Dave Ramsey in a recent broadcast, did a brief monologue on the power and problem of jealousy and envy. As I reflected on his words, I remembered the Christian movie, Brother White. In the movie, an associate pastor, one of many at a megacurch, is frustrated by the delay in advancement to more influence and prominence in ministry. So to prove that he's not ready, the senior pastor sends him to lead one of their campus, churches that happens to be struggling.

He has his work cut out for him, but it's a quick realization of what's going on behind the scenes and the minds of head leadership.

We all too often, and so easily, look at external circumstances, struggles and successes... not realizing nor understanding what all has been endured and overcome to get to the place that we meet people today.

As we prayed yesterday... everyone has the moments where one more thing puts them over the cliff or at least very close to the edge. And everyone handles it differently. You may recognize that there is a problem or struggle. You may not.

But not knowing or understanding and jumping into a state of jealousy and or envy, is dangerous. Why?

Because the attitude and perspective that you hold in conjunction with those of the people you surround yourself with eventually permeates one's heart and mind in ways that will cause you to lose, fail and succumb, rather than win, succeed and overcome.

So, on this #associatePastorTuesday, pray for those pastors struggling specifically with jealousy and envy. Regardless of who or what it may be directed at, pray for a breakthrough in their hearts and minds. Pray for a freedom in who they are and the call that God has placed on their lives, rather than be consumed with comparing themselves to other pastors and ministries. May their be a healing that transpires, as a counter-revolutionary to whatever events and experiences have brought them to this place. Pray they would be made whole and restored; no longer going through life and ministry broken and bothered.

For the glory of God
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

... the inevitable.

Once again, I've learned an invaluable lesson. Of course, my first response to your question of "if it's so invaluable, why did you take so long to learn it?"

Well, who knows. Probably something to do with my humanity and stupidity. Which only means that there are other invaluable lessons, which will generate the same conversation again.

While the future can't be predicted, one can and does watch the horizon as well as pays attention to the signs and markers along the way that indicate what environment awaits.

Sometimes it's our experience that provides the indicators.
At other times, it our area of expertise that does the providing.
And certainly, the wisdom and understanding that builds from those two realms coming together creates an interesting perspective.

However, if we aren't careful, we can weight one or the other too heavily to the point that it skews that perspective and we find out that very few people can set us straight. Which is about the time we find ourselves either getting in to trouble or not choosing the best course of action or option available to the decision-making process.

While fear of the unknown problem is often substantial, the knowledge of a workable solution is calming. The transition between the two is one worth making.

Let's pray this #associatePastorTuesday, that pastors would not live in fear of the unknown, nor stress about the inevitable. Pray for a healthy and proper balance of perspective, between their experience and expertise. Pray God would grant them wisdom and discernment beyond both of those realms, and may the Holy Spirit be their guide. May they move and act in faith; unhindered by the past and undaunted by the future. Pray a holy confidence as they move in the calling and purpose of God regarding both life and ministry.

Stepping out in faith.
With wisdom, clarity and purpose.
While not knowing all the answers,
Walking close with Him who does.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

So... how about that Super Bowl game?!

Incredible plays. Unbelievable stats. An utter defiance of the odds, on a number of levels.

And for Philadelphia, a back-up quarterback performs at a championship game-day level... on the day of a championship game, no less.

The local news/talk radio station that's powerful enough to reach hundreds of miles on a clear night; the morning host made a profound statement yesterday morning. As they discussed the career of Nick Foles, they noted how early in his career, a played an incredible game and that while had played when in the following seasons, he really had played at the powerhouse level that he did in the Super Bowl.

And yet, he stuck with it. He remained patience. He worked hard. And the host recognized a great truth and powerful reminder for the rest of us who aren't leading the charge:

Be ready. For one day, you might be called up to do just that... lead the charge.

For the #9 jersey of the Philadelphia Eagles, he indeed showed up to the Super Bowl, ready.

And as the host framed the "ready" sentiment, I once again, thought...what a reminder for all of us. Especially pastors and those in ministry.

Life changes at a moments notice... nay, a blink of the eye.

Will you be ready to lead when called? Will I? Will your pastor? Will you, Pastor?

