of weeks, our Sunday series has been reflecting on the person of Christ as seen in the Christmas carols. As I listened about how Christ' birth was anything but calm and bright, I was reminded once again, that life often is a spiritual attack.

We talk about situations and circumstances as a part of normal life; everybody goes through rough and difficult times and this stuff "just happens". We can't control it (or at least not all of it), but we can control our response.

While there is a great deal of truth in that, attrition is how the enemy of our souls works.

It's called "attrition warfare"... a strategy taken, through "the action or process of gradually reducing the strength or effectiveness of someone or something through sustained attack or pressure."

This is how life has felt for the past number of months... perhaps even a bit longer. As isolated circumstances, most of it probably isn't much to worry about, except that each time there's a chip and a dent and another layer of fortitude and determination that takes a hit.

I'm thankful for the encouragement of friends, who come along side and stand in the agreement of prayer to lift up members of the body of Christ and ask "what's going on".

Our pastors need those same interactions. If the enemy is trying to take out the "every day believer" with this strategy, imagine how much harder he is working to wear and tear down pastors. And obviously, with 1500-1700 leaving because of burnout, it's working.

So, pray, this #seniorPastorMonday, for pastors, particularly who are feeling the effects, of the strategy of attrition warfare. Pray for those feeling weekend and battle-worn; may they be strengthened and encouraged by the power of the Holy Spirit and the comfort of people coming alongside in support. Pray the power of agreement in prayer, that God would indeed be in the midst of two or three, gathered in His name. May they be refreshed and rejuvenated in their spirit and renewed in their mind through the washing of the Word of the God. Pray a release of oppression and frustration, just in having the opportunity to confess the struggle and pain they have encountered and endured that are seemingly beating them down. May God do a great work, in their hearts and minds, even this day as you agree in prayer with me.

A watershed moment; 
A turning point in the battle...
For victory is mine, says the Lord
Who accomplishes His good will
In our lives as He sees fit
All things for His glory, for those who love Him.
Called according to His purpose.

- PNC

I couldn't help but to continue to consider Walsh' words yesterday regarding the church. Like many organizations and businesses, churches struggle as well, with retaining people with in the church. Retention and attrition, for that matter.

A church can be so focused on outreach, that they spend little to no time on building and maturing the faith of those who have been apart of the church for any significant length of time.

A church can be so focused on a particular age group, demographic or need within the community, that others will question why they continue (not just that, church is about 'what's in it for me', but if one feels disconnected or they feel they don't belong after numerous attempts to get "plugged-in") to attend where they feel left out.

A church can be so focused on a topic or an emphasis of ministry, that while it may be great that that is what they are known for and do well, if they don't develop or grow other areas of ministry for people to be involved, then they too, may not stay around.

The church is full of great people, great opportunities and great ideas. And while a church may not be able to accomplish all that it hopes, dreams and sets out to do, if a church can't find a consistent rythem of sustained development and growth, in terms of both physical numbers and spiritual maturity, then everything they set out to do in ministry will be some sort of uphill battle.

Finances, participation, efficiency and effectiveness... all of it will be a struggle, sooner or later.

So, pray this #effectiveSunday, that God would strength the body of Christ, in their current state. May those who are a part be encouraged, to develop their faith, to contribute to the ministry, to deepen their relationship. Pray that conflict and problems would not be so disruptive as to cause splits, and departure; but that people would work through differences and come out of situations and circustance stronger than when they began. May the faith of many remain steadfast and firm to that which they profess; unwavering and uncomprising. Pray God would accomplish the miraculous in honor of their faithfulness to the work of God and the advancement of the gospel of Christ.

Rythem and balance.
Strong foundations and great development.
The building UP of the body of Christ
To impact the world, both locally and globally.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

All too often, the church... just doesn't get it right. It seems wrong to say that, but I'm at a loss for words as to how to describe it. Our interactions with society and culture get misunderstood and misconstrued; we act in ways that people respond negatively (which seemingly isn't that hard to do anymore) or we walk cautiously, as to not to offend. Whether we are perceived wrong, regardless of whether we say, or act "wrong", the church is increasingly finding itself in interesting predicaments.