Let's pray this #associatePastorTuesday, that those in such positions would continue to serve and minister faithful. Pray for a continued state of readiness should life and circumstance change, leaving them in higher places of leadership than their current state of existence. May they wait with patience and gratitude; for the experience and opportunity that they have experienced to date. Pray for the perspective of game-day attitude and performance, for in the sovereign plan and handiwork of God, who has great things in store for us, may we, indeed, find ourselves ready for great exploits.

Victorious.
Because we were ready when called.
For the glory of God
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

Have you had those moments where one word or phrase triggers a thought process and your mind is off and running? We've all had them. And depending on the subject matter, it can be a positive or negative experience.

I had such a moment yesterday afternoon... and the thought process began with a single word.

Reminders.

I know what you're thinking... that seems kind of obvious. Isn't that the function of that word? To begin or continue a thought process? Yes, yes it is.

But they hold great power and influence. Sometimes too much. Other times not enough.

We can go to one unhealthy extreme of avoidance if they hold too much power, we can repeat errors and mistakes if they hold not enough.

Their effectiveness though, is helping to keep a healthy balance and perspective of our own reality and existence.

We don't know it all.
We don't have it all.
We can't explain everything.
We can't gain everything.

We are frail, broken and dead in sin.
We are forgiven, healed and alive in Christ.

Whatever the reminders in life today may be, it is my hope and prayer that you would not be detoured and dismissed but encouraged and resolved.

On this #associatePastorTuesday, pray to that end. As pastors experience times of reflection and moments of remembrance, may they be prompted to rely evermore on the work of God and the power of the Cross in their lives. May they not be discouraged or defeated, but strengthened and motivated to continue in the calling God has placed upon them. Pray they stand resolute in the anointing of the Holy Spirit, not in their own might and understanding, but what God has granted to them through His Word.

For the glory of God
And the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

If you missed the new episode of American Pickers last night, on the History channel... boy did you miss it!  It was a great show with some amazing finds and as always, incredible stories. However, the previously aired episode that played before the new one was nearly unbelievable.

The guys visited the store property that had been in the family for 6 generations. Five or six businesses were conducted in the same building from something like 1887 thru 1970. And as such, nearly everything that Mike and Frank tried to purchase from the owners was "NFS".

Not for sale.

They did end up buying a couple pieces, but for it seemed at every turn, the reply was no. Not gonna sell that; yeah, can't do that; we're gonna hang on to that...

And that last phrase. Wow.

I know I'm gonna take some slack from those closest to me for writing this perspective, but I couldn't help but wonder, just how much we hang out in our lives that we don't let go. And of course, we immediately think of the material and physical items in our lives that take up space and residence. Yes, there's value, insight and goodness in living "decluttered", but more importantly, we hang on to way too much internal as well, through our mind and emotions.

We allow things to occupy and reside in our spirit and in our hearts that may be understandable and even justifiable for a while, but eventually you have to respond to the words I heard so often before and probably will in the near future.

You can't keep everything. Eventually, you'll have to let it go.

As hard as it is to do, it's necessary. And we're usually better off for it.

So, pray this #associatePastorTuesday for those pastors hanging on to the things, perspectives and circumstances whose time for release has come. Pray for those who are especially struggling, because perhaps the time to let go is overdue and the burden is becoming to great to carry and manage. May God bring healing and peace to hearts, minds and emotions. Pray the Holy Spirit would bring freedom to their understanding and new opportunities to experience the grace and goodness of God as they allow Him to work anew and afresh in their lives.

May a new day dawn
For the glory of God.

- PNC

Isn't interesting how we can see situations and circumstances and without having the full story or a complete understanding of what and why something has transpired, we make decisions based on the "less than" and incomplete.

We catch a partial glimpse or hear just a nugget and without knowing the context, we place it in a context that we assume is correct or reasonable. Not only is this a dangerous pattern of living, but it's amazing how quickly we can sell ourselves that we are correct.

How do I know this is true?

Because of how resistant one can be when they hear the words, "Hear me out."

It's like we have to be convinced that we are not as knowledgeable on the matter as we thought. And of course, hearing that you are wrong is rarely pleasant, let alone desirable.

But what must consider... how much are we missing by refusing to listen?

What could change?
What could improve?
Relationships? Opportunity? Generations? Eternity?

The possibilities are near endless. But only for those with ears ready to listen.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, that pastors would continue to live and operate ministry with ears ready to listen. May heads and hearts not stand in confidence without understanding. Pray for wisdom and discernment as pastors work through difficult and challenging circumstances. May grace and patience prevail and communication lines be open and clear. Pray that egos, agendas and motives not get in the way of coming to places of understanding and creating solution. Most importantly, pray that pastors would continue to hear God through His Word and the voice and prompting of the Holy Spirit.

For we have the ability to solve problems.
Yet for whatever reason, we become one.
May God work the miraculous
As we remain, walk and listen.
For the work to which God has called us.

- PNC

Author Cameron Morrissey posted a cartoon on social media yesterday morning that I thought was brilliant. The cartoon depicts three business men sporting suits and ties sitting at a conference table. One speaks to the others "I used to lead by example, but it was too much work."

Mr. Morrissey goes on in his blog post to shed light on the 10 daily habits of great leaders, based on this premise. "Great leaders don't just show up in a crisis, they're there day in and day out..."

The with routines and the mundane... well, they are routine. And mundane. While we don't look forward or desire crisis, there is a weird phenomena that comes with them, as if their is an opportunity to shine; to be the hero, the fixer and whatever accolades or opportunities that make come as a result.

While some may be remembered for "being there" when things or life was on the line, whether literally or figuratively, more often than not, it's one's presence in the every day moments of life that consistent make an impact. And that impact is made by anyone who "leads", not simply by position of title or authority.

Is it too much work? Well, it certainly feels like.

But showing up everyday, with the possibility that a memorable, life-changing impact may exist at any moment... is absolutely worth it.

Let's pray this #associatePastorTuesday, for pastors perhaps tired of the routine and daily-nesss of leadership. Pray for those who feel as though they are not leading as they should or are as effective as they should or could lead. May God grant to them wisdom in the days to come. May they seek and find, tools, resources and people that would speak into their lives and encourage and even lead them, to greater depth and maturity of leadership and influence. Pray pastors would be every mindful that leadership begins and ends with service, regardless of what level of authority they may achieve along the way.

For the first shall be last
And the last shall be first.
For the glory of God.
In His Kingdom.

- PNC

I had to laugh just a little bit last night as yesterday's post played out in real life, albeit on a very small scale. We talked about life changing in just a moment as such grand events occur, such as entering a new year and my kids, moments before getting ready for bed, went from laughing and carrying on like teens (which they are not) to the opening seconds of an emotion 180 spin akin to a 2-year old (which they are also, not!)

Well, that happened fast.

Then, while watching an episode of Fuller House on Netflix, there's a scene where nearly every cast member steps into the room, ready to share their bed news. And just like that, everyone was having an "oh-no" moment.

Real life returned again this morning, as a friend posted on social media, the past two days of their life... further inundated with bad news and a rough start to the new year. Friends posted that at least all the bad things were happening at the beginning, but as we're barely one day in to the new year, it's hard not to consider... no, we're not getting all the bad out at the beginning.

It's highly likely and probable that there will be many more in the 364 remaining days of 2018.

But, perhaps as a part 2 continuation of yesterday's thoughts, it's one thing when we can control our attitudes and responses to the circumstances and situations that happen to us directly; but it's somewhat hard when we watching it happen to others and we are faced with how to encourage and help them respond, whether they be our child of a few years or a friend of many years.

We all have "stuff" going on in our lives and the moments that serve to remind us that others have their struggles as well and need us, give us opportunity to set ourselves aside and share life with those around us. It's hard to do at times, even for those in ministry. Having to do it more often because of their position doesn't make the process any easier.

Thus, on this #associatePastorTuesday, pray for pastors, as they continue to serve others and play aside their own challenges and difficulties to help others. May God grant them strength and insight as they help others through their struggles. Pray they would be refreshed as they refresh others. May God move in their hearts and lives as they take time to invest in helping meet the needs and concerns of others. Pray they would not grow weary in well-doing, but that the Holy Spirit would be their sustenance throughout this entire year and whatever may come there way.

That we would live to serve.
God. And Others.
In humility and honesty,
In spirit and truth.
For we are never alone.
Thanks be unto God.

- PNC

If you missed the Countdown To Christmas marathon on the Hallmark channel, with the barrage of Christmas flicks, you've missed some really good movies. Of course, their always seems to be a build-up to some sort of relational conflict between the growing love and affection of two people, who are an unlikely pair; at least if you were to ask the two of them.