My advice... just be the church. Be yourself. Act natural. Breathe regular.

The fake faith, the false faith... the insincere and disingenuous will be witnessed and dismissed.

Conversely, the genuine, the real, the honest, will be recognized and appreciated. They will not know us by our words or deeds, or economic status or political bent; not by quality of life or family or relationships; not by prominence or promise... but by our love. 

Sadly, society has skewed and defined, even redefined love, albeit inaccurately. Amazingly enough, however, the love of Christ, one on one; in places of great difficulty is quite visible. 

Yet we struggle so much to reach the lost, we often forget to simply allow the handiwork of God flow through us, as we daily live out who we were.

Sinners saved by grace. It doesn't make us perfect; just redeemed. It doesn't make us righteous; just on a journey whereby we more closely reflect the image of Christ. And as Christians more closely reflect Christ, so to, will the church as an organization reflect Christ. 

Interestingly enough, as I got ready to wrtie this post, I read the latest blog by Matt Walsh...

***permit me an extra couple of minutes and read the intro he writes when he posted this piece... (copied from his facebook update):

The church is very focused on "welcoming" and "including" the secular, the worldly, the unrepentant, and all kinds of other people who aren't actually interested in Christianity. Of course, we SHOULD try to include these people, but the problem is that the church often tries to do it by watering down its doctrine and imitating the world. "They like our godless culture," many churches say to themselves, "so I suppose we should give them a godless form of pseudo-Christianity."

I've written my columns and recorded many podcasts addressing this and explaining why it's incredibly misguided. But there's one aspect of it that I haven't focused on. That is this: while these churches try so hard (and so ineffectually) to "welcome" the un-Christian, they often succeed in alienating the actual Christians. In other words, many actual, real, believing, devout Christians go to church on Sunday and find a service that doesn't appear designed for them at all. It doesn't speak to them. It doesn't try to reach them or encourage them or revitalize and strengthen them. In fact, often it may do the opposite. In some churches, believing Christians are chastised, scolded, and labeled as bigots.

This is a problem for many reasons, but here's the biggest one: believing Christians ARE the church. The minority of people in this culture who actually strive for righteousness and try with great sacrifice to live according to the doctrines of the faith are not merely "a part" of the church, but they are the church. The church should always feel at home in any church. This, to me, seems like the most obvious thing in the world, but apparently it must be explained. - MATT WALSH

Join me, this #communitySaturday, that the church simply be honest and genuine. In their daily walk, in the sharing of their faith, in their desire to extend the hand of Christ to those in need... may the people of God be known by their love. Pray we would not compromise our convictions in favor of society's acceptance, nor afraid to speak the truth because it might offend. May God accomplish the miraculous in the lives of the lost, through the testimony of those who have come alive in Him.

In Christ,
By Christ, 
For Christ...
In whome we live, move and have our being
To impact this world for our Lord & Saviour.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

 Another reference from my favorite political tv drama...

The President and his Chief of Staff are discussing a situation involving another country... the obvious solution, and the one people seem to be calling for and advising to pursue, is to take military action. Meanwhile, the President is weighing other options, evidence and trying to find a peaceable solution.

In his argument against military action, the President makes the argument that taking military steps could cause set-backs with relationships in region for decades, potentially. In response, the CoS argues in reply...

"We don't always know; how it ends."

Yesterday, the roads were dicey for seemingly half the day. Weather wasn't horrible, but the roads, while plowed, weren't clear... so traffic speed was low and visibility occassionally still dropped significantly. Winter weather has arrived in full force on my homefront.

As I reflected on how we respond to poor visibility on the road, the similiarities to how we respond to life as a matter of faith could not be ignored.

We "back off" on the tasks and projects in front of us.
We pay more attention to our surroundings and what others are doing
We remove distractions, in order to help increase our focus on the task at hand.
We position ourselves to take greater care of said task, both physically and mentally.