Sometimes, the conflict appears to be truly something that would cause a real-life hurdle in one's relationship, but for the most part, they seem to be light misunderstandings. Granted, these movie relationships run on truncated timetables, from not standing each other to falling for each other in a matter of days or weeks, so there's that.

But the real-life analogy is how quickly the most unsuspecting and unassuming of situations and misunderstanding can create conflict among friends, co-workers and others affected by one's authority or decisions. As a result, relationships, whatever their nature, become strained and challenging; more or less troublesome to both parties.

The cool part with the movies is that they are quickly resolved. The truth of the conflict comes to light and an effort is made to resolve it quickly and bring understanding to the one who didn't have the full story.

The sad part with reality, is that such resolution is not rectified in a matter of minutes, but remain in limbo, for days, weeks, months and years. Misunderstandings of many kinds and varying degrees loom overhead and navigating them can be more difficult than they should be and take infinitely longer to sort through than what one would reasonably expect or assume.

So, on this #associatePastorTuesday, pray that the conflicts that arise in churches and their leadership teams would be "short-lived". Pray that misunderstandings would be clarified quickly and promptly. May challenges and difficulties be overcome. Pray for wisdom and discernment; that understanding would be at the forefront of the conversation, with a goal and a pursuit of resolution. Pray that conflict would not destroy and ruin the people and relationships that are involved, but that they would be made stronger and greater as a result.

May what was intended to damage and harm
Be used to bring glory and honor to God
As they work to advance the cause of Christ.
For the health of the church and the kingdom of God.

- PNC

Well, this was kinda weird this morning to happen like this, but I promise, I'm not making it up. I woke up this morning, laid in bed and asked what God would have for today's post and before I could even finish the thought, "I need something...", the Holy Spirit dropped the word.

FRESH.

It seems of late, that people efforts and life purposes have been long endeavors. I know this happens all the time, but it feels like this has been the year of longevity. A pastor has led the same church for 25 years, national names of recognition are hitting their 24 and 25 year marks in their field. A friend has had the same job for 19 years.

And this project is half-way through it's 3rd year... of having a daily prayer and perspective to pray over our pastors and church leadership. And I thank you for joining with me.

Yet, when life and it's responsibilities lose their appeal, when relationships lack purpose, when clarity diminishes and obviously, when things go wrong or get just plain hard, it is a downright struggle... a frustrating struggle to find the wherewithal to run through our difficulty with joy.

Interesting, that I type this as my dear friends are preparing to deliver their 4-month old baby girl into the hands of doctors who will perform open-heart surgery today. And they are emotionally-wrecked, yet resolute in their faith.

Whatever you face, God has you. He has "this".
Whatever your circumstance, God remains, the great "I AM".

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday for those who need a freshening, and a refreshing, in the life and ministry. May God work their miraculous for them, as He will for my friends. For healing, for clarity and direction, for a revitalization of life and purpose; may the Holy Spirit breathe afresh into situations and circumstances that overwhelm hearts and cloud the minds. Pray today would be an undeniable sense of renewal.

For indeed, His mercies are NEW.
Every. Morning.
And who would want it any other way.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

While listening to one of the regular morning radio shows I frequent, the host interviewed a doctor and they were discussing the drug problem facing, not only the world, but specifically the States. The doctor highlighted the problem in a very concise moment of political commentary, in which he stated just how often those writing the laws don't always consider the unintended consequences that will affect organic stakeholders.

In other words, leadership misses the conversation of what could go wrong, that would directly impact those closest to the problem they are attempting to solve. And how do they miss the conversation? In part, by not engaging with those who are on the front lines dealing with the problem. They may know about the problem, but are not "in the know" regarding the impact that certain decisions will make, whether they be immediate or delayed outcomes.

And I thought, if it's that dangerous of a scenario when political leadership gets it wrong, how much more when spiritual leadership handles problems in similar fashion? And it can happen at all stages of leadership. Politics also look to however is located at house number 1600, but there are people at other levels who are still making decisions without regard to those most affected by them.

So it is in the church. It easy to look to the senior pastor, but associates and others need to be aware of the dangers of leading in this manner.