We don't want anything to go wrong or end up in a dangerous and tragic situation.

Like a new or relatively inexperienced driver, navigating matters of life when just starting out in one's faith, such an environment can make for long days. Furthermore, even for seasoned people of faith, the navigation process can be exhausting. One just continues to trust God for what lies ahead yet remains unseen; and focuses on what God has in store for them, that can be seen.

Pray, this #missionsFriday, that God would strengthen and encourage missionaries and the believers in Christ they have impacted, who find themselves facing life with low visibility. Pray they would be rejuvenated in their hearts and minds as they continue to seek the face of God, despite circumstances where the unknown seems to be mounting. May they not lose hope or give up the faith, but hold fast to the calling and purpose which God has anointed them to fulfill. Pray for wisdom and direction; that God would divinely and strategically light their path and direct their steps. May the press on towards all that God has in store for them to accomplish in this life...

That God be glorified in all things,
In all circumstances, despite difficulty.
For God knows where we are and what awaits.
Having promised to never leave us or forsake us.
In the name of Jesus Christ our Lord.

- PNC

I should have known it was going to be an interesting conversation

When someone says, "I have two questions to ask you, and if you don't know the answers, that's ok", you know it's time to reach for your thinking cap and prepare yourself. He then proceeded to ask to the questions, after which, he again reiterated... if you don't have answers right now, it's ok. But I have an answer to both, if you want to hear them.

Well, now my curiousity is piqued, so yes... what do you have?

Needless to say, I wasn't prepared for that conversation; thinking cap on or not.

Of course, after it was all said and done, like any time one is presented with information, you are now faced with a decision to make; a response to give and potential changes to enact. Yet, as I continued to reflect on this conversation, I couldn't help but consider as we pray for deacon and church administrators, the decisions they face on a daily basis.

I don't claim to know everything (although I know I sadly, probably come across that way to some people at times), but I do know that many gurus and experts will tell you that the progessive downhill slope of people's influence as leaders and authority figures begins when they start limiting their receptiveness to new information, ideas, perspectives and solutions to problems.

Sure, leadership positions ultimately must make decisions, and there will always be a percentage who won't care and who won't agree, but when you begin to not want to hear what others have to say, it can change how you are perceived and ultimately affect one's ability to effectively lead. Sure, there's a balance to what you take in, process and dismiss, but at the same time, stubbornness can carry with it a certain level of arrogance and immaturity... two things that cause serious detriment to the legacy of one's leadership and influence.

Thus, join with me once again, to pray this #deaconThursday, for leaders and decision-makers who have lost and are beginning to lose their ability to receive. Pray God would do the miraculous in their lives, for if we begin to close ourselves from receiving from others, it's only a matter of time before we begin to limit the desire to receive from God. Pray God would speak to their hearts and minds anew and afresh; that their hearts would remain open to hear, for one never knows who God will use to speak life, revelation and break-through into a situation or circumstnace. May their influence and authority not be diminished, but that God would do a great work, as they continue to seek the face of God and accomplish His will in their lives as they support and lead the church in which they have committed their time, treasure and talent.

Always receptive...
To the voice of God,
To the prompting of the Holy Spirit,
To the work of Jesus Christ in our lives.
For none of us have arrived;
Many opportunities await, 
For God to be glorified in our lives.

​- PNC

We've prayed a couple of times over the past few weeks for the conversations we find ourselves as parents and pastors having with our young people and our youth. As I had a few conversations yesterday afternoon, it got me thinking...

Most adults have very few people in which they confide; those who are closest enough to share the battles, struggles and realities of life and the "sorting of it all". Making it all the more challenging; the reality that kids and teens learn from us... often holding on more to what is caught, than taught, as pastor often states.

We can set our youth up for failure, essentially, when they witness us handle situations and circumstances from our emotions, rather than the Spirit of God and when we respond in the fear of the flesh rather than our trust and peace in the Lord.

Likewise for pastors... sharing many of the same struggles; when kids and teens watch their own leaders struggle, what is it "speaking" into their lives, even if nothing is being said? What are they learning about who to turn to, how to process their emotions, how to think through the challenges and most importantly, how to pray in confidence as they seek the face of God and what His Will is for this particular moment.

The effects of the carryover in adulthood are great, as well. For what isn't right early on, often needs correcting later. As is the case in so many other areas and arenas of life; the longer something continues just slightly ascew, the more it will be off course when the moment of correction arrives. What a disservice we serve up to the next generation.

Thus, pray with me, this #youthPastorWednesday... for pastors of children and youth facing difficulties, whether personal or professionally as they minister. May God place and reveal to them, who the people are in their lives that have been divinely placed, that they may confide in and work through their challenges. Pray God would help them amidst the frustrations, to continue to seek His face and trust, that against the odds, they would take the hand of God and draw near to Him. May their conversations with youth and kids, always point back to the person of Jesus Christ and that whatever the outcomes in this life... they are for the glory of God and our lives are for that purpose.

May God accomplish the miraculous,
Especially in circumstances where it seems most needed
And in the everyday, where it may not be so obvious
For each day is another to reflect the image and glory of God
For the cause of Jesus Christ... even to the next generation.

- PNC

I mentioned yesterday, as Pastor shared the tragic news of a family situation within our congregation, that you could tell, even for a moment, he hesitated, as if at a loss for words and support.

I certainly understand the dilemna, as the scenario that played through my mind this past Friday of "what if" tragedy struck my family... how would I respond? How would my friends and family support me? The situation would grieve and affect their lives directly... how would I support them as they worked through such great loss? We would need each other, yet we would need our own space and time. 

Healing comes through community,  yes.
More importantly, healing comes through communion with God.

Upon Christ's ascension, after the resurrection, He did not promise that He would send us understanding for what we would endure. He promised to send the Comforter.

We like to think we have it all together... that we understand and know how it all plays out. And we just might; for a minute. Perhaps even a moment. But it's a solitary falling star in a galaxy beyond our comprehension, full of the majestic sovereignty of God.

I certainly don't have a clue. Yet, I know that doesn't and shouldn't prevent from being a support to those in need when I have opportunity to do so... even when I am at a loss for words, time or resources. While each struggle may be difficult, God is still able to use us to help others through their struggles, if we would take the moment we think we have it all together and invest it in helping someone else keep it together.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, that the Holy Spirit would strengthen and comfort them during the difficulties and challenges they face. May they continue to be open to be used by God to support, encourage and uplift Senior Pastors and others they serve with in ministry, despite whatever may be going on directly in their own lives. Pray they would not become so downtrodden and discouraged that the miss opportunities for God to accomplish the miraculous; even if they are at a loss for words or don't seem to be the help that is needed or desired. May God honor the faith of the friends who come along side, to be ministers of grace and love, as they pray the Holy Spirit to do what He was sent to accomplish...

Comfort;
With peace that surpasses all understanding.
Trust in the Lord,
Even when life falls apart.
For God is in control, with a divine plan.
Beauty from ashes, for His Glory.

- PNC

So Pastor quoted author Henry T. Blackaby during yesterday's incredibly snowy morning service. Upon hearing the statement, I thought, I should read more of his stuff. Last night, as I browsed through some quotes and excerpts from his books, I thought, perhaps I should reconsider. There are some incredibly profound statements of faith designed to do nothing less than challenge the reader.
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Sometimes, you just have those moments... are you ready for such situations?

Speaking of "being ready", the sudden change in weather over the weekend, had me reflective on my life... what if horrific tragedy struck? During service, Pastor announced friends of mine, facing a horrific tragedy. While the circumstances are different, the end outcome was close enough to similar to essentially be considered the same thing. Unexpected loss.

As Pastor shared the news and we prayed for the family, I caught his hesitation. For a moment, it was as if even he, didn't know how to pray.