Thus, on this #associatePastorTuesday, let's pray, that pastors would indeed make every effort to be informed and engaged regarding the problems they are attempting to correct. Pray for insight and understanding; even super-naturally, that they would have a keen awareness and a divine vision. May they not lose touch with those they are attempting to help and those who are on the front lines of the problems they face. Pray they would give proper consideration to the matters that come before them and give due diligence to the process. In all things, may they continue, all the more, to press in and seek the face of God, for His mind and His heart as they work to fulfill their calling.

To bring glory to His name
In spite of difficulty
And the process of working through the problems.
That God would the miraculous
In the midst of trouble and trials.
For the cause of Jesus Christ.

- PNC

I'm not a huge sports fan, by any stretch of the imagination. I enjoy a good game and occassionally will go to one if a group is going or will watch if visiting with friends and family who have it on. But rarely is it ever on my television set.

That said, I caught part of an interview where the conversation revolved around the struggling Detroit Lions. The team has now lost 6 games in row, I believe and I've heard the point made a number of times, of what's needed to happen for them to still be able to secure a play-off spot, which includes, among other things, certain teams losing their respective games.

So, the guy being interviewed yesterday, as they discussed the Lion's latest loss last weekend, points out that the Lions got the help they needed. Two other teams had in fact, lost their games. But, the Lions didn't help themselves by doing what they needed to do be scoring a win for the record books.

And I thought to myself, how profound.

We talk about needing help, asking for help, and actually getting help for a particular stage of life or circumstance. Then a person or a group or an event happens that does bring the help or relief that we need in that situation, but then we fail or miss out on doing our part as an individual that would have changed everything.

We don't bring our element to the equation to accomplish the desired answer or result. Of course, eventually, if this keeps happening repeatedly, like it has been going for the Lions, no matter how much help you receive nor how much you actually do your part right; you still won't get the ultimate goal you were hoping to secure.

What a shame and tragedy.

So... on this #associatePastorTuesday, let's pray; not only for pastors to get the help that they need for whatever the circumstance they need it, but that they would also do their part. Pray for strength and wisdom that they would do it well and with excellence. Pray that their would be a unity and a synergy as people come together and work together for a common goal and purpose. May not one person feel inadequate or unnecessary, for we all have a place and a purpose for which God desires to fulfill His eternal plan through our lives.

Getting help from others
Being helpful ourselves
We press on towards the price
For the glory of God.

- PNC

The more I listen to the news... well, quite frankly, the less I desire to do so. But what I find amazing are the back stories. It's not so much how we arrived where we are, but the details that go into an event.

This happened on that day with these people where we went here and did that over there and later sat and talked across the way... yes, that way.

I have days where I can't remember certain conversations from 2 or 3 days ago! And I understand, as was stated a couple of weeks ago; that certain events are stored in different recesses and banks of the mind's memory. But still. The details people remember of certain conversations and events, beyond the obvious one that are forever life-changing, life-altering or involve any level of trauma is simply incredible.

All too often we go through our days as if our words, actions and attitudes are lacking in both impact and consequence. Yet then one day, an inquiry is made

I know for the believer we are too keep an eternal perspective and all the more, for pastors and those in ministry. And as time flies and days pass, it really is all we can do to live each moment and engage our conversations and interactions with the grace of God and consider how we may bring glory and honor to Him.

Yes, the challenge is great, but in light of recent and current events, what's the alternative. That which is unacceptable, unbelievable, unforgivable, appalling, embarrassing and bewildering. We stand amazed wondering how things happen, yet often fail in taking precautions in our lives to fully live with the integrity that is expected and associated when one hears Christian, let alone Pastor.

Pray this #associatePastorTuesday, that pastors would be reminded, if not from this, from the prompting of the Holy Spirit, to continue to live lives of integrity; above reproach. Pray for their ministries, that they would never forget the impact, both past and future that they have made through their words, actions and attitudes. As we live in increasingly scrutinous times, where context and perception carries more weight than perhaps ever before, may they live confident in their calling, humble in their abilities, honest in their shortcomings and faithful in their duties.

That pride would not be a stumbling block
Nor their lives and ministries detoured or derailed.
May strength persevere
In faith lived daily, with grace ever-present.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

Somehow, as time and circumstance progress we fail prey to the temptation that we have been warned not to fall into as stated in the book of Romans... that we not think more highly of ourselves than we ought.

And yet it's so easy to do. Whether in the place of prominence or a place of obscurity, none of us are immune to pride. It's a dangerous place for the Christian, as well as the Pastor.

I was reminded yesterday of the joke, most often made by fathers regarding parenthood and child-rearing. It's the phrase used by a well-known comedian from back in the day. It was reminder of profound reminder of the truth of the relationship.

"I brought you into this world and I'll take you out. And it doesn't make any difference to me; I'll make another one look just like you."

Oddly enough, the eternally profound truth is that if any father is permitted to make such a justified statement, it is God.

Which leaves me wondering... is there ever a split-second of relief and reprieve where God isn't wondering in the deep recesses of His Sovereign mind:

"Who do these people think they are? Have they truly forgotten who I am?

On this #associatePastorTuesday, may I offer these words as representative of the sentiment we would all do well to share. Pray forgiveness, for indeed we have all thought more highly of ourselves than we ought. Forgiveness, for while we may have not fully forgotten who God is, we have limited Him; placed Him in a box; doubted His wisdom, debated His Sovereignty, questioned His plans and acted outside His purposes. Help us Lord, for it's Your love that has brought us into this world and it is by Your grace and mercy that keeps You from taking us out.

May we remember and acknowledge anew and afresh;
You alone are God.

- PNC

I had an interesting thought yesterday afternoon, as I was listening to the political discussion of the day.

What if the nation of Israel responded to the failures and faults of its' leadership in like manner as we do in modern society with our leadership, both in the culture of politics and the church?

Can you see the headlines of the Israeli Times during King David's reign?

A Royal Affair to Remember. Our only question, what really happened with Uriah?

Or these other potential breaking news reports:

Moses banned from entering Promised Land for having disobeyed direct instruction from God.
E!'s True Israeli Story: One Fatal Haircut.
The First 48 Hours: Egyptian officials have no leads on the guard found dead; buried in sand.

And hundreds of others.

And yet, today's news and society, critics on every level, from every perspective and belief are quick to judge guilty without the full story. From the worst kinds of evil, to the slightest hint of impropriety, we go to town on our leadership as if we could do better without any wrongdoing of any sort if only given the chance to fill such shoes. Yet knowing the scrutiny we would be subject to, we decide not to risk it... choosing instead to join the ranks of those who point fingers.

Public opinion condemnation seems to stand with greater authority and impact than any judge or court could enforce; let alone what God would do, where He to release the restraint of His wrath and judgement, of which no one would outrun, escape, nor explain with any decent and reasonable justification should we be given any period of time to do so.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday for our leadership. May God guard their hearts and minds as they continue to do the work of ministry to which He has called them. Pray they would live and stand above reproach; not that their lives are perfect, but that they would not fall to the moral trappings and temptations that have taken down such good leadership in days gone past. Pray that God would help the church to use wisdom and discernment in our criticism, as well as our support, of both the leaders of the church as well as those in government. Pray for both current and future pastors; that they would remain committed to the truth of God's Word, to the ministries of the church and most importantly, to their families.

For what is unstable in private settings
Will become disruptive in public.
May we stand firm in the faith
As we rely upon God alone.
That His name would be lifted up
Despite our flawed humanity.

- PNC

I caught part of sermon broadcast yesterday morning from a local pastor and I kind of wish I had heard more of it. But a profound point was made through quite a humorous analogy.

The pastor was talking about the early church and how their efforts to spread the Gospel was not a competition. In proving his point, he talked about the one conversation we don't see in Scripture. The power of Peter's shadow compared to Paul's shadow. And of course, we don't hear about the power of Paul's shadow... he's too busy traveling on all the missionary journeys!

There isn't one ministry that is greater or more worthy within the body of Christ. There's not a pastor that is more important than another. There is not a volunteer that is more valuable than the next.

So here's pastor's profound point.

The church is not meant to compete against each other, but to complete each other.

One letter changes the entire dynamic of the relationships within the local church and with churches as a part of the global Christian community.

Oddly enough, or coincidentally, whichever suits your preference, that same concept also changes the entire dynamic of every personal relationship an individual aside, regardless of the realm or arena of life in which that relationship exists.

So, it begs the question... are churches, their pastors and leadership teams and the ministries that come forth from them in competition with each other or working to complete each other in the eternal mission of the body of Christ?