So, when he shared this statement by Blackaby, it truly to spoke to me.

"If you feel weak, limited and ordinary, you are the best material with which God can work."

It's hard to fathom what we would do, if our lives sudddenly changed dramatically. Then, to consider how it would affect our friends and other family members and how we would respond, both to the situationa and to what God would accomplish through His sovereignty.

Yet, it's when we try to operate on our own strength, knowledge and ability that we get into trouble. When we get into trouble and yet fail to turn to God for His help, then plan on things getting deep quick. 

Nobody likes to acknowledge the frailty of our humanity, yet denying it only increases the likelihood of it being revealed publicly. The struggle is real.

Thanks again, for joining me in prayer, this  #seniorPastorMonday. Pray for pastors, struggling in their ministry... for those attempting to do things on their own, may God bring them back into proper position and reliance upon Him; for pride goes before the fall. For those who are feeling weak and limited; unqualified... may God strengthen and quicken them by the power of the Holy Spirit. May they be encouraged, that God is not finished with them; yet has even greater things in store for them as they rely upon Him and call upon Him anew and afresh. Pray a rejuvenation as they seek the face of God and draw close in His presence in spite of the difficulties and challenges they meet. Finally, pray for wisdom... when they have no words, may God speak and bring healing, comfort and revelation through the Holy Spirit.

Soley relying upon God
Trusting His Sovereign Hand
For we are clay in the potter's hands.
May the Master Craftsman do a great work in our midst
For His glory... whether in triumphant victory and tragic loss.

​- PNC

 A number of weeks ago, I was loading YouTube on the flat screen (I forgot what I was going to watch), but before the clip started, an ad started playing. It turns out, it was the promotional video for the Church of Scientology. Something inside of me said, watch this (rather than taking advantage of the "skip ad" button). For the next 8 or 10 minutes, I sat, as they talked about what they are accomplishing in spreading the message of their religion.

On the surface, it's hard to deny, it's impressive. The organizational set-up, the distribution of materials, the building programs, the community of people... of course, there is no mention anywhere of the person of Jesus Christ; so to watch the level of their effectiveness and efficient for something other than the Gospel of Christ was disconcerting at the very least.

Now, of the past couple of weeks, A&E has aired Leah Remini's documentary on what really happens behind the facade. I finally got to watch the first two episodes, back to back, as they played them again. (The third one airs the night of 12/13). The stories and the lives that have been affected are utterly incredible. Families torn apart and lives utterly destroyed from the tactics of those who rise up against them.

I simply couldn't fathom... to acheive such a level of effectiveness that ultimately destroys people, while professing to make them better and save the planet.

Meanwhile, the church of Jesus Christ, faces many battles. Really, too numerous to start listing them. Ultimately, though, it's God who works in the hearts and lives of people as He reveals Himself and makes Himself known. It's not an organization who uses people to spread the message of man, but the Spirit of God who compels us to share the message of saving grace of Jesus Christ. We do not seek to ruin those who don't come to the place of confessing Christ is Lord and Savior, but pray God's will be accomplished in their lives as He desires that none should end find themselves in eternity without the presence of Jesus Christ.

Pray, this #effectiveSunday, that God's anointing would rest upon the church; that He would  go before us and prepare hearts to hear the message of Christ. May we not rest on the laurels of what we have achieved, but on what God by His sovereign Hand has worked and moved on our behalf as we pray His will be accomplished here on Earth. Though tempting, may we not compare our efforts and accomplishments to what other churches and religions may achieve, but focus on God; that we may be found faithful and obedient to the purpose and plans He has called us to not in pursuit of one man's thinking, but God's divine desire to commune with His Creation... an opportunity made available, because He loved the World enough to send Christ as payment for our sins.

Faithful to the cause of Jesus Christ
For it is the power of salvation,
That we have relationship with Almighty God
Not because of who we are,
But who He is.
For His glory and honor, we pray.

​- PNC