Let's pray this #associatePastorTuesday that churches and their leaders would continue and begin anew where necessary, to work to find ways to complete each other. May we not get so caught up in what is in front of us that we miss what other opportunities God may have placed before us to help others rather than try to get ahead of them. Pray for wisdom and discernment in how relationships are handled, how teams are managed and how the work of the ministry proceeds. May everything that is said and done be for the glory of God; let nothing become a hindrance to our witness that humanity would look upon the church with disgrace.

A beacon to the world;
A city set on a hill.
To testify of the glory and grace of God
Rather than to best one another in the flesh.
For the advancement of the Gospel of Christ.

- PNC

Well, our neighborhood lost power last night for a couple of hours. It wasn't even a full blown storm, just a cool, windy fall rain. However, at least one transformer blew and hence, an area was left in the dark.

I didn't know what to write for this post, until I had a light-bulb moment, thanks to the joys of technology. It worked out for us, as we had a prior engagement, so we weren't left sitting in looming blackness; we just left earlier than planned. As we were headed out, the text message came through from the energy company... crews had been dispatched. A little while later, another notification that they were on-site.

We stayed out a little longer, in hopes the power would be on sooner than the 4-hour window they were predicting and sure enough, two and half hours after we had left, the lights were on.

We've all been in the dark. About life. About faith. About relationships and careers; moves and finances and a whole host of who knows what, both on a significant and important, or not; on matters of eternity and carnality. Sometimes for a few hours; a few days... weeks and months, even. The worst are the periods of darkness that last for years.

Pastors are there and many don't notice when they are living in such period, not to mention what battles, struggles, challenges they face and what is going wrong in the darkened state.

Yet, in light of pastor burnout, as I ask you once again to join me in prayer, consider this...

What neighborhood do you support, as a crew-member who is involved in bringing light to those feeling and living as though they have been left in the dark?

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, for pastors that are living in the dark. Spiritually, emotionally, relationally, financially and more. Pray that the congregation would be a place of encouragement and support, even if very few know the details of the darkness. Pray pastors would not disappear into the blackness, but seek and search for those in whom they might confide and confess and reach out for guidance, wisdom and insight. May God give churches and congregations wisdom as well, to know how to help and discern potential situations, for times and circumstances where pastors might not know how to speak up and ask for help.

For we are the body of Christ
And as the physical body was designed to heal itself,
So too can the church help itself,
By knowing what is going on and recognizing when things are wrong.
With God's help and the power of the Holy Spirit,
We are stronger together than when we stand alone,
Especially in the darkness.

- PNC

I had an interesting line of thought yesterday... one that wouldn't go away. It's the concept that in this world, we live at some point in the day, one of five lives.

1) The life/person we project or display in public
2) The life we live at home
3) The life we live alone

The next two lives are where things get interesting.

Number 4 is our reality... a culmination of our experiences, emotions and attitudes that exist somewhere along the spectrum of the previous three defined states of existence.

Number 5 is the life God has planned and purposed; ordained for us to exist.

The journey of life is never easy. And it doesn't help when these lives don't line up. One's public life fails to align with the home. The home life is inconsistent with alone time. Reality is filled with joy and sorrow, good decisions and horrible regrets; longings, desires and wishes in various states of fulfillment and satisfaction or lack thereof. Thus we find ourselves trying to live them out, while having to live with ourselves at the end of the day... and every moment leading up to it.

We live with decisions, some we'd rather forget. Bad choices, wrong thoughts, misspoken words... it's no wonder life seems filled with frustration, confusion and a general sense of angst and agony.

Then, for the believer, is what God has in store for us. But for the everyday Christian or the everyday pastor, when anything is amiss with God's plan... well, whatever is inconsistent with our lives on their own merit could be even further from God's purpose than if we were living a consistent reality without God.

I'm not trying to be all negative; for certainly, many have seen, witnessed and lived incredible lives that have been true and honest, in public, private and alone while fulfilling God calling and plan for their lives. Of course the difference between those two states of existence are astoundingly noticeable and notable.

And on that note, let's pray this #associatePastorTuesday. For the struggle of these realities and difficulty in navigating them affects us and all and pastors are not immune. May God reveal those areas of life that are not only inconsistent on their own, but are also amiss with the will and plan of God. Pray for clarity as to how we can correct and how to pray that the Holy Spirit would bring about change and correction to us. Pray for healing for the decisions, frustrations and regrets that seek to haunt, destroy and annoy the days and nights as we progress and strive to fulfill all that God has for us. Pray for strength to persevere in the face of challenging conversations and confessions as the Holy Spirit pinpoints the unfinished areas and arenas of hearts and minds; attitudes and behaviors.

For the work of God is never done
His plan never complete.
But He is faithful to us,
Despite our flaws and faults.
May our realities be opportunities
To display the grace and glory of God.

- PNC

So yesterday morning, I'm listening to the Moody Radio Network and Pastor Collin Smith is preaching and he's talking about grace, among other things. He makes a very profound statement, a reminder really, as we deal with the people around us and that's to remember this one simple fact:

We are all merely dust.

The next thing I know, he's talking about pastors and how they too, at times, get frustrated with their congregations and in particular, about how they too aren't always at the place or places that pastors wish, hope or think they should exist. I about fell out of my chair, as we just prayed and discussed that point yesterday! He proceeded to make his point, that it would help in the lives of pastors that they remember as well, that the people who occupy the seats that make up the congregation... they are just dust as well.

On this #associatePastorTuesday however, can I add to the next logical statement on this matter? As pastors battle burnout, partly due to the grace that is sometimes hard to extend to the body of believers, pastors would do well to remember they too are merely dust. One is always hardest on themselves and it's difficult to forgive and allow for grace to permeate our being, even if we have seemingly have an easier time granting grace to those around us.

Nobody can do everything all the time.
Nobody can do everything the very best all the time.
For without the breath of God, we are merely dust.

Pray this #associatePastorTuesday for pastors that are frustrated with their congregations... for an number of reasons and probably more valid than anyone cares to know or admit. Pray that God would grant them the ability and strength, to not only extend grace to the body of Christ, but also themselves as pastors and leaders within the kingdom of God. May God grant to them wisdom on how to best handle the points of contention and circumstances of concern within the church. Pray for discernment as they move forward and the fortitude to not look back.

While we remember that we are mere dust,
May we also remember the breath of God resides within us.
To do and be the people and church He has called us to be.
From both the pew and pulpit.
For the glory of God.

- PNC

"It is not my job to be rude in what I say. It is my job to be truthful in what I say." - Chuck Swindoll

We've discussed truth many times over the past couple of years on this site. Yet, when I heard this broadcast this morning from Chuck, on a series from Paul's second letter to Timothy, this statement resonated. Furthermore, he prefaced it in the preceding minutes, which how church has changed... perhaps not so much for the best.

Is it possibly we've gone to the other extreme; of being too nice? Of being too friendly? Of services that leave us feeling good emotionally, but lackluster spiritually? Swindoll points out that it's not the job of any pastor to coddle or comfort their congregation. It's is the proclamation of the Gospel.

I love his perspective on this. We don't go to the doctor for a good report. We don't go to the clinic for the smiles. We don't go to the ER to confirm that nothing is wrong. We step in to the places for an accurate and honest assessment of the problem in our lives with a correct and complete remedy. We do not need nor desire their beating around the bush, nor being cause with circumstance. We need them to speak the truth!

Then we step in to church... and of late, seemingly prefer they didn't. Or if they did, at least speak in politically correct terms. Funny. Somehow even "politically correct" doesn't automatically include the truth. Yet we call it correct, when at the very least, it is often quite inaccurate.

How that the Spirit of God bring conviction, if the man or woman of God does not preach with conviction?

The Gospel however, is truth. And it's author, God, is direct. Not rude, but truthful. As he needs his mouthpiece within church leadership to be and to speak.

Pray, this #associatePastorTuesday, that in these ever-present days and times of excuses and reasons and auxiliary issues and concerns, however legitimate they may be, that pastors would people who seek, know, understand and speak words of truth. May they not get caught up in the trends and fads within ministry that detract and diminish the power of Scripture and the work of the Holy Spirit; but declare the reality of the plight and circumstance of humanity and the evil of this dark age. Pray church leadership would continue to be people of the Word and of prayer; sensitive to the move and direction of the hand and voice of God rather than the voices of a broken humanity and a hurting society.

For indeed, these are troubling times.
And lasting comfort is not found in the temporary words of man,
But in the everlasting truths of God's Word
May we seek no other solution to life's woes and societies ills
Except the salvation of our hearts
Through the power of Jesus Christ.
For the glory of God.

- PNC